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¿Y qué hay de mí? (What About Me?): Libérate del egoísmo y descubre el poder de vivir desprendidamente
Experimenta la verdadera satisfacción y el poder de una vida desinteresada con la autora de éxitos de ventas del New York Times y reconocida maestra de la Biblia, Joyce Meyer.
A medida que avanzamos en nuestro diario vivir, existe una vocecita en nuestra mente que siempre “¿Y qué hay de mí?”. Tal vez algo “¿Cuándo llegará mi turno de que me tomen en cuenta en el trabajo?” o “¿Cuándo alguien de esta familia hará algo por mí?”. Esa voz puede estar susurrándote sobre tus finanzas, tu trabajo o tus amigos, pero siempre te anima a pensar en algo que no tienes. Y, lamentablemente, las redes sociales y la cultura en general nos llevan a centrarnos en el concepto de felicidad y éxito de este mundo, pero ¿funciona?
¿Podrías estar saboteando tu propia alegría, tu propósito, tu éxito? ¿Qué podrías hacer para salir de tu propio camino? Y lo más importante, ¿cuál es la definición de éxito de Dios? La Biblia nos dice, una y otra vez, que la verdadera fuente de significado y felicidad es una vida centrada en Dios y en servir a los demás. En lugar de preguntarnos cuándo será nuestro turno de conseguir un aumento, ser reconocidos o finalmente triunfar, es hora de descubrir la fuente de la felicidad y la satisfacción verdaderas y duraderas.
¡Al transitar por esta ruta, tendremos mayor gozo y una relación más cercana con Dios de lo que jamás podríamos imaginar!
Experience the true satisfaction and power of living unselfishly with #1 New York Times bestselling author and renowned Bible teacher Joyce Meyer.
As we go about our daily lives, there is a little voice in our minds that’s always asking, “What about me?” Maybe your voice says, “When is it my turn to be noticed at work?” or “When will someone in this family do something for me?” That voice may be whispering to you about your finances, your job, or your friends, but it is always encouraging you to think about something you don’t have. And sadly, social media and culture in general lead us to focus on this world’s concept of happiness and success—but does it work?
Could you be sabotaging your own joy, your purpose, your success? What could you do to get out of your own way? And most importantly, what is God’s definition of success? The Bible tells us over and over that the true source of meaning and happiness is a life focused on God and on serving others. Instead of asking when it will be our turn to get a raise, be recognized, or finally make it big, it’s time to discover the source of true and lasting of happiness and satisfaction.
By walking in this path, we will have more joy and a closer relationship with God than we could ever imagine!
A medida que avanzamos en nuestro diario vivir, existe una vocecita en nuestra mente que siempre “¿Y qué hay de mí?”. Tal vez algo “¿Cuándo llegará mi turno de que me tomen en cuenta en el trabajo?” o “¿Cuándo alguien de esta familia hará algo por mí?”. Esa voz puede estar susurrándote sobre tus finanzas, tu trabajo o tus amigos, pero siempre te anima a pensar en algo que no tienes. Y, lamentablemente, las redes sociales y la cultura en general nos llevan a centrarnos en el concepto de felicidad y éxito de este mundo, pero ¿funciona?
¿Podrías estar saboteando tu propia alegría, tu propósito, tu éxito? ¿Qué podrías hacer para salir de tu propio camino? Y lo más importante, ¿cuál es la definición de éxito de Dios? La Biblia nos dice, una y otra vez, que la verdadera fuente de significado y felicidad es una vida centrada en Dios y en servir a los demás. En lugar de preguntarnos cuándo será nuestro turno de conseguir un aumento, ser reconocidos o finalmente triunfar, es hora de descubrir la fuente de la felicidad y la satisfacción verdaderas y duraderas.
¡Al transitar por esta ruta, tendremos mayor gozo y una relación más cercana con Dios de lo que jamás podríamos imaginar!
Experience the true satisfaction and power of living unselfishly with #1 New York Times bestselling author and renowned Bible teacher Joyce Meyer.
As we go about our daily lives, there is a little voice in our minds that’s always asking, “What about me?” Maybe your voice says, “When is it my turn to be noticed at work?” or “When will someone in this family do something for me?” That voice may be whispering to you about your finances, your job, or your friends, but it is always encouraging you to think about something you don’t have. And sadly, social media and culture in general lead us to focus on this world’s concept of happiness and success—but does it work?
Could you be sabotaging your own joy, your purpose, your success? What could you do to get out of your own way? And most importantly, what is God’s definition of success? The Bible tells us over and over that the true source of meaning and happiness is a life focused on God and on serving others. Instead of asking when it will be our turn to get a raise, be recognized, or finally make it big, it’s time to discover the source of true and lasting of happiness and satisfaction.
By walking in this path, we will have more joy and a closer relationship with God than we could ever imagine!
294 pages, Kindle Edition
Published September 10, 2024
About the author
Joyce Meyer
2,129 books3,970 followersJoyce Meyer is a New York Times bestselling author and one of the world's leading Bible teachers. Through Joyce Meyer Ministries, she teaches practically and candidly, openly sharing her experiences and helping millions of people to apply biblical principles to their situations and ultimately find hope and restoration through Jesus Christ. Her book Battlefield of the Mind has been a perennial bestseller, teaching people how to win the war in their minds and “think about what they think about.”
Joyce’s Enjoying Everyday Life program is broadcast to millions worldwide in 114 languages. She has also authored over 150 books, which have been translated into over 170 combined languages, including Battlefield of the Mind, which has sold over 7 million copies across the globe. We’ve also distributed over 43.5 million books around the world.
A survivor of childhood sexual abuse, Joyce discovered how to overcome the emotional pain of her troubled past and experience true joy, hope, and healing by applying God’s Word to her life. Her passion is to help others do the same. For more than 40 years, Joyce has held conferences across the United States and around the world, teaching God’s Word and sharing the message of Christ with millions. Joyce also encourages millions each day through social media and online efforts and resources at joycemeyer.org
Joyce’s passion to help people who are hurting is the foundation of Hand of Hope, the missions arm of Joyce Meyer Ministries. Each year, Hand of Hope provides millions of meals for the hungry and malnourished, installs freshwater wells in poor and remote areas, provides critical relief after natural disasters, and offers free medical and dental care to thousands through their hospitals and clinics worldwide. Through their Project GRL initiative, they rescue women and children from human trafficking, provide safe places where they can receive an education and nutritious meals, and seek to let all girls everywhere know they are loved and valued by God.
In 2023, Joyce founded Hope Mountain Ranch, an 800-acre refuge in Mount Pleasant, Utah. Inspired by her own personal journey, Hope Mountain Ranch is a place where people can experience the transformative power of God and find hope and healing. It also serves as the hub for Joyce Meyer Ministries’ outreaches across the United States.
Joyce’s Enjoying Everyday Life program is broadcast to millions worldwide in 114 languages. She has also authored over 150 books, which have been translated into over 170 combined languages, including Battlefield of the Mind, which has sold over 7 million copies across the globe. We’ve also distributed over 43.5 million books around the world.
A survivor of childhood sexual abuse, Joyce discovered how to overcome the emotional pain of her troubled past and experience true joy, hope, and healing by applying God’s Word to her life. Her passion is to help others do the same. For more than 40 years, Joyce has held conferences across the United States and around the world, teaching God’s Word and sharing the message of Christ with millions. Joyce also encourages millions each day through social media and online efforts and resources at joycemeyer.org
Joyce’s passion to help people who are hurting is the foundation of Hand of Hope, the missions arm of Joyce Meyer Ministries. Each year, Hand of Hope provides millions of meals for the hungry and malnourished, installs freshwater wells in poor and remote areas, provides critical relief after natural disasters, and offers free medical and dental care to thousands through their hospitals and clinics worldwide. Through their Project GRL initiative, they rescue women and children from human trafficking, provide safe places where they can receive an education and nutritious meals, and seek to let all girls everywhere know they are loved and valued by God.
In 2023, Joyce founded Hope Mountain Ranch, an 800-acre refuge in Mount Pleasant, Utah. Inspired by her own personal journey, Hope Mountain Ranch is a place where people can experience the transformative power of God and find hope and healing. It also serves as the hub for Joyce Meyer Ministries’ outreaches across the United States.
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February 23, 2025
I have read several books written by Joyce Meyer, so I was anxious to read "What About Me? : Get Out of Your Own Way and Discover the Power of an Unselfish Life."
"Some people dream of success, but others wake up and work hard at it" (pg. 155).
This book is filled with Bible verses, inspirational quotes, excerpts/references to other Christian books and pages of personal stories and testimonies. The author challenges us to consider the lies that we believe... that feelings don't always tell us the truth, and there is an entire section devoted to hearing from God.
"We need to understand that there is a difference between what we want, what we think, what we feel, and God's will" (pg. xi).
Part One is: Learning to Love.
Part Two: Getting Out of Your Own Way
Part Three: Becoming an Obedient Follower of Jesus
Part Four: The Unexpected Path to Joy
Part Five: "It's Really Not About Me"
"We need to remember that our happiness is our responsibility, not anyone else's" (pg. 18).
Each Chapter begins with a Bible verse.
"Live to give, not to get, and you will be a happy person" (pg. 168).
In Chapter Two, Joyce shares the reasons people become self-focused. In Chapter Three, she lists Bible verses that can strengthen us in our war against the flesh. In Chapter Four, there are twelve ways of thinking that will be beneficial to us. In Chapter Seven, Joyce points out several differences between the Spirit and the flesh. In Chapter Thirteen, the author shares situations where we can prefer others above ourselves. In Chapter Twenty-One, the author lists three specific ways to express love to others.
"God will work with us and use us for His glory" (pg. 137).
5 Stars! I highly recommend this book!
"Some people dream of success, but others wake up and work hard at it" (pg. 155).
This book is filled with Bible verses, inspirational quotes, excerpts/references to other Christian books and pages of personal stories and testimonies. The author challenges us to consider the lies that we believe... that feelings don't always tell us the truth, and there is an entire section devoted to hearing from God.
"We need to understand that there is a difference between what we want, what we think, what we feel, and God's will" (pg. xi).
Part One is: Learning to Love.
Part Two: Getting Out of Your Own Way
Part Three: Becoming an Obedient Follower of Jesus
Part Four: The Unexpected Path to Joy
Part Five: "It's Really Not About Me"
"We need to remember that our happiness is our responsibility, not anyone else's" (pg. 18).
Each Chapter begins with a Bible verse.
"Live to give, not to get, and you will be a happy person" (pg. 168).
In Chapter Two, Joyce shares the reasons people become self-focused. In Chapter Three, she lists Bible verses that can strengthen us in our war against the flesh. In Chapter Four, there are twelve ways of thinking that will be beneficial to us. In Chapter Seven, Joyce points out several differences between the Spirit and the flesh. In Chapter Thirteen, the author shares situations where we can prefer others above ourselves. In Chapter Twenty-One, the author lists three specific ways to express love to others.
"God will work with us and use us for His glory" (pg. 137).
5 Stars! I highly recommend this book!
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October 7, 2024
This book was what I needed at this time. Sometimes we are so focused on our problems that we forget about other people. The world is full of problems that if you look beyond yourself you can make the world better for others. In the end by focusing on others brings some joy to you. I needed that reminder. Life gets tough but it gets easier if you focus on other people than yourself. It’s a Biblical principle that we often forget about. To wash the feet of the disciples. I know as a Mother it’s easy to forget about yourself as you are caring for another individual. You get lost in that unconditional vulnerability of a being. It shows up without any restrictions this aspect. I think it’s God given. In caring about others we ultimately care about ourselves as we love others through the lens of God.
December 17, 2024
Excellent Book. Probably my 5th or 6th now by Joyce Myers
February 22, 2025
5/5 Self improvement through self analysis and scripture. Excellent!
February 20, 2025
This is probably on of the best books I’ve read so far this year. This book is transformational.
January 22, 2025
This book has truly changed my way of thinking in so many ways. I have gone about life, like most people, thinking the 'right' thing is the selfish thing and finding the answers to all my 'what about me' questions. What about my happiness? What about what I want? What about how I feel? When truth of the matter is, as Joyce Meyer lays out in this book, we are never the main character - Jesus is. God is. The Holy Spirit is. His will for our lives to give thanks in all circumstances and His two greatest commandments to love Him with all our hearts, strength and mind and to love our neighbor as ourselves are the main purposes of life. When looking at life from a lens of lack and forever search of self-fulfillment, of course you will always find reasons to be unhappy. But this book taught me that greater joy is found in seeking first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, loving others, and trusting Him to provide our needs is the way to go. His plans are going to be far greater for us than the things we think will be solutions to our 'what about me' questions. This book is stellar rather you are a 'baby Christian' new in your walk in Christ or are further along in your relationship with Him. I highly, highly recommend!
February 10, 2025
reading this book by joyce meyers definitely changed my perspective on what i thought , "dying to self" really meant. i would definitely recommend this book to anyone struggling with selfishness , as i also always had questions that were mainly self centered based.
i'm glad i got to see unselfishness through a different lense. 💕
can't wait for my next joyce meyer read !!
i'm glad i got to see unselfishness through a different lense. 💕
can't wait for my next joyce meyer read !!
February 11, 2025
DNF. Got through 10% and it was not resonating with me.
December 25, 2024
Excellent book
December 30, 2024
This was a great Read
December 31, 2024
Joyce does it again. I had a hard time putting it down. I feel like all of her books are very well worded and written in a way that is easy for me to understand.
January 21, 2025
if you’re trying to grow a strong relationship with God or learn how to forgive and love better this book is for you! learn so much in this book & about myself. i totally recommend!
May 2, 2026
I just loved every page of this book! I will re read it in a few months and make notations! #nonfiction
July 27, 2026
Truly disappointing book. I loved the premise of the book, and it was a message I really needed to hear. But this is barely coherent dribble as far as I am concerned. My two biggest issues are her gross oversimplification of ideas to the point of making them false and her incessant need to modify the word of God in order to make her point.
Example: "People who are spiritual believe what they cannot see or feel (Hebrews 11:1); they believe in their hearts. I didn't see Jesus die on the cross, but I wholeheartedly believe He did and that He did it for you and me. People who are spiritual believe the Word of God regardless of what they see or do not see, but those who are natural only believe what they see with their eyes." (pg 95).
Now, if you have ever met a "natural" person or engaged intellectually with them at any level, you know they believe plenty of things that they haven't seen with their eyes (evolution, Big Bang theory, pretty much any historical fact). I understand what she is intending to say, but she said it so poorly as to make it untrue.
The examples of her adding to/modifying the word of God are almost as abundant as her use of the word of God, as most Biblical quotes include interpolations/editorial additions. Most of the time they are unnecessary, leading me to wonder why she would add to the original Biblical text at all. And in the cases were it changes the meaning of quote, it makes me question why she would use that text to support whatever claim she is trying to make.
I left this book feeling supremely disappointed that the author considers herself "one of the world's leading Bible teachers". Perhaps it is a book meant for people just entering into Christianity or exploring a little deeper for the first time, but it is certainly not for anyone who has spent any amount of time in scripture or studying Church history or the saints' writings. Skip this and go straight to Fr. Jacques Philippe or Brother Lawrence or any number of saints who have written on this subject. I truly don't mean to be rude to Meyers, I am sure there is a market for this exact book and that this book has truly changed lives (just read the comments! People love this book). But for those who are a bit more well formed in their faith, I wanted to warn that this will likely fall flat.
Example: "People who are spiritual believe what they cannot see or feel (Hebrews 11:1); they believe in their hearts. I didn't see Jesus die on the cross, but I wholeheartedly believe He did and that He did it for you and me. People who are spiritual believe the Word of God regardless of what they see or do not see, but those who are natural only believe what they see with their eyes." (pg 95).
Now, if you have ever met a "natural" person or engaged intellectually with them at any level, you know they believe plenty of things that they haven't seen with their eyes (evolution, Big Bang theory, pretty much any historical fact). I understand what she is intending to say, but she said it so poorly as to make it untrue.
The examples of her adding to/modifying the word of God are almost as abundant as her use of the word of God, as most Biblical quotes include interpolations/editorial additions. Most of the time they are unnecessary, leading me to wonder why she would add to the original Biblical text at all. And in the cases were it changes the meaning of quote, it makes me question why she would use that text to support whatever claim she is trying to make.
I left this book feeling supremely disappointed that the author considers herself "one of the world's leading Bible teachers". Perhaps it is a book meant for people just entering into Christianity or exploring a little deeper for the first time, but it is certainly not for anyone who has spent any amount of time in scripture or studying Church history or the saints' writings. Skip this and go straight to Fr. Jacques Philippe or Brother Lawrence or any number of saints who have written on this subject. I truly don't mean to be rude to Meyers, I am sure there is a market for this exact book and that this book has truly changed lives (just read the comments! People love this book). But for those who are a bit more well formed in their faith, I wanted to warn that this will likely fall flat.
May 18, 2025
This was a fantastic book that really allowed me to take a hard look at my life and see ways I can better improve and ask God for help to be better and more unselfish to those around me. It's not about casting away everything you love and living a lowly servant life - it's about being prepared for whatever God asks of you, and that will mean sacrifice at some point. And it definitely means being a servant. But remembering who you serve is the best part of all of it - a God who loves you and will bless you.
I have definitely struggled with selfishness my whole life, and I was encouraged to see how to better stand up against those tendencies and surrender to the One who loves me, trusting He will guide me to do what is right and take care of those around me with a full heart.
And it's not about perfection, because I know there will be times that I fail, but it's about trusting God with the process.
I have definitely struggled with selfishness my whole life, and I was encouraged to see how to better stand up against those tendencies and surrender to the One who loves me, trusting He will guide me to do what is right and take care of those around me with a full heart.
And it's not about perfection, because I know there will be times that I fail, but it's about trusting God with the process.
February 15, 2026
This was a very inspiring and eye opening read. It really showed me where I was selfish. Along with how hypercritical I can be to God, myself, and others. I highly recommend this book of you really want to face and understand how we are selfish, and how our selfishness can be a hinderance to our personal growth. Along with our relationship with Christ our Lord and Savior!!
April 17, 2026
Finally, a book that talks about what it really looks like to be a Christ follower and how God transforms us but by it and our responsibility in the process. That this life is a process, we are not alone and we don’t have to have it all figured out. Evidence that during this process, that we can have joy, laughter, and prosperity as we “get out of our own way”.
June 26, 2025
Truly Loved it
Very Helpful in me seeing God's way of doing Life is better. My favorite book is Healing the Soul of a Woman but this was Awesome and helpful too. So was Battlefield of the Mind. Do recommend to get this book so worth it.
Very Helpful in me seeing God's way of doing Life is better. My favorite book is Healing the Soul of a Woman but this was Awesome and helpful too. So was Battlefield of the Mind. Do recommend to get this book so worth it.
November 16, 2025
I’ve read many of Joyce Meyer’s books, and they’re always impactful. I picked up What About Me? at just the right moment. It’s a powerful reminder to live with a selfless heart—and in doing so, to honor God.
June 30, 2025
A very good read! Highly recommend!!
July 3, 2025
She always has such good messages. After reading her books I feel good and use it through my days to get closer to God.
July 17, 2025
This book is very insightful and I loved the scriptures in this one. The way Joyce Meyer incorporates her personal life stories into her novels is amazing.
July 19, 2025
I usually liver her books, but this one didn't do it for me.
August 12, 2025
such a good read I really enjoy her books 📚 😊
December 17, 2025
Lovely thoughts and ideas but didn’t focus too much on selflessness which is what I thought the book would be about
August 22, 2026
One of my favorite takeaways- don’t think about the ways your not able to help others think about what you can do. Highly recommend!
November 26, 2025
Me gustó mucho, tardé mucho en terminarlo, porque en medio de esta lectura perdí a mi papá 😢 y entré en bloqueo no tenía nada de ánimo para la lectura. Luego de mes y medio volví a retomarlo para completarlo y lo amé 💕
December 21, 2024
This was a great book especially to read a second time and I learned so much from reading it and was reminded so much I forgot! 😊 I recommend it to anyone who wants to learn how to die to self
March 30, 2025
This book was a fast and easy read, organized into 5 chapters and twenty-two chapters. I enjoy reading all of Joyce Meyers' publications, as I always learn something new.
June 23, 2025
Feels like a warm conversation with an experienced godly woman. She gives her perspective, and there's something worth taking away from how to live a less selfish life without neglecting yourself.
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