The Politically Incorrect Wife: God's Plan for Marriage Still Works Today

by Nancy Cobb, Connie Grigsby

Just what is a politically incorrect wife? She is a woman who is married to her husband and not to popular American culture. The politically incorrect wife does not buy into the stifling modern-day thinking that says, "Look out for number one. Treat your husband no better than he treats you." Instead, she cultivates a joyful marriage using transformational spiritual principles. As formerly politically correct wives with miserable marriages, popular speakers and authors Nancy Cobb and Connie Grigsby lead readers confidently beyond the picket lines of the politically correct -- into a warm, rewarding marriage.

Genres: Marriage, Nonfiction

300 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2003

Reviews

[Lynette · Rating 4 out of 5]

I greatly enjoyed this book. I felt encouraged to seek the Lord and not at all condemned or that it was coming from a legalistic viewpoint. My marriage was saved from having done a lot of these suggestions. Glad that God is using these women. Wish j had had this book before going the journey "alone."

[Hannah Bruner · Rating 5 out of 5]

I have read this book, re-read this book, and given it to friends to borrow. This book may come across as too conservative to some and not progressive enough for the times we live in, but not to me. I personally consider myself to be very progressive, but extremely conservative in my role as a wife. This book offers insight into God's plan for a wife and how to live up to those great expectations. I found this book to be both comforting and challenging. Whenever I am feeling like I've become complacent as a wife, I pick up this book again. Highly recommend for conservative (in their home life at least), Christian wives.

[Jill · Rating 5 out of 5]

A must read for any married woman. I will definitely reread this one and apply the principals of it to my life.

[Adventuresofabusymom.com · Rating 4 out of 5]

Great resource for anyone striving to be a better wife

[Cameon Knight · Rating 5 out of 5]

In today's society, as women we are encouraged to be our own person, don't let the man wear the pants, stand up for what you believe in, etc. It's a feminist world which makes it challenging for especially new and younger brides. I remember hearing shortly after my husband and I were married in a marriage small group that wives are to submit to their husbands. Never have I felt such anger in my life. I am independent! I don't need a man telling me what to do! He's not superior to me!

Fast forward almost two years to the day, when I felt God tugging on my heart to become the best wife I could be. The issue was that I didn't know what God's calling on my role as a wife was. My husband and I did not have a "newlywed phase" as we fought often. We thought many times we were done, and honestly had we not made a covenant in front of God, there are times we would have been.

Nancy Cobb and Connie Grigsby do an amazing job of teaching those who aren't sure, or who need reminding, of God's want for us as wives. Filled with real world experiences, The Politically Incorrect Wife is a manual that everyone could stand to read. It's a reminder that no matter how society and culture change, God's word does not. It teaches wives how to stop trying to be the spiritual leader in their household and how to assume the role God meant for us to play in a marriage, without shying away from some of the more difficult topics.

Politically Incorrect Wife changed not only my understanding of what the Bible says regarding my role as a wife, but also my marriage in such an amazing, life changing way.

[Donna · Rating 5 out of 5]

I really loved this book. It is simple and straightforward, yet is advocating a deep personal change that affects one's whole life. For me personally, it is something I've always understood as an idea; that is putting God/Christ first in your life. I really had been trying to put my husband and/or kids first and truly believing that this was right. If we are not "right" with God though, I think we often end up putting ourselves first and maybe not even being aware of it. This book is full of profound truths about how God honors our obedience, not our intentions. It inspired me to start right now today with godly actions, whichever ones I can manage, and lots of prayer. I will do a little at a time, whatever I can manage. This book will stay in my bedside table and I'm sure I will refer to it over and over!

[Callie · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was very good, and it made me think about ways that I could treat my husband better. I especially liked the chapter on the motives behind marriage - ultimately when we serve and honor our husbands we are obeying and serving Christ! I thought this book was thought-provoking and challenging, and I recommend it to anyone looking for a biblical view on submission in marriage.

[Natalie · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great, great, great. All wives should read to get a fresh perspective of how we are to be as wives. I need to read this once a year just as a reminder! Great for everyone, even those who have been married for a long time.

[hagerle · Rating 5 out of 5]

Excellent book. Would recommend to a friend. Loved the suggestions on how to better serve my husband. I've read quite a few books on marriage and this book is concise, easy to read and easy to apply. It covers many topics, without dragging and without lecturing the reader. Buy it!

[Jessica]

This book helps you see your husband from his eyes and also talks a lot about how you can be a helper.

[Rebekah · Rating 3 out of 5]

Good, sound advice, but should be balanced with practical communication between spouses as to what the husband really wants.

[Jen]

LOVED it!

[Rachel · Rating 5 out of 5]

Gods' plan for marriage is perfect!But a wife needs to be surrendered to Gods'
will despite the current liberal spin!

[Hannah Kartagener · Rating 4 out of 5]

Great insights that have stayed with me. Will be re-reading this book for 2011.

[Just a person · Rating 4 out of 5]

Great look at marriage. Good concepts as well as practicals. Had great discussions at bible study

[Nisha · Rating 4 out of 5]

Great read for a newlywed.

[Marilyn Haugen · Rating 5 out of 5]

Best book on marriage ever!!