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Magnetic Femininity: Unlock Your Feminine Majesty And Heal Your Life
Your feminine majesty has the power to heal almost everything in your entire life––and this book will teach you how. When you heal your feminine energy, everything else in your life falls into place.
In this book you will
The secrets of masculine-feminine polarityThe feminine superpower that once you master can help you shift everything in your lifeHow to make the men in your life happy to help you instead of irritated at your needsHow to experience your true self-worth (believe me, you are WAY more important than you realize)Secrets to navigating feminine energy in the workplaceHow to use your feminine energy to heal anxiety and depressionThe way male and female brains work differently and how you can use that knowledge to shift your dating life and marriageSerious thoughts on navigating neurodivergence in marriage and motherhoodHow to draw good things to yourself by activating your innate femininityAnd A LOT MOREI have spent the past 10 years of my life devoted to the study of masculine-feminine polarity, and this is the book I wish I had had right at the beginning.
The secrets in this book will allow you to understand the entire world in a whole new way––and give you the practical, actionable tools you need to heal yourself, your marriage, your dating relationships, and actually all of your relationships, if we're going to be honest about it. Prepare to heal your friendships and your relationships with your kids and your coworkers too.
As you work through this book, you will learn exactly how to connect with your own feminine superpowers and your innate feminine worth to shift everything in your life for the better. Experience the shift for yourself.
In this book you will
The secrets of masculine-feminine polarityThe feminine superpower that once you master can help you shift everything in your lifeHow to make the men in your life happy to help you instead of irritated at your needsHow to experience your true self-worth (believe me, you are WAY more important than you realize)Secrets to navigating feminine energy in the workplaceHow to use your feminine energy to heal anxiety and depressionThe way male and female brains work differently and how you can use that knowledge to shift your dating life and marriageSerious thoughts on navigating neurodivergence in marriage and motherhoodHow to draw good things to yourself by activating your innate femininityAnd A LOT MOREI have spent the past 10 years of my life devoted to the study of masculine-feminine polarity, and this is the book I wish I had had right at the beginning.
The secrets in this book will allow you to understand the entire world in a whole new way––and give you the practical, actionable tools you need to heal yourself, your marriage, your dating relationships, and actually all of your relationships, if we're going to be honest about it. Prepare to heal your friendships and your relationships with your kids and your coworkers too.
As you work through this book, you will learn exactly how to connect with your own feminine superpowers and your innate feminine worth to shift everything in your life for the better. Experience the shift for yourself.
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435 pages, Kindle Edition
Published November 9, 2023
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January 30, 2026
This is definitely a “take what works leave the rest” type of book. There was a lot I didn’t agree with. Some things seemed oversimplified. Had some interesting perspectives and got me thinking about things differently than I usually do.
December 14, 2024
This book is absolutely amazing. I've found a lot of women trying to teach femininity are, in actuality, quite masculine. Allie is so open and transparent about her feelings in regard to femininity and how they haven't always been positive. It's those feelings that make her approach to teaching so feminine! We don't have to love and embrace everything all at once. It's ok to struggle with femininity in a world largely unsupportive of it. This book offers so many actionable steps towards embodying our femininity. So so helpful to me. Now that I'm done reading, I'm starting it over to make sure it ALL sinks in.
November 16, 2023
This book will forever change your perspective on the masculine and feminine. It will not only help so many in their relationships but it will allow women to heal and become their most divinely authentic selves. I have loved all of Allie Duzett’s books but this is her best work yet!
January 9, 2025
I’m a woman in a happy, egalitarian relationship with my husband. I picked up this book because I wanted to learn more about the concept of feminine/masculine energy polarities. However, I found myself disagreeing with about 80% of it.
The author claims that women’s depression and anxiety stem from an imbalance of feminine and masculine forces in the world—essentially arguing that women are suffering because they’re operating from a “masculine space.” According to her, this happens when women work too much (out of the house, of course) or manage their own lives, which she believes should be the role of men as “providers.”
This explanation feels overly simplistic to me. Mental health is far more complex, shaped by a variety of factors, as numerous studies have shown. And speaking of studies, the book is notably lacking in them. Many of the author’s bold claims are supported only by her clients’ experiences or her own opinions. While I understand this is a coach’s perspective, I was hoping for something more substantial—statistics, research, or even credible references to back her assertions.
For example, in some chapters, she bases her arguments on anecdotes from social media. One instance involves a video of a female police officer being mistreated by a male offender, which she uses to argue that women are inherently weaker than men. If you want readers to take your ideas seriously, grounding them in something seen on TikTok or YouTube isn’t the way to go.
Also, there are more than 60 references to God in the book. It's basically a religious perspective of what female energy entails (based on the presumption of a MASCULINE God, of course). If you are coming from an atheist or any other non-christian path, you will be surely asking yourself how the heck this person says all this stuff with so much assurance. She claims she studied the topic for more than 10 years. It makes me wonder how exactly.
Her perspective on women and careers was another area where I couldn’t agree. Most women I know are thriving in their careers and enjoying equal partnerships where both partners share responsibilities, including raising children. The author, however, views professional ambition as “masculine” and suggests it disrupts the balance in relationships because it puts women in a “masculine space.” Yet she frequently mentions her own career accomplishments, such as the number of books she’s written and the thousands of clients she’s had. To me, this sounds like a woman proudly celebrating her “masculine” work achievements—which is perfectly fine—but it contradicts her own logic.
At one point, she even claims that, in her opinion, women’s money shouldn’t go toward household bills because that’s a man’s responsibility!!!!!!!!!!! "With my own money, I buy clothing and other items", she says.
I live in a country with one of the lowest minimum wages in Europe, where many young people—regardless of gender—can’t afford to move out of their parents’ homes. Advice like this feels completely detached from reality. It conjures a mental image of a privileged white middle-class woman happily shopping for yoga pants online, preaching that working too much is 'masculine,' while her high-earning husband covers all the bills. The world is much bigger and more complex than the bubble this advice seems to come from.
The author also argues that men aren’t “programmed” to communicate from a feeling-based space because their role is to lead and be strong, relying on their “sense and logic” to make decisions for the couple. This outdated perspective reminded me of the “real men don’t cry” mindset from older generations. I discussed this with my husband and male friends, and we all agreed that it’s not just inaccurate—it’s harmful. Vulnerability and open communication benefit everyone, regardless of gender. In my experience, every time my husband has opened up to me, our relationship has grown stronger. On the other hand, my grandfather, who followed these “tough man” ideals, spent much of his life battling depression because he never opened up about his feelings. Men, like women, are human beings who need to express emotions, cry when necessary, and talk about their feelings. It doesn’t make them any less masculine.
That said, there were a few parts of the book I appreciated. The author raises valid points about the challenges women face in modern workplaces and emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, trusting your intuition, and fostering a healthy dynamic in relationships. Her journaling prompts and self-reflection exercises are genuinely helpful and easy to implement. I just wish the book had focused more on these practical and empowering aspects instead of making women feel “wrong” for pursuing careers or paying bills (or dressing in a not-feminine way, as she mentions in one of the last chapters).
Overall, I wouldn’t recommend this book to a friend. For a better alternative, I recommend "Goddesses in Everywoman" by Jungian analyst Jean Shinoda Bolen—a thoroughly researched and insightful book about the female experience through archetypes. As for this book, take what resonates and leave the rest.
The author claims that women’s depression and anxiety stem from an imbalance of feminine and masculine forces in the world—essentially arguing that women are suffering because they’re operating from a “masculine space.” According to her, this happens when women work too much (out of the house, of course) or manage their own lives, which she believes should be the role of men as “providers.”
This explanation feels overly simplistic to me. Mental health is far more complex, shaped by a variety of factors, as numerous studies have shown. And speaking of studies, the book is notably lacking in them. Many of the author’s bold claims are supported only by her clients’ experiences or her own opinions. While I understand this is a coach’s perspective, I was hoping for something more substantial—statistics, research, or even credible references to back her assertions.
For example, in some chapters, she bases her arguments on anecdotes from social media. One instance involves a video of a female police officer being mistreated by a male offender, which she uses to argue that women are inherently weaker than men. If you want readers to take your ideas seriously, grounding them in something seen on TikTok or YouTube isn’t the way to go.
Also, there are more than 60 references to God in the book. It's basically a religious perspective of what female energy entails (based on the presumption of a MASCULINE God, of course). If you are coming from an atheist or any other non-christian path, you will be surely asking yourself how the heck this person says all this stuff with so much assurance. She claims she studied the topic for more than 10 years. It makes me wonder how exactly.
Her perspective on women and careers was another area where I couldn’t agree. Most women I know are thriving in their careers and enjoying equal partnerships where both partners share responsibilities, including raising children. The author, however, views professional ambition as “masculine” and suggests it disrupts the balance in relationships because it puts women in a “masculine space.” Yet she frequently mentions her own career accomplishments, such as the number of books she’s written and the thousands of clients she’s had. To me, this sounds like a woman proudly celebrating her “masculine” work achievements—which is perfectly fine—but it contradicts her own logic.
At one point, she even claims that, in her opinion, women’s money shouldn’t go toward household bills because that’s a man’s responsibility!!!!!!!!!!! "With my own money, I buy clothing and other items", she says.
I live in a country with one of the lowest minimum wages in Europe, where many young people—regardless of gender—can’t afford to move out of their parents’ homes. Advice like this feels completely detached from reality. It conjures a mental image of a privileged white middle-class woman happily shopping for yoga pants online, preaching that working too much is 'masculine,' while her high-earning husband covers all the bills. The world is much bigger and more complex than the bubble this advice seems to come from.
The author also argues that men aren’t “programmed” to communicate from a feeling-based space because their role is to lead and be strong, relying on their “sense and logic” to make decisions for the couple. This outdated perspective reminded me of the “real men don’t cry” mindset from older generations. I discussed this with my husband and male friends, and we all agreed that it’s not just inaccurate—it’s harmful. Vulnerability and open communication benefit everyone, regardless of gender. In my experience, every time my husband has opened up to me, our relationship has grown stronger. On the other hand, my grandfather, who followed these “tough man” ideals, spent much of his life battling depression because he never opened up about his feelings. Men, like women, are human beings who need to express emotions, cry when necessary, and talk about their feelings. It doesn’t make them any less masculine.
That said, there were a few parts of the book I appreciated. The author raises valid points about the challenges women face in modern workplaces and emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, trusting your intuition, and fostering a healthy dynamic in relationships. Her journaling prompts and self-reflection exercises are genuinely helpful and easy to implement. I just wish the book had focused more on these practical and empowering aspects instead of making women feel “wrong” for pursuing careers or paying bills (or dressing in a not-feminine way, as she mentions in one of the last chapters).
Overall, I wouldn’t recommend this book to a friend. For a better alternative, I recommend "Goddesses in Everywoman" by Jungian analyst Jean Shinoda Bolen—a thoroughly researched and insightful book about the female experience through archetypes. As for this book, take what resonates and leave the rest.
July 15, 2025
This is a fascinating topic to learn about. I liked how extensive Duzett was in talking about feminity in different life experiences. I admit, at first I thought it was a little kooky, but as I kept on reading the logic and examples made sense. I even tried feeling my feelings and asking for help with them in the form of prayer and found it helpful. I still have work to do in embracing feminity.
I give this a 4 mainly because the author mentions research, but does not cite her sources in some cases which would add to the creditability of her book. I like that she gives a caveat that not everything in this book will resonate with us. I definitely found some things that made me bristle. I did like her suggestions, additional resources, and realistic application though. Some books are full of advice, but don't tell you how to apply them. This is not that kind of book.
So what is feminity? In summation, feminity is when a woman operates from a feminine energy which is harnessed when she takes care of herself, feels her emotions, expresses her feelings vulnerably to the men in her life (or God if there's no man), and shows up as herself. Feminine energy is knowing that you deserve love right now as you are. There's no need to judge or compare to others. It's enjoying life as it is. It is emotionally responsible. The feminine role is to respond, relax, and receive. It is kind, compassionate, and honest.
I give this a 4 mainly because the author mentions research, but does not cite her sources in some cases which would add to the creditability of her book. I like that she gives a caveat that not everything in this book will resonate with us. I definitely found some things that made me bristle. I did like her suggestions, additional resources, and realistic application though. Some books are full of advice, but don't tell you how to apply them. This is not that kind of book.
So what is feminity? In summation, feminity is when a woman operates from a feminine energy which is harnessed when she takes care of herself, feels her emotions, expresses her feelings vulnerably to the men in her life (or God if there's no man), and shows up as herself. Feminine energy is knowing that you deserve love right now as you are. There's no need to judge or compare to others. It's enjoying life as it is. It is emotionally responsible. The feminine role is to respond, relax, and receive. It is kind, compassionate, and honest.
January 22, 2025
Allie has created an insightful, eye-opening guide for women looking to embrace their true power by understanding the biological programming of both men and women. I love how Allie dives deep into masculine-feminine polarity and shows how we, as women, can create more of what we want in life by aligning with our natural biology. The way she challenges the current belief in patriarchy while shedding light on the real implications of the matriarchy we’re actually living in is refreshing and thought-provoking.
This book doesn’t just focus on relationships—it offers powerful insights into mothering, creating more fulfilling partnerships, and manifesting the life we desire. Allie masterfully weaves in personal stories, both her own and from other women, demonstrating how embracing magnetic femininity can transform every area of life. It’s a beautifully written, empowering read that will leave you feeling inspired and equipped to live a more magnetic, aligned life. Highly recommend!
This book doesn’t just focus on relationships—it offers powerful insights into mothering, creating more fulfilling partnerships, and manifesting the life we desire. Allie masterfully weaves in personal stories, both her own and from other women, demonstrating how embracing magnetic femininity can transform every area of life. It’s a beautifully written, empowering read that will leave you feeling inspired and equipped to live a more magnetic, aligned life. Highly recommend!
November 27, 2025
I listened to a podcast episode that featured this author and LOVED it. I had high hopes going into this book and was absolutely disgusted. The author argues that to stay in your feminine energy, you can’t ever directly express what’s wrong to your spouse—only how it makes you feel. However, she then immediately turns around and says that husbands should never share how they feel at risk of “stressing out the female body”. I was horrified at the mind games and blatant double standards.
The tone of the book sounds like she typed it out on her computer and sent it off to publishing with zero editing. It’s juvenile at best and lacks any depth or evidence to back up what she’s arguing.
The tone of the book sounds like she typed it out on her computer and sent it off to publishing with zero editing. It’s juvenile at best and lacks any depth or evidence to back up what she’s arguing.
November 24, 2025
I really enjoyed this book. There is some airy-fairy stuff, some religious references which don't mean much to me, but it didn't matter because I absolutely loved her approach - rational, compassionate and very sincere. The ideas in this book are solid, and are already helping me so much in my relationship and even with other relationships in my life, such as with my stepchildren. Thank you Allie Duzett for writing this book. My husband thanks you too. ;-)
February 23, 2025
Lean on men and expect them to take care of you even if you are single. What world is she from? This book will keep women in domestic abuse situations because it is her fault for not embracing her femininity, and she claims all men want to take care of women. I know many men who won't even date anymore because of this type of attitude they think all women have.
December 10, 2025
Empowering, changed my life and my own personal circumstances. My only struggle with it was that it is a risky read for women who are caught in relationships with abusive men. They might read this and assume that if they just changed as the book suggests, their abuser will change, and that’s just not the case. I wish there was more about encouraging women to leave if the man is abusive.
January 14, 2025
Beautiful
After reading tons of books on femininity, I think this one is the one that I've loved the most and found most helpful. I love the author's tone (felt like a close, warm, wise friend), her stories and insights, the journaling prompts and tapping exercises.
After reading tons of books on femininity, I think this one is the one that I've loved the most and found most helpful. I love the author's tone (felt like a close, warm, wise friend), her stories and insights, the journaling prompts and tapping exercises.
March 31, 2025
Wow! I needed to listen to this one. It was amazing and I chose to buy the book, too, so that I can refer to it and do the work needed.
I wish everyone could read this. It’s so inspiring and makes so much sense
I wish everyone could read this. It’s so inspiring and makes so much sense
January 14, 2026
This book has some extreme takes that i definitely didn’t agree with BUT it’s 100% worth the read to learn about the little golden nuggets that speak to you. It’s helped me so much with dating and in my relationships. Highly recommend it to every women.
March 11, 2024
The information in this book is very valuable for women looking for more male/female polarity in their relationships. I learned a lot and I’m trying to implement a lot of the ideas in my life.
June 12, 2024
So interesting and thought provoking.
August 17, 2024
This book changed me. I will reread it and reread it. It healed parts of me that have been hurting for years. Some parts are hard and triggering, but working through those big feelings freed me ❤️
October 27, 2024
Some good info. Kind of repetitive.
December 18, 2024
The results are immediate when these ideas are applied. I'm blown away by how spot-on Allie is in everything she says in this book.
July 22, 2025
The book had some nice moments and nuggets of wisdom, when Allie wasn't promoting her other teachings by name-dropping them in every other paragraph. I appreciated her perspective on the importance of femininity and how it can show resilience, beauty and strength - not weakness. As women begin to navigate the many stages of life with varying roles and responsibilities, it's refreshing to see books and teachings to help offer a balm for the journey. And, being a woman, I understand how much we can crave the wisdom and insight to help nurture and improve our relatability with our partners, friends and even ourselves.
I do think the title could have been more realistic to the book's content, given that 80% of the book spoke to women with husbands & children and viewed femininity through this lens; even proselytizing the perceived necessity for women to become mothers. If I were single, and not looking to wed or have children, but wanted to learn about femininity, I would not read this book. There are lots of authors who embrace singleness and womanhood that would be more applicable.
I do think the title could have been more realistic to the book's content, given that 80% of the book spoke to women with husbands & children and viewed femininity through this lens; even proselytizing the perceived necessity for women to become mothers. If I were single, and not looking to wed or have children, but wanted to learn about femininity, I would not read this book. There are lots of authors who embrace singleness and womanhood that would be more applicable.
November 25, 2025
I need to listen to this again and again to help it sink in.
Even better the second time. How did I miss some things? Paradigm changing.
Even better the second time. How did I miss some things? Paradigm changing.
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