Mary Well Black Girl is a rare gem for black women, in this book Author and Creator of The Soft Wife Lifestyle Crystal Wallar encourages and guides black women to be smart about their life choices, including dating hypergamously and especially Marrying Well. This book is a cultural shift in mindset for black women in the dating/marriage market. Crystal Wallar is showing black women how to win in an area of life where most black women have lost. This book will ultimately be a cult classic and one that should be passed down from mother to daughter, aunt to niece, grandmother to granddaughter.
Overall the book is good. I think it is an eye opener for most black women who are “strong and independent” Some information might seem harsh especially when she talks about how black women aren’t protected by specific groups of people. My advice is take what you can from the book and leave what you don’t want.
There is so much to say about this book. It’s like I could hear her voice while reading (because I follow her on TikTok lol). This book has given me the EXTRA push to do things differently. Her words confirm what I’ve already felt and adds more to my life. Thank you so much for writing this. A MUST READ for all women. ESPECIALLY BLACK WOMEN & know that YOU ARE WORTH every good thing that comes your way. Much love to you Crystal Walker!
Definitely helpful tips with hard discussions topics most people try to ignore or deny I do feel they are needed and inspirational in every way I feel if you implement these tips and tricks you will be happy and successful in finding a match for you