I heard about this book after Glen Van Peski was on The Backpacking Podcast (episode 211). The fact that I was listening to the Backpacking Podcast and interested in ultralight gear, definitely got me interested in this book. Spoiler: Most of the good stuff in the book was talked about in that podcast episode and you don't have to go through all the stuff I disliked about the book. If I was able to go back in time, I would have told myself to not bother with the book after listening to the podcast.
At first, I started reading this book and was excited that it was dealing with not only ultralight gear, but taking lessons from ultralight backpacking and applying it more widely in everyday life. I was optimistic and putting a positive spin on what Van Peski was writing. I thought that it was awesome that someone who is extremely well off in life would be willing to work as a dishwasher. I was grateful and appreciative of his humbleness.
I told my wife to start reading the book as well, and she did. She eventually even got further along than me and got to the part about how Van Peski came to religion. She is more cynical than myself and after that section, she stopped reading it and recommended that we stop supporting Gossamer Gear. I thought that maybe she was overreacting, but when I got to the section, it definitely made me much more critical and cynical going forward. If it's not bad enough to blackmail God and say that you will only believe in him if he does something for you... but to call upon God to help you kill a gopher is despicable. Van Peski is supposed to be a sometimes vegetarian (more on that later), but made a deal with God that if God helped Van Peski kill a gopher that he would believe in him. A gopher digging up your yard is not a sufficient reason to kill the gopher brutally with a shovel, by itself, but to blackmail God to help you kill the gopher is something else altogether.
Van Peski says that he is a vegetarian, but he is constantly talking about eating things which aren't vegetarian. He's not actually a vegetarian, he just says that to flex. It's extremely irritating as a vegan, that he feels he needs to brag about being a vegetarian when he doesn't care enough to do it fully, just enough that he feels warranted bragging about it. At the beginning of the book, I was under the assumption that he was working full time as a dishwasher. It wasn't stated as such, but it seemed to be implied. He was actually just a backup to the backup of a dishwasher. He was basically just covering for a backup dishwasher that worked once a week so that backup dishwasher could go on vacation. Working full time as a dishwasher and working one day a week for a limited amount of time is not a sufficient reason to brag.
I have never been in the situation, and luckily I have a daughter who is healthy. Van Peski had a child however who wasn't. I have never been in that situation, so I can't judge him, but his family puts the child into a permanent home as it becomes too much of a burden to take care of the child at home. That part is debatable, but I can accept it. What is horrible though, is that even though his wife visited the child more frequently... Van Peski only visits the child "periodically" as he calls it. My assumption is that this is not weekly, and potentially not even monthly but even both of those time frames doesn't seem sufficient for abandoning your kid. If my kid had a limited amount of time to live and wasn't living at home, I would be visiting just about every day, but even if there were extenuating circumstances, I would be visiting my kid at least once a week. Van Peski seems to imply that his kid's death and disability were worthwhile because it lead him to religion and being a believer in God.
At one point in the book he also says that he was lucky that he was born straight showing just how homophobic he is while trying to portray himself in such a spectacular light. He talks VERY frequently (repetitive even) at how he gives freely of himself and his possessions. At first I thought this was awesome and a good idea. But as he continues praising himself, he seems to only do it expecting a reward, because he is always rewarded when he does give of himself. He doesn't seem to give freely because he likes to help others or it makes him feel good, he seems to give freely because he'll be rewarded for doing so.
For someone who supposedly cares about the environment and living with less... becoming a pilot and flying in private jets is the antithesis of both of these things. Flying commercially is bad enough with the carbon impact for each traveler being astronomical, but when you only have a few people on a plane the carbon impact is obscene. It's all for something as trivial as being able to fly a plane, which he has no intentions of doing professionally so it's just a hobby for the obscenely rich that destroys the planet.
When I first started writing this review, I was going to give it a 2/5. There are some huge problems with this book and therefore Van Peski (that were only amplified as I wrote this review) but at least it was talking about ultralight gear and backpacking. When I reviewed my notes from when I was reading the book prior to the religion/gopher story, I was giving it steady 4s and 5s and left a note saying that the book specifically on ultralight gear was one of the worst sections that I had encountered to that point. So, if Van Peski's bragging and gloating is suspect and I didn't enjoy the chapter actually on ultralight gear... what's left to like about this book?