In Keep Living: A Journey to Self-Love, Loreal offers a raw & inspiring glimpse into her personal journey of overcoming hardship, loss, & self-doubt. The memoir chronicles her transformative experience of navigating seven years of marriage, infertility struggles, & the challenges of starting over after discovering her husband's secret.
What makes this book stand out is its honest reflection on the complexities of life & the strength required to face them head-on. Loreal doesn’t ask for sympathy—she instead encourages readers to take ownership of their futures, no matter the weight of their past. Her grandmother's simple yet powerful advice, "keep living," becomes a central theme throughout the narrative, acting as both a mantra for the author & a source of inspiration for readers.
The memoir explores deeply personal topics such as love, loneliness, loss, mental health, infertility, & insecurities. What’s most compelling is Loreal’s ability to navigate these intense emotional landscapes without losing sight of her ultimate goal: self-discovery & self-love. Her story is a reminder that healing is possible, even in the face of life’s most challenging moments, & that true strength comes from within.
There’s an empowering tone to the writing that will resonate with those on a similar path of self-reflection & growth. This is not a book that wallows in despair but rather one that urges the reader to embrace change, take control of their own destiny, & learn to love themselves fully. It’s a powerful message for anyone looking to reclaim their sense of purpose & move forward after personal setbacks.
While Loreal’s story is undeniably uplifting, it also serves as a cautionary tale about the importance of self-love & the potential pitfalls of neglecting one's own needs in relationships. It’s a reminder that loving oneself is a prerequisite to being able to love others in a healthy & fulfilling way.
The only downside to the book, however, is that Loreal’s sister, Keke, is mentioned quite frequently. While it’s clear they share a deep bond, & their lives are intimately intertwined, the constant references to Keke might feel a bit repetitive for some readers. Still, it’s understandable given their close relationship.
Additionally, the book offers a behind-the-scenes look at the sacrifices that come with the glitz & glam of fame, not just for the superstar but for the family unit as a whole. This really made me reflect on whether the bright lights are worth the cost of peace of mind & genuine connection. It’s a thought-provoking angle on the complexities of living a public life versus the private battles we all face.
One area that stood out to me, though, was the missed opportunity to explore how Loreal’s mental health struggles may be linked to her upbringing, or the lack of accountability within her family. As a Black person, it’s often hard to navigate the delicate balance of holding Black parents accountable without being unfairly labeled as disrespectful, ungrateful, or unappreciative. Loreal seems to sidestep this potentially uncomfortable but crucial conversation. Real love—especially in Black families—demands transparency & mutual understanding. It’s not that her love for her family isn’t evident, but there’s a subtle dissonance when mental health challenges go unexamined within the context of family dynamics. Maybe these discussions occurred privately, but as readers, we’re left wondering about this important aspect of her healing. In a world where Black children are often expected to silently shoulder family burdens, it could’ve been powerful to see her, even indirectly, challenge that narrative.
Keep Living is still a heartfelt memoir that will appeal to anyone who has faced significant personal challenges, as well as those seeking a narrative of resilience, empowerment, & transformation. It is a tool for self-healing & a testament to the power of personal growth.