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Teachers in Love #2
Mistletoe and Mishigas
Sheldon Soleskin should be having a horrible day. Even though he’s been unexpectedly transferred to a new school right before the holidays, has only one day to set up his new classroom, and just discovered his twin sister's been hiding an invitation to his ex-boyfriend’s Christmas Eve wedding, he’s still ready to take on the world with a smile on his face and a skip in his step.
Theo Berenson just wants to be left alone to his custodial duties. But when the chipper new first-grade teacher needs help moving furniture the Sunday after Thanksgiving, he's forced to do something he detests. Help. To make matters worse, Theo's overbearing parents are coming for Hanukah in a few weeks, and he's told them he has a boyfriend. Except he doesn't. Because who would want to date an oaf like Theo?
Working together, these opposites discover they might be able to help each other out. Agreeing to be each other’s dates, they become friends as they practice for their upcoming events. But when all the rehearsing starts feeling a little too real, and both men's pasts come roaring back to haunt them, will they be able to pull off the ultimate holiday masquerade?
Theo Berenson just wants to be left alone to his custodial duties. But when the chipper new first-grade teacher needs help moving furniture the Sunday after Thanksgiving, he's forced to do something he detests. Help. To make matters worse, Theo's overbearing parents are coming for Hanukah in a few weeks, and he's told them he has a boyfriend. Except he doesn't. Because who would want to date an oaf like Theo?
Working together, these opposites discover they might be able to help each other out. Agreeing to be each other’s dates, they become friends as they practice for their upcoming events. But when all the rehearsing starts feeling a little too real, and both men's pasts come roaring back to haunt them, will they be able to pull off the ultimate holiday masquerade?
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First published October 10, 2023
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August 25, 2023
Move aside Marvin and Olan (I still love you to bits), but there's a new favourite couple in town. Sheldon and Theo have my whole heart, forever. Oh, how I loved this book. Here's why.
In the era of M/M romance novels where both main characters are ripped hunks that look straighter than your straightest friends, M. A. Wardell has the audacity to write two gay men that are completely different than what we're used to seeing in this genre: a femme main character and a fat one. What I mean by that is that usually the main characters are very hunky, manly men, not that straight or gay men should look a certain way. But for the sake of emphasising the use of the same body type, the one we associate with straight bro guys, let's stick with what I've said above.
*GASP* How dare you, sir??
Sell us the perfect fantasy, we don't want to live in the real world. But wait, we actually do. We want all body types to be represented in M/M books too, not only in straight romances. And not only as the quirky best friend either. No.
Fat men can be main characters. Sexy, strong, a little bit broken, but definitely-deserving-of-love men. Small, femme presenting gay men can be main characters. Beautiful, confident in their identity, a bit insecure about being too much, but definitely main character material.
Don't come at me. I actually like most books with perfectly chiseled bodies, but this was so freaking refreshing and different and precious and spicy. So real and raw. Perfect.
This is the story of Sheldon Soleskin and Theo Berenson. Two completely different men, a ray of sunshine and the densest of clouds, a 32 year old first grade teacher that never seems to shut up and a 36 year old custodian with a prickly attitude. Pushed together by desperate times that ask for desperate measures, these two start their relationship by committing to fake date soon after their first interaction.
And, it's such a mess. A delightful, heartbreaking, but ultimately a wonderful mess. Because these two idiots start to develop feelings for each other, but are too scared or insecure to not only acknowledge them, but also express them. Theo is suffering from PTSD, he's very closed off, insecure about his appearance and he's also absolutely terrified about starting a relationship. Sheldon gets past all that hard exterior, he's a 'human sparkler' after all, but he himself is struggling with insecurities triggered by his awful relationship with his parents, he sees himself as too much, too gay, too out there, and although he never censors himself, you can feel his reluctance when people get close to him.
So listen, they do a lot of things 'for practice', and welllllll... their relationship heats up and, phew! I might have jokingly called Matt the king of spice, but, I wasn't wrong. This was sizzling.
The side characters, as expected, were brilliant. I knew after reading TOY that Mr. Wardell knows how to create the most amazing bunch of characters, and these did not disappoint. Naomi, Sheldon's twin sister and Christian, Theo's best friend were particularly amazing. They play very important roles in the character growth they both go through. I can't say more without giving out massive spoilers, but you'll understand when you read the book.
Theo's parents were another highlight of the book, they offered so many funny moments, but also a lot of emotional ones. Again, I'll refrain from further details to avoid spoilers. But, I cried. A lot.
Brodie, dear Brodie. I wanted more scenes with him. 🥺
I absolutely adored the Jewish rep and all the traditions, the food, the iddish words. It was so much fun to learn about all of this alongside Sheldon.
Oh, and that ending. Yessss!!
And that's it, friends. I've babbled enough. Again.
Pre-order this book. It comes out October 10th.
In the era of M/M romance novels where both main characters are ripped hunks that look straighter than your straightest friends, M. A. Wardell has the audacity to write two gay men that are completely different than what we're used to seeing in this genre: a femme main character and a fat one. What I mean by that is that usually the main characters are very hunky, manly men, not that straight or gay men should look a certain way. But for the sake of emphasising the use of the same body type, the one we associate with straight bro guys, let's stick with what I've said above.
*GASP* How dare you, sir??
Sell us the perfect fantasy, we don't want to live in the real world. But wait, we actually do. We want all body types to be represented in M/M books too, not only in straight romances. And not only as the quirky best friend either. No.
Fat men can be main characters. Sexy, strong, a little bit broken, but definitely-deserving-of-love men. Small, femme presenting gay men can be main characters. Beautiful, confident in their identity, a bit insecure about being too much, but definitely main character material.
Don't come at me. I actually like most books with perfectly chiseled bodies, but this was so freaking refreshing and different and precious and spicy. So real and raw. Perfect.
This is the story of Sheldon Soleskin and Theo Berenson. Two completely different men, a ray of sunshine and the densest of clouds, a 32 year old first grade teacher that never seems to shut up and a 36 year old custodian with a prickly attitude. Pushed together by desperate times that ask for desperate measures, these two start their relationship by committing to fake date soon after their first interaction.
And, it's such a mess. A delightful, heartbreaking, but ultimately a wonderful mess. Because these two idiots start to develop feelings for each other, but are too scared or insecure to not only acknowledge them, but also express them. Theo is suffering from PTSD, he's very closed off, insecure about his appearance and he's also absolutely terrified about starting a relationship. Sheldon gets past all that hard exterior, he's a 'human sparkler' after all, but he himself is struggling with insecurities triggered by his awful relationship with his parents, he sees himself as too much, too gay, too out there, and although he never censors himself, you can feel his reluctance when people get close to him.
So listen, they do a lot of things 'for practice', and welllllll... their relationship heats up and, phew! I might have jokingly called Matt the king of spice, but, I wasn't wrong. This was sizzling.
The side characters, as expected, were brilliant. I knew after reading TOY that Mr. Wardell knows how to create the most amazing bunch of characters, and these did not disappoint. Naomi, Sheldon's twin sister and Christian, Theo's best friend were particularly amazing. They play very important roles in the character growth they both go through. I can't say more without giving out massive spoilers, but you'll understand when you read the book.
Theo's parents were another highlight of the book, they offered so many funny moments, but also a lot of emotional ones. Again, I'll refrain from further details to avoid spoilers. But, I cried. A lot.
Brodie, dear Brodie. I wanted more scenes with him. 🥺
I absolutely adored the Jewish rep and all the traditions, the food, the iddish words. It was so much fun to learn about all of this alongside Sheldon.
Oh, and that ending. Yessss!!
And that's it, friends. I've babbled enough. Again.
Pre-order this book. It comes out October 10th.
October 17, 2023
It’s fine. But once Theo establishes Sheldon’s nickname as “Booster” it appears on the page every other sentence and it bothered me so much I could barely enjoy the end of the book.
January 1, 2025
imagine having a combat-related ptsd meltdown and then some twink is like “want me to show you my hole?”
merry christmas and happy hanukkah i guess
merry christmas and happy hanukkah i guess
October 15, 2023
4.5 stars
Well that was a delight.
Even though this was quite a low angst story with a very character-driven plot, I still found this very emotionally engaging. The characters felt like real people, well-rounded and full of normal insecurities. I loved the representation of different physical builds and how accepting and encouraging they both were. They get off on the wrong foot, they fumble around a bit, but they talk about things honestly (my catnip) and sort things out like adults. And this has got to be the least stressful fake dating story I've ever read. All wins in my books.
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Sheldon is very femme, and he's very slight as well. He considers himself scrawny, and is struggling with extra insecurity since his ex-boyfriend dumped him on Christmas Eve for the buff gym trainer he was cheating with (asshole). On the day Sheldon is starting work after being transferred to a new school to teach, he finds an invitation to their wedding, on Christmas Eve a year after he was dumped (seriously, what an asshole).
Theo is a veteran who suffered serious trauma and injury in Afghanistan. He tries to manage his PTSD and anxiety by staying away from people and noise, and works as the custodian at Sheldon's new school. He gets roped into helping Sheldon set up his classroom and has no idea how to handle the ball of energy that is Sheldon. Theo isn't very comfortable with his body, thinking he's an oaf because he's very tall and broad, and at least a bit fat.
Things between them aren't great at first, though it doesn't take long for them to find their footing. After a brief misunderstanding, Sheldon learns that Theo is gay and has to swallow his tongue and apologise for the assumption he made that he was straight based on his appearance. It just so happens that they both need a pretend boyfriend in a few weeks and we're off to the races.
I particularly loved the hurt/comfort in this story and I even teared up a few times while reading. Sheldon’s abandonment issues and struggle between confidence and insecurity was very relatable. And Theo…oh man I just want to hug him so bad, though he'd surely hate that. When his PTSD is triggered, Sheldon is clearly out of his depth but still takes a near-catatonic Theo home to care for him and I thought it was a really touching moment. They both deserve so much love.
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The sex was pretty simple but I really felt their connection and thought it was very well written, though I personally could entirely do without all the spitting on each other's dicks. 9 times, someone's dick is spat on. Once this includes the verb "hock" - no, no, no, thank you, this is not the image I want in my head while reading a sex scene.
I do feel like the Brodie plotline was missing a little more info. We never learn anything more about him or his home life outside of his sometimes difficult behaviour. I'm glad he made progress and seemed to be doing better at the end of the book but it felt incomplete to me. We also meet 2 teachers who seem to be set up to be Sheldon's friends but then they're never mentioned again.
I really did not like the nickname Booster. Is a child’s car seat not called a booster seat in the US? If it's not, then by all means continue on your way. It bothered me so much I cringed every time it was used.
There are also some really odd expressions in this, but either it calmed down as the book went on or I stopped noticing them. For example: "and damn that dimple. I could fill it with lemony hummus and dip crackers in it. Or lick it out with my tongue. (p. 30)" Huh?
Also, was there a glossary for the Hebrew terms? The author's note mentions a lexicon but it wasn't included in the ebook I got from KU. I understood most of the terms but admittedly had to Google a couple of them.
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I really did find this very touching, in spite of the issues I mentioned above. I'd recommend this to readers who like books with very little plot or drama, with big themes of acceptance and emotionally engaging characters.
Well that was a delight.
Even though this was quite a low angst story with a very character-driven plot, I still found this very emotionally engaging. The characters felt like real people, well-rounded and full of normal insecurities. I loved the representation of different physical builds and how accepting and encouraging they both were. They get off on the wrong foot, they fumble around a bit, but they talk about things honestly (my catnip) and sort things out like adults. And this has got to be the least stressful fake dating story I've ever read. All wins in my books.
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Sheldon is very femme, and he's very slight as well. He considers himself scrawny, and is struggling with extra insecurity since his ex-boyfriend dumped him on Christmas Eve for the buff gym trainer he was cheating with (asshole). On the day Sheldon is starting work after being transferred to a new school to teach, he finds an invitation to their wedding, on Christmas Eve a year after he was dumped (seriously, what an asshole).
Theo is a veteran who suffered serious trauma and injury in Afghanistan. He tries to manage his PTSD and anxiety by staying away from people and noise, and works as the custodian at Sheldon's new school. He gets roped into helping Sheldon set up his classroom and has no idea how to handle the ball of energy that is Sheldon. Theo isn't very comfortable with his body, thinking he's an oaf because he's very tall and broad, and at least a bit fat.
Things between them aren't great at first, though it doesn't take long for them to find their footing. After a brief misunderstanding, Sheldon learns that Theo is gay and has to swallow his tongue and apologise for the assumption he made that he was straight based on his appearance. It just so happens that they both need a pretend boyfriend in a few weeks and we're off to the races.
I particularly loved the hurt/comfort in this story and I even teared up a few times while reading. Sheldon’s abandonment issues and struggle between confidence and insecurity was very relatable. And Theo…oh man I just want to hug him so bad, though he'd surely hate that. When his PTSD is triggered, Sheldon is clearly out of his depth but still takes a near-catatonic Theo home to care for him and I thought it was a really touching moment. They both deserve so much love.
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The sex was pretty simple but I really felt their connection and thought it was very well written, though I personally could entirely do without all the spitting on each other's dicks. 9 times, someone's dick is spat on. Once this includes the verb "hock" - no, no, no, thank you, this is not the image I want in my head while reading a sex scene.
I do feel like the Brodie plotline was missing a little more info. We never learn anything more about him or his home life outside of his sometimes difficult behaviour. I'm glad he made progress and seemed to be doing better at the end of the book but it felt incomplete to me. We also meet 2 teachers who seem to be set up to be Sheldon's friends but then they're never mentioned again.
I really did not like the nickname Booster. Is a child’s car seat not called a booster seat in the US? If it's not, then by all means continue on your way. It bothered me so much I cringed every time it was used.
There are also some really odd expressions in this, but either it calmed down as the book went on or I stopped noticing them. For example: "and damn that dimple. I could fill it with lemony hummus and dip crackers in it. Or lick it out with my tongue. (p. 30)" Huh?
Also, was there a glossary for the Hebrew terms? The author's note mentions a lexicon but it wasn't included in the ebook I got from KU. I understood most of the terms but admittedly had to Google a couple of them.
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I really did find this very touching, in spite of the issues I mentioned above. I'd recommend this to readers who like books with very little plot or drama, with big themes of acceptance and emotionally engaging characters.
December 10, 2023
Mistletoe and Mishigas is the second book in the Teachers in Love series, and is set during the festive season so it was the perfect time for me to pick it up and I really enjoyed it.
Following first-grade teacher Sheldon who's just been transferred to a new school after Thanksgiving. He doesn't have a lot of time to get his classroom set up before students are back to school on the Monday, so principal Kent (who's getting his own book next, which I'm very excited about) suggests he enlists the help of the school's custodian.
Theo is a man of very few words. Helping the new teacher move furniture from the basement to his classroom would be fine, if the new teacher wasn't a ball of energy who talks a mile a minute.
Sheldon needs a date to his ex-boyfriend's Christmas Eve wedding and Theo needs a boyfriend, so his parents who are visiting for Hanukah will get off his back and stop offering to hire a matchmaker.
Mutually beneficial fake-dating ensues. Which grows into more as they get to know one another and real feelings develop.
Following first-grade teacher Sheldon who's just been transferred to a new school after Thanksgiving. He doesn't have a lot of time to get his classroom set up before students are back to school on the Monday, so principal Kent (who's getting his own book next, which I'm very excited about) suggests he enlists the help of the school's custodian.
Theo is a man of very few words. Helping the new teacher move furniture from the basement to his classroom would be fine, if the new teacher wasn't a ball of energy who talks a mile a minute.
Sheldon needs a date to his ex-boyfriend's Christmas Eve wedding and Theo needs a boyfriend, so his parents who are visiting for Hanukah will get off his back and stop offering to hire a matchmaker.
Mutually beneficial fake-dating ensues. Which grows into more as they get to know one another and real feelings develop.
October 8, 2023
Thank you to the author for providing me with an eARC for an honest review.
That being said, Matt: please look away, you don't want to read this review. I am always honest in my reviews, and at the end of the day this is for potential readers and not the author.
I really wanted to like this. And, I didn't... not? But I definitely didn't enjoy it as much as Teacher of the Year, and I don't think the rest of the series appeals to me anymore. (I just can't read age gap romances. It's too weird for me, even when they're both consenting adults! You do you, it's just not for me.)
My issues boil down to:
1. There was almost no conflict?? Like, WHY is this story being told? I certainly don't know! There was almost no substance!
2. Based on the author's instagram, I was expecting it to be steamier! Sure, there were more smut scenes in M&M than TOY, but TOY's were hotter imo
3. The non-Jewish main character was irritating. His whole thing was that he was a redhead. And somehow that was compared to being Jewish, MULTIPLE TIMES? It went like this:
BUDDY, WE GET IT. UR HAIR IS ORANGE.
Like, poor dude Theo is just trying to get by day-to-day as a veteran with PTSD and he falls in love with Mr. Redhead over here.
To quote my text exchange with my best friend: "TWINKS are GREAT BUT NOT THIS ONE"
Don't get me wrong — this was fun! I just really think after TOY my expectations were too high. It felt like the few aspects I didn't like in TOY were amplified and the ones I did like were, for the most part, missing.
I loved reading the perspective of a Jewish guy with anxiety finding love in TOY. And in M&M I really enjoyed Sheldon's relationship with his sister and the overall themes of found family/meeting your partner where they are.
But while we do hear from Theo's perspective, Sheldon dominated the narrative. There were a couple moments where we heard from Theo about his insecurities about being fat, which I did like, but a lot of it stemmed from Sheldon's repetitive reassurances and nicknames ("thick and juicy" was one, I believe?) that honestly felt a little... odd?
I also want to note that there were maybe two BIPOC characters in the entire book (one of which was a cameo from TOY), and only one trans/nonbinary character (who was thrown in there for a little jealousy side plot).
So, would I recommend it? I wouldn't go out of my way to do so, and I do think TOY is more personal and worthwhile, but if you are curious and the things I mentioned aren't as off-putting to you as they were for me, then go for it!
That being said, Matt: please look away, you don't want to read this review. I am always honest in my reviews, and at the end of the day this is for potential readers and not the author.
I really wanted to like this. And, I didn't... not? But I definitely didn't enjoy it as much as Teacher of the Year, and I don't think the rest of the series appeals to me anymore. (I just can't read age gap romances. It's too weird for me, even when they're both consenting adults! You do you, it's just not for me.)
My issues boil down to:
1. There was almost no conflict?? Like, WHY is this story being told? I certainly don't know! There was almost no substance!
2. Based on the author's instagram, I was expecting it to be steamier! Sure, there were more smut scenes in M&M than TOY, but TOY's were hotter imo
3. The non-Jewish main character was irritating. His whole thing was that he was a redhead. And somehow that was compared to being Jewish, MULTIPLE TIMES? It went like this:
Redhead/Sheldon: wow Christmastime is so fun!
Jew/Theo: I'm Jewish.
Redhead/Sheldon: oh, that's so cool! I'm a redhead!
BUDDY, WE GET IT. UR HAIR IS ORANGE.
Like, poor dude Theo is just trying to get by day-to-day as a veteran with PTSD and he falls in love with Mr. Redhead over here.
To quote my text exchange with my best friend: "TWINKS are GREAT BUT NOT THIS ONE"
Don't get me wrong — this was fun! I just really think after TOY my expectations were too high. It felt like the few aspects I didn't like in TOY were amplified and the ones I did like were, for the most part, missing.
I loved reading the perspective of a Jewish guy with anxiety finding love in TOY. And in M&M I really enjoyed Sheldon's relationship with his sister and the overall themes of found family/meeting your partner where they are.
But while we do hear from Theo's perspective, Sheldon dominated the narrative. There were a couple moments where we heard from Theo about his insecurities about being fat, which I did like, but a lot of it stemmed from Sheldon's repetitive reassurances and nicknames ("thick and juicy" was one, I believe?) that honestly felt a little... odd?
I also want to note that there were maybe two BIPOC characters in the entire book (one of which was a cameo from TOY), and only one trans/nonbinary character (who was thrown in there for a little jealousy side plot).
So, would I recommend it? I wouldn't go out of my way to do so, and I do think TOY is more personal and worthwhile, but if you are curious and the things I mentioned aren't as off-putting to you as they were for me, then go for it!
December 7, 2023
This was the cute, seratonin filled, queer romcom I hoped it would be. Full of heart and leg crossing smut scenes, this was utter perfection.
August 20, 2023
This is an adult 🌶️ contemporary, opposites attract, fake dating, co-workers to lovers, has femme and fat rep and was just so fun to read. How dare M.A. Wardell make all of his characters so likable?? ALL of them too? I didn’t realize that was possible!
The writing is fun and playful as you get to know the characters. It was hard to put down - I finished the book in just three sessions!
I really enjoyed this one and if you’re a fan of Teacher of the Year - I guarantee you’ll love this one too. It comes out October 10th, just in time for the holiday season - so mark your calendars! This is prob not the last you’ll hear of it from me. Bring on the third book! ✨
The writing is fun and playful as you get to know the characters. It was hard to put down - I finished the book in just three sessions!
I really enjoyed this one and if you’re a fan of Teacher of the Year - I guarantee you’ll love this one too. It comes out October 10th, just in time for the holiday season - so mark your calendars! This is prob not the last you’ll hear of it from me. Bring on the third book! ✨
December 12, 2023
Bonus points for name dropping two severely underrated Christmas songs: Hard Candy Christmas by Dolly Parton and Thank God It’s Christmas by Queen.
Epic bonus points for teaching me about lox bagels. I am such a slut for salmon this has opened my world wide open. Oh and for that 69. Also “mishigas” is a bangin word.
Minus a few points for many, many “baby” endearments, the nickname “Booster” ????? (worse if you watch Jingle All the Way every Christmas and know that Booster is actually Turboman’s loyal (and furry) sidekick 😩), and prose that was just a smidge purple.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️/5 🌶️🌶️🌶️/5
Epic bonus points for teaching me about lox bagels. I am such a slut for salmon this has opened my world wide open. Oh and for that 69. Also “mishigas” is a bangin word.
Minus a few points for many, many “baby” endearments, the nickname “Booster” ????? (worse if you watch Jingle All the Way every Christmas and know that Booster is actually Turboman’s loyal (and furry) sidekick 😩), and prose that was just a smidge purple.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️/5 🌶️🌶️🌶️/5
November 13, 2024
3.5 stars. RTC
Had to take off a star for the use of “cumtastic” but other than that, it was a pretty solid romance.
The plot: Sheldon and Theo work at the same elementary school. Theo is the custodian while Sheldon is a recently transferred 1st grade teacher. Sheldon has to set up his classroom after thanksgiving break and he needs Theo’s help carrying heavier objects. While they’re moving furniture, Sheldon tries to get Theo to open up but Mr. Grump is just not having. Nevertheless, as the weeks go on, Sheldon persists, and he is shocked when Theo offers to be his date to his ex boyfriend’s Christmas Eve wedding. In exchange, Sheldon will act as Theo’s fake boyfriend when his parents come into town to celebrate Hanukkah. Obviously, being fake boyfriends result in very real feelings.
What I loved about this book:
1. I loved how Sheldon was unapologetically, authentically himself. He was walking sunshine and I pretty much fell in love with him the moment he was introduced. I’m a sucker for a character who uses extreme sunshine-yness to hide heartbreaking vulnerability. He also has excellent taste in Christmas music. I too, have cried while listening to Leslie Odom Jr’s cover of “Winter Song”
2. I loved Theo. Although it took me a minute to warm up to him because he was initially giving extreme GRUMP. But like Sheldon, his grumpiness hides so much pain. Once he began to open up to Sheldon, I was very much like “MUST. PROTECT” I also loved how his PTSD was handled with so much sensitivity and care. Those flashbacks were gut wrenching.
3. I loved all the side characters. Sheldon’s twin sister Naomi was iconic, as was her boyfriend Walker. Theo’s parents were so loving and supportive. They just want their son to settle down with a nice guy, live happily ever after and more importantly, give them their long awaited grand babies 😭 And the way they not only embraced Sheldon, but also Naomi when they found out about Sheldon’s horrible parents *cue ugly tears* Principal Kent was also a delight (and I can’t wait to read his book) and Theo’s friends Christian and Anna were amazing. I also related to the storyline with Brodie, because as an educator I’ve had experiences with students who are undeservedly labeled “challenging” and then they get their adorable little hooks into your heart ❤️ Hell, even Sheldon’s ex was cool 😂 Like yeah he cheated (BOOOOO) but in any other romance he would’ve been written as a jerk but he was actually super sweet and genuinely remorseful. Well done, because ya girl is tired of the evil ex trope.
What I didn’t love:
1. The overuse of “baby.” In my opinion, “baby” should be used sparingly.
2. The one time Sheldon refers to Theo as “Shrek” in his head. He never says it aloud but NOPE. DIDN’T LIKE THAT ONE BIT.
3. “That was cumtastic” Jail. Straight to Jail. Do not past go, do not collect 200 dollars. Straight to jail, you go!
Other than that (😂) it was a hilarious, beautiful and uplifting read.
CW: PTSD, Death of a loved one (in flashbacks) Homophobia (in flashbacks)
Had to take off a star for the use of “cumtastic” but other than that, it was a pretty solid romance.
The plot: Sheldon and Theo work at the same elementary school. Theo is the custodian while Sheldon is a recently transferred 1st grade teacher. Sheldon has to set up his classroom after thanksgiving break and he needs Theo’s help carrying heavier objects. While they’re moving furniture, Sheldon tries to get Theo to open up but Mr. Grump is just not having. Nevertheless, as the weeks go on, Sheldon persists, and he is shocked when Theo offers to be his date to his ex boyfriend’s Christmas Eve wedding. In exchange, Sheldon will act as Theo’s fake boyfriend when his parents come into town to celebrate Hanukkah. Obviously, being fake boyfriends result in very real feelings.
What I loved about this book:
1. I loved how Sheldon was unapologetically, authentically himself. He was walking sunshine and I pretty much fell in love with him the moment he was introduced. I’m a sucker for a character who uses extreme sunshine-yness to hide heartbreaking vulnerability. He also has excellent taste in Christmas music. I too, have cried while listening to Leslie Odom Jr’s cover of “Winter Song”
2. I loved Theo. Although it took me a minute to warm up to him because he was initially giving extreme GRUMP. But like Sheldon, his grumpiness hides so much pain. Once he began to open up to Sheldon, I was very much like “MUST. PROTECT” I also loved how his PTSD was handled with so much sensitivity and care. Those flashbacks were gut wrenching.
3. I loved all the side characters. Sheldon’s twin sister Naomi was iconic, as was her boyfriend Walker. Theo’s parents were so loving and supportive. They just want their son to settle down with a nice guy, live happily ever after and more importantly, give them their long awaited grand babies 😭 And the way they not only embraced Sheldon, but also Naomi when they found out about Sheldon’s horrible parents *cue ugly tears* Principal Kent was also a delight (and I can’t wait to read his book) and Theo’s friends Christian and Anna were amazing. I also related to the storyline with Brodie, because as an educator I’ve had experiences with students who are undeservedly labeled “challenging” and then they get their adorable little hooks into your heart ❤️ Hell, even Sheldon’s ex was cool 😂 Like yeah he cheated (BOOOOO) but in any other romance he would’ve been written as a jerk but he was actually super sweet and genuinely remorseful. Well done, because ya girl is tired of the evil ex trope.
What I didn’t love:
1. The overuse of “baby.” In my opinion, “baby” should be used sparingly.
2. The one time Sheldon refers to Theo as “Shrek” in his head. He never says it aloud but NOPE. DIDN’T LIKE THAT ONE BIT.
3. “That was cumtastic” Jail. Straight to Jail. Do not past go, do not collect 200 dollars. Straight to jail, you go!
Other than that (😂) it was a hilarious, beautiful and uplifting read.
CW: PTSD, Death of a loved one (in flashbacks) Homophobia (in flashbacks)
October 10, 2023
Number 1: I want to tattoo this cover art on my body. It is PHENOMENAL. M.A. Wardell has done it again. I didn't think this series could get any better, but Sheldon and Theo blew it out of the park. I already miss them. 🤧🫶
Mistletoe and Mishigas begins with Sheldon Soleskin, a first-grade teacher, navigating a transfer to a new school. At Lear Elementary, Sheldon meets the custodian, Theo Berenson, as he is setting up his new classroom. Theo is a burly, grouchy man of few words and is more content to listen to Sheldon rattle on and on than to offer up any information about himself.
After Theo unexpectedly begins to help with one of Sheldon's students, Brodie, Sheldon and Theo strike up a tentative friendship. Soon, Theo is offering to be Sheldon's date to his ex's wedding and Sheldon is playing a role of his own: Theo's fake boyfriend to get his marriage-minded Jewish parents off his back. Theo and Sheldon begin to spend time with each other, all in the name of "pretending," but soon find peace with each other, along with intense attraction and desire.
THIS STORY IS SO SPECIAL TO ME. Sheldon and Theo are not your typical MM romance heroes. M.A. Wardell was intentional with the representation he chose, including Theo's bigger body and Sheldon's femmeness, a combination not typically shown in popular MM romances. Sheldon and Theo both have insecurities that they work together to overcome, like Theo's anxiety about losing a partner and Sheldon's lack of familial support.
Minor critiques: some parts of the narrative are repetitive. You will read a lot about Sheldon being a ginger and Theo being obsessed with his dimples but honestly, to me, it was not a big part of the story and not something I minded. I loved how down-bad each character was for the other. :')
TROPES:
- FAKE DATING
- Found family (literally me crying because Theo's family accepts Sheldon and his twin sister as their own :') )
- co-workers
Spice: 3.5/5 🌶️
Rating: 4.5/5
Mistletoe and Mishigas begins with Sheldon Soleskin, a first-grade teacher, navigating a transfer to a new school. At Lear Elementary, Sheldon meets the custodian, Theo Berenson, as he is setting up his new classroom. Theo is a burly, grouchy man of few words and is more content to listen to Sheldon rattle on and on than to offer up any information about himself.
After Theo unexpectedly begins to help with one of Sheldon's students, Brodie, Sheldon and Theo strike up a tentative friendship. Soon, Theo is offering to be Sheldon's date to his ex's wedding and Sheldon is playing a role of his own: Theo's fake boyfriend to get his marriage-minded Jewish parents off his back. Theo and Sheldon begin to spend time with each other, all in the name of "pretending," but soon find peace with each other, along with intense attraction and desire.
THIS STORY IS SO SPECIAL TO ME. Sheldon and Theo are not your typical MM romance heroes. M.A. Wardell was intentional with the representation he chose, including Theo's bigger body and Sheldon's femmeness, a combination not typically shown in popular MM romances. Sheldon and Theo both have insecurities that they work together to overcome, like Theo's anxiety about losing a partner and Sheldon's lack of familial support.
Minor critiques: some parts of the narrative are repetitive. You will read a lot about Sheldon being a ginger and Theo being obsessed with his dimples but honestly, to me, it was not a big part of the story and not something I minded. I loved how down-bad each character was for the other. :')
TROPES:
- FAKE DATING
- Found family (literally me crying because Theo's family accepts Sheldon and his twin sister as their own :') )
- co-workers
Spice: 3.5/5 🌶️
Rating: 4.5/5
November 27, 2023
I loved Teacher of the Year, but I LOVED Mistletoe & Mishigas! M.A. Wardell is on a roll, and I can't wait to read more of his stories.
This book follows Sheldon and Theo as they thrust into each other's lives quite suddenly when Sheldon is transferred to a different school due to low staffing. They soon realize that they can help each other out by pretending to be boyfriends, so Sheldon has a date to attend his exes wedding and Theo can finally get his parents off his back about finding a boyfriend. I thoroughly enjoy the fake dating trope, so this concept really had me excited. After a snowstorm keeps them hauled up together in Theo's apartment, the two realize that they have feelings for each other even though they aren't willing to admit this to themselves in the beginning. They soon realize that they are meant to be together, but not until after a few very spicy encounters that had me blushing. Wardell is SO SO great at writing spicy scenes, and he didn't disappoint.
Wardell has definitely made a name for himself in the MM romance world. He is a treasure! If you haven't read Wardell's work, you need to immediately leave the rock you've been living under and pick up Teacher of the Year and then Mistletoe & Mishigas. You won't regret it!
This book follows Sheldon and Theo as they thrust into each other's lives quite suddenly when Sheldon is transferred to a different school due to low staffing. They soon realize that they can help each other out by pretending to be boyfriends, so Sheldon has a date to attend his exes wedding and Theo can finally get his parents off his back about finding a boyfriend. I thoroughly enjoy the fake dating trope, so this concept really had me excited. After a snowstorm keeps them hauled up together in Theo's apartment, the two realize that they have feelings for each other even though they aren't willing to admit this to themselves in the beginning. They soon realize that they are meant to be together, but not until after a few very spicy encounters that had me blushing. Wardell is SO SO great at writing spicy scenes, and he didn't disappoint.
Wardell has definitely made a name for himself in the MM romance world. He is a treasure! If you haven't read Wardell's work, you need to immediately leave the rock you've been living under and pick up Teacher of the Year and then Mistletoe & Mishigas. You won't regret it!
October 12, 2023
There’s something deeply icky about these books where a reoccurring theme is two people being sexually intimate in an elementary school.
It was really mean in the beginning and Shel was written really inconsistently. Some of the dialogue was just so weird. Like it’d be super formal for absolutely no reason. Neither character ever spoke so formally so why would they narrate like that? It was just weird. So deeply strange
It was really mean in the beginning and Shel was written really inconsistently. Some of the dialogue was just so weird. Like it’d be super formal for absolutely no reason. Neither character ever spoke so formally so why would they narrate like that? It was just weird. So deeply strange
August 7, 2025
You'd have a better time getting me to eat and like onions than making me give a fuck about a man who enlisted and was deployed to Afghanistan to kill people in the name of an imperialist state. There was even a point where he says he only joined the military as a form of rebellion against his parents, like yes! killing innocent people would indeed do the trick!
The writing wasn't even any better.
The writing wasn't even any better.
December 26, 2023
A teacher??? Gay??? Having a romantic life??? Revolutionary!! I loved this sm. It was sweet and genuine and fairly accurate and hot!!! I really hope this series continues because I loved this authors work and I highly recommend because it was a REALLLLLY great Christmas / Hanukkah book!!!
November 14, 2023
4.5 stars! M.A. Wardell has done it again. Remember Teacher of the Year? WELL, Mistletoe and Mishigas is here, and it is just as strong of a book.
What's best about M.A. Wardell's books is that we can expect humor, levity, spice, and emotion. The amount of times I smiled throughout reading this book? Therapeutic. The level of spice? Off the charts. The emotionality? So affecting. Focusing on serious topics like trauma / PTSD was such an important part of the story, and it was incorporated so seamlessly into the writing that all the elements still felt fully balanced. Just like Teacher of the Year did.
Mistletoe and Mishigas gave me absolutely all the feelings, and it is now beyond evident that reading any M.A. Wardell book will undoubtedly be an experience that will leave you laughing, crying, and reflecting on what's important in life.
In Mistletoe and Mishigas, we get diverse representation that we so rarely see -- both femme and plus-sized main characters. And get this -- they're multi-dimensional, well fleshed-out, and lovable too! We get a story that is filled to the brim with queer joy, something that our world is in desperate need of at this moment.
Also -- a note. Some of the reviews I have seen for this book on here? One particularly nasty and self-important one that felt the need to insult femme gay male characters at length? It goes to show exactly why characters like Sheldon and Theo need to exist. There are already enough books written by heterosexual white women who create fetishized MM romances featuring aggressively straight-passing white gay men -- stories that are unrealistic and inauthentic. They have done a disservice to true queer stories by presenting ones that are not genuine. Because now, when a queer character is introduced who strays from that straight-passing "template," ... they're "annoying, too much, excessive, irritating, etc." ... ? That's a problem. If you are not a queer person, your negative critiques on what the actual the experiences of queer people are / are not -- are not valid. They're misinformed, judgmental, and harmful. Do better.
Now! With that out of my system, let me reiterate that Mistletoe and Mishigas was an absolute joyful delight to read, and I am eagerly awaiting Book 3 of the Teachers in Love series. It makes me so happy to see so much love for these books, because that love is completely warranted and earned.
Enormous thank you to M.A. Wardell for being so kind as to send me a copy of this lovely novel. 💙
What's best about M.A. Wardell's books is that we can expect humor, levity, spice, and emotion. The amount of times I smiled throughout reading this book? Therapeutic. The level of spice? Off the charts. The emotionality? So affecting. Focusing on serious topics like trauma / PTSD was such an important part of the story, and it was incorporated so seamlessly into the writing that all the elements still felt fully balanced. Just like Teacher of the Year did.
Mistletoe and Mishigas gave me absolutely all the feelings, and it is now beyond evident that reading any M.A. Wardell book will undoubtedly be an experience that will leave you laughing, crying, and reflecting on what's important in life.
In Mistletoe and Mishigas, we get diverse representation that we so rarely see -- both femme and plus-sized main characters. And get this -- they're multi-dimensional, well fleshed-out, and lovable too! We get a story that is filled to the brim with queer joy, something that our world is in desperate need of at this moment.
Also -- a note. Some of the reviews I have seen for this book on here? One particularly nasty and self-important one that felt the need to insult femme gay male characters at length? It goes to show exactly why characters like Sheldon and Theo need to exist. There are already enough books written by heterosexual white women who create fetishized MM romances featuring aggressively straight-passing white gay men -- stories that are unrealistic and inauthentic. They have done a disservice to true queer stories by presenting ones that are not genuine. Because now, when a queer character is introduced who strays from that straight-passing "template," ... they're "annoying, too much, excessive, irritating, etc." ... ? That's a problem. If you are not a queer person, your negative critiques on what the actual the experiences of queer people are / are not -- are not valid. They're misinformed, judgmental, and harmful. Do better.
Now! With that out of my system, let me reiterate that Mistletoe and Mishigas was an absolute joyful delight to read, and I am eagerly awaiting Book 3 of the Teachers in Love series. It makes me so happy to see so much love for these books, because that love is completely warranted and earned.
Enormous thank you to M.A. Wardell for being so kind as to send me a copy of this lovely novel. 💙
October 11, 2023
M. A. Wardell is quickly becoming an auto-buy, fav author!! I loved this latest fake dating, grumpy/sunshine, dual POV, workplace, interfaith romance between Sheldon, a first grade teacher and Theo, a Jewish school custodian and veteran.
These two characters were so well written! With seemingly nothing in common, the two oddly strike up a deal wherein Theo will be Sheldon's date to his ex's Christmas eve wedding and Sheldon will pretend to be Theo's boyfriend to appease his matchmaking minded Jewish parents.
I loved each of them individually and even more so together!! Sheldon is a ray of sunshine and slowly worms his way into Theo's heart. I loved seeing Theo open up more and find his happiness and I loved how Sheldon was able to be there for Theo when he was going through a combat-related PTSD episode.
Equal parts, sweet, steamy and humorous, this was a delightful queer holiday romance that I couldn't put down. I especially loved the character art at the start of each chapter, that the chapters were short, Theo’s delicious food and that there was no third act break-up!
I voluntarily read and reviewed an early copy of this book and all opinions are my own. Highly recommended for fans of authors like Chip Pons and Alison Cochrun!! I can't wait to read bisexual principal Kent's story next!!!
These two characters were so well written! With seemingly nothing in common, the two oddly strike up a deal wherein Theo will be Sheldon's date to his ex's Christmas eve wedding and Sheldon will pretend to be Theo's boyfriend to appease his matchmaking minded Jewish parents.
I loved each of them individually and even more so together!! Sheldon is a ray of sunshine and slowly worms his way into Theo's heart. I loved seeing Theo open up more and find his happiness and I loved how Sheldon was able to be there for Theo when he was going through a combat-related PTSD episode.
Equal parts, sweet, steamy and humorous, this was a delightful queer holiday romance that I couldn't put down. I especially loved the character art at the start of each chapter, that the chapters were short, Theo’s delicious food and that there was no third act break-up!
I voluntarily read and reviewed an early copy of this book and all opinions are my own. Highly recommended for fans of authors like Chip Pons and Alison Cochrun!! I can't wait to read bisexual principal Kent's story next!!!
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November 16, 2023Well unfortunately I won't be reading any more of this author's books. I felt a bit uncomfy after the discussion I had with him about the term fat in this book and now I'm even more uncomfortable after explaining that some of his posts are aphobic. Got shut down real quick. Not only did he block me but he blocked everyone who liked my comment on his post. This is some really childish behavior. Do better.
I liked teacher of the Year well enough but this one was so much better. I'm afraid that I have sat with my thoughts on this for too long that I have forgotten my thoughts but I ended up actually reaching out to the author about some of my concerns regarding the fat rep and after discussing with him and going back through I feel a little bit better about it. My major concern was that it really felt like Theo had a lot of internalized fat phobia that wasn't necessarily dealt with or discouraged from Sheldon or his best friend. Like the only person that calls Theo fat is himself and his boyfriend and his best friend use alternative terms like stocky or thick and juicy. I think this could have been handled better but I don't actively dislike it or have pressing concerns like I did when I first finished the book.
Moving on, this book deals with Sheldon who is a small femme gay man who ends up switching schools last minute and Theo, the hot fat shy Jewish gay custodian helps him set up the room the begrudgingly. They don't like each other right away but Sheldon is persistent and when they both need a fake boyfriend for different events, they decide to fake date. As all fake dating schemes go they catch some feelings and I really liked their entire journey. I loved Theo's parents and I love Sheldon's sister. I think all of the characters in this were really well done and brought a lot to the table.
The only things really keeping me from giving this five stars are that I would have liked the fat rep to be dealt with a little bit more head-on, but I also think that there needed to be more discussion about Theo's PTSD. It is mentioned and there are panic attacks but there's never any conversation afterward that was thorough enough for me. I'm sure that most people disagree but I would have liked one less sex scene and one more conversation. Or just one more conversation and keep all the sex scenes. Whatever. I also feel like having sex in school closets is going to be a trademark for this author and I feel conflicted about that because that's a public space and it's kind of gross for other people. I'm sure it's whatever for the couple in question but please don't have sex in public places that are not designed for sex okay thanks.
I liked teacher of the Year well enough but this one was so much better. I'm afraid that I have sat with my thoughts on this for too long that I have forgotten my thoughts but I ended up actually reaching out to the author about some of my concerns regarding the fat rep and after discussing with him and going back through I feel a little bit better about it. My major concern was that it really felt like Theo had a lot of internalized fat phobia that wasn't necessarily dealt with or discouraged from Sheldon or his best friend. Like the only person that calls Theo fat is himself and his boyfriend and his best friend use alternative terms like stocky or thick and juicy. I think this could have been handled better but I don't actively dislike it or have pressing concerns like I did when I first finished the book.
Moving on, this book deals with Sheldon who is a small femme gay man who ends up switching schools last minute and Theo, the hot fat shy Jewish gay custodian helps him set up the room the begrudgingly. They don't like each other right away but Sheldon is persistent and when they both need a fake boyfriend for different events, they decide to fake date. As all fake dating schemes go they catch some feelings and I really liked their entire journey. I loved Theo's parents and I love Sheldon's sister. I think all of the characters in this were really well done and brought a lot to the table.
The only things really keeping me from giving this five stars are that I would have liked the fat rep to be dealt with a little bit more head-on, but I also think that there needed to be more discussion about Theo's PTSD. It is mentioned and there are panic attacks but there's never any conversation afterward that was thorough enough for me. I'm sure that most people disagree but I would have liked one less sex scene and one more conversation. Or just one more conversation and keep all the sex scenes. Whatever. I also feel like having sex in school closets is going to be a trademark for this author and I feel conflicted about that because that's a public space and it's kind of gross for other people. I'm sure it's whatever for the couple in question but please don't have sex in public places that are not designed for sex okay thanks.
September 25, 2023
[I received a digital arc for an honest review]
I add “make Theo smile” to my mental to-do list of ways to make the world a better place.
Ya'll I'm going to try my hardest to write one of my structured reviews, but I freaking loved this book . SOoooo many highlights and so much I want to gush about but don't want to end up giving away every part of the story. lol first world problems I know but here we go!
“Theo, you have to stop talking Jewish to me. It gets me all worked up."
Quick overview - A year ago Sheldon was dumped on Christmas, and he now has an invited to his ex's Christmas day wedding. He starts teaching at a new school and ends up asking Theo, the quiet giant custodian, to be his fake date to the wedding. Theo wants a boyfriend to get his mother off his back during Hanukkah so he agrees. The two proceed to have practice dates and practice kissing in order to make their fake relationship believable. Of course, it isn't long before grumpy falls for sunshine and vice verse.
This isn’t practicing. This isn’t fake. This man, in my arms, might be the most real I’ve ever felt. Without words, I try to let him know I’ve got him.
I love love both our MCs! Sheldon is a small, vibrant ray of sunshine. He's not ashamed of who he is, but he struggles with insecurities of being too much for people just because he can talk fours hours and has a ton of energy. I love his relationship with his students and his twin sister, who is the best. I love the way he emotionally supported Theo whenever he was struggling, right from the start. He is a natural caretaker, and Oh how my heart melted from the very first time her called Theo "baby".
“I’m not a bear.” “Theo. You literally growl at people.” “Bears don’t growl. Dogs growl.” “Okay, well, you’re some sort of beast.” “Does that make you Beauty?”
“You know, when you growl like that, it’s kind of hot.” “Noted. Never growl in front of Sheldon.”
Theo Theo Theo, my grumpy giant teddy bear. Theo can do no wrong in my eyes, and I won't hear one negative word spoken about it ! Sooo he may not be very good at communication, but I forgive him. He's quite and grumpy and his PTSD has left him easily overwhelmed by too much noise and chaos. Which makes it ironic that Sheldon whose kind of a bundle of chaos ends up his perfect match. I love his relationship with his parents, his best friend and the bond he forms with one of the students in Sheldon's class. From his insecurities with his appearance to the massive grief he carries over his lost love, everything about Theo hit me in the feels.
All I know is I want this beautiful lug of a man to feel safe. Happy. Loved.
Together , Theo and Sheldon bring use grumpy/sunshine goodness. I loved that Sheldon brings Theo out of his shell but never pushes him too far. They form a friendship quickly, mostly thanks to Sheldon lol but the more time they spend "fake dating" the closer they become. The steam between them is a slow build , they take their time when it comes to intimacy. I loved that Sheldon was always checking in with Theo before notching up the heat between them. But whether Sheldon was stealing kisses under the ever present mistletoe or they were dirtying up the sheets, the steam was perfect for them.
Bringing Theo pleasure, unleashing something inside him, chipping away at his damn wall feels like a drug, and I’m addicted.
Mistletoe & Mishigas by M.A. Wardell is a fantastic MM holiday romance. Along with the grumpy/sunshine, hurt/comfort, and fake relationship trope you'll find a snowed in day, first times, mistletoe kisses, a size difference, all the freckles, steam, getting dirty in the supply closet, Hanukkah traditions, found family, a light festival, delicious cooking, and a happily ever after.
Other Favorite Quotes:
I add “make Theo smile” to my mental to-do list of ways to make the world a better place.
Ya'll I'm going to try my hardest to write one of my structured reviews, but I freaking loved this book . SOoooo many highlights and so much I want to gush about but don't want to end up giving away every part of the story. lol first world problems I know but here we go!
“Theo, you have to stop talking Jewish to me. It gets me all worked up."
Quick overview - A year ago Sheldon was dumped on Christmas, and he now has an invited to his ex's Christmas day wedding. He starts teaching at a new school and ends up asking Theo, the quiet giant custodian, to be his fake date to the wedding. Theo wants a boyfriend to get his mother off his back during Hanukkah so he agrees. The two proceed to have practice dates and practice kissing in order to make their fake relationship believable. Of course, it isn't long before grumpy falls for sunshine and vice verse.
This isn’t practicing. This isn’t fake. This man, in my arms, might be the most real I’ve ever felt. Without words, I try to let him know I’ve got him.
I love love both our MCs! Sheldon is a small, vibrant ray of sunshine. He's not ashamed of who he is, but he struggles with insecurities of being too much for people just because he can talk fours hours and has a ton of energy. I love his relationship with his students and his twin sister, who is the best. I love the way he emotionally supported Theo whenever he was struggling, right from the start. He is a natural caretaker, and Oh how my heart melted from the very first time her called Theo "baby".
“I’m not a bear.” “Theo. You literally growl at people.” “Bears don’t growl. Dogs growl.” “Okay, well, you’re some sort of beast.” “Does that make you Beauty?”
“You know, when you growl like that, it’s kind of hot.” “Noted. Never growl in front of Sheldon.”
Theo Theo Theo, my grumpy giant teddy bear. Theo can do no wrong in my eyes, and I won't hear one negative word spoken about it ! Sooo he may not be very good at communication, but I forgive him. He's quite and grumpy and his PTSD has left him easily overwhelmed by too much noise and chaos. Which makes it ironic that Sheldon whose kind of a bundle of chaos ends up his perfect match. I love his relationship with his parents, his best friend and the bond he forms with one of the students in Sheldon's class. From his insecurities with his appearance to the massive grief he carries over his lost love, everything about Theo hit me in the feels.
All I know is I want this beautiful lug of a man to feel safe. Happy. Loved.
Together , Theo and Sheldon bring use grumpy/sunshine goodness. I loved that Sheldon brings Theo out of his shell but never pushes him too far. They form a friendship quickly, mostly thanks to Sheldon lol but the more time they spend "fake dating" the closer they become. The steam between them is a slow build , they take their time when it comes to intimacy. I loved that Sheldon was always checking in with Theo before notching up the heat between them. But whether Sheldon was stealing kisses under the ever present mistletoe or they were dirtying up the sheets, the steam was perfect for them.
Bringing Theo pleasure, unleashing something inside him, chipping away at his damn wall feels like a drug, and I’m addicted.
Mistletoe & Mishigas by M.A. Wardell is a fantastic MM holiday romance. Along with the grumpy/sunshine, hurt/comfort, and fake relationship trope you'll find a snowed in day, first times, mistletoe kisses, a size difference, all the freckles, steam, getting dirty in the supply closet, Hanukkah traditions, found family, a light festival, delicious cooking, and a happily ever after.
Other Favorite Quotes:
April 13, 2025
This story was very well written, and I genuinely liked both of the MCs. Unfortunately, the story itself - the actual romance - didn't work for me. There wasn't enough build-up to their relationship, so it kind of felt like Sheldon just all of a sudden had feelings for Theo. Theo was instantly attracted to Sheldon the first time he saw him, so the story from his POV felt a little more believable, but even so, it didn't make up for what felt like a forced, or rushed, situation. 2 stars 😔
Oh, and I really REALLY hated the nickname "Booster." 😒
Oh, and I really REALLY hated the nickname "Booster." 😒
November 29, 2025
I loved Theo and Sheldon’s story! The razor sharp with banter I have come to expect from MA Wardell- but more than that- books about teachers should have kid minor characters. This is such an authentic story and I cried tears of recognition at so much amazing representation.
🦞larger bodied MC
🦞PTSD veteran war wounded
🦞Did I mention teachers?
🦞Being closeted in youth
🦞Gay community in smaller town
🦞fake dating
🦞fraternal twin
🦞blue collar job (custodian)
🦞picture perfect Jewish mom
I love this series. I think this is my favorite one.
🦞larger bodied MC
🦞PTSD veteran war wounded
🦞Did I mention teachers?
🦞Being closeted in youth
🦞Gay community in smaller town
🦞fake dating
🦞fraternal twin
🦞blue collar job (custodian)
🦞picture perfect Jewish mom
I love this series. I think this is my favorite one.
December 15, 2023
I’m ABSOLUTELY LOVING this series, and this one made me smile so much!! The bond between Sheldon and Theo is just heartwarming! I have to say, M.A. Wardell writes the BEST QUEER ROM-COMS ever and is quickly becoming my favorite queer author! MISTLETOE & MISHIGAS is a modern BEAUTY AND THE BEAST gay retelling that has the charm and spice you need this holiday season! The story follows Sheldon Soleskin transferring to a new school before the holidays, confronting beastly custodian, Theo Berenson. Theo just wants to be left alone to his duties, but Sheldon’s beauty kicks hard on him. To make things worse, Theo’s parents are coming for Hanukah in a few weeks, and told them he has a boyfriend. Except he doesn’t. Working together, they both might be able to help each other out, agreeing to be each other’s dates, they become something more as friends and learn from their pasts as they tried to make their holidays their best together. A grumpy/sunshine and fake dating trope at its best in this hilarious holiday rom com! A must to read for the season!
May 8, 2023
Poignant. Nuanced. Deeply emotional. Sharply witty. Wardell has woven a tapestry of humor, healing, and love that comes together in a beautiful way that left me devouring the words and hungry for more while still deeply satisfied in what can only be described as a story that explores the way two people, in all their perfection imperfection, can complement one another in ways that transcend the basic "love conquers all" concept found in romance novels. This story has the spicy sweet flavor of his debut, with a deeper and more delicate hand that speaks to his absolute skill as a craftsman of stories that will fill your heart with joy. I am in awe of this author and can't wait for even more.
October 14, 2023
2.5/5
Okay, let's talk about this... it wasn't bad, but it wasn't that good either and I'm honestly sorry to say this because I was so anticipating this book. I was on board with the idea of the fake dating trope but I think it lasted about two minutes before Sheldon and Theo realized they actually have feelings for each other. It felt like there really was no build up to the relationship, it all happened quite quickly and even though it was cute and entertaining to read there never really was a moment where there was some kind of conflict or something, they were together and that was it really.
However I did appreciate some themes that this book included, such as Theo's PTSD and how it was portrayed on page, I believe it was told in a respectful and also realistic way.
I think the first book in this companion series, Teacher of the Year, was better structured overall and that's why I liked it way better and also why my expectations for this second book were pretty high. Even though this second book wasn't exactly what I was looking for, I have to say that it still entertained me and had its sweet moments.
In all honesty, I'm not really interested in the couple from the third book but I might still read it just to get to book four.
Okay, let's talk about this... it wasn't bad, but it wasn't that good either and I'm honestly sorry to say this because I was so anticipating this book. I was on board with the idea of the fake dating trope but I think it lasted about two minutes before Sheldon and Theo realized they actually have feelings for each other. It felt like there really was no build up to the relationship, it all happened quite quickly and even though it was cute and entertaining to read there never really was a moment where there was some kind of conflict or something, they were together and that was it really.
However I did appreciate some themes that this book included, such as Theo's PTSD and how it was portrayed on page, I believe it was told in a respectful and also realistic way.
I think the first book in this companion series, Teacher of the Year, was better structured overall and that's why I liked it way better and also why my expectations for this second book were pretty high. Even though this second book wasn't exactly what I was looking for, I have to say that it still entertained me and had its sweet moments.
In all honesty, I'm not really interested in the couple from the third book but I might still read it just to get to book four.
April 22, 2025
Tropes:
~fake dating
~grumpy x sunshine
~slow burn
~workplace romance
~holiday romance
~cinnamon roll hero
~size difference
~virgin hero
~mental health rep (PTSD)
~Jewish hero
While I didn't love this one quite as much as the first book in the series, I still had a fantastic time! Wardell is quickly becoming an author whose backlist I want to read all of and I'm also anticipating his new releases for this year! There's just something so real and relatable about his characters, and these two were no exception!
If this book was Taylor Swift lyrics:
Under the mistletoe
Watching the fire glow
And telling me, "I love you"
~fake dating
~grumpy x sunshine
~slow burn
~workplace romance
~holiday romance
~cinnamon roll hero
~size difference
~virgin hero
~mental health rep (PTSD)
~Jewish hero
While I didn't love this one quite as much as the first book in the series, I still had a fantastic time! Wardell is quickly becoming an author whose backlist I want to read all of and I'm also anticipating his new releases for this year! There's just something so real and relatable about his characters, and these two were no exception!
If this book was Taylor Swift lyrics:
Under the mistletoe
Watching the fire glow
And telling me, "I love you"
November 20, 2024
4.5 stars
September 24, 2025
4.5 Stars
Gah. I just loved this book. I really enjoyed Teacher of the Year, but this one was just wonderful!!!
I just want to give Sheldon and Theo a big hug, make Hanukkah crafts, listen to Theo’s parents chat and pet Janice.
Gah. I just loved this book. I really enjoyed Teacher of the Year, but this one was just wonderful!!!
I just want to give Sheldon and Theo a big hug, make Hanukkah crafts, listen to Theo’s parents chat and pet Janice.
June 27, 2023
I mean it when I say you need to preorder this book.
I had the absolute pleasure of reading Mistletoe and Mishigas early and it's something you're not going to want to miss. I don't want to say too much because I am good at accidentally revealing things and I really think everyone should read this book without spoilers.
Theo and Sheldon are one of my all time favorite couples. The chemistry is undeniable, and seeing Theo -- a fat man -- being worthy of love and being this incredible dynamic character, had me weeping happy tears. This is the kind of representation that we need: thoughtfully done, and rep that does justice to the community it's representing.
Sheldon is just as incredible. He's unabashedly himself, which means painting his nails incredible colors, referencing drag race as often as I do (if not more!), and confidently lives his life as he wishes. He's also dynamic character -- one that I fell in love with IMMEDIATELY from his first pov chapter.
AND THEO'S PARENTS. I won't say too much, but they remind me of my favorite Jewish families and even my mom. Every moment spent with them on the page was a spark of light and pure Hanukkah joy.
M&M is incredible, Matt is one of the best authors working in romance right now, you want to read this book, trust me.
I had the absolute pleasure of reading Mistletoe and Mishigas early and it's something you're not going to want to miss. I don't want to say too much because I am good at accidentally revealing things and I really think everyone should read this book without spoilers.
Theo and Sheldon are one of my all time favorite couples. The chemistry is undeniable, and seeing Theo -- a fat man -- being worthy of love and being this incredible dynamic character, had me weeping happy tears. This is the kind of representation that we need: thoughtfully done, and rep that does justice to the community it's representing.
Sheldon is just as incredible. He's unabashedly himself, which means painting his nails incredible colors, referencing drag race as often as I do (if not more!), and confidently lives his life as he wishes. He's also dynamic character -- one that I fell in love with IMMEDIATELY from his first pov chapter.
AND THEO'S PARENTS. I won't say too much, but they remind me of my favorite Jewish families and even my mom. Every moment spent with them on the page was a spark of light and pure Hanukkah joy.
M&M is incredible, Matt is one of the best authors working in romance right now, you want to read this book, trust me.
October 16, 2023
DNF at around 50% unfortunately.
I *hate* leaving negative reviews. In fact I rarely leave reviews at all, but I feel like this warrants one. I wanted to love this book, and I was looking forward to reading it. Steamy, funny, MLM romance about a first grade teacher and a school janitor, with body diversity and Jewish rep? I was like yes, sign me up!
I didn’t expect to feel how I feel about it now — and not in a good way.
Wow, I ended up cringing so hard at a lot of scenes. Especially the sex scenes, which are filled with cringe dialogue, awkward writing, and too much unnecessary description that honestly is very unsexy and even borders on gross at times. The timing of said sex scenes is also weird (having their first sexual encounter in the middle of the night just after Theo’s PTSD episode just felt so off to me?? Like sorry, how did we get here???)
The POV characters are inconsistently written, and they both annoyed me yet also felt stiff and wooden at the same time. I couldn’t connect with either of them (despite emotional hooks that should’ve allowed me to). A lot of dialogue feels forced and weird, which was off-putting. Theo also seems annoyed by Sheldon constantly and I don’t really understand why these characters are attracted to each other beyond physical attraction, so I wasn’t sold on the romance at all. It feels very surface-level.
I skipped ahead a bit further to see if I could make it to the end, but I couldn’t bring myself to finish this book, despite it being 270ish pages. It just did not land for me — there may be others who will love it, but in good faith, I could not recommend reading it.
I *hate* leaving negative reviews. In fact I rarely leave reviews at all, but I feel like this warrants one. I wanted to love this book, and I was looking forward to reading it. Steamy, funny, MLM romance about a first grade teacher and a school janitor, with body diversity and Jewish rep? I was like yes, sign me up!
I didn’t expect to feel how I feel about it now — and not in a good way.
Wow, I ended up cringing so hard at a lot of scenes. Especially the sex scenes, which are filled with cringe dialogue, awkward writing, and too much unnecessary description that honestly is very unsexy and even borders on gross at times. The timing of said sex scenes is also weird (having their first sexual encounter in the middle of the night just after Theo’s PTSD episode just felt so off to me?? Like sorry, how did we get here???)
The POV characters are inconsistently written, and they both annoyed me yet also felt stiff and wooden at the same time. I couldn’t connect with either of them (despite emotional hooks that should’ve allowed me to). A lot of dialogue feels forced and weird, which was off-putting. Theo also seems annoyed by Sheldon constantly and I don’t really understand why these characters are attracted to each other beyond physical attraction, so I wasn’t sold on the romance at all. It feels very surface-level.
I skipped ahead a bit further to see if I could make it to the end, but I couldn’t bring myself to finish this book, despite it being 270ish pages. It just did not land for me — there may be others who will love it, but in good faith, I could not recommend reading it.
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