I hate adding this book to my Goodreads because the word 'diet' makes me cringe. The research is pretty clear that diets don't work; something like 95% of people who go on a diet end up gaining the weight back, and many of them end up heavier than they were originally. Not only that, diets condition us to not trust or listen to our bodies and set us up for ugly restrict-binge-restrict cycles. On a more theoretical level, diets are often a response to a culture that promotes celebrity bodies and says that women should all look a certain way. It all makes me feel angry and a little sick.
That said, I did in fact read a book with the word 'diet' in the title. Not because I'm planning to go on a diet, because I'm not. (See above.) But, as someone who was a little late to the game in discovering that she has PCOS, I'm playing catch-up on understanding the syndrome and what factors lead to a healthy and happy life despite its presence. This book was recommended as a good explanation for insulin resistance - a common part of PCOS - and a possible framework for eating in a way that wasn't actually a diet.
Did it live up to that promise? Yes and no. I appreciated the chapters on insulin resistance, yes. Understanding how my body is wired to process the food I eat was helpful and fit pretty neatly with what I've observed about myself. The principles for linking proteins with carbohydrates to prevent a blood sugar spike and crash also made a lot of sense (and again, resonated with my own experience.) Beyond that... this book kind of undermined its own goal of being a lifestyle, not a diet. They're obsessed with making things more low fat, include standard bland recipes, and use phrases like "you must" or "you should," which sounds a lot like any other diet out there.
The best chapter was actually the final chapter in the book, which addressed appetite and emotions. I wish this chapter had been put first; who actually reads to the very end of a diet book? (People who want to finish it to write a Goodreads review, that's who.) In it, they talked about the dangers of dieting, how stifling your body's signals is damaging, the need to truly enjoy your food (which directly contradicts the low-fat-cream-cheese recipes) and the way that our emotions often influence what we eat when we're low on dopamine and serotonin. This is important stuff, and I wish it hadn't been tucked away next to the endnotes. For more on this topic, I like Rebecca Scritchfield's Body Kindness.
I still feel lame, writing a review of a diet book (or having read a diet book at all.) However, I've been choosing to embrace authenticity in all areas of my life, and I guess that means sticking this book up there for all to see. :) Maybe it's worth it to remove some of the shame around PCOS.