This is about my tenth time reading this book, and I think I will probably declutter it in the next purge. It was inspiring to me for many years and it motivated me to get rid of a lot of things. Don Aslett has written some things that have really stayed with me over the years. Like where he asserts that we think having two homes will be double the wealth, but in reality it's double the worry and double the responsibility. Or where he says that things die in storage, which I think is really true. It was the books I had in boxes under my bed that got ruined, not the ones on display in the bookcase. His advice has influenced me to choose simpler apartments that cost less money, fewer items of furniture and decoration, fewer of everything in general. An apartment with two bathrooms will mean double the cleaning. Looking back, lots of the decisions I've made about material possessions over the last twelve or so years have been based largely on his advice. When I ignored his advice, I learned that he was right.
Trouble is, I'm not a very good dejunker because I end up regretting getting rid of things after the fact. Then I hold onto things more because I don't want to lose them. And I think it's the idea of going through my belongings with the motivation to just chuck everything that is to blame. I'll follow rules about how I have to get rid of items because I haven't used them in a certain amount of time, and I'll get rid of something I really loved. That sort of thing. That's why I think the Konmari method is working better for me. Konmari advocates sorting your belongings with the idea that you're picking out your favorite things that you want to keep, rather than furiously getting rid of things. It's a subtle difference, choosing what you want to keep rather than what you want to throw away, but to me it's profound. I had my most successful dejunking session ever after reading The Life Changing Magic Of Tidying Up, and I think I want to use the Konmari method from now on. I would still wholeheartedly recommend Don Aslett's books to someone who needs a good kick in the pants dejunking their house. I'm still remembering and following a lot of his advice. But I want to go with Konmari's method for actually sorting my belongings and deciding which ones belong in my house from now on.