What lead to me read this book was not interest. It is joining my read folder simply because the man I'm gonna marry is going to school for practical theology; he does not agree with everything in this book. Almost everything in it is complete and utter rubbish. It’s horrifyingly close to the thought process that lead to the burning of alleged witches. The author of this book seems to claim that if you do not believe everything and don't do everything that appears in this work of fiction, then you have probably ‘not stood firm in the faith or lived according to who you are in Christ.’ What the author is really doing is purporting to be the ultimate authority on what it takes and means to be a Christian and basically telling us to obey his orders or we’ll be thrown into the fires of hell to burn for all eternity. Ironic, given the fact that in the very first paragraph of this book, he states that since Jesus died on the cross, we have already been forgiven.
For example: the author had the balls to suggest that if we have difficulty or do not want to follow the rules he wrote in this short book, which is best left in a garbage can, that we should seek ‘professional help.’ I’ll pass. This is all mumbo jumbo. Neil T. Anderson repeats his mantra multiple times; suggests that we should not dare to disagree with him and should not make up our own minds and that we should simply ask God for guidance. Funnily enough, the last time I asked God for help, He didn’t lead me to this nutty nonsense. The author includes a prayer that we are supposed to pray so we can be free and be able to know the will of God. Again, purporting to be the ultimate authority, Anderson suggests that if we don’t do what he suggests, then we don’t know what we’re doing. Also, if we don’t follow these rules, then we don’t know if God loves us. Rubbish!
In that first paragraph, he also asks if we are receiving the joys and wonders of Jesus Christ or if we’re slaves to the bondage of sin. From what I’ve heard from select friends and acquaintances, bondage in the bedroom can actually do wonders for a couple (relax. It's a joke😝). Our eternal destiny is apparently not at stake, but our daily victory is. Basically, if you do something the author of this book does not like, you MUST be under the powers of Satan himself, but are not a helpless victim of the lord of the underworld; still, ‘repent or else’ is the basic message.
Under ‘The Battle For Your Mind,’ it states that you may experience opposing thoughts when/if you try to follow these guidelines. Such opposing thoughts as: ‘This isn’t going to work,’ or, ‘God doesn’t love me.’ I’m fairly certain that neither of those options would be my opposing thought. Mine, as I unfortunately read this, was: ‘I’m not gonna do anything this author suggests. This stuff is absolutely bonkers!’ Especially since the author suggests that we should not pay attention to our opposing thoughts. Translation: Don't you dare disagree with me! As an added bonus, the author invites us to purchase two other books and hopes we’ll get brainwashed by them. Again, I’ll pass.
Under ‘Counterfeit vs. Real,' the author tells us to avoid the following:
1. Out of body experience.
2. Ouija board.
3. Bloody Mary.
4. Light As A Feather (Whatever that is…).
5. Magic Eight Ball (You have GOT to be kidding me!).
6. Spells or curses (Sorry J.K. Rowling).
7. Mental telepathy.
8. Automatic Writing.
9. Trances.
10. Spirit guides.
11. Fortune telling.
12. Tarot Cards.
13. Levitation.
14. Magic The Gathering (My ex is apparently screwed).
15. Witchcraft/Sorcery (Sorry again, J.K. Rowling).
16. Satanism (The author doesn’t seem to know the real definition of this religion. Satanism has nothing to do with Lucifer. Satanism is the belief that you are your own God).
17. Palm reading.
18. Astrology and Horoscopes (Well, a former friend of mine is screwed, too!)
19. Hypnosis (Every counsellor or psychiatrist that uses this method is apparently going to be rooming with Hitler).
20. Seances.
21. Black or white magic.
22. Fantasy games with occult images.
23. Blood pacts or cutting yourself on purpose (I admit the latter is a serious issue, but requires help, not threats of hell).
24. Idol worship, crystals, and good luck charms (Sorry, can’t have a lucky rabbits foot anymore!).
25. Sexual spirits. (As if it's even remotely possible for spirits to have sex...)
26. Martial arts (The author would accuse my former roommate of idol worship with this one).
27. Mysticism or Devotion to Sensei.
28. Superstitions (Go ahead and crack that mirror. Give it a go! The seven years of bad luck are irrelevant).
29. Occult or violent video and computer games.
Just when you don’t think there’s more, there is. The author desperately found every known religion that is still practised today and was nice enough to give us a list. Apparently, Yoga is a religion 🤷. We are to make a list of TV shows, music, books, mags, or comics that glorify Satan, have caused fear or nightmares, were gruesomely violent, or ‘stimulated the flesh.’ The author then listed questions to which any answer one could give would be the wrong answer, and you must repent at once, "or else!!!" I admit that a Christian should definitely avoid anything that worships, glorifies, or defends Satan, but that's all I hand to this author on this.
On page 12, the author was trying to force me to ignore my absolutely natural thought that even considering to follow these steps was a waste of time, but not to worry. I didn’t let this brain wash me.🤘 We can all heave a collected sigh of relief.
This book seriously suggests that anxiety and fears are the result of the devil. According to this book, Jesus can be our excuse. This can be interpreted in any way, really. There’s no immediate context to the sentence in which he suggests this. With that, I could hit another vehicle with mine, simply say, “Jesus,’ and everything will be fine. I can go slap my boss if they get ridiculous, simply say the Savior's name, and all will be hunky dory. I don’t think so. That’s not how it works. God is not your personal fairy godmother.
Page 17 wants us to read aloud that Jesus has delivered us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to his kingdom. I don’t know about you, but since I’m alive, I’m pretty sure that I’m still on Earth (Knock on wood! Oops! A superstition!). It also wants us to read out loud that we are seated next to God in Heaven. While you're still alive, this can’t happen yet. That’s called a delusion. Also, only Jesus may sit at the right hand of the Father.
On page 19, the author says that anyone who strives to forget something will find it impossible. You don’t say!
This also seriously suggests that we count all the times we have masturbated, and say a prayer for each individual session, and repent. Who could possibly keep track of that? Anderson also suggests that multiple personality disorder is the result of Satanism.
And now we get to a part with a crap load of prayers. I didn’t pray them, obviously. There’s one to repent if you’re divorced, a homosexual, have had an abortion, have had suicidal tendencies, if you’re a perfectionist, if you’ve an eating disorder, if you’ve self-mutilated, and if you’ve used illegal drugs. I don’t personally use illegal drugs, and don’t think anyone should, but that’s as far as I go with that one; and no one should harm themselves. It was very insulting to see that there was a prayer in here about renouncing homosexuality. I am a bisexual man. It is not who I am, it is merely what I am. Nevertheless, one of the ten commandments is ‘Thou Shalt Not Lie.’ That means I cannot lie to myself or others because I would be breaking one of the ten commandments, and thereby denying the person that God made me. The Bible even states that God gave us our desires. Also, the original Hebrew and Greek do not condemn loving same sex relationships and marriages. Take that, Neil T. Anderson!
These are a list of things that allegedly take God’s place in our lives:
1. Ambition.
2. Food or any substance.
3. Money.
4. Possessions.
5. Computers (Oops! I’m using one now! I’m screwed!!!).
6. Financial security.
7. Celebrities/Royalty (Oops! I’ve been reading books about a royal family. I MUST be worshiping them. Oh, no!!!).
8. Church Activities (Odd addition, if you ask me. Every church that I’ve ever been to encourages people to join the activities and causes).
9. TV/Movies/Music/Other media (That’s right! Be completely and utterly bored out of your mind when you’re not praying. Just sit there and stare at the four walls!!!).
10. Sports or physical fitness (That’s right! You can’t take care of your body at your doctor’s orders!).
11. Fun/pleasure
12. Ministry (WHISKEY TANGO HOTEL?!).
13. Appearance/Image (I guess we shouldn’t bathe because otherwise we are worshiping ourselves. What a load of waffle!).
14. Work (Don’t go to work, people! Don’t make money!)
15. Busyness/Activity.
16. Friends (You probably shouldn’t ask to hang out with me! It’s apparently forbidden).
17. Power/Control.
18. Boyfriend/Girlfriend (Load of waffle. When people are straight, no one tells them that their significant other is preventing time with God. I have been told this since I’m gay, however).
19. Popularity.
20. Spouse.
21. Children (I guess we’re not supposed to raise our kids! We can’t teach them right from wrong! Even though the Bible says to believe His children, to love them, and take care of them. Never mind that! This author says we can’t!).
22. Knowledge.
23. Hobbies.
24. Parents (Guess I shouldn’t go over to my parents’ place to see them and make sure they’re doing okay).
Fears of these things could send you to hell, allegedly:
1. Satan.
2. Divorce.
3. Death.
4. Not being loved by God.
5. Never being loved.
6. Disapproval.
7. Embarrassment.
8. Failure.
9. Being/Becoming homosexual (This fear is only created when a person has been brainwashed into believing it’s a sin. It never was, isn’t, and never will be a sin).
10. Financial problems.
11. Of going crazy.
12. Of being a hopeless case.
13. Death of a loved one.
14. Of the future.
15. Confrontation.
16. Of being victimized by crime.
17. Of having committed the unpardonable sin.
18. Of specific people, animals, or objects.
19. Of not being able to love others.
20. Of marriage.
21. Of rejection by people.
22. Of never getting married.
23. Of never having children.
Seriously! Who let this guy write a book? It's nonsense like this that makes my head spin. There is clearly a difference between having an interest in something and worshiping it. There is no real difference between same sex attraction and opposite sex attraction. There is no legitimate reason to have no interests. There is no legitimate reason to believe that this book is a good way to change yourself. I can't in all good conscience as a Christian support this. 🤦♂️
1 out of 5 stars.