Before finishing the first page I was crying because I knew this book was going to change my life. I was 16 when I first saw a doctor about my volatile stomach. Over the next dozen years, I talked to five doctors, was put on seven different medications and suffered through countless tests to try living a normal life, yet nothing seemed to help—and often aggravated—the situation. After years of no doctors being willing to take the time to figure out what works for me, I gave up trying. But this book brings me hope.
More than 25 percent of women suffer from digestive disorders, but we’re embarrassed to talk about them, even to our doctors. Bathroom talk might be funny to preteen boys, but for women weighed down by responsibilities, commitments and expectations, it's no laughing matter.
I know some people are disappointed in this book. They feel it doesn’t focus enough on lifestyle choices, it’s not very organized, it uses too much medical terminology. I can understand why some readers feel this why, but I think the author is trying to give us the tools necessary to talk about our digestive health and not just give a list of dietary changes that may help some people while not helping others. She even says at the very beginning of the book that she doesn’t know enough about holistic remedies to be able to make informed recommendations, so if you’re looking for alternatives to medical options, this book isn’t for you. Instead, it's a starting point for people like me who have been frustrated when trying to talk to physicians and can’t figure out why—no matter what I try to cut out of my diet—the symptoms change but never get better.
I'm now armed with the right questions to ask and a plan of action. I better understand how menstruation affects my digestive system and why my acid reflux complicates treatment options. For the first time, I have the vocabulary to be able to talk to my doctor without feeling like a hypochondriac. There's a light at the end of the tunnel that I'll be able to eat out with friends and not fear losing my job because mornings are so difficult. My digestive issues are a family joke and unreasonably restrict my dietary choices (no dairy, corn, fruit, many vegetables, meat, oils, vinegar, sugar, beans, nuts, spices), but after finishing this book, I feel empowered. And when it comes to my stomach, that's not a feeling I've ever had in my 29 years.