Lori's Lies and Family Ties: Healing from the Tylee and J.J. Tragedy

by Rex Conner, Adam Cox

“I don’t have to eat ever again,” she said, her gaze locked on mine. “And if you shoot me, the bullet won’t hurt me, Adam. My body has almost completed the process of becoming immortal.”So begins the often bizarre, almost unbelievable tale of Lori Daybell, as told by two of the people who know her her brother, Adam Cox, and her uncle, Rex Conner. What follows is the hauntingly tragic account of Vallow’s descent from loving mother to murderous manipulator.

180 pages, Paperback

Published November 2, 2023

Reviews

[Tina · Rating 4 out of 5]

When I first started this book, I didn't even realize it was written by Lori's brother.

An interesting look from the inside. Adam writes his story in a clear way, staying away from gossip and emotional ups and downs. I did think it worked up to a point.

The even leveled tone is appreciated, but towards the middle, it starts to sound almost robotic. I know he must have been walking a very difficult line between giving us the facts while remembering his love for the children. In fact, his emotions only really come out when he talks about those poor kids.

How horrible to have lived through this, and I give him props for his honesty.

[Dr. Vonda Kaye VanDyke-Swartz · Rating 5 out of 5]

One of the best books I have ever read

You won’t regret read Adam and Rex’s account as they walked through this trial. I know many people will be helped by these powerful people and their words.

[Susan Parker · Rating 4 out of 5]

An insider look at the tragic events in the Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow Daybell murderous activity. Told by the brother and also the uncle of Lori they outline the family dynamics leading to the horrendous end to many lives.

[Belle S · Rating 2 out of 5]

While I appreciated the book’s intent, I found the content less insightful than I had hoped. Most of this story as well as the personal anecdotes shared were already familiar to me, as I’ve watched most of the available coverage of the case, including Adam’s interviews. I was expecting more comprehensive insights into Lori’s mind - particularly from the perspective of someone who grew up with her - but that depth was largely missing. Although the book is brief, it often felt rambling and unfocused. I hope that writing it was a healing experience for both authors; however, for me personally, it lacked the depth and introspection I was looking for.