Marrying the Wedding Crasher (2018) by Melinda Curtis is part of the Harmony Valley series, but does read as a stand-alone story. This book is set to release tomorrow, March 6, 2018, by Harlequin Heartwarming Publishers. This book will be available in all forms including eBook, and is 384 pages in length. With a full-time job and a very busy five-year old at home, this book took me two days to read. I received a copy of this novel from Harlequin Heartwarming in eBook form for review. In no way has this influenced my opinion. The opinions expressed in this review are my own. I give this novel 4.5 STARS. Marrying the Wedding Crasher is a Contemporary Clean Romance.
One day when I was seven years old, Sr. Regina, my 2nd grade teacher, gave me and my fellow classmates a brown paper bag. We were told to decorate them prettily and make sure to include our names. These bags were going to be our Valentine’s Day bags! She also told us to make/buy Valentine’s Day cards for our fellow classmates. I can remember vividly putting my whole 7-year old self into my bag, and later into the cards I made for my classmates. Valentine’s Day arrived and I excitedly hurried to class. I could not wait to pass out my cards and then enjoy the cards I got from my fellow classmates. After the craziness that is 2nd graders distributing cards and moving around the classroom, Sr. Regina asked us all to open our bags and dig into our cards and candies. I was SO excited!!! I opened my bag and saw three cards total. No candy. Just three cards. My little 2nd-grade heart dropped, but I was ok because something is better than nothing, right? Two of the cards were the store-bought kind, and one was hand written. I was excited for the hand-written card because it meant someone took time for me! I opened the note and read, “Happy Valentine’s. Nicole, you look like a clown.” I was devastated. I got up, went to the back of the classroom, and buried myself behind the coats and backpacks. I sobbed my little heart out. I was embarrassed and heartbroken.
I was seven years old when someone’s words crushed my heart and made me see myself differently. I became a very closed-off kid from that day forward, and I began to really hate the way I looked. I hated that I had to wear glasses. I hated that my prescription was so thick it looked like I was wearing coke bottles. I hated that my family was poor and I couldn’t afford cute glasses, just glasses from the cheap section in the eye doctor’s office. I then started to really look at myself in the mirror… AT SEVEN!!! I decided I hated my big nose. I hated my ugly teeth. I hated my limp hair. I hated me. It should be noted that I have a really pretty, skinny mom. The kind of pretty, skinny that the world says is perfect. I am about as opposite as you can get. Guess when I noticed that?! Yep…right after I got told I look like a clown.
I have been battling that note every day since I was seven years old.
If you are still reading this, you are probably wondering by now what this has to do with Marrying the Wedding Crasher. Marrying the Wedding Crasher is a good, solid story. It has exactly what you look for when you want a Harlequin Heartwarming-type story. The characters are well written and realistic, the plot is very engaging, and the romance is sweet. I do very much recommend it for all of these standard qualities, BUT, I really recommend this book because of what it reminded me: words are SO very important, and they can be blessings or weapons. Of all the characters in this book, I relate to Vince Messina. Vince, of course, is the perfect Harlequin Heartwarming hero — he is gorgeous, he is kind, he is all man! So, I definitely cannot relate to his gorgeousness and his manliness, but I can relate to him in regards to this “words” issue that I’ve been discussing. When Vince was a teenager someone very important to him said something in an emotionally-drained moment and it completely changed the course of his life. Vince was never going to be the person he was BEFORE THE WORDS ever again. After my Valentine’s Day card fiasco in the second grade, I was never going to be the same bright-eyed, happy, blissfully ignorant girl ever again.
We need to be SO careful with our words. This is an excellent reminder for me as a wife and mother, but also as a teacher. The words we use can have positive effects on those around us, or they can do great harm. Ephesians 4:29 states, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” God wants us to use our words to build others up, not tear them down!
Marrying the Wedding Crasher is a sweet romance. I definitely left the book smiling for the main characters, but I also left the book with a great reminder that I certainly did not expect. If you are looking for a well-written, sweet story that ends happily, and includes a great moral, then I highly recommend Marrying the Wedding Crasher. You will not be disappointed.