Money's Not a Math Problem: The Real Reason You're Broke and What to Do About It by Jade Warshaw
69-page Kindle Ebook
Genre: Nonfiction, Personal Finance, Budgets, Memoir
Featuring: Broke History, From Davish to Gazelle, Money Personality, Mindset Shift, 5 Lies, 5 Truths, Making a Budget, Ramsey Baby Steps, Keeping Your Money Safe From Unsafe Spouses, Budgeting with Apps - EveryDollar
Rating as a movie: PG
Quotes: Maybe it’s TV, maybe it’s media, maybe it’s credit card culture that has taught us to believe that spending is supposed to be without limit. You should be able to get what you want. Period. It’s “Hot Girl Summer,” and I want these folks to see me going all the way outside! Or you should at least be able to spend money on the things that make other people think you have money. Spending is how you prove your status, maintain your status, and manipulate others’ view of you financially. A budget would stop you from being able to do this effectively. In fact, it would do the opposite. A budget would expose you. People would start to view you as someone who can’t handle what little money you do have.
The alarm I’m setting off today is this: Budgets are best done together with accountably and trust. I’m hoping this is your wake-up call. And though you may feel a bit shell-shocked, don’t worry. I’ll show you exactly what to do next. My hope is that you and your spouse will be willing to create a tightly choreographed routine to manage your money together, along with a budget that works for both of you each day. So let’s get into it. But first I must say, this fifth truth is not the case for everyone. If your spouse has any sort of addictions that bleed into the money, this particular advice is not for you. In fact, if your spouse has an addiction, it’s the opposite: He or she probably needs restricted access to the money. You need to insure that you and your family’s finances remain safe, and I would recommend counseling to determine if or when the money should be shared again.
Songs for the soundtrack: "Luck of the Draw" by Bonnie Raitt, "We Don't Need Another Hero (Thunderdome)" by Tina Turner, "All Star" by Smash Mouth, "The Way We Were" by Barbra Streisand, "This Is Me" by Dream, "This Is Me" by Keala Settle, "Little Lies" by Fleetwood Mac, "Come By Here" by H. Wylie, "Holler If Ya Hear Me" by Tupac Shakur, "Hot Girl Summer" Megan Thee Stallion featuring Nicki Minaj and Ty Dolla Sign, "Karma Chameleon" by Culture Club, "Kiss On My List" by Hall & Oates, "Tiny Dancer" by Elton John, "Bills, Bills, Bills" by Destiny's Child, "Independent Women, Part 1" by Destiny's Child, "Truth Hurts" by Lizzo, "Talk That Talk" by Rihanna, "Don't You (Forget About Me)" by Simple Minds, "Sledgehammer" by Peter Gabriel, "Paper Problems" by Gucci Mane, "Sweet Freedom" by Michael McDonald
Books and Authors mentioned: Dave Ramsey, Joyce Meyer, The Bible, Rachel Cruze, John Delony
My rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️📱💲🏦🏧
My thoughts: 🔖Page 12 of 69 Chapter 1 Hey, Now, You’re an All-Star - So according to the introduction Jade was purposely over-drafting to buy groceries, this book is not needed but she's going to give it anyway. She's reformed and going to share how, by regurgitating Dave Ramsey mixed in with Millennial swag and focusing on the emotional and psychological reasons you overspend, in under 70 pages. I am stopping right here because I have some errands to run but I feel like this is going to be a book that I don't need because it doesn't tell you anything new but could be beneficial to somebody who needs to know and doesn't have the time to read a novel-length book.
This book is more like a memoir; it doesn't go into details on how you make a budget or pay off debt. It gives you the floor plan and moves on; it is mostly giving you friendly advice on changing your mindset about budgeting, saving, and spending. The last quarter of this book is where it shines; not only does it give you the information as quickly as possible, but she tackles the new generation issues like when you shouldn't combine money with your spouse (abuse, infidelity) and why paper and spreadsheets don't work for every budget.
Recommend to others: This is a good book for those who are learning about financial literacy or psychology, if you're already familiar with Baby Steps and Behavior Economics you may want to skip this, otherwise it's a quick read.