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Choosing Words That Heal

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The words we use can have a tremendous impact on a person’s life. With them we can build up a heart or with them we can break one. Words can bless and words can crush, but if they’re not founded in love they’ll always be harmful in one way or another.Love has always been expressed first through the lips. Before every romantic relationship begins, words of love come first. We communicate our hearts through our mouths, and whatever is bubbling over from our hearts spills forth from the mouth.Like a kiss on the ear a beautiful word can truly bless a soul. But a bitter word can crush a spirit. The words we use can hurt, and are often taken seriously by the one we’re speaking to. We ought not to be caught saying things we don’t actually mean, but expressing sincerity with the heart of Christ.Knowing this, we ought to devote ourselves to having holy, edifying, and loving tongues. For if the Gospel of Jesus comes from our mouths, then what are hurtful words doing there as well? One should be careful to abstain from negative talk, whether toward others or of ourselves. Consider devoting yourself to have lips full of love as you choose words that heal.

34 pages, Kindle Edition

First published December 14, 2013

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Adam Houge

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Adam is a preacher, teacher and Christian author. He is a devoted husband and father of 3 boys. Through His travels he’s seen the need for a new awakening and a new revival: A revival of the heart. Come join Adam on this journey of redemption and experience God like never before!

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February 16, 2015
Beautiful

I love your books Adam Hogue they open my eyes especially this book. It spoke to me on several things in my life. I know the Lord has something big for me and I'm going to continue to move forward...God Bless you!!!
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August 22, 2014
Excellent

Excellent

Very well said and well written. I can't help but wonder what the world would be like if this was the focus of people everywhere.
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August 10, 2018
I truly enjoyed how the author brought together truth with its instruction from the Word and its application. He addresses the input/output relationship with our tongues and encourages words as they edify. There is a chapter for families and communication as well as all others.

I truly believe our world would be changed positively if everyone read and put to practice this book.

Well done, Mr. Houge! I definitely recommend this book as a read and reread for everyone. I will be rereading as a reminder to keep myself and what leaves my mouth in check. Truly, it should be nothing that does not come from a place of love.

A quick read!
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August 15, 2019
Powerful read

This book though short is powerful. It definitely helped me to see where I need to examine myself and spend more time with God so that He can bring about the change in my heart so that I speak words of love and life.
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July 8, 2017
Another gem

Time and tine again Adam delivers a powerful spiritual message that seems to coincide with some of the things I'm working to get better at in life.
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September 24, 2017
Good read.

I chose this rating because dealing with the tongue is a challenge. This books encourages the spiritual usage of your tongue.
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July 19, 2018
Great read

I found this book to cause me to think about how I think about myself and others. Please consider reading this book.
3 reviews
December 10, 2018
Amazing

The book was inspiring and informational. Extremely helpful when working with those who are grieving. Looking forward to reading more books from this author.
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June 15, 2025
EXCELLENT

A simple read that encourages the reader to embrace words of life & not death. I have grown to enjoy Adam’s books
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November 22, 2025
I thought this was an inspiring and powerful read! I enjoyed the real life moments that were beautifully tied into scripture. A convicting but uplifting read.
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August 12, 2015
~ "Words can bless and words can crush, but if they're not founded in love, they'll always be harmful in one way or another."

~ "Open your mouth, and let God guide your speech. Be as one who heals, and pay attention to what you say that you may not break down."

A LISTENER BECOMES A WISE PERSON. When we listen, we learn; when we learn, we become wise as we discover how to accurately apply the knowledge we gain.
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August 9, 2015
This book helped me see that I was not spending enough time meditating on God's Word and having more quiet time to listen to what God wants me to know. You have a special way of saying it that is not preachy. Thank you for sharing this gift.

I would recommend this book to anyone who needs help in having a closer walk with God and with the Holy Spirit. Thank You.
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March 4, 2016
Great job

I would like to thank Adam Houge for writing this book. It was extremely well written. From getting Bible quotes and telling us as readers to listen and do as the Spirit tells us to speak. Our mouth is fire but we can have positive words come out if we listen to the Spirit and let Him tame our mouths. Excellent read I would recommend it to everyone.
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July 18, 2014
Peace

Peace

this gives me peace of mind and body and soul into the writer who can bring out quality and original
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November 1, 2014
I love all books by this author. Borrowed from Kindle Unlimited.
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August 11, 2016
Awesome read!

This book helped me look at how I talk to the people around me. I ask the Holy Spirit to control my tongue and thoughts before speaking.
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March 31, 2017
Love this book.It really gets you thinking about what we say.You will love this book.I highly recommend it.
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February 26, 2018
amazing! if you have been wounded by someone or need to heal in some way, this book us amazing starting point! Adam gives great scripture backing and guides you through the process of healing and in turn choosing to use healing words for yourself and others!
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