The complexity of a modern lifestyle leave us all sometimes wondering where we fit into this ever-changing world we live in. With one of most important personal issues being our relationships as we work though this book we will endeavor to understand what, why and how we can enjoy that great relationship.I am a great believer in an open relationship – No not a free pass for you or your partner to sleep with whoever takes our fancy or titivates our desires. It is about having the opportunity to be able to openly talk to each other on all issues that we find troubling in our present relationship in a calm productive and positive way with respect and an open heart.No matter what our race, color or creed it is our basic human instinct to share our lives with a fun and loving partner, to be loved and to give love. With this goal in mind we need to acknowledge it has been scientifically proven that females and males although from the same species have different thought patterns.How to go about finding your Mr. Right (a real man, not an immature boy) and building a long-term relationship is a challenge a lot of single women face in this fast paced world. When you start this quest the first thing to remember is to be true to you, love yourself, be self-confident and be that perfect girlfriend by becoming your partners best friend, lover and only true love. Set your sights on the man you want, aim high, be choosy, open your heart and follow your natural instincts and don’t forget to have fun. And remember life is too short to be filled with compromise.