Because this book, written by a Tibetan Lama and an American Buddhist, was recommended to an elderly member of my family, I read it with the thought of becoming acquainted with a Buddhist classic. I was a bit disappointed because the book is more of a “how-to” book, or introduction, than it is any kind of accurate version of The Tibetan Book of the Dead. It is addressed to a general audience, and frequently refers to what Buddhists think or do in the third person, rather than in the first person. It contains helpful advice, along the general lines of Buddhist thought, and may be a comfort for those thinking about their own demise.
The most constructive advice is to let go of one’s desires and aversions, to not think one’s self as a fixed and static thing, but rather as constantly changing and as interrelated with everything else. If we can detach from our day-to-day concerns, we can open ourselves up to compassion and equanimity.
The book refers to “God, or a Higher Power” as though it were a Twelve-Step program, and leaves one mystified as to how Buddhists would think of it. The book also says “Christ, Mary, Buddha, the Prophet Mohammad, and Moses are all representations and manifestations of love, compassion – a Higher Being.” This is admirable in its attempt to speak to everyone, but it is unclear as an expression of Buddhism.
I have heard of The Tibetan Book of the Dead: First Complete Translation (Penguin Classics Deluxe Edition), with an introduction by the Dalai Lama. I will probably look for that, although I fully acknowledge that the “Beginners” version is good-hearted and helpful.