“who listens to the truth when lies are more interesting?”
― Kate Quinn, Mistress of Rome
I’m going to say straight up that this book was one of the most difficult books for me to assign a rating to in all my years on Goodreads.
This is because I absolutely adored the book and it would’ve been an easy five stars but I had a really really difficult time with all the violence. I recently rated it it a three, but it was so good. I upped my rating by a point and settled on a four.
I’ve read a lot of books on ancient Egypt and on Greek mythology but I haven’t read as many on ancient Rome. I certainly have not read anything remotely like this book. Normally, I would do a plot review, but I’m not going to although I will talk about some of the characters, but first I want to address what I really liked and did not like about Mistress of Rome.
The story is completely immersive. I mean I’ve read many other reviews and a lot of people mention how they felt compelled to read to the end in one night. I couldn’t finish it in one night, but I finished it in two. I was up reading until the wee hours as many other people were.
There’s a lot of characters in this book, but I consider Thea to be the glue that holds them all together.
Thea is one of the strongest female protagonists I’ve read about in a long time. She’s got strength and fortitude and she’s a survivor. It was a joy to read all about her.
But I have to talk about the violence.
It’s not like I haven’t had any exposure to books that contain graphic violence in the past. I’ve actually had a lot of exposure.
I’ve been reading books about Greece, and ancient Egypt and Cleopatra and mythological tales since I was around seven years old. I’ve seen a lot in my literature. But the violence that starts almost from page one really had a negative effect on me. I mean again I’m going to say this book without violence, would have been an easy – easy five stars because it’s that good.
And I know there are other people who could not get through it because of the violence. I am fascinated, not just with the book, but with the author who did a brilliant job, but I’d like to know why the violence could not have been toned down a little bit. It remains constant through the story. Several times I had to put the book down and I did wonder at times whether I would get through.
I did.
And I loved it. This book is at once historical featuring mayhem and murder, but also has poignant moments of pure joy. It is a love story as much as anything else.
That is not a spoiler either because it happens from the beginning. I will not go into who Thea falls in love with, and the circumstances that conspired to keep them apart. All I can say is that I was mesmerized.
Ancient Rome is depicted like a wild animal in and of itself. Fierce and primal, the gladiator games while being horrifying to read about keep your eyes trained to the pages.
There is no doubt that Mistress of Rome is in and of itself a masterpiece. The characterizations are deep. My favorite characters are.
Marcus. I was crushing on Marcus. I usually go for the bad boys but Marcus’s utter decency, his humanity was inspiring to read about plus it doesn’t hurt that he’s obsessed with Greek mythology and Plato.
Ganymede - I first encountered the name Ganymede when I was a child. The name was featured in my favorite book of all time. Well, one of my favorites. It is tied with A Tree grows in Brooklyn for favorite book. It’s called “ I Cleopatra”, and it’s about her life, and Ganymede was a prominent character, though his temperament was not at all like the Ganymede in the story.
I loved the golden Ganymede depicted here, and adored his gentleness his calming nature, his goldenness. . I I wanted to meet him so very much.
Hercules. I can’t really say much about the wonderful Hercules except it’s not the Hercules one reads about in Mythology.
Julia. I can’t say anymore about her without spoilers.
And that’s the problem with this review. I can’t really say much of anything without spoilers so if you are reading this review and you haven’t read the book, I would completely recommend it, except if you are very very squeamish about blood and gore. If you think you can handle it and want a fascinating historical story , this is the book for you, but now I’m going to move onto spoilers so I would suggest if you don’t want to read those spoilers you stop here.
SPOILERS
I have to say this now. As many others have said, I despise Lapida . Several times. I caught myself shouting out loud because I started to despair about her ever being punished for her sins. She does come to a violent end, but I really would’ve preferred in a way that somebody just tell her off! I mean I loved it. when Arias tells her she looks like a ferret, but I really wanted more of that like pages and pages and pages and pages more. If you haven’t figured it out yet, I despise Lapida.
But I also kind of dislike Paulinus. It’s very interesting. I scoured the reviews trying to find somebody who talked about him. I’d really like to read an analysis of his character.
Now my apologies to Marcus because I know Paulinus is his son but I found Paulinus bratty, wimpy, a sad sack, somewhat pathetic, and kind of an asshole. Sorry. I know he is not evil but man did he annoy me!
I understand that love can make one crazy I really understand that and I try my hardest never to judge. And indeed, I didn’t judge the first time he had a tryst with Lapida. But my gosh years later, it’s still going on! Had the man never been to bed with a woman before? This is his father’s wife for crying out loud! What the heck did he want with her? It’s not like he even liked her personality. I mean, perhaps I could understand more if it had been rainbows and unicorns only it wasn’t. It was just sex. He’s on record of saying he despised her. I get how intoxicating sex could be, but this is a guy who led wars , indeed he won the war for the Roman Emperor , and became his ultimate confidant. His heroism winning the war, did not compute with his wimpy nature.
But I could’ve forgiven him for that. Yes yes I could have because love and sex can make anybody wild. Even if he is screwing over his father 24 seven with his obsession. One of my favorite books of all time is the book Damage by Josephine Hart and this story reminds me very strongly of that book. So yes, I could have understood that, repelled, though I was.
But what the fuck with the Roman Emperor?
Titus Flavius Domitianus.
I can’t possibly write out the name in this whole review, so I’ll just be referring to him as the Emperor. I apologize for that, but I am a terrible speller. Always have been.
What the fuck! Is there anybody at all that Paulinus has loyalty to? The emperor murdered the love of his life. The emperor was a maniac, homicidal, psychopathic, sociopathic, and pure evil. He treated everybody around him terribly, and he was also a sadist. You put that all together and I have absolutely no idea why Paul starts to weep and apologize after the this resulting in him getting. his throat torn out.
I hate to judge characters and I always look for the good but I would love to hear other people’s thoughts on him. Did he have any loyalty to anyone? How could he want to save the man who destroyed so many people, including Julia? I remain baffled by his character.
This is probably one of the longest reviews I’ve ever written. That just goes to show how impressed I am with the story. Ancient Rome did come alive. There were many times where it was an unpleasant and bloody and brutal Rome. I would be fascinated to know why so much violence was included.
Perhaps the author wrote it like that on purpose for authenticity? Perhaps she wanted to show us how it was all possible? I did notice as I went on in the book I got a bit desensitized.
Is this what it was like for them? Did they recoil In horror at the first gladiator game, and then the more and more games they saw did they find themselves turning into instruments of destruction, cheering on the games, little monsters brainwashed into being adoring fans?
I really do think this is the perfect book for book clubs. There’s so much to talk about, so much I haven’t even covered in this review, but a strong four. Stars from me..