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An Uncommon Love: The Early Life of Sudha and Narayana Murthy
Sudha Kulkarni was forging a career as TELCO’s first woman engineer when she met the serious, idealistic and brilliant Narayana Murthy, and they fell in love. For the first time comes the story of their early years – from their courtship to Infosys’s founding years, from their marriage to parenthood – told by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni. What drew them together and kept them bound tightly through the challenges and loneliness they faced? What was it like to create a start-up during the licence raj, when there were no VCs, and entrepreneurship was regarded as a dirty word? How did Sudha Murty balance being a career woman, a mother and a start-up wife? How did Narayana Murthy’s obsession affect himself and his family? Taking us deep inside the minds, hearts and values of the Murthys, with exclusive access to them, Divakaruni tells their story with extraordinary emotional depth, bringing them and their worlds vividly alive. This book is about the sacrifices it takes to forge a powerful and lasting marriage, about the early story of Infosys and Indian business before liberalization, and most of all about two icons before they became the legends that transformed the fields of business and philanthropy.
352 pages, Hardcover
Published February 29, 2024
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Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni
62 books6,990 followersChitra Banerjee Divakaruni is an award-winning author and poet. Her themes include the Indian experience, contemporary America, women, immigration, history, myth, and the joys and challenges of living in a multicultural world. Her work is widely known, as she has been published in over 50 magazines, including the Atlantic Monthly and The New Yorker, and her writing has been included in over 50 anthologies. Her works have been translated into 29 languages, including Dutch, Hebrew, Hindi and Japanese. Divakaruni also writes for children and young adults.Her novels One Amazing Thing, Oleander Girl, Sister of My Heart and Palace of Illusions are currently in the process of being made into movies. http://www.chitradivakaruni.com/books.... Her newest novel is Before We Visit the Goddess (about 3 generations of women-- grandmother, mother and daughter-- who each examine the question "what does it mean to be a successful woman.") Simon & Schuster.
She was born in India and lived there until 1976, at which point she left Calcutta and came to the United States. She continued her education in the field of English by receiving a Master’s degree from Wright State University in Dayton, Ohio, and a Ph.D. from the University of California, Berkeley.
To earn money for her education, she held many odd jobs, including babysitting, selling merchandise in an Indian boutique, slicing bread in a bakery, and washing instruments in a science lab. At Berkeley, she lived in the International House and worked in the dining hall. She briefly lived in Illinois and Ohio, but has spent much of her life in Northern California, which she often writes about. She now lives in Texas, which has found its way into her upcoming book, Before We Visit the Goddess.
Chitra currently teaches in the nationally ranked Creative Writing program at the Univ. of Houston. She serves on the Advisory board of Maitri in the San Francisco Bay Area and Daya in Houston. Both these are organizations that help South Asian or South Asian American women who find themselves in abusive or domestic violence situations. She is also closely involved with Pratham, an organization that helps educate children (especially those living in urban slums) in India.
She has judged several prestigious awards, such as the National Book Award and the PEN Faulkner Award.
Two of her books, The Mistress of Spices and Sister of My Heart, have been made into movies by filmmakers Gurinder Chadha and Paul Berges (an English film) and Suhasini Mani Ratnam (a Tamil TV serial) respectively. Her novels One Amazing Thing and Palace of Illusions have currently been optioned for movies. Her book Arranged Marriage has been made into a play and performed in the U.S. and (upcoming, May) in Canada. River of Light, an opera about an Indian woman in a bi-cultural marriage, for which she wrote the libretto, has been performed in Texas and California.
She lives in Houston with her husband Murthy. She has two sons, Anand and Abhay (whose names she has used in her children’s novels).
Chitra loves to connect with readers on her Facebook author page, www.facebook.com/chitradivakaruni, and on Twitter, @cdivakaruni.
For more information about her books, please visit http://www.chitradivakaruni.com/, where you can also sign up for her newsletter.
She was born in India and lived there until 1976, at which point she left Calcutta and came to the United States. She continued her education in the field of English by receiving a Master’s degree from Wright State University in Dayton, Ohio, and a Ph.D. from the University of California, Berkeley.
To earn money for her education, she held many odd jobs, including babysitting, selling merchandise in an Indian boutique, slicing bread in a bakery, and washing instruments in a science lab. At Berkeley, she lived in the International House and worked in the dining hall. She briefly lived in Illinois and Ohio, but has spent much of her life in Northern California, which she often writes about. She now lives in Texas, which has found its way into her upcoming book, Before We Visit the Goddess.
Chitra currently teaches in the nationally ranked Creative Writing program at the Univ. of Houston. She serves on the Advisory board of Maitri in the San Francisco Bay Area and Daya in Houston. Both these are organizations that help South Asian or South Asian American women who find themselves in abusive or domestic violence situations. She is also closely involved with Pratham, an organization that helps educate children (especially those living in urban slums) in India.
She has judged several prestigious awards, such as the National Book Award and the PEN Faulkner Award.
Two of her books, The Mistress of Spices and Sister of My Heart, have been made into movies by filmmakers Gurinder Chadha and Paul Berges (an English film) and Suhasini Mani Ratnam (a Tamil TV serial) respectively. Her novels One Amazing Thing and Palace of Illusions have currently been optioned for movies. Her book Arranged Marriage has been made into a play and performed in the U.S. and (upcoming, May) in Canada. River of Light, an opera about an Indian woman in a bi-cultural marriage, for which she wrote the libretto, has been performed in Texas and California.
She lives in Houston with her husband Murthy. She has two sons, Anand and Abhay (whose names she has used in her children’s novels).
Chitra loves to connect with readers on her Facebook author page, www.facebook.com/chitradivakaruni, and on Twitter, @cdivakaruni.
For more information about her books, please visit http://www.chitradivakaruni.com/, where you can also sign up for her newsletter.
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April 7, 2024
4th book of 2024 (209 Books read overall)
Quote from the Book I Liked - Our scriptures teach us to donate with kind words, happiness and sincerity. Donate without expectations because it is a duty. And always donate without caring about caste, creed or religion. (Page no. 19)
Rating - 3.5 Stars
Read in - February 2024
*Important take from the book* - A discriminated person could fight and win against the discriminator by demonstrating that he was better than them in an area they were weak in, but which they cared about. (Page no. 39)
Summary - Sudha Kulkarni was forging a career as TELCO’s first woman engineer when she met the serious, idealistic and brilliant Narayana Murthy, and they fell in love. For the first time comes the story of their early years – from their courtship to Infosys’s founding years, from their marriage to parenthood – told by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni. What drew them together and kept them bound tightly through the challenges and loneliness they faced? What was it like to create a start-up during the licence raj, when there were no VCs, and entrepreneurship was regarded as a dirty word? How did Sudha Murty balance being a career woman, a mother and a start-up wife? How did Narayana Murthy’s obsession affect himself and his family? Taking us deep inside the minds, hearts and values of the Murthys, with exclusive access to them, Divakaruni tells their story with extraordinary emotional depth, bringing them and their worlds vividly alive. This book is about the sacrifices it takes to forge a powerful and lasting marriage, about the early story of Infosys and Indian business before liberalization, and most of all about two icons before they became the legends that transformed the fields of business and philanthropy.
My Review -
So a book about our beloved couple Sudha and Narayan Murthy. Sudha mam, whose books we’ve read and loved for their simplicity and day-to-day stories which make sense and touch the very heart of us, the common people. Narayan sir, whom almost every child who has gone through a few years of studies knows well enough to say as a synonym of Infosys. The author, Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni, the star author who gave us ‘The Palace of Illusions’ and simply changed the perspective we see Mahabharat from, whose writing gets followed by several other authors who bring the female characters from several historic texts into the limelight and starts telling epics from their perspective. When all 3 get combined into one, with several months of research, what do we get? We get, ‘An Uncommon Love’, much like the title of this book is the amalgam of all three (and a perfect publishing house as well *wink-wink*).
But does it stand for what it promises?
Let’s see, The author did a great job researching with the team and the Murthys well! From their early days of growing up to the young age of fighting the scenarios every common middle-class person in India faces. Highlighting the funny, core and sentimental emotions of their life for the reader. Their beautiful and simple yet ‘I have your back in every moment’ love story. Their struggles to find their jobs with the growing and changing India. To make a multibillion-dollar company with a work ethic like no other. The book has it all. If one loves all 3 (and publisher *Winkey*), this is the one for them. The reader gets to know how a simple man with fewer shirts than the days of the week demands, to be the humble man with more youths in a company than one can imagine. Building a new age of the rising nation that gives the notion of ‘Vasudaiva kutumbakam’ (One World – One Family). This book is all about it.
But that’s it. I mean if you read the above paragraph right, you might have felt a bit incompleteness! You might but I found one. Umm… Sudha mam? Her depth? Or did I miss something? The book talks well into the life and struggles, background and achievements and victories of Infosys/Narayan Murthy. But Sudha Murthy, I mean there are several instances of her stories but they all back to ground one, Infosys and Narayan. I know she is the biggest support system for him and the company and now the family but more into her story, I would’ve loved to read about her. Her role is silent, not exactly silent but like from behind the scenes. Without her, this all would’ve been nothing. Still, I would love to read more about her. A bit more of her centralised story would’ve made me like this book more.
Alas, the author did a fabulous job in penning this amazing uncommon love story of just 2 common people, who promised to never leave the side of each other. And support them in each way possible, from finance to family to company to whatnot. Read it to know more, It;; be fun.
Conclusion - Would’ve loved more if there was a bit more about Sudha’s Story.
Full Review on Blog.
Link to Blog - The Tales of Fugitive Biker
Quote from the Book I Liked - Our scriptures teach us to donate with kind words, happiness and sincerity. Donate without expectations because it is a duty. And always donate without caring about caste, creed or religion. (Page no. 19)
Rating - 3.5 Stars
Read in - February 2024
*Important take from the book* - A discriminated person could fight and win against the discriminator by demonstrating that he was better than them in an area they were weak in, but which they cared about. (Page no. 39)
Summary - Sudha Kulkarni was forging a career as TELCO’s first woman engineer when she met the serious, idealistic and brilliant Narayana Murthy, and they fell in love. For the first time comes the story of their early years – from their courtship to Infosys’s founding years, from their marriage to parenthood – told by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni. What drew them together and kept them bound tightly through the challenges and loneliness they faced? What was it like to create a start-up during the licence raj, when there were no VCs, and entrepreneurship was regarded as a dirty word? How did Sudha Murty balance being a career woman, a mother and a start-up wife? How did Narayana Murthy’s obsession affect himself and his family? Taking us deep inside the minds, hearts and values of the Murthys, with exclusive access to them, Divakaruni tells their story with extraordinary emotional depth, bringing them and their worlds vividly alive. This book is about the sacrifices it takes to forge a powerful and lasting marriage, about the early story of Infosys and Indian business before liberalization, and most of all about two icons before they became the legends that transformed the fields of business and philanthropy.
My Review -
So a book about our beloved couple Sudha and Narayan Murthy. Sudha mam, whose books we’ve read and loved for their simplicity and day-to-day stories which make sense and touch the very heart of us, the common people. Narayan sir, whom almost every child who has gone through a few years of studies knows well enough to say as a synonym of Infosys. The author, Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni, the star author who gave us ‘The Palace of Illusions’ and simply changed the perspective we see Mahabharat from, whose writing gets followed by several other authors who bring the female characters from several historic texts into the limelight and starts telling epics from their perspective. When all 3 get combined into one, with several months of research, what do we get? We get, ‘An Uncommon Love’, much like the title of this book is the amalgam of all three (and a perfect publishing house as well *wink-wink*).
But does it stand for what it promises?
Let’s see, The author did a great job researching with the team and the Murthys well! From their early days of growing up to the young age of fighting the scenarios every common middle-class person in India faces. Highlighting the funny, core and sentimental emotions of their life for the reader. Their beautiful and simple yet ‘I have your back in every moment’ love story. Their struggles to find their jobs with the growing and changing India. To make a multibillion-dollar company with a work ethic like no other. The book has it all. If one loves all 3 (and publisher *Winkey*), this is the one for them. The reader gets to know how a simple man with fewer shirts than the days of the week demands, to be the humble man with more youths in a company than one can imagine. Building a new age of the rising nation that gives the notion of ‘Vasudaiva kutumbakam’ (One World – One Family). This book is all about it.
But that’s it. I mean if you read the above paragraph right, you might have felt a bit incompleteness! You might but I found one. Umm… Sudha mam? Her depth? Or did I miss something? The book talks well into the life and struggles, background and achievements and victories of Infosys/Narayan Murthy. But Sudha Murthy, I mean there are several instances of her stories but they all back to ground one, Infosys and Narayan. I know she is the biggest support system for him and the company and now the family but more into her story, I would’ve loved to read about her. Her role is silent, not exactly silent but like from behind the scenes. Without her, this all would’ve been nothing. Still, I would love to read more about her. A bit more of her centralised story would’ve made me like this book more.
Alas, the author did a fabulous job in penning this amazing uncommon love story of just 2 common people, who promised to never leave the side of each other. And support them in each way possible, from finance to family to company to whatnot. Read it to know more, It;; be fun.
Conclusion - Would’ve loved more if there was a bit more about Sudha’s Story.
Full Review on Blog.
Link to Blog - The Tales of Fugitive Biker
March 18, 2024
Being a fan girl of books by Chitra Banerjee, when 'An uncommon love' came out , I had to read it. The book entails the famous yet uncommon love story of Sudha and Narayan Murthy and cites little stories of endurance, sacrifice and struggle from their life , as they went ahead to establish one of the world's greatest IT companies. There is nothing extremely fancy in the way the book is structured, the characters are not relatable ( how can they be it is the legacy couple afterall) , sometimes you even feel sorry for them and would want to mock at their adamance to values and principles.
What makes the book interesting is the concept of compassionate capitalism , based on which Infosys was built. Also interesting is to know how both Sudha and Narayan Murthy were ordinary people like you and me , who fell in love over their mutual love for books and how over years though their dreams drifted apart , they stayed together because of their ideologies.
Worth a shot if you can take in and appreciate ease of doing business in the 1980s was not what it was today and for some love means an all together different meaning than the ordinary
What makes the book interesting is the concept of compassionate capitalism , based on which Infosys was built. Also interesting is to know how both Sudha and Narayan Murthy were ordinary people like you and me , who fell in love over their mutual love for books and how over years though their dreams drifted apart , they stayed together because of their ideologies.
Worth a shot if you can take in and appreciate ease of doing business in the 1980s was not what it was today and for some love means an all together different meaning than the ordinary
December 29, 2024
Lovingly gifted by my husband for our first anniversary,
I read this book at such an apt time I must say!!
As 2024 ends and I was looking for affirmations to prove my professional capabilities this book succeeds in instilling the courage and optimism I needed!
While Murthy’s dedication, devotion and hard work for Infosys is truly inspiring,
What blew me away is Sudha’s unimaginable grit, support and the countless sacrifices she made for Murthy and Infosys!!! She sacrifices her career growth, family time and everything that she could have to stand by Murthy in all facets of their life!!
While this is truly inspiring for me in a lot of ways the plight of Sudha’s sacrifices and Murthy’s inability to prioritise family was saddening!
Ofcourse shaping New India and changing the facet of a country needs immense hardwork, dedication and sacrifices beyond words can express!!
This will definitely stay to be one of my favourite books and a must read for everyone!
I read this book at such an apt time I must say!!
As 2024 ends and I was looking for affirmations to prove my professional capabilities this book succeeds in instilling the courage and optimism I needed!
While Murthy’s dedication, devotion and hard work for Infosys is truly inspiring,
What blew me away is Sudha’s unimaginable grit, support and the countless sacrifices she made for Murthy and Infosys!!! She sacrifices her career growth, family time and everything that she could have to stand by Murthy in all facets of their life!!
While this is truly inspiring for me in a lot of ways the plight of Sudha’s sacrifices and Murthy’s inability to prioritise family was saddening!
Ofcourse shaping New India and changing the facet of a country needs immense hardwork, dedication and sacrifices beyond words can express!!
This will definitely stay to be one of my favourite books and a must read for everyone!
January 10, 2024
A gripping non-fiction debut by my all-time favourite author, Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni.
An Uncommon Love is a very inspiring and intimate biography of the founders of India’s first and greatest start-up, Infosys.
The books navigates the personal and professional lives of the two entrepreneur-philanthropists we see on TV and social media, the Murt(h)ys, giving us a glimpse of their everyday lives.
Set in the 1970s when the young couple meet, navigating through 1980s, the founding years of Infosys and extending all the way into late 1990s, which marked the beginning of the Infosys Foundation, the book takes the reader through various stages of their rapidly changing lives, while addressing the volatile socio-economic landscape of pre-liberalisation India.
While the base of the book is the love and trust the couple has in each other and the dreams they share, Chitra’s narration touches upon the the love, familial bonds, dreams, aspirations and principles of the Murthys while talking about the volatile political times, trade & foreign policies, Nehruvian communist ideals, scepticism towards computers, all the red tape surrounding IT and finally India’s liberalisation that has led to Compassionate Capitalism.
It’s so inspiring to see a start up dream come to life when people had no access to foreign funds, infrastructure and simple things like a computer that most youngsters and 90s kids like me take for granted. It’s mind boggling to read about all government hoops middle class entrepreneurs had to jump through, to get simple licenses and approvals.
At the end, An Uncommon Love is the simple story of a middle class couple whose dreams were bigger than life itself.
An Uncommon Love is a very inspiring and intimate biography of the founders of India’s first and greatest start-up, Infosys.
The books navigates the personal and professional lives of the two entrepreneur-philanthropists we see on TV and social media, the Murt(h)ys, giving us a glimpse of their everyday lives.
Set in the 1970s when the young couple meet, navigating through 1980s, the founding years of Infosys and extending all the way into late 1990s, which marked the beginning of the Infosys Foundation, the book takes the reader through various stages of their rapidly changing lives, while addressing the volatile socio-economic landscape of pre-liberalisation India.
While the base of the book is the love and trust the couple has in each other and the dreams they share, Chitra’s narration touches upon the the love, familial bonds, dreams, aspirations and principles of the Murthys while talking about the volatile political times, trade & foreign policies, Nehruvian communist ideals, scepticism towards computers, all the red tape surrounding IT and finally India’s liberalisation that has led to Compassionate Capitalism.
It’s so inspiring to see a start up dream come to life when people had no access to foreign funds, infrastructure and simple things like a computer that most youngsters and 90s kids like me take for granted. It’s mind boggling to read about all government hoops middle class entrepreneurs had to jump through, to get simple licenses and approvals.
At the end, An Uncommon Love is the simple story of a middle class couple whose dreams were bigger than life itself.
December 20, 2024
In a country like India where corruption and bribery is high, starting and running a company in a fair manner is near impossible. Mr and Mrs Murty have showed us the way.Yet another amazing work by Chitra. I hope her books are made into movies.
Although in all fairness they did have some amount of support. But then again, hypothetically if given all the support would you or I want to/able to pull this feat? Isn't it the responsiblity of humanity to pay it forward?
Although in all fairness they did have some amount of support. But then again, hypothetically if given all the support would you or I want to/able to pull this feat? Isn't it the responsiblity of humanity to pay it forward?
January 28, 2024
Inspiring. Loved it.
April 10, 2024
It's truly, 'Beauiful', 'Grippingly told' , 'Must-read' and 'Inspiring'.
The capture of lives of two extraordinary people in words is very touching and inspiring.
The capture of lives of two extraordinary people in words is very touching and inspiring.
April 13, 2024
An inspiring story affirming the importance of values, grit, patience, hard work that goes into building something beautiful, nourishing and ideal.
December 31, 2024
Beautiful book about my most favorite couple of all time written by my favorite author. Admiration for Sudha Murthy grew to a whole new level reading this epic biography
April 6, 2025
Gripping, inspirational and as succinct as it can get. It’s India’s story from 60s that is narrated through the lives of Sudha & Narayana Murthy. A must read.
March 20, 2024
The book likely delves into the early lives of both Sudha and Narayana Murthy, exploring their backgrounds and aspirations that eventually led them to co-found Infosys. It portrays them as ordinary people with extraordinary dreams, emphasizing that achieving success doesn't require ostentatious displays of wealth or power.
Building Infosys from Scratch
The narrative likely goes into detail about the couple's journey of building Infosys from the ground up. It probably describes the challenges they faced, the financial hurdles they overcame, and the impact of government regulations on their business. The book might depict their perseverance in starting in a small apartment and transforming Infosys into a multi-million dollar company, providing livelihood for many.
Humility and Simplicity: The Core Values
The book highlights the importance of humility and simplicity in the couple's approach to business. It might illustrate how these values, often seen as contrasting success, were instrumental in Infosys's growth.
Overcoming Challenges
The book would probably cover the various challenges Infosys faced during its initial stages. This could include navigating complex government regulations, securing funding, and building a strong team. It might also explore how Sudha and Narayana Murthy tackled these challenges and steered the company towards success.
Impact and Legacy
The biography might also explore the wider impact of Infosys on the Indian IT industry and the country's economy as a whole. It could delve into the legacy of Sudha and Narayana Murthy as pioneers who helped establish India as a major player in the global IT sector.
The final part of the book could explore how Infosys grew from a small operation in a matchbox apartment to a multi-million dollar company, providing livelihood for many. It might also touch upon the wider impact of Infosys on the Indian IT industry and its role in establishing India as a major global player.
In the chapters, specific technical jargon is employed, which individuals with an engineering background would likely comprehend more easily. I wish to emphasize that Sudha Murthy was among the pioneering female employees at TELCO, and today, numerous women have the opportunity to work at Tata Motors (previously known as Telco). Hailing from Jamshedpur, a city founded by the Tata Group, Sudha Murthy's exchange with JRD Tata evoked a heartfelt response when I encountered it.
JRD Tata's words quoted from his conversation with Sudha Murthy (the day she resigned from TELCO, she bumped into JRD at Bombay House) - "Never start with diffidence. Always start with confidence. When you are successful, you must give back to society. Society gives us so much, we must return it. I wish you all the best"
Narayan Murthy's quote - "Understanding challenges is the first step towards finding a solution"
The book also contains witty and funny conversations, as I recall the birth of their daughter brought tears to Narayan Murthy's eyes while he held the newborn Akshata. His father-in-law humorously said - "It seems the robot has a heart, after all!"
Sudha Murthy's quote - "I want you to be like the trapeze artist in a circus and take a spectacular leap of faith. I'm willing to be your safety net."
Furthermore, we often overlook the romance that blossoms among aging couples in our midst. Reading about Narayan Murthy's proposal to Sudha Kulkarni was truly one of the most beautiful expressions of love ever witnessed.
Building Infosys from Scratch
The narrative likely goes into detail about the couple's journey of building Infosys from the ground up. It probably describes the challenges they faced, the financial hurdles they overcame, and the impact of government regulations on their business. The book might depict their perseverance in starting in a small apartment and transforming Infosys into a multi-million dollar company, providing livelihood for many.
Humility and Simplicity: The Core Values
The book highlights the importance of humility and simplicity in the couple's approach to business. It might illustrate how these values, often seen as contrasting success, were instrumental in Infosys's growth.
Overcoming Challenges
The book would probably cover the various challenges Infosys faced during its initial stages. This could include navigating complex government regulations, securing funding, and building a strong team. It might also explore how Sudha and Narayana Murthy tackled these challenges and steered the company towards success.
Impact and Legacy
The biography might also explore the wider impact of Infosys on the Indian IT industry and the country's economy as a whole. It could delve into the legacy of Sudha and Narayana Murthy as pioneers who helped establish India as a major player in the global IT sector.
The final part of the book could explore how Infosys grew from a small operation in a matchbox apartment to a multi-million dollar company, providing livelihood for many. It might also touch upon the wider impact of Infosys on the Indian IT industry and its role in establishing India as a major global player.
In the chapters, specific technical jargon is employed, which individuals with an engineering background would likely comprehend more easily. I wish to emphasize that Sudha Murthy was among the pioneering female employees at TELCO, and today, numerous women have the opportunity to work at Tata Motors (previously known as Telco). Hailing from Jamshedpur, a city founded by the Tata Group, Sudha Murthy's exchange with JRD Tata evoked a heartfelt response when I encountered it.
JRD Tata's words quoted from his conversation with Sudha Murthy (the day she resigned from TELCO, she bumped into JRD at Bombay House) - "Never start with diffidence. Always start with confidence. When you are successful, you must give back to society. Society gives us so much, we must return it. I wish you all the best"
Narayan Murthy's quote - "Understanding challenges is the first step towards finding a solution"
The book also contains witty and funny conversations, as I recall the birth of their daughter brought tears to Narayan Murthy's eyes while he held the newborn Akshata. His father-in-law humorously said - "It seems the robot has a heart, after all!"
Sudha Murthy's quote - "I want you to be like the trapeze artist in a circus and take a spectacular leap of faith. I'm willing to be your safety net."
Furthermore, we often overlook the romance that blossoms among aging couples in our midst. Reading about Narayan Murthy's proposal to Sudha Kulkarni was truly one of the most beautiful expressions of love ever witnessed.
March 17, 2024
Immerse yourself in a love story so profound that it not only shapes the lives of two individuals but also lays the groundwork for a technological empire. Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni masterfully encapsulates this in "An Uncommon Love." Known for her captivating storytelling in novels like "The Palace of Illusions," Divakaruni takes readers on a journey that blends her flair for drama with the real-life romance and resilience of Infosys co-founders Narayana and Sudha Murthy.
Set against the backdrop of the 1970s, the book chronicles Sudha and Narayana Murthy's early lives, from their initial encounter to the challenges of founding Infosys. Beyond a mere recounting of their journey to success, it's a tale of love, sacrifice, and unyielding determination.
Divakaruni's prose is enchanting, weaving a narrative that feels both intimate and grandiose. Through vivid descriptions and a compassionate narrative voice, she invites readers into the Murthys' world, making their struggles and triumphs palpable.
What sets "An Uncommon Love" apart is its exploration of Sudha and Narayana Murthy as individuals. Divakaruni portrays their growth with nuance and empathy, making their story relatable and inspiring.
The book's pacing is masterful, seamlessly balancing personal and professional aspects of the Murthys' lives. It keeps readers engaged, moving smoothly through their early struggles to the eventual success of Infosys while never losing sight of the love story at its core.
At its core, "An Uncommon Love" delves into themes of perseverance, love, and the power of partnership. It sends a powerful message about how shared values and mutual respect can overcome even the most daunting challenges.
The Murthys' journey is deeply moving, filled with sacrifices, commitment, and hope. Divakaruni's portrayal captures the essence of human emotion, making their story resonate on a universal level.
The book's greatest strength lies in its authenticity and the compelling portrayal of its main characters. Divakaruni's sensitive narration and attention to detail make the Murthys' story profoundly inspirational.
While "An Uncommon Love" is compelling, a deeper exploration of the wider social and economic context of the Murthys' journey could have added more depth to their accomplishments.
I found myself utterly captivated by Sudha and Narayana Murthy's story. Their journey, marked by humility, hard work, and hope, struck a chord with me. Divakaruni's portrayal is both honest and uplifting, making it a must-read for anyone interested in the power of love and perseverance.
"An Uncommon Love" is more than a biography; it's an ode to love, partnership, and resilience. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur, a romantic at heart, or a fan of compelling narratives, this book is a must-read. Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni has crafted a story that's as educational as it is emotional, leaving a lasting impact on readers long after they've turned the final page.
Set against the backdrop of the 1970s, the book chronicles Sudha and Narayana Murthy's early lives, from their initial encounter to the challenges of founding Infosys. Beyond a mere recounting of their journey to success, it's a tale of love, sacrifice, and unyielding determination.
Divakaruni's prose is enchanting, weaving a narrative that feels both intimate and grandiose. Through vivid descriptions and a compassionate narrative voice, she invites readers into the Murthys' world, making their struggles and triumphs palpable.
What sets "An Uncommon Love" apart is its exploration of Sudha and Narayana Murthy as individuals. Divakaruni portrays their growth with nuance and empathy, making their story relatable and inspiring.
The book's pacing is masterful, seamlessly balancing personal and professional aspects of the Murthys' lives. It keeps readers engaged, moving smoothly through their early struggles to the eventual success of Infosys while never losing sight of the love story at its core.
At its core, "An Uncommon Love" delves into themes of perseverance, love, and the power of partnership. It sends a powerful message about how shared values and mutual respect can overcome even the most daunting challenges.
The Murthys' journey is deeply moving, filled with sacrifices, commitment, and hope. Divakaruni's portrayal captures the essence of human emotion, making their story resonate on a universal level.
The book's greatest strength lies in its authenticity and the compelling portrayal of its main characters. Divakaruni's sensitive narration and attention to detail make the Murthys' story profoundly inspirational.
While "An Uncommon Love" is compelling, a deeper exploration of the wider social and economic context of the Murthys' journey could have added more depth to their accomplishments.
I found myself utterly captivated by Sudha and Narayana Murthy's story. Their journey, marked by humility, hard work, and hope, struck a chord with me. Divakaruni's portrayal is both honest and uplifting, making it a must-read for anyone interested in the power of love and perseverance.
"An Uncommon Love" is more than a biography; it's an ode to love, partnership, and resilience. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur, a romantic at heart, or a fan of compelling narratives, this book is a must-read. Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni has crafted a story that's as educational as it is emotional, leaving a lasting impact on readers long after they've turned the final page.
August 2, 2024
Recently, I read ‘An Uncommon Love’ by the renowned Indian author, Ms. Chitra Banerjee Divakruni. The book takes the reader through the early lives of the iconic Indian couple, Sudha and Narayana Murthy. The Murthys’ beat all odds to put the nation on the technology world map in an era when the average Indian perceived software as vague and unrelatable. While the story revolves around the birth and rise of the Infosys empire, this book is, at its core, a love story.
A young, bespectacled, shy Narayana Murthy meets the gregarious Sudha Kulkarni through a friend. Their love for books, cinema, and technology initially got them talking. However, as time progressed, Sudha's rebellious streak that made her break many glass ceilings, her infectious optimism, and the fact that she spoke Kannada, too, played cupid. A free-spirited Sudha couldn't help but fall for Narayana Murthy, a somewhat reserved man who had just returned from a hitchhiking trip through Europe. While no logic explains the chemistry of love, Narayana Murthy's razor-sharp intellect, unwavering vision, and a heart made of pure gold were some of the many reasons that made a young Sudha Kulkarni fall in love with him. The two tied the knot in a simple ceremony solemnized in Bangalore in 1978.
The storytelling is so absorbing that it renders the reader one with the protagonists as they quit a comfortable lifestyle to chase their dreams. The journey is laden with bureaucratic challenges, financial constraints, and personal sacrifices, interjected with small and big moments of happiness, thus making this book a riveting read. The manner in which the couple supports, compliments, guides, and encourages each other through the countless hurdles is a masterclass in the institution of marriage.
I have been an ardent fan of Mrs. Murthy's writing since I read some of her earlier works. But after I read this book, it got hard to decide who among the two is more inspiring. Well the good news is that although they are separate individuals, their souls are twins that live the same dreams.
I consider 'An Uncommon Love' a textbook on entrepreneurship, relationships, the concept of equality, and life. The underlying beauty and simplicity in the values, deeds, and ideas of the Murthys’ lingers long after reading the book. I tend to share my books once I finish reading them, but I have pledged to not part with this one.
On this note, I wish you all Happy Reading
A young, bespectacled, shy Narayana Murthy meets the gregarious Sudha Kulkarni through a friend. Their love for books, cinema, and technology initially got them talking. However, as time progressed, Sudha's rebellious streak that made her break many glass ceilings, her infectious optimism, and the fact that she spoke Kannada, too, played cupid. A free-spirited Sudha couldn't help but fall for Narayana Murthy, a somewhat reserved man who had just returned from a hitchhiking trip through Europe. While no logic explains the chemistry of love, Narayana Murthy's razor-sharp intellect, unwavering vision, and a heart made of pure gold were some of the many reasons that made a young Sudha Kulkarni fall in love with him. The two tied the knot in a simple ceremony solemnized in Bangalore in 1978.
The storytelling is so absorbing that it renders the reader one with the protagonists as they quit a comfortable lifestyle to chase their dreams. The journey is laden with bureaucratic challenges, financial constraints, and personal sacrifices, interjected with small and big moments of happiness, thus making this book a riveting read. The manner in which the couple supports, compliments, guides, and encourages each other through the countless hurdles is a masterclass in the institution of marriage.
I have been an ardent fan of Mrs. Murthy's writing since I read some of her earlier works. But after I read this book, it got hard to decide who among the two is more inspiring. Well the good news is that although they are separate individuals, their souls are twins that live the same dreams.
I consider 'An Uncommon Love' a textbook on entrepreneurship, relationships, the concept of equality, and life. The underlying beauty and simplicity in the values, deeds, and ideas of the Murthys’ lingers long after reading the book. I tend to share my books once I finish reading them, but I have pledged to not part with this one.
On this note, I wish you all Happy Reading
March 22, 2024
-A Precious Love-
Review of ‘An Uncommon Love’
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Can you guess what could be the catalyst for the beginning of the love story of the icons of our times- Sudha Murthy and Narayana Murthy? Books! Yes, you read that right.
The billionaire couple when met for the first time in the room shared by Sudha’s friend Prasanna with Narayana, it was because she had been intrigued by the books towering all over the room.
Mostly it was the writer Sudha had never heard of: George Mikes. The titles of Mikes's books were unusual, too: How to Be an Alien, How to Tango: A Solo across South America and How to Unite Nations. And on the flyleaf of each book was written, with a confident flourish, a name and a place. The places were unexpected, exotic: Paris, Rome, Munich, Istanbul and Kabul.
How is it you have all these books? Sudha asked. And who is this man, anyway? A global bus conductor?'
Prasanna introduced them both and thus began the love story that’s been resonating with a lot of people.
The book delicately peels the layers off this legendary romance, while developing their character as they grow in life and stature. Divakaruni treats the characters with utmost love and care, and her effort to bring this love affair along with their struggles to the paper shines with sincerity and solid honesty. When non fiction reads like an engaging novel, you can’t help tipping your hat to the author. Anyway, what can you expect from an author of Divakaruni’s mettle? Just perfection.
‘They were both well read and interested in world events; they both held strong opinions and were not shy about voicing them.
Sometimes, they would get into good-natured arguments.’ Divakaruni writes. ‘Though they argued vociferously, they were willing to listen to each other's point of view. Neither of them convinced the other, but perhaps that was never their intention!’
This is your chance to know more about the power couple of the country.
Review of ‘An Uncommon Love’
🖋️📖
Can you guess what could be the catalyst for the beginning of the love story of the icons of our times- Sudha Murthy and Narayana Murthy? Books! Yes, you read that right.
The billionaire couple when met for the first time in the room shared by Sudha’s friend Prasanna with Narayana, it was because she had been intrigued by the books towering all over the room.
Mostly it was the writer Sudha had never heard of: George Mikes. The titles of Mikes's books were unusual, too: How to Be an Alien, How to Tango: A Solo across South America and How to Unite Nations. And on the flyleaf of each book was written, with a confident flourish, a name and a place. The places were unexpected, exotic: Paris, Rome, Munich, Istanbul and Kabul.
How is it you have all these books? Sudha asked. And who is this man, anyway? A global bus conductor?'
Prasanna introduced them both and thus began the love story that’s been resonating with a lot of people.
The book delicately peels the layers off this legendary romance, while developing their character as they grow in life and stature. Divakaruni treats the characters with utmost love and care, and her effort to bring this love affair along with their struggles to the paper shines with sincerity and solid honesty. When non fiction reads like an engaging novel, you can’t help tipping your hat to the author. Anyway, what can you expect from an author of Divakaruni’s mettle? Just perfection.
‘They were both well read and interested in world events; they both held strong opinions and were not shy about voicing them.
Sometimes, they would get into good-natured arguments.’ Divakaruni writes. ‘Though they argued vociferously, they were willing to listen to each other's point of view. Neither of them convinced the other, but perhaps that was never their intention!’
This is your chance to know more about the power couple of the country.
February 21, 2024
I am so excited to write about this book, There’s a unique joy that I experience whenever I have the opportunity to engage with the works of Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni, whose writing consistently resonates with me. The book essentially focuses on love. How Sudha and Narayana Murthy fell in love, how they continued to love each other despite of the situations? The book paints a vivid picture of their emotional connection and the strength of their commitment to each other, making it a compelling and relatable tale.
The narrative chronicles Narayana Murthy’s entrepreneurial spirit and sheer determination as he sets out to build what would become a highly successful multinational corporation, Infosys. While Sudha worked full time to provide for the family there came a point when she had to shift roles and stay at home to look after the children. This segment of the book does not just recount the struggles Sudha and Murthy faced, but also highlights their resilience, strategic thinking, and the mutual support that was pivotal in their journey to success. Through the their journey, we are reminded that love is not merely about the monumental moments but is also found in the myriad of small, meaningful actions that define a shared existence.
Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni’s writing is characterized by its clarity and accessibility, ensuring that once you begin reading her book, you’ll find yourself compelled to continue until the very last page. Such is the captivating artistry of Divakaruni! She possesses a unique talent for infusing this biographical work with a fluidity that few can emulate, drawing readers into the depths of her narrative with ease and keeping them enthralled throughout the entirety of the literary experience.
All in all, read this book to get an insight into Narayana Murthy and Sudha Murty’s life, read this book to get inspired from their lives, read this book to experience the magic of Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni’s writing.
Thanks to the publishers at The Juggernaut for the advance review copy.
The narrative chronicles Narayana Murthy’s entrepreneurial spirit and sheer determination as he sets out to build what would become a highly successful multinational corporation, Infosys. While Sudha worked full time to provide for the family there came a point when she had to shift roles and stay at home to look after the children. This segment of the book does not just recount the struggles Sudha and Murthy faced, but also highlights their resilience, strategic thinking, and the mutual support that was pivotal in their journey to success. Through the their journey, we are reminded that love is not merely about the monumental moments but is also found in the myriad of small, meaningful actions that define a shared existence.
Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni’s writing is characterized by its clarity and accessibility, ensuring that once you begin reading her book, you’ll find yourself compelled to continue until the very last page. Such is the captivating artistry of Divakaruni! She possesses a unique talent for infusing this biographical work with a fluidity that few can emulate, drawing readers into the depths of her narrative with ease and keeping them enthralled throughout the entirety of the literary experience.
All in all, read this book to get an insight into Narayana Murthy and Sudha Murty’s life, read this book to get inspired from their lives, read this book to experience the magic of Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni’s writing.
Thanks to the publishers at The Juggernaut for the advance review copy.
March 1, 2024
Woo-hoo!!! Big names!!!
This is my first read from the widely celebrated master storyteller Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni, simply the reason why I was excited to pick this one up.
Sudha(author, philanthropist & much more) and Narayan Murthy (co-founder of Infosys- a global leader in digital services and consulting) are widely popular as well. This is part business novel, part romance novel, presenting to us the early lives of the courtship period of the power couple.
Sudha Kulkarni was a vivacious young woman, TELCO's first woman engineer, when she met the serious, idealistic and brilliant Narayan Murthy. We get to witness how they met, and the sacrifices they made to forge a successful and powerful marriage, the early story of Infosys and Indian Business before liberalisation. Both of them are well-known public figures, also known for their philanthropy, so they don't even need an introduction.
The pair had a common interest in reading and had idealistic values, deeply influenced by their parents. We get to witness hundreds of anecdotes from their lives, right from childhood and schooling, stories both personal as well as their professional lives. The emergence of the startup, Infosys and how Sudha managed her roles as a wife, a career oriented woman and a mother, and the passions of Narayan Murthy.
The entire writing is so beautiful, simple and elegant that it almost feels like a fiction book instead of a biography, because the story is often touching, astonishing as well as tragic at times. The author's efforts are commendable, for presenting this uncommon story of two influential people that emerged from ordinary backgrounds, in the form of a non-fiction book that's bound to inspire the readers. Their life story is certainly praise-worthy, and so is its presentation in the form of a book. I'm certain that I'll read more from the author, really soon!
This is my first read from the widely celebrated master storyteller Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni, simply the reason why I was excited to pick this one up.
Sudha(author, philanthropist & much more) and Narayan Murthy (co-founder of Infosys- a global leader in digital services and consulting) are widely popular as well. This is part business novel, part romance novel, presenting to us the early lives of the courtship period of the power couple.
Sudha Kulkarni was a vivacious young woman, TELCO's first woman engineer, when she met the serious, idealistic and brilliant Narayan Murthy. We get to witness how they met, and the sacrifices they made to forge a successful and powerful marriage, the early story of Infosys and Indian Business before liberalisation. Both of them are well-known public figures, also known for their philanthropy, so they don't even need an introduction.
The pair had a common interest in reading and had idealistic values, deeply influenced by their parents. We get to witness hundreds of anecdotes from their lives, right from childhood and schooling, stories both personal as well as their professional lives. The emergence of the startup, Infosys and how Sudha managed her roles as a wife, a career oriented woman and a mother, and the passions of Narayan Murthy.
The entire writing is so beautiful, simple and elegant that it almost feels like a fiction book instead of a biography, because the story is often touching, astonishing as well as tragic at times. The author's efforts are commendable, for presenting this uncommon story of two influential people that emerged from ordinary backgrounds, in the form of a non-fiction book that's bound to inspire the readers. Their life story is certainly praise-worthy, and so is its presentation in the form of a book. I'm certain that I'll read more from the author, really soon!
November 22, 2024
I gave this book as a gift to my wife for our anniversary. It's a poignant tale of two dreamers and visionaries showcasing how the greatest joys often stem from the simplest moments. It's really an inspiring story. I love the way Sudha and Narayan have clear communication and mutual understanding. We can learn a lot of things from them. I have a special respect for Sudha Murty and her family.
I really enjoyed knowing the struggles which the couple faced in their early stages of life and how beautifully they face each and every challenge in their lives. The book clearly shows the beauty of a relationship can help you in growing in your life. They sacrificed a lot for their family and company. Narayan Murty has spoken in his interview that he doesn't believe in work life balance. Now I can see why his wife sacrificed a lot. Their relationship, marked by mutual support and sacrifice resonates deeply. I really love how both of them try to upload the Indian family values. Even though they became billionaires, they try to stay rooted to their dharma and their lifestyle.
Through this book, I came across the kind of socialist policies and license raj brought by Nehru and emboldened by Indira did the damage to our Industries. Narayan Murty went through a lot to get the work done for his company Infosys. Thanks to 1991 reforms which changed the whole game for India. (Read: India Unbound: From Independence to Global Information Age by Gurucharan Das). I don't agree with many things for what they stand for. Their Infosys foundation has donated money to a few wrong organisations. I especially have the problem with his son Rohan for running Murty classical library (Read: The battle for Sanskrit by Rajiv Malhotra).
There are some sections which looked a little rushed but nonetheless in the end the reader is for sure to feel more positive and inspired. Go for it.
I really enjoyed knowing the struggles which the couple faced in their early stages of life and how beautifully they face each and every challenge in their lives. The book clearly shows the beauty of a relationship can help you in growing in your life. They sacrificed a lot for their family and company. Narayan Murty has spoken in his interview that he doesn't believe in work life balance. Now I can see why his wife sacrificed a lot. Their relationship, marked by mutual support and sacrifice resonates deeply. I really love how both of them try to upload the Indian family values. Even though they became billionaires, they try to stay rooted to their dharma and their lifestyle.
Through this book, I came across the kind of socialist policies and license raj brought by Nehru and emboldened by Indira did the damage to our Industries. Narayan Murty went through a lot to get the work done for his company Infosys. Thanks to 1991 reforms which changed the whole game for India. (Read: India Unbound: From Independence to Global Information Age by Gurucharan Das). I don't agree with many things for what they stand for. Their Infosys foundation has donated money to a few wrong organisations. I especially have the problem with his son Rohan for running Murty classical library (Read: The battle for Sanskrit by Rajiv Malhotra).
There are some sections which looked a little rushed but nonetheless in the end the reader is for sure to feel more positive and inspired. Go for it.
November 4, 2025
Although Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni is a well‑known name in contemporary Indian literature, her major genre appears to be mythology. I happened to be introduced to her writing through this book purely by coincidence. From this book, I find her writing clear and straightforward. She presents the early lives of Narayan and Sudha Murthy in an easy‑to‑read, engaging manner. I’m not a fan of either of them, but a review should focus on the content and style, and I genuinely liked how it was written.
I would say don’t judge a book by its title. This book is surely not a love story, but a book describing the sacrifices both of them did on the way to make Infosys what it is today.
"Entrepreneurship has a human cost, and it is the entrepreneur's family that pays it. The absence of his father and the longing for more attention from him-may have caused Rohan to behave more naughtily. Perhaps it made Akshata quieter and more withdrawn until she entered her teenage years, when she underwent a period of rebellion like most young people of her age. As for Sudha, she withdrew into her teaching career and extended family, and later took refuge in her work with the Infosys Foundation and began to write more frequently, drawing satisfaction from her significant achievements in these fields.".This paragraph from the book is very much the gist of the book. It describes what each character from Murthy’s life lost in his pursuit of making Infosys what it is today — the lives of his wife, son and daughter.
Some passages felt over‑the‑top, as if they exceeded what a person could realistically do. At those points, the writing style seemed mismatched with the story, particularly in Sudha and Narayan’s lofty ideas about welfare. Though possibly true, it comes across as too contrived.
I would say don’t judge a book by its title. This book is surely not a love story, but a book describing the sacrifices both of them did on the way to make Infosys what it is today.
"Entrepreneurship has a human cost, and it is the entrepreneur's family that pays it. The absence of his father and the longing for more attention from him-may have caused Rohan to behave more naughtily. Perhaps it made Akshata quieter and more withdrawn until she entered her teenage years, when she underwent a period of rebellion like most young people of her age. As for Sudha, she withdrew into her teaching career and extended family, and later took refuge in her work with the Infosys Foundation and began to write more frequently, drawing satisfaction from her significant achievements in these fields.".This paragraph from the book is very much the gist of the book. It describes what each character from Murthy’s life lost in his pursuit of making Infosys what it is today — the lives of his wife, son and daughter.
Some passages felt over‑the‑top, as if they exceeded what a person could realistically do. At those points, the writing style seemed mismatched with the story, particularly in Sudha and Narayan’s lofty ideas about welfare. Though possibly true, it comes across as too contrived.
January 9, 2024
Chitra has done it again! Here comes an unusual story of - Sudha and Murthy (as is the recurring phrase in the book), two individuals with big dreams and a journey from ordinary to extraordinary. The bond between the two of them, the challenges they faced and how they helped each other achieve their dreams. The book wonderfully captures the life journey of an introvert, an idealist and an entrepreneur - Murthy; and a gregarious extrovert, an optimist and an ambitious yet pragmatic woman - Sudha. It is an account of their early careers, story of their marriage and tale of their struggle to realize their dreams.
Chitra has done a really good job of writing an inspiring true story without disappointing people who appreciate her work in fiction or historic fiction. There is a nonchalant grace in her writing. Chapter transitions are fluid making it difficult to keep the book down once you have started reading. The events are narrated via dialogue instead of being a long chronological account which gives structure to the story and adds an informal aspect to this very much non-fiction piece of work. I can't think of any other author who could have narrated the story of Sudha and Murthy better.
This one will be really close to my heart for two main reasons - (i) admiration for Sudha Murthy as a writer, strong woman role-model and for her optimistic approach towards life, (ii) being part of the Infosys family, owing a lot to training and experience I gained from the company. The dream described in the 'Epilogue' left me in nostalgic tears with great appreciation for the man who changed the lives of millions of engineers in India.
Chitra has done a really good job of writing an inspiring true story without disappointing people who appreciate her work in fiction or historic fiction. There is a nonchalant grace in her writing. Chapter transitions are fluid making it difficult to keep the book down once you have started reading. The events are narrated via dialogue instead of being a long chronological account which gives structure to the story and adds an informal aspect to this very much non-fiction piece of work. I can't think of any other author who could have narrated the story of Sudha and Murthy better.
This one will be really close to my heart for two main reasons - (i) admiration for Sudha Murthy as a writer, strong woman role-model and for her optimistic approach towards life, (ii) being part of the Infosys family, owing a lot to training and experience I gained from the company. The dream described in the 'Epilogue' left me in nostalgic tears with great appreciation for the man who changed the lives of millions of engineers in India.
June 12, 2024
Warm, wise, revelatory – An Uncommon Love: The Early Life of Sudha and Narayana Murthy
Naturally, as a reader, I am drawn to biographies. But picking up non-fiction from a known fictional writer like Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni was a little surprising. The book is about the Murthys, who are known to have sown the entrepreneurial seeds on Indian soil.
How little I knew about their story is the reason I penned this book review. One would want to think of these two as highly iconic, near-perfect characters who came together and had a wonderful journey ahead. What one would learn after picking up this book is that every relationship has its own abnormalities, and it's all about how much you want to make of it! The Murthys are no exception to this fact.
While we see Sudha Murthy as the ever-optimistic being, on the flip side of her life is the decent, young man who is a peculiar kind of idealist. But then, as Sudha Murthy puts it simply, "I knew it when I chose to marry him. Should I now expect apples from a mango tree?" The book is as much about the man as it is about the lady. That is the beauty of the writer who has seemingly balanced the two dynamic characters without the need to overshadow the other.
The writing is largely about the early days of their lives together, from the time when they first met to when they knew this was what they wanted for the rest of their lives. This book also reflects on the complexities of being an entrepreneur in India and the kind of difficulty a young Indian woman faced in those times.
Read more about the book here: https://theindianbookclub.com/readers...
Naturally, as a reader, I am drawn to biographies. But picking up non-fiction from a known fictional writer like Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni was a little surprising. The book is about the Murthys, who are known to have sown the entrepreneurial seeds on Indian soil.
How little I knew about their story is the reason I penned this book review. One would want to think of these two as highly iconic, near-perfect characters who came together and had a wonderful journey ahead. What one would learn after picking up this book is that every relationship has its own abnormalities, and it's all about how much you want to make of it! The Murthys are no exception to this fact.
While we see Sudha Murthy as the ever-optimistic being, on the flip side of her life is the decent, young man who is a peculiar kind of idealist. But then, as Sudha Murthy puts it simply, "I knew it when I chose to marry him. Should I now expect apples from a mango tree?" The book is as much about the man as it is about the lady. That is the beauty of the writer who has seemingly balanced the two dynamic characters without the need to overshadow the other.
The writing is largely about the early days of their lives together, from the time when they first met to when they knew this was what they wanted for the rest of their lives. This book also reflects on the complexities of being an entrepreneur in India and the kind of difficulty a young Indian woman faced in those times.
Read more about the book here: https://theindianbookclub.com/readers...
July 30, 2024
Review: *An Uncommon Love: The Early Life of Sudha and Narayana Murthy* by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni
'The strongest foundations support the tallest institutions.'
*An Uncommon Love* takes readers on a journey through the early lives of Sudha and Narayana Murthy. Sudha, TELCO's first woman engineer, and Narayana, a serious and idealistic genius, forged a bond that would not only withstand personal challenges but also revolutionize the Indian business landscape. Through their courtship, marriage, parenthood, and the founding years of Infosys, Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni (a great fiction writer has now penned her first non-fiction) brings to life the Murthys' story with emotional depth.
Set against the backdrop of India from the 70s to the 90s, the book captures the essence of an era marked by struggles, sacrifices, and a shared vision for a better India. The narrative delves into their personal and professional lives, highlighting the challenges of entrepreneurship during the license raj, the balance between career and family, and the commitment that propelled them to success.
Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni weaves a narrative that is heartwarming and inspiring in *An Uncommon Love*. The book offers a glimpse into their personal lives, revealing the sacrifices and dedication that underpinned their success. It also throws a spotlight on parenting. Especially while growing your own business and career. To balance raising kids and career can be a challenge.
Publisher - Juggernaut
Publishing year - 2023
Price - Rs 799
Pages - 345
Full review on my website tusharmangl.com
'The strongest foundations support the tallest institutions.'
*An Uncommon Love* takes readers on a journey through the early lives of Sudha and Narayana Murthy. Sudha, TELCO's first woman engineer, and Narayana, a serious and idealistic genius, forged a bond that would not only withstand personal challenges but also revolutionize the Indian business landscape. Through their courtship, marriage, parenthood, and the founding years of Infosys, Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni (a great fiction writer has now penned her first non-fiction) brings to life the Murthys' story with emotional depth.
Set against the backdrop of India from the 70s to the 90s, the book captures the essence of an era marked by struggles, sacrifices, and a shared vision for a better India. The narrative delves into their personal and professional lives, highlighting the challenges of entrepreneurship during the license raj, the balance between career and family, and the commitment that propelled them to success.
Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni weaves a narrative that is heartwarming and inspiring in *An Uncommon Love*. The book offers a glimpse into their personal lives, revealing the sacrifices and dedication that underpinned their success. It also throws a spotlight on parenting. Especially while growing your own business and career. To balance raising kids and career can be a challenge.
Publisher - Juggernaut
Publishing year - 2023
Price - Rs 799
Pages - 345
Full review on my website tusharmangl.com
February 16, 2024
Love is the only fundamental that pushes you to cross boundaries. You might be pole apart personalities, but if there's love, respect, and understanding, there's no looking back.
It's February, the month of being loved and to show love, and what better way to cherish the month by reading about the personalities that the world looks up to - Narayan and Sudha Murthy.
'The Uncommon Love: Sudha Murthy and Narayan Murthy's Early Life' talks about two individuals, with completely different upbringing and what are the odds that they meet and spend a lifetime with each other just by the common passion for technology, books, and movies.
In a world where love has different definitions , Sudha and Narayan Murthy are examples that belief is the strongest weapon in a relationship. While reading the book, I often questioned myself,'How was she so sure about his dreams?' And sometimes 'How was it that he won her with the purest intentions?' Then I think, maybe they both had put their guards down, with naked experiences, dreams, and characteristics.
There's no questions asked about Divakaruni's meticulous writing. 'Uncommon Love Story' is definitely well-researched with genuine anecdotes of their lives. The more you read the pages, the more you understand the core concepts of love aren't just grand gesture rather it is adapting to each other's worlds and adding possible positive contributions.
'Uncommon Love Story' is a brilliant personal account that can't be put down easily because of language, writing, and the inspiring empire that both built for themselves and the world.
It's February, the month of being loved and to show love, and what better way to cherish the month by reading about the personalities that the world looks up to - Narayan and Sudha Murthy.
'The Uncommon Love: Sudha Murthy and Narayan Murthy's Early Life' talks about two individuals, with completely different upbringing and what are the odds that they meet and spend a lifetime with each other just by the common passion for technology, books, and movies.
In a world where love has different definitions , Sudha and Narayan Murthy are examples that belief is the strongest weapon in a relationship. While reading the book, I often questioned myself,'How was she so sure about his dreams?' And sometimes 'How was it that he won her with the purest intentions?' Then I think, maybe they both had put their guards down, with naked experiences, dreams, and characteristics.
There's no questions asked about Divakaruni's meticulous writing. 'Uncommon Love Story' is definitely well-researched with genuine anecdotes of their lives. The more you read the pages, the more you understand the core concepts of love aren't just grand gesture rather it is adapting to each other's worlds and adding possible positive contributions.
'Uncommon Love Story' is a brilliant personal account that can't be put down easily because of language, writing, and the inspiring empire that both built for themselves and the world.
June 23, 2024
This story deserves retelling in many different versions - bring it to the big screen, bring it to every household television set, write it again in new formats. The story of a young couple, coming from modest upbringing, trying to make their careers flourish in India of the 70s and 80s. The story of India as it chugs along, pushing forward, shredding its colonial cloak and trying to shine bright. The stage was set and all it needed was for the couple to show up and give it their all - and their all did they give! Working relentlessly, sacrificing time that could have been devoted to their family, standing for each other so that they pursue their dreams, such is the story of the origins of Narayana and Sudha Murthy who are now a role model to many. Chitra Divakaruni has beautifully covered multiple aspects of the Muthys’ lives which bring out their simplicity, their dedication towards their pursuits, their passion for projects, and in the true Indian sense, their caring and gentle love for each other which made it possible for them to dream and achieve big goals in life. In an India which has changed multiple times over the past so many decades, some of the lessons from this book still hold value be it for individuals striving for professional success or for couples who are discovering the rhythm in their personal relationships. The research done by the author to piece together many moments from the Muthys’ lives in a beautifully flowing narrative is commendable and this book is yet another milestone in this fantastic author’s career…
March 18, 2024
It is Sudha Murty and Narayana Murthy. So what’s there not to like? I am especially awed by the strength, endurance and patience of Sudha Murty. From being the only girl student in her engineering class to being the first female employee of TELCO, her perseverance is truly inspiring for all women. Infosys exists because of her and the continuous support of her parents and elder sister.
It was a pleasure to read about their courtship days, when they were young and carefree. Unlike Sudha, it was difficult for me to imagine Mr. Murthy as an adventurous young man hitchhiking across Europe, or someone who was hopelessly romantic in his own way.
The difficulties that the couple faced in building Infosys demonstrates that great heights can only be achieved through hard work, sacrifices and faith.
I only wished that the narrative was more flowing.
IN A NUTSHELL: The story of the Murthys reminds us that nothing great comes easy. It tells us that families sacrifice the most in building a business, and an honest path might be longer but it will take you where you want to be. Most importantly, it shows us how your life partner can make all the difference. So choose wisely!
💟 “When we give something to others, we should always give the best. God is not in temples or churches or mosques. He’s with the people. If you serve them, you serve God.”
💟“A woman can do a man’s job. But a man cannot do a woman’s job.”
It was a pleasure to read about their courtship days, when they were young and carefree. Unlike Sudha, it was difficult for me to imagine Mr. Murthy as an adventurous young man hitchhiking across Europe, or someone who was hopelessly romantic in his own way.
The difficulties that the couple faced in building Infosys demonstrates that great heights can only be achieved through hard work, sacrifices and faith.
I only wished that the narrative was more flowing.
IN A NUTSHELL: The story of the Murthys reminds us that nothing great comes easy. It tells us that families sacrifice the most in building a business, and an honest path might be longer but it will take you where you want to be. Most importantly, it shows us how your life partner can make all the difference. So choose wisely!
💟 “When we give something to others, we should always give the best. God is not in temples or churches or mosques. He’s with the people. If you serve them, you serve God.”
💟“A woman can do a man’s job. But a man cannot do a woman’s job.”
January 26, 2024
Kudos to Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni for going out of her way and writing a non-fiction book about the most inspiring couple from India. The book is well written, easy to read and nothing seems exaggerated and the anecdotes are highly relatable. The struggles Sudha and Murthy endured only inspires others to embark on a journey committed to principles.
All the experiences they endured with the bureaucracy in India are believable and happens to this day. Mr and Mrs Murty are an example of how one must go against all odds to achieve the entreprenurial dream. The story where Mr. Murthy had to deal with Mr. Signh for permission was infuriating and I hope few govt officials read this book and understand the plight of high IQ people in India. I'm stunned by all the sacrifices Sudha made to help lay the foundation for Infosys. Hard to believe she gave up a successful engineering career to support Mr. Murthy's dreams.
Also the way the couple handled the corrupt officials and still did not give up on principles should be read and understood by all the people of India.
Be it technology, entrepreneurship or philanthropy, this couple has it all. They are someone the entire world should look up to.
The stories are very inspiring and the book is a compelling read, calming, energizing that leaves you with a positive outlook on life.
All the experiences they endured with the bureaucracy in India are believable and happens to this day. Mr and Mrs Murty are an example of how one must go against all odds to achieve the entreprenurial dream. The story where Mr. Murthy had to deal with Mr. Signh for permission was infuriating and I hope few govt officials read this book and understand the plight of high IQ people in India. I'm stunned by all the sacrifices Sudha made to help lay the foundation for Infosys. Hard to believe she gave up a successful engineering career to support Mr. Murthy's dreams.
Also the way the couple handled the corrupt officials and still did not give up on principles should be read and understood by all the people of India.
Be it technology, entrepreneurship or philanthropy, this couple has it all. They are someone the entire world should look up to.
The stories are very inspiring and the book is a compelling read, calming, energizing that leaves you with a positive outlook on life.
March 10, 2024
"An Uncommon Love" by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni illustrates the early life of Sudha and Narayana Murthy, as mentioned on the cover. We all know the couple: their stories of how they met, how Infosys was founded, and how the Infosys Foundation was established. But one might wonder, what's new in this book?
This book offers honest writing that instantly connects with readers. It begins with their meeting and how they gradually developed a liking for each other. They became so comfortable with each other that they started sharing their childhood stories and experiences. Their anecdotes are inspiring. While it might be difficult for Gen Z or even some millennials to connect with their ideologies, their upbringing and life situations shaped them into who they are today, and for that, we can be grateful.
Their stories of struggles and overcoming them are an inspiration for every generation, and the author has captured them very well. While the book is non-fiction, the narration is akin to reading a 'slice-of-life' Bollywood movie.
Whether you agree with the couple's ideologies or not, I would say this story is a must-read.
This book offers honest writing that instantly connects with readers. It begins with their meeting and how they gradually developed a liking for each other. They became so comfortable with each other that they started sharing their childhood stories and experiences. Their anecdotes are inspiring. While it might be difficult for Gen Z or even some millennials to connect with their ideologies, their upbringing and life situations shaped them into who they are today, and for that, we can be grateful.
Their stories of struggles and overcoming them are an inspiration for every generation, and the author has captured them very well. While the book is non-fiction, the narration is akin to reading a 'slice-of-life' Bollywood movie.
Whether you agree with the couple's ideologies or not, I would say this story is a must-read.
May 7, 2024
Wonderful book about wonderful people by a wonderful author.
Such inspiring story about completely ordinary people who came from humble background and worked their way up and put India in the map and made everyone else stop and take notice. hank you Sir and Ma'am. The ideals that you both believe in and the stands that you unfailingly take at the face of any adversity, the principles that you believe in are awe inspiring.
The force and angel behind the success story of Infosys, Sudha Murty herself is a force to reckon with. An eminent author a beloved teacher and scholar is there hardly anything that she is not. You can see numerous interviews available on tv and the book shows her exactly as is.
I have one more personal connection with this. My daughter is named Akshata (after Sudha Murty's daughter) and she is all of 7 years old and says," I am named after the British PM's wife" to anyone who will listen :-)
Though I must say I would have loved it even more if the story focused more on their personal story than the beaurocratic red tape and the difficulties that Mr. Murty had to face in setting up Infosys.
Such inspiring story about completely ordinary people who came from humble background and worked their way up and put India in the map and made everyone else stop and take notice. hank you Sir and Ma'am. The ideals that you both believe in and the stands that you unfailingly take at the face of any adversity, the principles that you believe in are awe inspiring.
The force and angel behind the success story of Infosys, Sudha Murty herself is a force to reckon with. An eminent author a beloved teacher and scholar is there hardly anything that she is not. You can see numerous interviews available on tv and the book shows her exactly as is.
I have one more personal connection with this. My daughter is named Akshata (after Sudha Murty's daughter) and she is all of 7 years old and says," I am named after the British PM's wife" to anyone who will listen :-)
Though I must say I would have loved it even more if the story focused more on their personal story than the beaurocratic red tape and the difficulties that Mr. Murty had to face in setting up Infosys.
March 8, 2024
This book gives a very humble insight into the beginnings of a partnership that is of Sudha and Narayan Murthy. I say humble because everything revealed in this book is very right, very humble and very sweetly wrong. I sort of missed a little on unexplainable dark. However to be fair that could be just me, someone who thinks light is always balanced by the dark.
I found the book inspiring as it is a true rags-to-riches story. It felt a little titled more towards Sudha Murty's side. As her family is mentioned, their interactions, their help, and support are included in their journey. but there is almost nothing from Naryan Murthy's side.
Which felt like a hole in the story.
But if we focus on what was there, The struggle and principles with which Murthy's have created their company are extremely commendable, the fact they applied the same in every aspect of their life only makes you realise how honest and genuine they are in their approach towards their values.
All in all, for a middle-class child like me (I know I am somewhat of a snob), the book was very relatable and aspirational. I just wish there was more but maybe that's more of a testament to how good and authentic the storytelling was.
I found the book inspiring as it is a true rags-to-riches story. It felt a little titled more towards Sudha Murty's side. As her family is mentioned, their interactions, their help, and support are included in their journey. but there is almost nothing from Naryan Murthy's side.
Which felt like a hole in the story.
But if we focus on what was there, The struggle and principles with which Murthy's have created their company are extremely commendable, the fact they applied the same in every aspect of their life only makes you realise how honest and genuine they are in their approach towards their values.
All in all, for a middle-class child like me (I know I am somewhat of a snob), the book was very relatable and aspirational. I just wish there was more but maybe that's more of a testament to how good and authentic the storytelling was.
March 27, 2024
An Uncommon Love is story of Sudha and Narayana Murthy's early life. Call me dumb, because I had no clue it was a love marriage 🤦🏻♀️
The very first page caught my attention as it described Sudha as an avid reader. I have always been a fan and the details of her early life added cherry on top ❤️
Similarly, a deeper insight into Narayana Murthy's life and struggles, and his 'never say die' attitude to face anything in life is an inspiration to all.
But we already know and like them.
So, what makes the book special?
It's Chitra Banerjee's narration and the beautifully told love story(about which we know very little)
A real life love story, with its twists and turns. A story that'll teach you importance of love, support, patience and perseverance (& Success)
I couldn't stop blushing when I realised that Sudha and Narayana Murthy actually had a Meet-Cute moment. Yup, you read it right!
And guess what brought them together?
BOOKS 🙈
Now that you are convinced, 😉
When are you reading it?
The very first page caught my attention as it described Sudha as an avid reader. I have always been a fan and the details of her early life added cherry on top ❤️
Similarly, a deeper insight into Narayana Murthy's life and struggles, and his 'never say die' attitude to face anything in life is an inspiration to all.
But we already know and like them.
So, what makes the book special?
It's Chitra Banerjee's narration and the beautifully told love story(about which we know very little)
A real life love story, with its twists and turns. A story that'll teach you importance of love, support, patience and perseverance (& Success)
I couldn't stop blushing when I realised that Sudha and Narayana Murthy actually had a Meet-Cute moment. Yup, you read it right!
And guess what brought them together?
BOOKS 🙈
Now that you are convinced, 😉
When are you reading it?
April 20, 2024
I have valued Narayana Murthy's line, " The softest pillow is a clear conscience" but I appreciate and value it even more after reading this book around the early life of Sudha & Narayana Murthy.
What else would justify a founder keeping less than 30% equity and sharing the rest among his colleagues or not permitting his wife to officially come on board the company despite being over-qualified just to ensure that there is no family legacy or conflict of interest in the long run.
For everyone who still fancy a debate of his idea around working for 70hours a week, this book is the best answer.
The book provides the inside story of all the challenges he had to go through to setup and scale Infosys in the 1980s and 1990s. From that perspective of what he underwent in building such a big brand in his lifetime, we shouldn't even bother questioning his comments.
Overall, a very good read which reveals more about the inside story of two people who are probably the ideal power couple without any fuss. In a way the title is a little deceptive, it's much more than a normal love story.
What else would justify a founder keeping less than 30% equity and sharing the rest among his colleagues or not permitting his wife to officially come on board the company despite being over-qualified just to ensure that there is no family legacy or conflict of interest in the long run.
For everyone who still fancy a debate of his idea around working for 70hours a week, this book is the best answer.
The book provides the inside story of all the challenges he had to go through to setup and scale Infosys in the 1980s and 1990s. From that perspective of what he underwent in building such a big brand in his lifetime, we shouldn't even bother questioning his comments.
Overall, a very good read which reveals more about the inside story of two people who are probably the ideal power couple without any fuss. In a way the title is a little deceptive, it's much more than a normal love story.
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