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Because We're Worth It: Transformations, Temptations, and Triumphs in the Quest for Happiness

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In the bustling backdrop of London, Kate finds herself adrift when her husband's high-profile contract and her youngest son's departure to boarding school leave her feeling surplus to requirements. Seeking a boost in self-esteem, the curvaceous Kate enlists in 'Slimforever'. Can shedding pounds help her rediscover her sense of purpose?Jenny, yearning for motherhood with time slipping away, contemplates whether weight loss could be the key to conceiving. Joining 'Slimforever' becomes her last-ditch effort to beat the ticking biological clock. Will it be the answer to her heartfelt prayers?Their glamorous friend Lauren, an ex-model with an elegant Georgian home, barrister husband, and thriving interior decorating business, decides a few lost pounds might enhance her seemingly perfect life. But is the facade of perfection hiding untold secrets?Meanwhile, the alluring and voluptuous Diana, discontented in the quiet backwoods of Ballyfern, craves excitement and will stop at nothing to attain her desires—even if it means crossing boundaries with another woman's husband.With disparate goals and dreams, can these four women emerge as winners in the unpredictable game of life?

436 pages, Kindle Edition

First published September 1, 2009

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Pauline Lawless

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479 reviews17 followers
March 8, 2025
Not overly impressed with this one, readers, so I dnf it at page 96.

Why?
Was totally appalled at how the men behaved towards women, and in this day in age, who wants to read about that kind of hoo har.

The thing that encouraged me to keep going a little was the yummy treats, and yes, there was a positive spin where these girls did stick to the slim classes and loose weight, but honestly we want peace and harmony, not sweet and sour.

Oh how my reading choices have changed somewhat, this was a free ebook that I purchased a few years ago, so my reading and choices have matured and so they should at my age of 59.

So with that little speech over with I'm giving a well deserved

1/5
49 reviews
January 19, 2020
Three and a half stars. It was an ok read.

This book was ok. It sounded like the sort of book I would love, three women all with different problems, join a slimming group and find themselves.

Unfortunately it turns out all their problems seen to be man based. Their men arent good enough for them and that's the route of their problems. I would have ordered some diversity, some recognition that people can be happily married or in a fulfilling relationship and still have issues with confidence or sadness or unfulfilled dreams.

Having said this the characters were likable enough, the story fairly engaging and the ending predictable but satisfying.it was a shame the slimming group colder have a different slogan than "because your worth it" as it just made me think of beauty product advertisements!
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100 reviews2 followers
August 30, 2020
I enjoyed this but at times I could have punched some characters.
The characters were well written and were believable. You end up rooting for some, while others you think a truly nasty.
The characters were recognisable and true to life.
10 reviews
June 13, 2020
Absolutely awful, badly written drivel

I don't often bother writing a review but this is so awful i felt i had to.
It reads like it was written by a12 year old . The plot is ridiculous and predictable, stereotypical nonsense Can't believe this even got to print from a good publishing house. Unfortinately once i start a book I feel compelled to complete it, otherwise would never have wasted the hours on it.
3 reviews
October 20, 2022
Terrible pointless book. Couldn't empathise with any of the characters. Flat, non developed plot. Couldnt see any genuine reason to finish it, not even interesting as chick lit, endless descriptions of sexual exploits, and obviously the author has no idea about domestic violence.
Very black and white characters who supposedly had enough money to spend endless amounts on designer clothing even on a teacher's wage. very far fetched. Deleted it from my reading list.
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3,381 reviews31 followers
April 19, 2018
I liked this, and most of the female characters, but there sure were a lot of dysfunctional marriages in here, with husbands ranging from cheaters to wife beaters. On the other hand, the female friendships were lovely to see, and the men they ended up with in the end were a big improvement over their original spouses.
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251 reviews
May 5, 2020
Fun read!

What a fun yet emotional read. From the highest to the lowest of emotions this book contains real life, imperfect marriages and the growth of women throughout it all. Humor, tears, excitement, unexpected turns are all found here.
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321 reviews
June 1, 2020
Enjoy

I really liked this book. I enjoyed the story of each of the women and I love, that this is all about empowering these women and their journey. And when it could be a cliche about weight loss and self-esteem, it certainly isn’t. It’s about achieving goals.
33 reviews
November 5, 2022
Great book for ladies

There were many ups and downs in this book with the girlfriends just as there are in real life. I enjoyed reading about the friendships in this book. It doesn't sugar coat reality. I would recommend this book to all women. I think they would enjoy it.
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275 reviews
May 9, 2020
First of many by this author, looking forward to reading more books by her. I enjoyed reading this, dysfunctional marriages and all! Danny and Diana should’ve gotten more of what they deserved IMO. Good for Kate for having the confidence to do what she wanted! I wouldn’t have been as forgiving as Marcia. I was happy to read that Jenny and Conor finally realized their feelings towards one another.
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4 reviews
July 27, 2020
Because we're worth it was a nice summer beach involving a few friends who are affluent and in bad marriages. They go on a diet and lose weight, gain confidence and change their lives. I found it very predictable. It takes place in Ireland so the weight loss in in stones which I had to look up. Other wise it was very cute.
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286 reviews3 followers
June 17, 2017
This is a beautiful charming story of a set of couples whose lives are intertwined. The ladies join a slimforevr group and make friendships that will last a total life time.
Well written and lovely to read.
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52 reviews3 followers
May 26, 2020
How four ladies from different situation make it through one year is amazing.

Four ladies who would have thought they could be amazing friends and business people? You got to read this book.
38 reviews2 followers
November 16, 2022
Love this book

I really enjoyed reading this book! It was easy to read,. I liked the twist and turns of all the characters. I wondered how it was going to end, but the ending was perfect!
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143 reviews1 follower
June 6, 2024
I enjoyed this book; it was an easy read. The story is about women who join a slimming club and make new friends. They support each other through good and bad times, it just seemed all their problems were to do with men!
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244 reviews2 followers
April 6, 2018
Lawless bring to her readers another warm and lighthearted read. I enjoy when friends come together in support of each other to uplift during bad moments. Makes me thankful for the friends I have.
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39 reviews1 follower
May 10, 2018
Enjoyable, quick read! A story of 4 Irish ladies going thru life changes.
49 reviews
July 2, 2018
Because

Loved the ease of friendship these women found. I wish it was that easy in real life. I liked the characters and the realistic conversations. A fun read.
911 reviews15 followers
April 29, 2019
This is a very beautiful, moving , and emotional story of the life of four girlfriends. I so enjoyed this story.
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19 reviews10 followers
August 30, 2019
Fab book first time reader of this author but will definitely read more
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8 reviews
April 29, 2020
Lovely book!

I smiled and cried reading this...the end made me feel warm all over. Thank you Pauline...loved all the characters...even Diana!
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29 reviews
May 3, 2020
We are worth it

Pauline thank you for this beautiful book. I think every woman over a certain age should read this book and be inspired.. Best wishes and stay safe 😍
3 reviews
May 12, 2020
Enjoyed this book, loved the characters

Easy to read book, characters that you grew to like immediately. Highly recommend putting your feet up and enjoy the read.
189 reviews
May 12, 2020
I could not put it down

This was a great book. Kept me up half the night reading. It was sad and funny and happy all at once.
165 reviews
May 13, 2020
Friends forever!

Four women meet and share life's adventures of love and loss. They grow strong as they face their challenges together.
3 reviews
May 19, 2020
It should have been good - but it was slow, not very well written and predictable.
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590 reviews3 followers
May 27, 2020
I enjoyed this book. It's about 4 women and their marriages, set in Ireland/England. Interesting.
120 reviews
June 26, 2020
Good Book

I thought this story was really good. It was nice to see woman supporting each other as well as standing up to their men.


330 reviews8 followers
July 10, 2020
Worth it!!

Worth the read and then some!! Great read, so well crafted. Loved the characters, most any way. HEA for those that deserved. Escape to Ireland, please!
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