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412 pages, Kindle Edition
First published February 1, 1985
'Being a young man, he will probably want to trouble you that way a good deal at first. But if you endure it, and shew your disapproval as a gentlewoman should, simply in your bearing towards him, I daresay that you will gradually be able to lead his mind towards better things. Most importantly, you must never cry out, however much it hurts. It would be exceedingly improper to make a sound of any sort at such a time, and it is a woman's fate to endure pain in silence. [That entire passage gave me acid indigestion.]'
'Like you? Why should he like you? ... When I was a girl... [i]t was not considered at all proper for a husband and wife to be affectionate towards each other. ... You should not encourage intimacy from him. ... No, Mary, I hope I shall never see you demeaning yourself to be friendly towards your husband. [I had to take some Tums after reading that bit.]'(It doesn't help that Jemmy has the backbone of a jellied eel; I don't advocate wife-beating, but there was at least one instance where a good smack to Lady Mary's face would've done a world of good.)
But she did not want Jemima to be happy: if possible she would like her to be as unhappy as she [Mary] had been all these years. Where to find a husband for her daughter who would appear to do her credit, yet would make her miserable?Even as a fictional character, what kind of mother could think that way? It's utterly depraved and hideous.