As mothers we all ask ourselves at times if we are good enough, are we doing the right thing, could I have done it another way and so on, But for most of us, we have supportive families, friends who can and do help us get through the tough times. Single mothers have it worse than those that have a spouse, partner or whatever, that they can bounce things off of. In this case, seventeen-year-old. pregnant Jess moves in with her boyfriend, because she is estranged from her father. As time goes on, he beats and belittles her, now pregnant with her second child, she receives a severe beating and taking her older daughter, she goes to a shelter. There they give her some help, emotionally, physically and financially. They help her get some child support from her ex through the courts, helps her get a flat and with monthly stipend from the council, she is on her own.
t Jess' dad with whom she has been estranged for five years his fund on thoe floor with lots of blood and he is not responding, so a neighbor called her and although they were not on speaking terms, she quickly asked her neighbors to watch her kids and hurried to his side. When she arrived, the paramedics had him awake, said he smelled of alcohol and his knee hurt, but they were taking him to the hospital and jess went with him in the ambulance. Checked out, because of the head injury, he had to have someone 24/7 for the next day. The neighbors agreed to keep the kids overnight, and she had her dad worked on being together after not even speaking since she left home at 17. Slowly, some apologizes were made on both sides and a tentative truce was called and when it came time to leave, he thanked her and said he wanted to see her and the kids. The next week she visited alone and when that went well, she agreed to bring the kids the following week.
After that , he becomes the dad she has needed and is a wonderful granddad. Love abounds in Jess' home, she laughs, dances, sings and reads with her kids. she might raise her voice too often or let them watch too much TV or let them come to her bed for cuddle time or when they are scared or let her little boy continue to use a pacifier when he naps or sleeps Jess is not only a "good-enough" mother for these two lucky little ones, she has had to learn how to do all of these things alone and has done a terrific job with a full time job, arrangements for her children at all times. is still a work in progress,as we all are, but in my opinion she in PERFECT,