Scarcity brain Michael Easter - 4*
Crushed it given it’s a sequel so high expectations. Loved the monastery & Iraq & casino chapters in particular. Long term effects: eating cleaner (ditching quest bars and synthetic extra protein in favor of cleaner foods + longevity), considering behavioral game design further + reaching out to some of the UNLV / PhD’s mentioned (see Libby bookmark notes), and questioning scarcity loops in general. Questioning quantification methods designed to keep us on treadmills/in loops: social media metrics, salary, sweet/salty foods.
Favorite highlights:
Worst habits are ones we can repeat quickly: often to our detriment
Avoid making decisions based on dopamine
Uncertainty makes us crave rewards more (promotions, dating). Want, don’t need.
Escapes from the shit of life are rational (ways to turn mind off) Make them healthy (passions, exercise, triathlons, courses, books, hobbies). Add short-term discomfort for long term joy: mix up friends/friend groups. Put yourself out there and try new things/embrace novelty (Comfort Crisis)
We can do anything. Humans can overcome addiction, which Robert saplosky thinks is one of the most impressive features of humans. Anything is possible. My problems / obstacles are so small.
Oh shit bag for camping: emergency blanket, compass, lighter, and superglue. Check w Luke before bogue camping
***do you want to be right, or happy?*** life changing question. Reasoning didnt develop for better beliefs. Evolved into influence. Scarcity brain leads to short term fixes but not long term winning. Prioritize being happy > being right. Don’t argue, just clarify. Don’t assume. THICBW.
Do I want to look good or be happy? Be a good friend/coworker or be right? We’re also never as right as we think we are. Feedback loop and FAE and this the case.
Eat less to live more: Norway life expectancy way up when their food was rationed during WW2
If taking longer than a minute to decide, coming up w justification for unnecessary purchase or for keeping an unnecessary item. I’ll know within one minute if I want/need it.
Time to make uncomfortable choices that force the will to live. Not living is comfortable. Corporate perks, the treadmill. Gtfoff it.
Going without for gratitude: fasting, time in wilderness without modern comforts. Time without 1-2 modern comforts: give up phone? Tech detox fr on Sat! Perfect for bridge tournament :)
Searching for meaning is pivotal. Wealthy != unhappy if you have smtn that gives you meaning. Can simply have a job that pays more than other jobs, and still pursue meaning. OK if I find value in life. Don’t hate $ or spending, only when it’s in place of meaning and values. Or spending to avoid smtn. wealth as an afterthought.
All highlights:
You risk so much by not flailing yourself into the abyss.
Books are for ppl who have relaxed lives, not many problems. Iraqis don’t read bc sm problems.
Davidji!!! Fuck yeah. So true. Didn’t know Joseph Campbell analyzed thousands of myths.
Time to make uncomfortable choices that force the will to live. Not living is comfortable. Corporate perks, the treadmill. Gtfoff it.
Worst way to be is wasting time. No vets waste time. Moments are precious. Kevin Gates quote.
Near-death experiences bring appreciation for life. In the Stans countries. V Manson TSAONGAF ending. Finding appreciation for life.
You risk so much by hesitating to throw yourself into the abyss.
Going without for gratitude: fasting, time in wilderness without modern comforts. Time without 1-2 modern comforts: give up phone? Tech detox fr on Sat! Perfect for bridge tournament :)
Searching for meaning is pivotal. Wealthy != unhappy if you have smtn that gives you meaning. Can simply have a job that pays more than other jobs, and still pursue meaning. OK if I find value in life. Don’t hate $ or spending, only when it’s in place of meaning and values. Or spending to avoid smtn. wealth as an afterthought.
Fair reasoning to question $’s value. Treadmill doesn’t satisfy the soul. The truth is smtn b/t what everyone at pcap thinks and what this bogue thinks. Question rigidity = question blind pursuit of cash. I’m lucky I can wonder and wander elsewhere. Don’t j travel. The truth is smtn in between.
Unitarian Universalist: no rules. Acceptance but also Grateful Dead meets theology 101.
Don’t love much talking. Don’t speak useless words.
Research disproved bullshit jobs: highest job satisfaction = “bullshit jobs” where you’re treated well and helping someone somewhere.
Working intensely for 4 hours > doing more. Good for efficiency. 7 days a week. Think about yest: did whole deck in 4 hours. Perfect for 5mg foc. This is the way to work. 4 hour intense bursts. Dkminsighing returns after: 20 hr weeks > 35 for creative work; 35 >>> 60.
Happiness = enjoying the present w/o thinking of the future -Seneca. We’ve never defined happiness nor proven it is sustainable.
CI study! Row ch 7. 99% confident = 60% acc..? Tell Shane??
Don’t be scared to ask for und. Ppl like helping others und how they feel. Ask for context, OJ-like explanations. They can endure the minute or two. Do this sm more to get ahead. Don’t j spin my wheels. Nobody wants that.
This is crazy. We get more info in one day than someone in 15th century got in their entire lifetime. Is this to our benefit? Less intentionality for sure. Shorter attn spans. How can I combat this? Avoid stimuli.
unfocused walking increases creativity and und complex ideas. No phone on walks! Just look around and be present. Like Tracy taught me!!
Gear not stuff. Think about the functionality of purchases. No random buying just to have. Meaningful intentional living. No buying for unclear purposes.
Minimalism or shopping bc we feel we need control over our lives. I get this w cleaning. And minimalism. We all want to feel we’re in control of our lives. Makes sense. Controlling what we can.
Good q: why do I want less in the first place? Bc I was told I don’t dress well and want to dress better to impress girls. Getting rid of shitty clothes is a quick fix. Finding clothes I like is the answer. Do it intentionally. Don’t need much. Just a few nice go-to outfits. Get the Zara shirts. I fw those. Don’t sweat sm. Who Fkn cares.
Don’t fear struggle / type 2 fun. Makes the W’s all the sweeter. Both outdoors and work and life. It’s the sweating the dating struggle that makes the relief so sweet. Blind faith: the best things in life are earned, not given. Man a promotion would be so fucking sweet. Rly pushed myself out here in SF in a way I wouldn’t have at pcap bos. Who cares about tangible payoffs. I’m learning and developing a grindset and learning to work hard for the first time in my life.
If taking longer than a minute to decide, coming up w justification for unnecessary purchase or for keeping an unnecessary item. I’ll know within one minute if I want/need it.
Need to know what I want to do w my life and then I can choose things for myself. Doing things for only myself. No job, no worrying about vacation days. Cbd: bridge pro? Tough life. I’m falling into the corporate path, but I can alw leave. I can also alw come back to finance. 20s are for being at-risk: entr, make it happen. Need an impetus. YC isn’t it. Learn software, cracked SWE. CS masters? Is this even nec anymore post-GPT?
Oh shit bag for camping: emergency blanket, compass, lighter, and superglue. Check w Luke before bogue camping
From right before this: Norway rations during war -> less death and less cardiovascular disease. Eat less to live longer?
Do I want to look good or be happy? Be a good friend/coworker or be right? We’re also never as right as we think we are. Feedback loop and FAE and this the case.
***do you want to be right, or happy?*** life changing question. Reasoning didnt develop for better beliefs. Evolved into influence. Scarcity brain leads to short term fixes but not long term winning. Prioritize being happy > being right. Don’t argue, just clarify. Don’t assume. THICBW.
Catch 22 of social media: having to show people you’re great on social media makes you look like a virtue signalling jerk. J go out into the world and do great things. Stop looking for validation and start living. McConaughey. He would do instagram. Fuck that. Nor Gaddis. Nor any of my RMs. Gtfo IG.
Bigger fish at smaller pond is better for mental health than more $ at bigger co. Status affects mental health. Comparing hurts us. Small fish is tough. But it’s fleeting if I tough it out. I’m not gonna quit. No more entry level BS. Next role will be associate level. Fuck bottom totem pole. And be intentional: really envision 1 year of it bc I have to do a year. Glad I toughed thru pcap and so grateful for all the help.
How to get out of addiction / live clean: Take courses to improve your skills. Pour yourself into books. Make new friends, change your friend group. Make big changes. Embrace short term discomfort for long term benefit.
Sapolsky: it’s fascinating we can get over substance addictions. If ppl can do this, I can do anything. It’s all mentality. Ppl do it by getting into something new.
Escaping from shitty life to pursue meaning and pleasure is rational. Ironmans, corporate ladder, video games. Escapes from suffering. Turning mind off. Makes sense. Healthy escapes and unhealthy escapes.
Drugs were made for animals - interesting, I guess everything was. Shrooms w Z this wknd? Well def cry, but could be great. Save this Hail Mary.
Sure things are boring. Unsure things captivate us. Me with tryna date? Keep things unsure as long as possible / till rs. Want, don’t need. Ppl can smell need.
We want things infinitely more if we’re not sure we get it. Further evidence for playing hard to get. Don’t obsess. We all crave uncertain rewards. Hard to get baddie. Not person coming on too strong.
Pops: avoid dopamine decisions. I’m sure he’s generally right, delayed gratification is maturity, but at the same time, don’t entirely distrust dopamine. Simply question it and notice when it’s flooding me (Z)
Worst habits are the ones we can quickly repeat, often to our detrimen
note
June 06, 2024 14:08 99.9% You risk so much by not flailing yourself into the abyss.
June 06, 2024 14:08 99.8% Books are for ppl who have relaxed lives, not many problems. Iraqis don’t read bc sm problems.
June 06, 2024 14:06 99.4% Davidji!!! Fuck yeah. So true. Didn’t know Joseph Campbell analyzed thousands of myths.
June 06, 2024 14:00 98.4% Time to make uncomfortable choices that force the will to live. Not living is comfortable. Corporate perks, the treadmill. Gtfoff it.
June 06, 2024 13:59 98.0% Worst way to be is wasting time. No vets waste time. Moments are precious. Kevin Gates quote.
June 06, 2024 13:56 97.5% Near-death experiences bring appreciation for life. In the Stans countries. V Manson TSAONGAF ending. Finding appreciation for life.
June 04, 2024 14:47 96.0% You risk so much by hesitating to throw yourself into the abyss.
June 04, 2024 14:41 94.5% Going without for gratitude: fasting, time in wilderness without modern comforts. Time without 1-2 modern comforts: give up phone? Tech detox fr on Sat! Perfect for bridge tournament :)
June 04, 2024 14:36 93.6% Searching for meaning is pivotal. Wealthy != unhappy if you have smtn that gives you meaning. Can simply have a job that pays more than other jobs, and still pursue meaning. OK if I find value in life. Don’t hate $ or spending, only when it’s in place of meaning and values. Or spending to avoid smtn. wealth as an afterthought.
June 04, 2024 14:22 93.1% Fair reasoning to question $’s value. Treadmill doesn’t satisfy the soul. The truth is smtn b/t what everyone at pcap thinks and what this bogue thinks. Question rigidity = question blind pursuit of cash. I’m lucky I can wonder and wander elsewhere. Don’t j travel. The truth is smtn in between.
June 03, 2024 14:38 91.2% Unitarian Universalist: no rules. Acceptance but also Grateful Dead meets theology 101.
June 03, 2024 14:23 89.6% Don’t love much talking. Don’t speak useless words.
June 03, 2024 14:23 89.5% Research disproved bullshit jobs: highest job satisfaction = “bullshit jobs” where you’re treated well and helping someone somewhere.
June 03, 2024 14:20 88.9% Working intensely for 4 hours > doing more. Good for efficiency. 7 days a week. Think about yest: did whole deck in 4 hours. Perfect for 5mg foc. This is the way to work. 4 hour intense bursts. Dkminsighing returns after: 20 hr weeks > 35 for creative work; 35 >>> 60.
May 31, 2024 15:04 85.0% Happiness = enjoying the present w/o thinking of the future -Seneca. We’ve never defined happiness nor proven it is sustainable.
May 23, 2024 14:44 78.5% CI study! Row ch 7. 99% confident = 60% acc..? Tell Shane??
May 22, 2024 14:38 77.5% Don’t be scared to ask for und. Ppl like helping others und how they feel. Ask for context, OJ-like explanations. They can endure the minute or two. Do this sm more to get ahead. Don’t j spin my wheels. Nobody wants that.
May 22, 2024 14:31 75.8% This is crazy. We get more info in one day than someone in 15th century got in their entire lifetime. Is this to our benefit? Less intentionality for sure. Shorter attn spans. How can I combat this? Avoid stimuli.
May 22, 2024 14:22 73.4% unfocused walking increases creativity and und complex ideas. No phone on walks! Just look around and be present. Like Tracy taught me!!
May 22, 2024 13:55 68.8% Gear not stuff. Think about the functionality of purchases. No random buying just to have. Meaningful intentional living. No buying for unclear purposes.
May 21, 2024 14:57 67.6% Minimalism or shopping bc we feel we need control over our lives. I get this w cleaning. And minimalism. We all want to feel we’re in control of our lives. Makes sense. Controlling what we can.
May 21, 2024 14:39 67.6% Good q: why do I want less in the first place? Bc I was told I don’t dress well and want to dress better to impress girls. Getting rid of shitty clothes is a quick fix. Finding clothes I like is the answer. Do it intentionally. Don’t need much. Just a few nice go-to outfits. Get the Zara shirts. I fw those. Don’t sweat sm. Who Fkn cares.
May 21, 2024 14:35 66.7% Don’t fear struggle / type 2 fun. Makes the W’s all the sweeter. Both outdoors and work and life. It’s the sweating the dating struggle that makes the relief so sweet. Blind faith: the best things in life are earned, not given. Man a promotion would be so fucking sweet. Rly pushed myself out here in SF in a way I wouldn’t have at pcap bos. Who cares about tangible payoffs. I’m learning and developing a grindset and learning to work hard for the first time in my life.
May 21, 2024 14:21 63.1% If taking longer than a minute to decide, coming up w justification for unnecessary purchase or for keeping an unnecessary item. I’ll know within one minute if I want/need it.
May 21, 2024 14:01 59.6% Need to know what I want to do w my life and then I can choose things for myself. Doing things for only myself. No job, no worrying about vacation days. Cbd: bridge pro? Tough life. I’m falling into the corporate path, but I can alw leave. I can also alw come back to finance. 20s are for being at-risk: entr, make it happen. Need an impetus. YC isn’t it. Learn software, cracked SWE. CS masters? Is this even nec anymore post-GPT?
May 21, 2024 13:56 58.4% Oh shit bag for camping: emergency blanket, compass, lighter, and superglue. Check w Luke before bogue camping
May 15, 2024 14:54 51.7% From right before this: Norway rations during war -> less death and less cardiovascular disease. Eat less to live longer?
May 14, 2024 14:58 43.7% Do I want to look good or be happy? Be a good friend/coworker or be right? We’re also never as right as we think we are. Feedback loop and FAE and this the case.
May 14, 2024 14:56 43.4% ***do you want to be right, or happy?*** life changing question. Reasoning didnt develop for better beliefs. Evolved into influence. Scarcity brain leads to short term fixes but not long term winning. Prioritize being happy > being right. Don’t argue, just clarify. Don’t assume. THICBW.
May 14, 2024 14:52 42.3% Catch 22 of social media: having to show people you’re great on social media makes you look like a virtue signalling jerk. J go out into the world and do great things. Stop looking for validation and start living. McConaughey. He would do instagram. Fuck that. Nor Gaddis. Nor any of my RMs. Gtfo IG.
May 14, 2024 14:47 41.1% Bigger fish at smaller pond is better for mental health than more $ at bigger co. Status affects mental health. Comparing hurts us. Small fish is tough. But it’s fleeting if I tough it out. I’m not gonna quit. No more entry level BS. Next role will be associate level. Fuck bottom totem pole. And be intentional: really envision 1 year of it bc I have to do a year. Glad I toughed thru pcap and so grateful for all the help.
May 08, 2024 14:30 30.5% How to get out of addiction / live clean: Take courses to improve your skills. Pour yourself into books. Make new friends, change your friend group. Make big changes. Embrace short term discomfort for long term benefit.
May 08, 2024 14:26 29.9% Sapolsky: it’s fascinating we can get over substance addictions. If ppl can do this, I can do anything. It’s all mentality. Ppl do it by getting into something new.
May 08, 2024 14:20 28.6% Escaping from shitty life to pursue meaning and pleasure is rational. Ironmans, corporate ladder, video games. Escapes from suffering. Turning mind off. Makes sense. Healthy escapes and unhealthy escapes.
May 07, 2024 15:02 24.3% Drugs were made for animals - interesting, I guess everything was. Shrooms w Z this wknd? Well def cry, but could be great. Save this Hail Mary.
May 07, 2024 14:11 12.2% Sure things are boring. Unsure things captivate us. Me with tryna date? Keep things unsure as long as possible / till rs. Want, don’t need. Ppl can smell need.
May 06, 2024 14:41 12.0% We want things infinitely more if we’re not sure we get it. Further evidence for playing hard to get. Don’t obsess. We all crave uncertain rewards. Hard to get baddie. Not person coming on too strong.
May 06, 2024 14:39 11.6% Pops: avoid dopamine decisions. I’m sure he’s generally right, delayed gratification is maturity, but at the same time, don’t entirely distrust dopamine. Simply question it and notice when it’s flooding me (Z)
May 06, 2024 13:58 0.8% Worst habits are the ones we can quickly repeat, often to our detrimen