Dr. Marny Lishman is an Australian psychologist who has helped many of her clients suffering from burnout to relieve their symptoms.
I genuinely wish I had come across this book much sooner, but better late than never, right?
There are many books dealing with burnout in general and what the individual person can do - putting the onus solely on that person rather than taking the enviroment into account - and I always felt that was an insufficient approach. I am glad that this author took a more wholesale approach to the very complex subject of burnout.
I thought the various examples from her clients were well-chosen, the struggles they were facing were very similar to what myself and many others are/might be going through, so just reading about other people dealing with identical/similar issues already helped me a lot in understanding that I wasn’t alone.
The advice the author gave was mostly similar to what your own Doctor would tell you: get enough sleep, eat healthy, exercise, meditate - yes, I rolled my eyes at that part - but she also acknowledged why some people just cannot sleep no matter what they do (which is what I had been struggling with for months).
Dr. Lishman explained the evolutionary background of stress, that used to be handy for surviving in dangerous situations - which is supposed to be a temporary defense mechanism. Nobody is supposed to be miserable over a period of months or even years, because your body being in chronic fight-or-flight mode will inevitably come with physical symptoms and even a change in personality (cynicism, aggression, overwhelm/brain fog etc.)
I found myself nodding along with all of it and then the author suggested what on the surface seems to be an obvious or simple solution, that didn’t occur to me when I was in the thick of it: chronic stress indicates that an issue has remained unaddressed for a long period of time and/or that boundaries weren’t set. The author explains when/how to set boundaries, to say “no” (shocker!) and to communicate issues early on.
You can see a therapist, eat healthy, exercise and meditate until you’re blue in the face - if you don’t resolve the issue at hand you’ll eventually burn yourself out - and that really hit home with me and helped me so much.
I also liked the part of being vulnerable with people (yes, she referenced Brené Brown here) and that she, as Dr. Marny Lishman herself, also has her struggles (belonging to the human species, same as all of us).
If you were only going to read one self-help book on burnout that will actually help you rather than put you in a blame-shame spiral, I highly recommend you read “From Burnout to Brilliant”.