Los que conocieron de cerca a Tony de Mello, saben, y seguramente recordarán, que su "ministerio" pasó por distintas etapas, de acuerdo en parte, con las necesidades de las personas a las que servió en cada una de ellas, pero tamibén de acuerdo con las exigencias de su propia evolución interior. Externamente, podría hablarse de sus sucesivas fases de "director espiritual", "terapeuta", "guru", etc; internamente, en cambio, un íntimo amigo suyo ha hablado de "una progresión de valores desde la santidad hasta la libertad, pasando por el amor".
Nos hallamos ante esta su obra póstuma: la transcripción de sus charlas de "Ejercicios", que él mismo redactó cuidadosamente, pero que nunca dio a la imprenta. Y la verdad es que no sabemos por qué no quiso hacerlo ni lo que habría pensado de nuestra atrevida decisión de publicarlas. Pero lo que es innegable es que muchas personas se sentirán dichosas de poder disponer de ellas.
El texto ha sido reproducido tal como Tony lo dejó; únicamente se le ha puesto un título y se ha hecho algunas ligerísimas correcciones, aunque no han faltado quienes sugirieran la conveniencia de una profunda revisión. El estilo es, tal vez, un tanto anticuado y el contenido no es del todo "postconciliar". El tema de las charlas podría resumirse en los tres clásicos principios fundamentales. La oración, la penitencia y el amor de Cristo. Y el estilo típico de Tony: tremendamente vigoroso.
Anthony de Mello was a Jesuit priest and psychotherapist who became widely known for his books on spirituality. An internationally acclaimed spiritual guide, writer and public speaker, de Mello hosted many spiritual conferences.
The few talks which he allowed to be filmed, such as "A Rediscovery of Life" and "A Way to God for Today," have inspired many viewers and audiences throughout the United States, Canada, and Central America. De Mello established a prayer center in India. He died suddenly in 1987. His works are readily available and additional writings were published after his death.
In 1998, some of his opinions were condemned by the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger, who later became Pope Benedict XVI, wrote for the Congregation: "But already in certain passages in [his] early works and to a greater degree in his later publications, one notices a progressive distancing from the essential contents of the Christian faith. ... With the present Notification, in order to protect the good of the Christian faithful, this Congregation declares that the above-mentioned positions are incompatible with the Catholic faith and can cause grave harm."
Some editions of his books have since been supplemented with the insertion of a caution: "The books of Father Anthony de Mello were written in a multi-religious context to help the followers of other religions, agnostics and atheists in their spiritual search, and they were not intended by the author as manuals of instruction of the Catholic faithful in Christian doctrine or dogma."
This would have got 5 stars if it were not for the exhortations to get Mary to pray for you. That aside, de Mello has a gift of seeing through to the essence of things and of explaining them forcefully. In this book he explains the rationale behind going on retreat, (The full title of book is Contact with God - Retreat Conferences,) then explains what is prayer and how to pray. This is easily the best book on prayer I have ever read (although I have not read many). He also talks about what is repentance.
The sections in this book were originally delivered as talks during retreat conferences in India.
A Hindu told a Christian, 'You missionaries will never have any impact on us unless you come as gurus.' By this, he meant that book learning is not enough, lived experience - not second-hand experience - is a vital part of communication.
The laws of prayer: faith forgiveness right motives generosity Jesus' name persistence
The Jesus prayer - a short repeated invocation such as 'My Jesus, mercy', 'My God and my all' or 'Lord Jesus Christ, Son of David, have mercy on me' possibly originated in the ancient Hindu practice of the Prayer of the Name.
Emile Coue advocated auto-suggestion as a cure for disease. Relax and repeat about 20 times: "Every day in every way I am getting better and better." De Mello correlates this with the Jesus Prayer.
Those who cannot accept the forgiveness of God are subject to a subtle form of pride.