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The Girl She Left Behind
A family in turmoil...
Phoebe Spencer left home a long time ago, desperate to get away from her mother's emotional manipulation. She knows her life is better away from her family, but she can’t help feeling she’s simply running away from her problems…
Then Phoebe hears that her younger sister Lucy has disappeared, leaving behind her four-year old daughter, Darcy. Phoebe's certain Lucy will be back soon - she'd never leave Darcy alone - and then Phoebe can get on with her life again.
But as the days pass there's still no sign of Lucy, and everyone begins to fear the worst. Phoebe has to consider the terrible truth that Lucy might never come home. And as their mother makes it clear she wants to take control of Darcy’s life, Phoebe must do all she can to protect the girl her sister left behind – no matter the cost to her.
Phoebe Spencer left home a long time ago, desperate to get away from her mother's emotional manipulation. She knows her life is better away from her family, but she can’t help feeling she’s simply running away from her problems…
Then Phoebe hears that her younger sister Lucy has disappeared, leaving behind her four-year old daughter, Darcy. Phoebe's certain Lucy will be back soon - she'd never leave Darcy alone - and then Phoebe can get on with her life again.
But as the days pass there's still no sign of Lucy, and everyone begins to fear the worst. Phoebe has to consider the terrible truth that Lucy might never come home. And as their mother makes it clear she wants to take control of Darcy’s life, Phoebe must do all she can to protect the girl her sister left behind – no matter the cost to her.
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Published January 31, 2024
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January 28, 2024
The Girl She Left Behind is a heartbreaking story dealing with family, dysfunctional family, narcissistic parents and the result of that. Phoebe and Lucy grew up with a narcissistic mother and a father who supported her and not his girls. They had many issues resulting from their upbringing and Phoebe left their village and moved to London. Lucy remained in Appleberry and had child, Darcy. Phoebe gets a message to come home, Lucy is missing, a possible suicide and in the letter she left behind, she asked Phoebe to take care of Darcy. She comes home, expecting Lucy will eventually return. With the help of Lucy's neighbour and some friends, she settles in and raises Darcy while waiting patiently for Lucy to return.
I enjoyed this story, although it was not an easy book to read. We don't find out what happened to Lucy until the end of the book, so it kept me guessing. Phoebe was a great character to get to know. She basically gave up her life in London to take care of Darcy. I enjoyed meeting their friends and seeing how they loved Phoebe and Lucy and saw them very differently from how the girls saw themeselves. Jamie is Lucy's neighbour. He is a jack of all trades: a therapist, runs a farm, nursery camp and works with rescue animals. I kept hoping he and Phoebe would get together and you will have to read the book to see what happens. Phoebe's dog Norma was a great character. Although not a service dog, she sure rescued Phoebe at one time and now Darcy. Jo Bartlett does a great job depicting Janet, the girl's mother. I know some people with narcissistic personalities and I could see them in this book. She also did a wonderful job depicting the harm she did to her daughters and the resulting aftermath many years later. I recommend this book, but suggest you have tissues on hand, as it has many emotional moments.
I enjoyed this story, although it was not an easy book to read. We don't find out what happened to Lucy until the end of the book, so it kept me guessing. Phoebe was a great character to get to know. She basically gave up her life in London to take care of Darcy. I enjoyed meeting their friends and seeing how they loved Phoebe and Lucy and saw them very differently from how the girls saw themeselves. Jamie is Lucy's neighbour. He is a jack of all trades: a therapist, runs a farm, nursery camp and works with rescue animals. I kept hoping he and Phoebe would get together and you will have to read the book to see what happens. Phoebe's dog Norma was a great character. Although not a service dog, she sure rescued Phoebe at one time and now Darcy. Jo Bartlett does a great job depicting Janet, the girl's mother. I know some people with narcissistic personalities and I could see them in this book. She also did a wonderful job depicting the harm she did to her daughters and the resulting aftermath many years later. I recommend this book, but suggest you have tissues on hand, as it has many emotional moments.
February 1, 2024
This was a book that really did break my heart, and it was a powerful story with far darker edges than you might be expecting if you’ve read others from the author – although she’s really never shied away from real-life problems and situations, with a particular sensitivity to her emotional touch. Some of the early reviews even talk about it as veering towards thriller territory – but it’s perhaps rather more about what’s in the shadows, the legacy of a difficult childhood, and the emotional impact as the threads of a mystery are slowly disentangled than edge-of-the-seat and fast paced action. It does rather defy categorisation – “family drama” should maybe be in there somewhere too – but I have to say I thought it was an absolutely stunning read.
Phoebe moved to London as soon as she was able, escaping the manipulative control of the mother who’d made her young life a misery – but sister Lucy stayed, making a home for herself and young daughter Darcy, supported by friend and neighbour Jamie, but frequently struggling with life’s demands. And when she disappears, Phoebe has little choice but to return, taking on the care of the child she hardly knows – to keep her away from their mother’s grip and influence, and provide a place of safety – while searching for Lucy and hoping she will return. With secrets he’s unable to share, she’s supported – practically and emotionally – by Jamie, unexpectedly finding herself building a close relationship with the abandoned child and finding the strength and determination to protect her, both from their mother’s self-centred interference and the possibility that Lucy will not return.
The facts that emerge about the sisters’ experiences with their mother are horrifying – and the betrayal that proved to be the catalyst for Phoebe’s departure from her home town and left her struggling to form future relationships had me in tears. The part played by their father saddened me deeply too – enabling the abhorrent behaviour through looking away and pursuing an easy life. But in the present day, there’s real joy to be found in the growing love between Phoebe and her young niece, as she puts her own life on hold and grasps onto every sign that provides hope of Lucy’s return. Her growing relationship with Jamie is well drawn too – a growing attraction to a genuinely lovely man, whose secrets we begin to understand through the sharing of his viewpoint – along with the supportive friendships she finds through the mothers of Darcy’s friends.
Every character is searingly real, their experiences something you can really feel and touching you to the heart – with some of the themes, around loss and memories of the living, having a particular personal resonance. And the writing is quite wonderful, with plenty of the author’s usual warmth and lightness but tempered by those edges of darkness. The whole book is a considerable emotional journey – totally immersive, and gripped me from the very beginning through to its very last page. An unforgettable read, and the author’s writing has never been better – a very strong recommendation from me.
Phoebe moved to London as soon as she was able, escaping the manipulative control of the mother who’d made her young life a misery – but sister Lucy stayed, making a home for herself and young daughter Darcy, supported by friend and neighbour Jamie, but frequently struggling with life’s demands. And when she disappears, Phoebe has little choice but to return, taking on the care of the child she hardly knows – to keep her away from their mother’s grip and influence, and provide a place of safety – while searching for Lucy and hoping she will return. With secrets he’s unable to share, she’s supported – practically and emotionally – by Jamie, unexpectedly finding herself building a close relationship with the abandoned child and finding the strength and determination to protect her, both from their mother’s self-centred interference and the possibility that Lucy will not return.
The facts that emerge about the sisters’ experiences with their mother are horrifying – and the betrayal that proved to be the catalyst for Phoebe’s departure from her home town and left her struggling to form future relationships had me in tears. The part played by their father saddened me deeply too – enabling the abhorrent behaviour through looking away and pursuing an easy life. But in the present day, there’s real joy to be found in the growing love between Phoebe and her young niece, as she puts her own life on hold and grasps onto every sign that provides hope of Lucy’s return. Her growing relationship with Jamie is well drawn too – a growing attraction to a genuinely lovely man, whose secrets we begin to understand through the sharing of his viewpoint – along with the supportive friendships she finds through the mothers of Darcy’s friends.
Every character is searingly real, their experiences something you can really feel and touching you to the heart – with some of the themes, around loss and memories of the living, having a particular personal resonance. And the writing is quite wonderful, with plenty of the author’s usual warmth and lightness but tempered by those edges of darkness. The whole book is a considerable emotional journey – totally immersive, and gripped me from the very beginning through to its very last page. An unforgettable read, and the author’s writing has never been better – a very strong recommendation from me.
October 11, 2024
Not a bad story but a long one that stopped suddenly with what seemed like a rushed ending, as if the author became bored with her own book. Very poorly edited - grammatically incorrect throughout and missing entire words often.
December 20, 2023
This book is heartbreaking. Going through the grief of losing a sister/friend, while having to tackle the narcissism of a member of the family. It was hard to go through sometimes, a bit slow and repetitive. But this book really touched me deep. The author knew how to write about such a deep and sensitive subject !
Thanks to Netgalley and Boldwood Books for access to this arm in exchange for my honest review.
Thanks to Netgalley and Boldwood Books for access to this arm in exchange for my honest review.
April 30, 2024
As usual, Jo Bartlett doesn’t let you down. Another one of her books that had me crying as I read. Totally amazing read around a subject that isn’t discussed enough but sensitively done. Well done Jo!
February 4, 2024
I’ve been a fan of this author for a while, enjoyed her previous book enormously and jumped at the chance to read ‘The girl she left behind.’
Was it truly what I expected? Based on my previous enjoyment of Jo’s books I knew it would be excellently written, with good characters and not shying away from some bigger, realistic issues – what I didn’t expect was the darker, intense storylines; the pain, the sadness nor the themes it includes.
Did this mean I enjoyed it any the less? Absolutely not! It’s an incredible read, a fantastic story that shows Jo’s brilliant skill as a writer to tackle such issues; narcissism, suicide, childhood trauma whilst bringing a powerful story that does give wonderful characters, heart wrenching moments and some resolution.
Phoebe escaped once, left behind her childhood pain and narcissistic Mum, but now finds herself having to go back. Her sister is missing with many believing her disappearance to be a suicide; the note left behind says Phoebe must take care of her daughter. Whilst the search for Lucy continues, Phoebe cares for Darcy with the help of neighbour, Jamie, and friends; she is determined her parents don’t get any chance to cause the damage to Darcy they did to her. Phoebe is determined her sister would never abandon gives Darcy, she loved her, but with each passing day it looks less likely Lucy could return. When she receives a letter from Lucy, Phoebe does all she can to figure out what has happened to her sister and when she realises those around her haven’t been fully honest, she questions everything.
Reading about their Mum, the narcissism, the pain she caused as well as the lasting damage; it was shocking at times. You really did dislike her character from the start, no chinks of anything redeemable and think the implied ending is probably long over due and not a surprise.
It is an emotional read in so many ways, the characters are real and how their emotions are depicted has an impact. I think Darcy is a source of positivity – the love she has for those around her, the innocence and upset all rolled into one small person.
This book contained so much drama and many revelations, yet it didn’t feel rushed. Once I’d started reading, I didn’t really want to put it down.
Excellent read, highly recommend – just expect something darker if you’ve read any of hers before.
Was it truly what I expected? Based on my previous enjoyment of Jo’s books I knew it would be excellently written, with good characters and not shying away from some bigger, realistic issues – what I didn’t expect was the darker, intense storylines; the pain, the sadness nor the themes it includes.
Did this mean I enjoyed it any the less? Absolutely not! It’s an incredible read, a fantastic story that shows Jo’s brilliant skill as a writer to tackle such issues; narcissism, suicide, childhood trauma whilst bringing a powerful story that does give wonderful characters, heart wrenching moments and some resolution.
Phoebe escaped once, left behind her childhood pain and narcissistic Mum, but now finds herself having to go back. Her sister is missing with many believing her disappearance to be a suicide; the note left behind says Phoebe must take care of her daughter. Whilst the search for Lucy continues, Phoebe cares for Darcy with the help of neighbour, Jamie, and friends; she is determined her parents don’t get any chance to cause the damage to Darcy they did to her. Phoebe is determined her sister would never abandon gives Darcy, she loved her, but with each passing day it looks less likely Lucy could return. When she receives a letter from Lucy, Phoebe does all she can to figure out what has happened to her sister and when she realises those around her haven’t been fully honest, she questions everything.
Reading about their Mum, the narcissism, the pain she caused as well as the lasting damage; it was shocking at times. You really did dislike her character from the start, no chinks of anything redeemable and think the implied ending is probably long over due and not a surprise.
It is an emotional read in so many ways, the characters are real and how their emotions are depicted has an impact. I think Darcy is a source of positivity – the love she has for those around her, the innocence and upset all rolled into one small person.
This book contained so much drama and many revelations, yet it didn’t feel rushed. Once I’d started reading, I didn’t really want to put it down.
Excellent read, highly recommend – just expect something darker if you’ve read any of hers before.
January 26, 2024
First, I want to thank Jo Bartlett, Boldwood Books, Rachel’s Random Resources, and NetGalley for providing me with this book so I can bring you this review.
WOW!!! I should have stocked up on tissues for Jo Bartlett’s The Girl She Left Behind. Her book pulled all the raw emotions out of me and pulled hard on my heart strings!! This is a 5 star must read book that needs to be put on your TBR list.
The graphic designers for The Girl She Left Behind did a brilliant job with the cover design. As I was reading this book I pictured Darcy as the girl on the cover.
I admired and respected that Jo started the book with a beautiful written letter to her readers regarding the sensitive theme of the book suicide. I personally want to reach out to Jo and other readers who have lost someone like this and give them a comforting hug. I loved that she included some websites that offer support with some of the topics that are mentioned in the book.
This book is dedicated to L who couldn’t stay.
Jo instantly pulled on my heartstrings within the first paragraph and I was hooked! It was one of those beginnings that you go back and re-read after you finished reading the last page.
Hate is a strong word but out of all the characters that I have read in books (and there have been a lot of books read) Lucy and Phoebe's Mom was the most hated woman! Oh the emotional and verbal abuse that she put them through over the years were inexcusable! There were times when she pushed me over the edge and I wanted to give her a piece of my mind!!
The Girl She Left Behind brought up many extremely important issues, life lessons and eye opening moments.
The character that I loved the most was sweet 4 year old Darcy! She is such a sweet girl that was dealing with a lot of changes at such an early age.
There were so many twists and turns, secrets, revelations, and emotional ups and downs.
This is one book I can see being turned into a movie on Lifetime!
WOW!!! I should have stocked up on tissues for Jo Bartlett’s The Girl She Left Behind. Her book pulled all the raw emotions out of me and pulled hard on my heart strings!! This is a 5 star must read book that needs to be put on your TBR list.
The graphic designers for The Girl She Left Behind did a brilliant job with the cover design. As I was reading this book I pictured Darcy as the girl on the cover.
I admired and respected that Jo started the book with a beautiful written letter to her readers regarding the sensitive theme of the book suicide. I personally want to reach out to Jo and other readers who have lost someone like this and give them a comforting hug. I loved that she included some websites that offer support with some of the topics that are mentioned in the book.
This book is dedicated to L who couldn’t stay.
Jo instantly pulled on my heartstrings within the first paragraph and I was hooked! It was one of those beginnings that you go back and re-read after you finished reading the last page.
Hate is a strong word but out of all the characters that I have read in books (and there have been a lot of books read) Lucy and Phoebe's Mom was the most hated woman! Oh the emotional and verbal abuse that she put them through over the years were inexcusable! There were times when she pushed me over the edge and I wanted to give her a piece of my mind!!
The Girl She Left Behind brought up many extremely important issues, life lessons and eye opening moments.
The character that I loved the most was sweet 4 year old Darcy! She is such a sweet girl that was dealing with a lot of changes at such an early age.
There were so many twists and turns, secrets, revelations, and emotional ups and downs.
This is one book I can see being turned into a movie on Lifetime!
December 12, 2023
I picked The Girl She Left Behind just because of the cover. I soon read the blurb and thought it would be an amazing book.
The book follows Phoebe who comes home to take care of her niece Darcy after her sister Lucy goes missing. Phoebe left home many years ago because of the manipulation and psychological abuse for her mother. As days past there is no sign of Lucy, and everyone fears the worst.
I did not particularly enjoy the book. It was very slow and felt more like a 700 page book instead of a 300 page book. I would like to point out that I enjoyed how the author portrayed Phoebe and Lucy’s mother. It really put into perspective how horrible the girls life must of been living with her.
The book follows Phoebe who comes home to take care of her niece Darcy after her sister Lucy goes missing. Phoebe left home many years ago because of the manipulation and psychological abuse for her mother. As days past there is no sign of Lucy, and everyone fears the worst.
I did not particularly enjoy the book. It was very slow and felt more like a 700 page book instead of a 300 page book. I would like to point out that I enjoyed how the author portrayed Phoebe and Lucy’s mother. It really put into perspective how horrible the girls life must of been living with her.
February 8, 2024
I needed more of the main characters story line. Found the story to be very repetitive. Same thoughts a different day and point in the book, without giving us more or why was their childhood so bad. Too many characters that didn’t need to be there.
I liked the overall ‘somewhat’ happy ending.
I liked the overall ‘somewhat’ happy ending.
June 9, 2024
Very repetitive
I had to put this down many times. It was so repetitive,couldn’t decide whether I should just quit reading it. I toughed it out but was very happy to see the end.
I had to put this down many times. It was so repetitive,couldn’t decide whether I should just quit reading it. I toughed it out but was very happy to see the end.
July 13, 2024
The Girl She Left Behind
Repetitive, predictable, honestly got a bit boring. Was hard to commit to finish it. Ending was as predicted. so - so
Repetitive, predictable, honestly got a bit boring. Was hard to commit to finish it. Ending was as predicted. so - so
February 13, 2024
I wasn’t sure how I was going to feel about this book when I read the Author’s Note at the beginning, but I absolutely loved it from start to finish. You won’t find any spoilers in my review because personally, I think knowing how this ends would make it less enjoyable.
The Girl She Left Behind was sensitively written, with obvious research having gone into how police procedures deal with a missing person and the information which they can and can’t share with relatives.
I loved Phoebe, Jamie and Darcy. Darcy is an amazing little girl who seemingly deals with things the way only children know how to, and with the love and support of those closest to her.
Unfortunately, I could relate to the behaviour of Phoebe and Lucy’s Mum, in the fact that I had to work with someone who showed that sort of behaviour and it did bring up painful memories as I was reading but it did make me realise that I did the right thing by taking myself out of the situation.
The Girl She Left Behind is so much about the loving support of friends in times of need and how trying to at least provide some sense of normality can help with coping mechanisms. I would totally recommend this book to anyone who enjoys a contemporary novel, but please check the trigger warnings beforehand.
Thank you to Boldwood Books, Rachel’s Random Resources and NetGalley for the opportunity to read and review The Girl She Left Behind by Jo Bartlett.
The Girl She Left Behind was sensitively written, with obvious research having gone into how police procedures deal with a missing person and the information which they can and can’t share with relatives.
I loved Phoebe, Jamie and Darcy. Darcy is an amazing little girl who seemingly deals with things the way only children know how to, and with the love and support of those closest to her.
Unfortunately, I could relate to the behaviour of Phoebe and Lucy’s Mum, in the fact that I had to work with someone who showed that sort of behaviour and it did bring up painful memories as I was reading but it did make me realise that I did the right thing by taking myself out of the situation.
The Girl She Left Behind is so much about the loving support of friends in times of need and how trying to at least provide some sense of normality can help with coping mechanisms. I would totally recommend this book to anyone who enjoys a contemporary novel, but please check the trigger warnings beforehand.
Thank you to Boldwood Books, Rachel’s Random Resources and NetGalley for the opportunity to read and review The Girl She Left Behind by Jo Bartlett.
January 27, 2024
There was a lot to unpack with this book and it was a real humdinger of a read. Learning about the unhappy childhood that Phoebe and Lucy shared was definitely testing. The descriptions that ran through the book, both historical and contemporary showed what it was like to live with a master manipulator. I’ve certainly met a couple over the years.
As the synopsis explains, it’s Lucy’s disappearance that prompts Phoebe to return to their childhood hometown and take care of Darcy, Lucy’s young daughter. Filled with self-doubt about her suitability and lack of parenting skills, she sets up home in Lucy’s cottage. With the support of neighbour, Jamie, she finds the strength to bond with Darcy and provide a safe place until Lucy returns.
I certainly got a feel for the childhood that Lucy and Darcy had shared. As each instance of their mother’s behaviour was revealed, I could feel the shock rising and when her ultimate betrayal was revealed, I was genuinely relieved to realise that I was reading fiction.
The friendships that formed between Phoebe and the other school mums were a pleasure to see developing. Their support, along with help from Jamie, certainly helped Phoebe to anchor herself back in to where her childhood memories were formed. I found myself reminiscing about people and events from my childhood. Some elements were sadly familiar and yet cathartic.
There are some dark themes and wonderfully imagined characters with relatable storylines. The storytelling is skilled and held my attention despite being tired. This was definitely one that I struggled to put down.
If you have never read this author, this is a great place to start. It showcases her abilities and confirms her as a worthy bestseller.
As the synopsis explains, it’s Lucy’s disappearance that prompts Phoebe to return to their childhood hometown and take care of Darcy, Lucy’s young daughter. Filled with self-doubt about her suitability and lack of parenting skills, she sets up home in Lucy’s cottage. With the support of neighbour, Jamie, she finds the strength to bond with Darcy and provide a safe place until Lucy returns.
I certainly got a feel for the childhood that Lucy and Darcy had shared. As each instance of their mother’s behaviour was revealed, I could feel the shock rising and when her ultimate betrayal was revealed, I was genuinely relieved to realise that I was reading fiction.
The friendships that formed between Phoebe and the other school mums were a pleasure to see developing. Their support, along with help from Jamie, certainly helped Phoebe to anchor herself back in to where her childhood memories were formed. I found myself reminiscing about people and events from my childhood. Some elements were sadly familiar and yet cathartic.
There are some dark themes and wonderfully imagined characters with relatable storylines. The storytelling is skilled and held my attention despite being tired. This was definitely one that I struggled to put down.
If you have never read this author, this is a great place to start. It showcases her abilities and confirms her as a worthy bestseller.
January 10, 2024
I did enjoy this book and it had likeable and well written characters, but it was very slow and that let it down for me.
Lucy and Phoebe had a terrible childhood, thanks to their narcissistic mother. Lucy has a four year old daughter, Darcy, and by all accounts is a brilliant mother. So I found it difficult to believe that she would leave her daughter and take her own life.
The growing bond between Phoebe and Darcy was really sweet. An emotional read that was nice enough, if it hadn’t felt so long and slow.
3 ⭐️ Thanks to Netgalley, Jo Bartlett and Boldwood, for an ARC in return for an honest review.
Lucy and Phoebe had a terrible childhood, thanks to their narcissistic mother. Lucy has a four year old daughter, Darcy, and by all accounts is a brilliant mother. So I found it difficult to believe that she would leave her daughter and take her own life.
The growing bond between Phoebe and Darcy was really sweet. An emotional read that was nice enough, if it hadn’t felt so long and slow.
3 ⭐️ Thanks to Netgalley, Jo Bartlett and Boldwood, for an ARC in return for an honest review.
February 5, 2024
Very different from any previous book I’ve read by Jo but it was riveting and dealt with the subject very sensitivity
January 28, 2024
*I received a free ARC from the publisher through NetGalley in exchange for my honest review*
This was a more serious book than what Jo Bartlett usually puts out (of at least of what I have read from her), so if you are going in expecting something along the lines of Cornish Midwives (which did deal with some serious topics) than you will want to adjust your expectations pretty quickly. Although there is a romance to this story it is really more about Phoebe's relationship with her sister and parents. I thought Jo Bartlett did a fantastic job with handling the mental health aspects of this story. She allowed Phoebe to have an array of emotions about her sister's actions including guilt, sadness, and anger. As the story goes on you do get to see Phoebe go through the stages of grief as she clings to the belief that Lucy may just be in hiding and then has to come to terms with the fact that she is really gone. This was another aspect of the story that Jo Bartlett wrote to perfection - until the second letter from Lucy I really thought there was a chance that she hadn't gone through it. So much of what Lucy does could have gone either way so you understand why Phoebe, who loved her sister, would also not immediately give in to thinking she was gone permanently. Given what she had gone through with her mother and the lasting impacts that had on her as an adult and mother herself, I understood why Lucy would feel suicide was her only choice but I really hated that she went about things in such a way that it gave Phoebe any hope that she was going to be coming home. I equal parts felt terrible for their father and disappointed in him that he had never stepped in to protect his daughters, it definitely made me wonder what his mental health state was and what had happened to him the past that would have made him the way he was. And is it suggested that maybe he killed his wife in the end? I wasn't sure and like Phoebe says, maybe it's best that we don't know. I thought Phoebe's relationship with Jamie was also well done. It was subtle rather than being put at the forefront of everything going on. And it was just nice to know that Phoebe finally had someone who would support her and be there when she needed someone. Their relationship is not without its own problems (mostly from Jamie keeping information from her even though he was in a difficult position and really couldn't tell her) but in a lot of ways they worked through them as adults. Phoebe does get upset with him and shut him out, but in the end if able to understand why he did what he did. Other than Scarlett she had never really had that in her life. One of my favorite parts was when Scarlett told Phoebe not to let her mother take away any more from her than she already had. I think Phoebe needed to be reminded that by giving up her home and friends because of her mother wasn't making her life better, just quieter. Having the responsibility of now caring for Darcy also helps Phoebe to keep from running away when things were getting difficult. There is a lot of hope by the end that Phoebe will be able to move forward and continue to allow herself to make connections.
This was a more serious book than what Jo Bartlett usually puts out (of at least of what I have read from her), so if you are going in expecting something along the lines of Cornish Midwives (which did deal with some serious topics) than you will want to adjust your expectations pretty quickly. Although there is a romance to this story it is really more about Phoebe's relationship with her sister and parents. I thought Jo Bartlett did a fantastic job with handling the mental health aspects of this story. She allowed Phoebe to have an array of emotions about her sister's actions including guilt, sadness, and anger. As the story goes on you do get to see Phoebe go through the stages of grief as she clings to the belief that Lucy may just be in hiding and then has to come to terms with the fact that she is really gone. This was another aspect of the story that Jo Bartlett wrote to perfection - until the second letter from Lucy I really thought there was a chance that she hadn't gone through it. So much of what Lucy does could have gone either way so you understand why Phoebe, who loved her sister, would also not immediately give in to thinking she was gone permanently. Given what she had gone through with her mother and the lasting impacts that had on her as an adult and mother herself, I understood why Lucy would feel suicide was her only choice but I really hated that she went about things in such a way that it gave Phoebe any hope that she was going to be coming home. I equal parts felt terrible for their father and disappointed in him that he had never stepped in to protect his daughters, it definitely made me wonder what his mental health state was and what had happened to him the past that would have made him the way he was. And is it suggested that maybe he killed his wife in the end? I wasn't sure and like Phoebe says, maybe it's best that we don't know. I thought Phoebe's relationship with Jamie was also well done. It was subtle rather than being put at the forefront of everything going on. And it was just nice to know that Phoebe finally had someone who would support her and be there when she needed someone. Their relationship is not without its own problems (mostly from Jamie keeping information from her even though he was in a difficult position and really couldn't tell her) but in a lot of ways they worked through them as adults. Phoebe does get upset with him and shut him out, but in the end if able to understand why he did what he did. Other than Scarlett she had never really had that in her life. One of my favorite parts was when Scarlett told Phoebe not to let her mother take away any more from her than she already had. I think Phoebe needed to be reminded that by giving up her home and friends because of her mother wasn't making her life better, just quieter. Having the responsibility of now caring for Darcy also helps Phoebe to keep from running away when things were getting difficult. There is a lot of hope by the end that Phoebe will be able to move forward and continue to allow herself to make connections.
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March 17, 2024
The Girl She Left Behind by @jo_bartlett123 tells the story of Phoebe, a busy professional in London who gets a call that her younger sister, Lucy, has disappeared and left her young niece, Darcy, with a neighbour in her former hometown. Phoebe knows that like herself, Lucy had some mental health challenges, which were inevitable with their complex childhood growing up with a mentally ill parent, and so worries about the meaning of this disappearance start immediately. Yet, Phoebe can't let herself believe that Lucy would actually leave behind her sweet young daughter and fights to ensure the police complete a full investigation into Lucy's disappearance, despite their initial findings which pointed to suicide. Phoebe continues to search for answers, while taking care of a small child she barely knows, avoiding her parents who are quite delusional and trying to figure out her next steps in a life she hadn't expected to find herself living.
This story tackles an obviously difficult topic to read about, but Bartlett was able to weave in some really beautiful descriptions, some interesting supporting characters and provide multiple points of view through third person narration, keeping things lighter than other books I've read on this topic. That being said, there were times where a little more depth of emotion and a little less descriptive writing may have been helpful. I also had a few moments where I felt uncomfortable with how the characters handled situations, like breaking the news to the child or handling topics related to the police investigations, but at the same time, I think Bartlett showed that no matter how we handle a difficult situation, there are always things we could do differently.
Overall, I thought The Girl She Left Behind was a good book and different from others I've read by this author. Thanks to @Netgalley and the publisher @theboldbookclub for giving me the chance to read and review this one! It is out now, so grab your copy!
This story tackles an obviously difficult topic to read about, but Bartlett was able to weave in some really beautiful descriptions, some interesting supporting characters and provide multiple points of view through third person narration, keeping things lighter than other books I've read on this topic. That being said, there were times where a little more depth of emotion and a little less descriptive writing may have been helpful. I also had a few moments where I felt uncomfortable with how the characters handled situations, like breaking the news to the child or handling topics related to the police investigations, but at the same time, I think Bartlett showed that no matter how we handle a difficult situation, there are always things we could do differently.
Overall, I thought The Girl She Left Behind was a good book and different from others I've read by this author. Thanks to @Netgalley and the publisher @theboldbookclub for giving me the chance to read and review this one! It is out now, so grab your copy!
May 2, 2024
Jo Bartlett’s The Girl She Left Behind is a hard-hitting, emotional and thought-provoking read that will break every reader’s heart.
Phoebe Spencer had known from a very early age that she needed to put as much distance as possible between herself and her emotionally manipulative mother. Phoebe has built a new life for herself, yet she still cannot shake off the feeling that she is merely running away from her problems. She had always hoped to never have cause to revisit her past ever again – until she hears that her sister Lucy has disappeared and left her four year old daughter Darcy behind.
Phoebe knows that Lucy would never abandon her child and when she begins to fear the worst, she realizes that she will have to step up and do everything she possibly can for her niece – even if it means confronting the past and facing up to some harsh and uncomfortable truths. With her mother intent on taking control of Darcy’s life, Phoebe realises that if she wants to do right by Darcy, then she must prepare herself to pay the highest price of all.
Is Phoebe strong enough to be there for Darcy through thick and thin? Or will this end up being a battle she simply cannot win?
Jo Bartlett’s The Girl She Left Behind is a slight departure for this popular author of the Cornish Midwives series, however, readers both old and new to her work will certainly not be disappointed. Jo Bartlett tackles some difficult issues with intelligence, sensitivity and flair and will have readers reaching for the tissues on many occasions as they find themselves completely consumed by this complex, astute and powerful novel.
With The Girl She Left Behind, Jo Bartlett proves herself to be a writer of extraordinary scope and talent and I cannot wait to read what she writes next.
I voluntarily read and reviewed an Advanced Reader Copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
Phoebe Spencer had known from a very early age that she needed to put as much distance as possible between herself and her emotionally manipulative mother. Phoebe has built a new life for herself, yet she still cannot shake off the feeling that she is merely running away from her problems. She had always hoped to never have cause to revisit her past ever again – until she hears that her sister Lucy has disappeared and left her four year old daughter Darcy behind.
Phoebe knows that Lucy would never abandon her child and when she begins to fear the worst, she realizes that she will have to step up and do everything she possibly can for her niece – even if it means confronting the past and facing up to some harsh and uncomfortable truths. With her mother intent on taking control of Darcy’s life, Phoebe realises that if she wants to do right by Darcy, then she must prepare herself to pay the highest price of all.
Is Phoebe strong enough to be there for Darcy through thick and thin? Or will this end up being a battle she simply cannot win?
Jo Bartlett’s The Girl She Left Behind is a slight departure for this popular author of the Cornish Midwives series, however, readers both old and new to her work will certainly not be disappointed. Jo Bartlett tackles some difficult issues with intelligence, sensitivity and flair and will have readers reaching for the tissues on many occasions as they find themselves completely consumed by this complex, astute and powerful novel.
With The Girl She Left Behind, Jo Bartlett proves herself to be a writer of extraordinary scope and talent and I cannot wait to read what she writes next.
I voluntarily read and reviewed an Advanced Reader Copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
February 15, 2024
When Phoebe Spencer, left home for London, a long time ago she thought she was leaving her family problems behind. Growing up with a narrcisistic mother had taken its toll on Phoebe and her younger sister, Lucy. While they had been close as children, their mother’s interference and their life choices had made their relationship quite weak. Then she hears that Lucy has disappeared, leaving her four-year-old daughter, Darcy, behind, with the express instructions that Phoebe was to be incharage of the little girl.
At first, Phoebe thinks Lucy will come back soon, but days pass, there’s no sign of her. Slowly and reluctantly, Phoebe and everyone realizes Lucy might never return. With their mom wanting to take control of Darcy’s life, Phoebe steps up to protect her niece, no matter what it takes. She also struggles with the fear that she would be an inadequate parent to Darcy. However, her oldest friend and some new ones provide Darcy with the encouragement and support she needs to fight her own demons and be there for Darcy.
The writer has skillfully crafted a story filled with suspense and deep emotions, delving into the intricacies of family connections and the lasting ties that bind us. The story unfolds smoothly, immersing readers in the challenges faced by the characters and the growing tension within the family. Phoebe’s inner struggle, caught between her wish to move on from the past and the unexpected responsibilities she must shoulder, brings additional layers of complexity to the narrative.
The characters’ experiences and unexpected turns in the plot make it a memorable read, touching on themes of mental health, the effects of emotional abuse on children, love, sacrifice, and the strength to tackle challenging moments.
At first, Phoebe thinks Lucy will come back soon, but days pass, there’s no sign of her. Slowly and reluctantly, Phoebe and everyone realizes Lucy might never return. With their mom wanting to take control of Darcy’s life, Phoebe steps up to protect her niece, no matter what it takes. She also struggles with the fear that she would be an inadequate parent to Darcy. However, her oldest friend and some new ones provide Darcy with the encouragement and support she needs to fight her own demons and be there for Darcy.
The writer has skillfully crafted a story filled with suspense and deep emotions, delving into the intricacies of family connections and the lasting ties that bind us. The story unfolds smoothly, immersing readers in the challenges faced by the characters and the growing tension within the family. Phoebe’s inner struggle, caught between her wish to move on from the past and the unexpected responsibilities she must shoulder, brings additional layers of complexity to the narrative.
The characters’ experiences and unexpected turns in the plot make it a memorable read, touching on themes of mental health, the effects of emotional abuse on children, love, sacrifice, and the strength to tackle challenging moments.
December 13, 2023
*trigger warning- mentions of suicide
This tells of two sisters with a narcissistic mother. One sister Lucy, who has a daughter, has gone missing, the other one Phoebe is left wondering if she has committed suicide due to the note she left and where her coat was found. She knew Lucy didn't want their mother to get her hands on her young daughter Darcy in the same way she had affected them all their lives. Phoebe returns from her life in London, she had tried to get away from the long claws of narcissism and now wonders if she is cut out to look after young Darcy, but soon finds a side of her she didn't know existed. Her mother however can't help but interfere which muddies the waters of the search and where on earth is Lucy?
For anyone who isn't aware of the effects a NPD mother can have, this brings it home as it's well researched and there are certain tells if you know about NPD. The little things such as not having any pictures of the children around the home and even the conversations about trying to find Lucy are centred around her mother- “ What will people think about me with her missing?” (it's something worth looking up if you are not familiar as it's so impactful as to change and destroy lives). It's a great premise and one dealt with very sympathetically on all counts. I admired Phoebe and how she dealt with Darcy and it made me reflect a little. It's traumatic in parts, but it's a real page turner. A clever, thought provoking read, one that kept me gripped to the very end.
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February 9, 2024
I need some tissues! Pass me the whole box!!!
The Girl She Left Behind by Jo Bartlett was a beautifully written but heartbreaking emotional roller coaster ride. This is a book that dealt dysfunctional family. Phoebe and Lucy Spencer were sisters their mother was a narcissistic and their father who supported her and not his girls.
Phoebe Spencer was so desperate to get away from her mother's emotional manipulation and leaves what she called home and moved to London. She knows her life will be better away from her family, but sadly she can’t help feeling she’s simply running away from her problems….......
Time goes by and Phoebe hears that her younger sister Lucy has disappeared, leaving behind her four year old daughter, Darcy.
But, Phoebe's certain Lucy will be back soon, she would never leave here beautiful daughter Darcy alone.
But, as the days pass there's still no sign of Lucy, everyone begins to fear the worst.
Where is she?
Phoebe has to consider the terrible truth that Lucy might never come home. Their mother makes it very clear she wants to take control of Darcy’s life, Phoebe must do all she can to protect the girl her sister left behind, no matter the cost to her.
Wow......This book is so good but very emotional Once I opened my kindle I could not put this book down! Just Beautifully written from the very first page till the last page.
Hats off to Jo Bartlett who wrote this book especially as it was a very delicate story.
Big Thank you to Netgalley and Boldwood Books for my ARC.
The Girl She Left Behind by Jo Bartlett was a beautifully written but heartbreaking emotional roller coaster ride. This is a book that dealt dysfunctional family. Phoebe and Lucy Spencer were sisters their mother was a narcissistic and their father who supported her and not his girls.
Phoebe Spencer was so desperate to get away from her mother's emotional manipulation and leaves what she called home and moved to London. She knows her life will be better away from her family, but sadly she can’t help feeling she’s simply running away from her problems….......
Time goes by and Phoebe hears that her younger sister Lucy has disappeared, leaving behind her four year old daughter, Darcy.
But, Phoebe's certain Lucy will be back soon, she would never leave here beautiful daughter Darcy alone.
But, as the days pass there's still no sign of Lucy, everyone begins to fear the worst.
Where is she?
Phoebe has to consider the terrible truth that Lucy might never come home. Their mother makes it very clear she wants to take control of Darcy’s life, Phoebe must do all she can to protect the girl her sister left behind, no matter the cost to her.
Wow......This book is so good but very emotional Once I opened my kindle I could not put this book down! Just Beautifully written from the very first page till the last page.
Hats off to Jo Bartlett who wrote this book especially as it was a very delicate story.
Big Thank you to Netgalley and Boldwood Books for my ARC.
December 27, 2023
TRIGGER WARNING: Suicide, narcissism and severe mental health issues, child abandonment.
I was immediately swept up into the story of Phoebe, Lucy and their mother. The first pages and the whole beginning were powerful, shocking and tragic. I needed to move on with this, and I was compelled to. It's really different to Jo's other books in style, as it's so heartwrenching, powerful, emotionally charged and wrapped me up in its hold and wouldn't let go.
I really felt for little Darcy, and was so concerned for her welfare.
To me, it was reminiscent of a Cathy Glass book: equally poignant, powerful and heartwrenching. It had me holding my breath, yet wanting more and more and more. I was utterly gripped. It made me feel immense sadness, struggle to hold back tears, and feel concern for the characters. Each word was perfectly chosen to have impact.
The author note was self explanatory, but the novel raises awareness of suicide and narcissism in a sensitive way.
An utterly oustanding and unforgettable novel. It really gets deep into difficult issues and gets under your skin. I felt uneasy at times, yet absolutely hooked. My favourite book of the year so far.
Thanks to Jo Bartlett, Boldwood Books, and Rachel's Random Resources for my eARC in exchange for an honest and voluntary review.
5 stars.
I was immediately swept up into the story of Phoebe, Lucy and their mother. The first pages and the whole beginning were powerful, shocking and tragic. I needed to move on with this, and I was compelled to. It's really different to Jo's other books in style, as it's so heartwrenching, powerful, emotionally charged and wrapped me up in its hold and wouldn't let go.
I really felt for little Darcy, and was so concerned for her welfare.
To me, it was reminiscent of a Cathy Glass book: equally poignant, powerful and heartwrenching. It had me holding my breath, yet wanting more and more and more. I was utterly gripped. It made me feel immense sadness, struggle to hold back tears, and feel concern for the characters. Each word was perfectly chosen to have impact.
The author note was self explanatory, but the novel raises awareness of suicide and narcissism in a sensitive way.
An utterly oustanding and unforgettable novel. It really gets deep into difficult issues and gets under your skin. I felt uneasy at times, yet absolutely hooked. My favourite book of the year so far.
Thanks to Jo Bartlett, Boldwood Books, and Rachel's Random Resources for my eARC in exchange for an honest and voluntary review.
5 stars.
February 8, 2024
This book has tore my heart in two. It's about dysfunctional family and dealing with a narcissist family member. Phoebe and Lucy have not had it easy with a narcissist mother and a father to weak to stand up to her, the emotional scars it has left on the girls are deep. So when Phoebe gets a phone call saying Lucy is missing, Phoebe knows that Lucy would never willingly leave her daughter Darcy. What I loved about this story is how delicately, honestly and knowledgeable the author has dealt with the idea of suicide. She has portrayed how dark and deeply disturbed a person is feeling too think that suicide is the only answer and she has emotionally described how much it affects the people left behind. My favourite character in the story is little Darcy who I instantly adored and the dogs who could sense that she needed them. Jo Bartlett has written a book that is very different from her usual style and I believe she has nailed it! Well done!
February 1, 2024
Trigger warning: suicide idealation.
So the FMC is left watching her neice as her sister has "disappeared" but really she planned to committ suicide. What follows isn't a cute, emotional read about an auntie learning how to parent on the fly. No!!
It's just an angsty, drama-filled read about parental abuse, therapy, how therapy doesn't solve shit, how to navigate the internet to find like-minded friends who are also suicidal, how a therapist can't breach confidentiality to help the 4 year old daughter of a patient to find closure and NO ONE THINKS THIS IS A DISASTER?????
It's just repetitive garbage about hope and having it slowly extinguished then revived again. And the "love interest" is a lying bag of crap who protects this narcissist rather than the people who fucking deserved his devotion.
So the FMC is left watching her neice as her sister has "disappeared" but really she planned to committ suicide. What follows isn't a cute, emotional read about an auntie learning how to parent on the fly. No!!
It's just an angsty, drama-filled read about parental abuse, therapy, how therapy doesn't solve shit, how to navigate the internet to find like-minded friends who are also suicidal, how a therapist can't breach confidentiality to help the 4 year old daughter of a patient to find closure and NO ONE THINKS THIS IS A DISASTER?????
It's just repetitive garbage about hope and having it slowly extinguished then revived again. And the "love interest" is a lying bag of crap who protects this narcissist rather than the people who fucking deserved his devotion.
January 29, 2024
The Girl She Left Behind is a totally different style from Jo Bartlett’s usual books but I absolutely couldn’t put it down.
When Phoebe gets a call to say her sister is missing she heads to Appleberry where Lucy lives with her three year old daughter. Everything points to Lucy having taken her own life,
Phoebe is determined to find out the truth about her disappearance. Being back in Appleberry brings to the surface why she left in the first place. Janet their narcissistic mother is the root of all the problems that herself and Lucy have faced in life.
This is a very emotional story about suicide and pain within a family who are searching for answers to find their loved one. Jo captures the feelings of both Phoebe and Darcy and dealt with the story beautifully
When Phoebe gets a call to say her sister is missing she heads to Appleberry where Lucy lives with her three year old daughter. Everything points to Lucy having taken her own life,
Phoebe is determined to find out the truth about her disappearance. Being back in Appleberry brings to the surface why she left in the first place. Janet their narcissistic mother is the root of all the problems that herself and Lucy have faced in life.
This is a very emotional story about suicide and pain within a family who are searching for answers to find their loved one. Jo captures the feelings of both Phoebe and Darcy and dealt with the story beautifully
February 6, 2024
This book is certainly unlike any of the other books I’ve previously listened to from Jo.
I don’t think this book is for everyone. Some people might have difficulty with the issues involved in this one, i.e. suicidal thoughts.
Jo has written some very evil and devious family members in the past but this one takes the bullet. There really are some great characters and you get fully invested in their lives.
I feel wrong saying that I enjoyed this book as it’s a very tragic tale
But I did enjoy it. I’m glad that I listen to it.
I didn’t know how this was going to end in a satisfying way, but I guess it did, but it kept you guessing what would happen.
Good narration…suited the story
I don’t think this book is for everyone. Some people might have difficulty with the issues involved in this one, i.e. suicidal thoughts.
Jo has written some very evil and devious family members in the past but this one takes the bullet. There really are some great characters and you get fully invested in their lives.
I feel wrong saying that I enjoyed this book as it’s a very tragic tale
But I did enjoy it. I’m glad that I listen to it.
I didn’t know how this was going to end in a satisfying way, but I guess it did, but it kept you guessing what would happen.
Good narration…suited the story
February 10, 2024
The Girl She Left Behind is Jo Bartlett’s latest novel and what a hard-hitting one it is! Yesterday should have been my turn on the book tour, but I couldn’t rush through as I perhaps might’ve done! I needed time to absorb the words and dry my tears: I was compelled to finish it no matter what!
It's tough to say that I loved the book because the story is so heart-wrenching. Nevertheless, I found myself glued to it.
Furthermore, the book highlights the dire need for the government to allocate more resources to the NHS to help address the mental health crisis that many people are currently facing.
It's tough to say that I loved the book because the story is so heart-wrenching. Nevertheless, I found myself glued to it.
Furthermore, the book highlights the dire need for the government to allocate more resources to the NHS to help address the mental health crisis that many people are currently facing.
June 8, 2024
This was one of the most tragic and uplifting stories I have read in a long time. It broke my heart to pieces and mended me like new all in one story (the mending hurt almost as much as the breaking). The characters are full of life and meaning from the beginning. The plot is steadfast and hopeful and the premise is surviving after a sister has disappeared and learning how to love and care for her daughter. The mother of the main character is one of the most horrible and selfish persons I have ever read about and made me feel lucky my life was as good as it was. I most certainly recommend this book.
February 4, 2024
A story with a bit of everything and a lot of life. A narcissistic mother and a weak father, daughters who have never known strength of character, or support from their parents, or belief in themselves. The story grows into a tragedy unfolding, old and new friends showing support, a love story unfolding, and new beginnings. So much packed into this book, it was both an easy read because of the way it flowed and a difficult story because of the main subject. Jo Bartlett is a wonderful storyteller
February 7, 2024
TW: suicide and parental abuse
When Lucy goes missing her sister Phoebe returns to her hometown to take care of Lucy’s daughter. In a note Lucy left she made it clear her daughter was to have nothing to do with her mother. Reading this story tugs at your heart. The idea that these things can happen is heartbreaking. I thought the author did a wonderful job with this story and it’s a book I’ll be thinking about for awhile. If you enjoy family dramas and characters that thrive despite their circumstances this is a book you want to read.
When Lucy goes missing her sister Phoebe returns to her hometown to take care of Lucy’s daughter. In a note Lucy left she made it clear her daughter was to have nothing to do with her mother. Reading this story tugs at your heart. The idea that these things can happen is heartbreaking. I thought the author did a wonderful job with this story and it’s a book I’ll be thinking about for awhile. If you enjoy family dramas and characters that thrive despite their circumstances this is a book you want to read.
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