The setting: I’m 10 years old in the village with my cousins. Its where we’re forcefully shipped off by our parents over the school holidays to get away from the city and keep us from mischief. They’ll never admit this though, they claim it’s because they want us to spend some time with our grandparents. But, we get to run around, help with picking coffee, climb trees and be wild with no parent supervision and so we don’t complain.
It’s night time and we’re all sitting by the fire trying to keep warm. Most times after we’ve had dinner, grandma will tell us tales of ogres, of the old days, of the cunning hare and the greedy hyena. Every lesson passed down in folk tale form. This is the setting this book transported me to.
As an ode to his mother, Mema, is the reflection of a boy growing up in a village in Gabon and his mother – strong, loud mouthed, brutal – and her unwillingness to bend to societal pressures. Mema is a woman of her own ilk. She refuses to be subjugated by the dictates of society on the position of women. In her household, she does not cower from making decisions and fighting with her husband in public to the villagers’ dismay. And it is because of this, her apparent barrenness and her inability to keep her mouth shut that she is disliked. She boldly attends the village’s Medza and speaks out, going against traditions and expectations. When tragedy befalls her family, she is ostracized but even this does not silence her.
Borrowing from oral tradition and filled with folklores and stories within stories to pass on messages and lessons as was traditional done in African societies, this 122 paged book is deceivingly small but it’s magic lies in its simplicity. I loved that it is an inward looking story and despite mention of colonisation and its effects in post-colonial African societies, this was not the focus of the book. Western influences were kept at a minimum. The literary devices were also very African. It’s been a while since I have read a book that I have felt was authentically African in themes, style, narrative and focus which was such a refreshing change.
Highly recommend.