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A Religion of One's Own
The New York Times bestselling author and trusted spiritual adviser offers a follow-up to his classic Care of the Soul.
Something essential is missing from modern life. Many who’ve turned away from religious institutions—and others who have lived wholly without religion—hunger for more than what contemporary secular life has to offer but are reluctant to follow organized religion’s strict and often inflexible path to spirituality. In A Religion of One’s Own, bestselling author and former monk Thomas Moore explores the myriad possibilities of creating a personal spiritual style, either inside or outside formal religion.
Two decades ago, Moore’s Care of the Soul touched a chord with millions of readers yearning to integrate spirituality into their everyday lives. In A Religion of One’s Own, Moore expands on the topics he first explored shortly after leaving the monastery. He recounts the benefits of contemplative living that he learned during his twelve years as a monk but also the more original and imaginative spirituality that he later developed and embraced in his secular life. Here, he shares stories of others who are creating their own path: a former football player now on a spiritual quest with the Pueblo Indians, a friend who makes a meditative practice of floral arrangements, and a well-known classical pianist whose audiences sometimes describe having a mystical experience while listening to her performances. Moore weaves their experiences with the wisdom of philosophers, writers, and artists who have rejected materialism and infused their secular lives with transcendence.
At a time when so many feel disillusioned with or detached from organized religion yet long for a way to move beyond an exclusively materialistic, rational lifestyle, A Religion of One’s Own points the way to creating an amplified inner life and a world of greater purpose, meaning, and reflection.
Something essential is missing from modern life. Many who’ve turned away from religious institutions—and others who have lived wholly without religion—hunger for more than what contemporary secular life has to offer but are reluctant to follow organized religion’s strict and often inflexible path to spirituality. In A Religion of One’s Own, bestselling author and former monk Thomas Moore explores the myriad possibilities of creating a personal spiritual style, either inside or outside formal religion.
Two decades ago, Moore’s Care of the Soul touched a chord with millions of readers yearning to integrate spirituality into their everyday lives. In A Religion of One’s Own, Moore expands on the topics he first explored shortly after leaving the monastery. He recounts the benefits of contemplative living that he learned during his twelve years as a monk but also the more original and imaginative spirituality that he later developed and embraced in his secular life. Here, he shares stories of others who are creating their own path: a former football player now on a spiritual quest with the Pueblo Indians, a friend who makes a meditative practice of floral arrangements, and a well-known classical pianist whose audiences sometimes describe having a mystical experience while listening to her performances. Moore weaves their experiences with the wisdom of philosophers, writers, and artists who have rejected materialism and infused their secular lives with transcendence.
At a time when so many feel disillusioned with or detached from organized religion yet long for a way to move beyond an exclusively materialistic, rational lifestyle, A Religion of One’s Own points the way to creating an amplified inner life and a world of greater purpose, meaning, and reflection.
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Thomas Moore
137 books590 followersThomas Moore is the author of the bestselling book, Care of the Soul, Ageless Soul, and fifteen other books on deepening spirituality and cultivating soul in every aspect of life. He has been a monk, a musician, a university professor, and a psychotherapist, and today he lectures widely on holistic medicine, spirituality, psychotherapy, and the arts. He lectures frequently in Ireland and has a special love of Irish culture. He has Ph.D. in religion from Syracuse University and has won several awards for his work, including an honorary doctorate from Lesley University and the Humanitarian Award from Einstein Medical School of Yeshiva University. He also has a B.A. in music from DePaul University, an M.A. in musicology from the University of Michigan, and an M.A. in theology from the University of Windsor. He also writes fiction and music and often works with his wife, artist and yoga instructor, Hari Kirin. He writes regular columns for Resurgence and Spirituality & Health.
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December 8, 2013
Curiosity led me to pick up A Religion of One’s Own, since I’ve always felt my personal ‘religion’ is one I developed piecemeal, to meet my own innate beliefs. I had to discover what Dr. Moore had to say on the subject. Would he discount my ‘scrapbook spirituality’, or would I find justification within the pages of his book?
There were moments here and there, when I had to slow down my reading, in order to digest the concepts he proffered, and there were other moments when I nearly hollered aloud, “That’s right!”. There were still other moments when I realized tears were welling and my breathing was measured, as I saw my own journey reflected in Dr. Moore’s words. I found answers to perplexities that have confused me for years. I found issues I had put on hold and neglected to take up again.
All in all, I realized that the journey is never-ending. One’s personal spirituality is a living entity within, and must grow, change, and become, even as the holder of such tenets must do. Thomas Moore has created a valuable guide for anyone who seeks an individual truth for spiritual peace. Thank you, Dr. Moore!
There were moments here and there, when I had to slow down my reading, in order to digest the concepts he proffered, and there were other moments when I nearly hollered aloud, “That’s right!”. There were still other moments when I realized tears were welling and my breathing was measured, as I saw my own journey reflected in Dr. Moore’s words. I found answers to perplexities that have confused me for years. I found issues I had put on hold and neglected to take up again.
All in all, I realized that the journey is never-ending. One’s personal spirituality is a living entity within, and must grow, change, and become, even as the holder of such tenets must do. Thomas Moore has created a valuable guide for anyone who seeks an individual truth for spiritual peace. Thank you, Dr. Moore!
April 13, 2018
NOTE: Goodreads has this book attributed to the wrong Thomas Moore. This book was written by the still-living Thomas Moore, former monk, educator and psychologist, not the 19th century Irish poet.
In this book, Thomas Moore calls on the reader to consider the concept that secular and spiritual are two sides of the same coin, that if one wants to have a life with deep meaning and fulfillment, the secular and sacred become intermingled and fluid in definition. In other words, religion has to become a personal and meaningful part of every day, not just an obligatory few hours one day a week.
Moore has a deep history with orthodox religion. He was a monk for many years, entering the monastery as a very young age. He later became a religion professor, then a psychologist. His break from the official church seems to have been amicable, and he obviously has fond memories of his former affiliation with the Church. So, he is not writing about personalizing religion from an adversarial point of view or bad-mouthing it. What he is saying is a version of "all roads lead to Rome" -- that many religions have valid rituals, concepts and doctrines that are probably pieces of the same puzzle, and that if an individual consciously studies those various pieces, s/he will likely find something of value that can be useful and meaningful.
Moore takes a while to start getting to the point. I suppose he felt the need to provide a bit (ok, a lot) of his own history first in order to establish his credentials to the reader. Maybe I was impatient with this part because I had previously read another of his books. The style is conversational, and he does have a unique history, so it's not too off-putting. (I just wish it had been more concise.) Once he's on track, however, he offers many practical examples of how the secular and sacred can be brought together to create a deeper and more personally relevant spiritual practice. This is not a how-to book, but a "consider this" book.
So, is this cherry-picking what conveniently supports our ID or already dearly held opinions? Is it rifling through the spiritual bargain bin looking for a deal? Maybe. But Moore says over and over that what he's proposing is not a shallow picking and choosing from among the world's traditions and religious just to find what's already comfortable, but a serious and in-depth study of the things that speak to our soul in order to find those things that not only make our lives more meaningful, but also make us exercise our spiritual muscles, challenge our intellect and creativity, and strive to be more disciplined and dedicated to the concept of wholeness.
I can't say I agree with everything he says, but I think that is a good thing. To blindly agree with everything is the very thing Moore argues against.
In this book, Thomas Moore calls on the reader to consider the concept that secular and spiritual are two sides of the same coin, that if one wants to have a life with deep meaning and fulfillment, the secular and sacred become intermingled and fluid in definition. In other words, religion has to become a personal and meaningful part of every day, not just an obligatory few hours one day a week.
Moore has a deep history with orthodox religion. He was a monk for many years, entering the monastery as a very young age. He later became a religion professor, then a psychologist. His break from the official church seems to have been amicable, and he obviously has fond memories of his former affiliation with the Church. So, he is not writing about personalizing religion from an adversarial point of view or bad-mouthing it. What he is saying is a version of "all roads lead to Rome" -- that many religions have valid rituals, concepts and doctrines that are probably pieces of the same puzzle, and that if an individual consciously studies those various pieces, s/he will likely find something of value that can be useful and meaningful.
Moore takes a while to start getting to the point. I suppose he felt the need to provide a bit (ok, a lot) of his own history first in order to establish his credentials to the reader. Maybe I was impatient with this part because I had previously read another of his books. The style is conversational, and he does have a unique history, so it's not too off-putting. (I just wish it had been more concise.) Once he's on track, however, he offers many practical examples of how the secular and sacred can be brought together to create a deeper and more personally relevant spiritual practice. This is not a how-to book, but a "consider this" book.
So, is this cherry-picking what conveniently supports our ID or already dearly held opinions? Is it rifling through the spiritual bargain bin looking for a deal? Maybe. But Moore says over and over that what he's proposing is not a shallow picking and choosing from among the world's traditions and religious just to find what's already comfortable, but a serious and in-depth study of the things that speak to our soul in order to find those things that not only make our lives more meaningful, but also make us exercise our spiritual muscles, challenge our intellect and creativity, and strive to be more disciplined and dedicated to the concept of wholeness.
I can't say I agree with everything he says, but I think that is a good thing. To blindly agree with everything is the very thing Moore argues against.
Spiritual traditions around the world, large and small, have two major gifts to offer: wisdom and beauty. Those who understand religion as truth etched in granite probably wouldn't make much of these soft benefits. For them, religion is about hard conviction and absolute correctness. But you can build a life on wisdom and beauty, cherishing insight into human experience and the glorious expression of that insight in art and craft. The first approach may make you crusty and inflexible, but the second may make your life beautiful.
This is one of the main differences in the new personal religion: going deep rather than being right.
-- Thomas Moore
November 25, 2016
"Your first task is to find the place where your soul is at home." — Thomas Moore
I still struggle with that.
I found this book...validating, and written by a former monk who still enjoys a rather monastic lifestyle, but embracing the secular world. I have always viewed the major conventional religions' all-or-nothing approaches as unsettling and unrealistic as a one-size-fits-all solution to our existence. The planet's staggering population and the diverse conditions in which we are all born has always pointed to a more individual recipe for caring for one's soul, since we all appear to be on different journeys and in different cultures. I originally adopted the portions of the world's religions that gave me peace and didn't assault the gift of rational thought I was blessed with. However, lately have honed in on specific practices that really feel like "me" and bring me some much needed peace in this crazy world. Thomas Moore walks a similar path, though far more devoutly.
I thoroughly enjoyed his reflections on Georgia O'Keefe, Emerson, Thoreau, and others, and felt like he was actually speaking to me at one point:
"In a religion of your own, the first thing is your own special vision, and then ways to embody your vision concretely. Emerson lectured, Thoreau built a cabin and wrote a diary, Dickenson wrote poems, Kevin Kelly arranges flowers, Simone Dinnerstein plays Bach, you may make gardens, I study and write books."-Thomas Moore
..... I DO make gardens!! :)
I also loved his exploration of Religion versus Being Religious, particularly this passage:
"Morality means acting in ways that are sensitive to the needs of the other and of the world that is in our care. Moralism is the assumption that you know what is the right behavior for everyone and that it can be itemized in a list of right and wrong that everyone should follow."-Thomas Moore
Good stuff.
His section on Art and Soul Work was also engaging:
"We look at painting of the crucifixion of Jesus and think too much about the person Jesus and the membership-only religion of Christianity. Instead, we might contemplate the greater mystery of a young visionary persecuted for his values and his challenge to authority and tradition. This is a fate we all might face."-Thomas Moore
On pursuing your own religion....
"You may one day understand that to be a joyful person you have to stand out from the pack and live your own life - follow your wyrd [anglo saxon term for personal destiny, or 'to become']. You may become eccentric and do things that society questions and your loved ones worry about." -Thomas Moore
Yep - and I love it. This book was a nice reminder to stop letting world events steal my joy, and continue projecting my own happiness out into the world.
I still struggle with that.
I found this book...validating, and written by a former monk who still enjoys a rather monastic lifestyle, but embracing the secular world. I have always viewed the major conventional religions' all-or-nothing approaches as unsettling and unrealistic as a one-size-fits-all solution to our existence. The planet's staggering population and the diverse conditions in which we are all born has always pointed to a more individual recipe for caring for one's soul, since we all appear to be on different journeys and in different cultures. I originally adopted the portions of the world's religions that gave me peace and didn't assault the gift of rational thought I was blessed with. However, lately have honed in on specific practices that really feel like "me" and bring me some much needed peace in this crazy world. Thomas Moore walks a similar path, though far more devoutly.
I thoroughly enjoyed his reflections on Georgia O'Keefe, Emerson, Thoreau, and others, and felt like he was actually speaking to me at one point:
"In a religion of your own, the first thing is your own special vision, and then ways to embody your vision concretely. Emerson lectured, Thoreau built a cabin and wrote a diary, Dickenson wrote poems, Kevin Kelly arranges flowers, Simone Dinnerstein plays Bach, you may make gardens, I study and write books."-Thomas Moore
..... I DO make gardens!! :)
I also loved his exploration of Religion versus Being Religious, particularly this passage:
"Morality means acting in ways that are sensitive to the needs of the other and of the world that is in our care. Moralism is the assumption that you know what is the right behavior for everyone and that it can be itemized in a list of right and wrong that everyone should follow."-Thomas Moore
Good stuff.
His section on Art and Soul Work was also engaging:
"We look at painting of the crucifixion of Jesus and think too much about the person Jesus and the membership-only religion of Christianity. Instead, we might contemplate the greater mystery of a young visionary persecuted for his values and his challenge to authority and tradition. This is a fate we all might face."-Thomas Moore
On pursuing your own religion....
"You may one day understand that to be a joyful person you have to stand out from the pack and live your own life - follow your wyrd [anglo saxon term for personal destiny, or 'to become']. You may become eccentric and do things that society questions and your loved ones worry about." -Thomas Moore
Yep - and I love it. This book was a nice reminder to stop letting world events steal my joy, and continue projecting my own happiness out into the world.
December 2, 2015
This book is not a critique of formal religion, but about creating a religion of your own, even if you are a committed member of a particular religion. Here is his list of things to keep in mind in creating a religion of your own:
1. Redefine traditional terms and ideas.
2. Don't be too literal about community.
3. Feel that you have a right to learn from and practice anything from the world's spiritual and religious traditions.
4. Understand that many things, if not everything, that are usually considered secular are sacred, if you have the eyes to see it.
5. Be a mystic in your own ways.
Don't think of ethics and morality as a list of things you shouldn't do.
7. Wisdom, compassion, and method.
8. Use the arts for your spiritual education and welfare.
9. Be intelligent about everything involved in your spirituality, but also use your intuition, trust it, and develop it with concrete methods.
10. Embrace eros; don't be afraid of it.
I also like his suggestions for DIY therapy:
1. Keep a daily record of your dreams.
2. Talk to family members about early experiences and about personalities.
3. Talk to friends about your personal issues.
4. Read some good psychology books.
5. Spend time quietly in nature.
6. Walk meditatively.
7. Resolve some troublesome relationships.
8. Study your fears and longings.
9. Write out your personal myth, the deep story you are living.
10. Paint or draw the scenes and characters of your "inner" life.
1. Redefine traditional terms and ideas.
2. Don't be too literal about community.
3. Feel that you have a right to learn from and practice anything from the world's spiritual and religious traditions.
4. Understand that many things, if not everything, that are usually considered secular are sacred, if you have the eyes to see it.
5. Be a mystic in your own ways.
Don't think of ethics and morality as a list of things you shouldn't do.
7. Wisdom, compassion, and method.
8. Use the arts for your spiritual education and welfare.
9. Be intelligent about everything involved in your spirituality, but also use your intuition, trust it, and develop it with concrete methods.
10. Embrace eros; don't be afraid of it.
I also like his suggestions for DIY therapy:
1. Keep a daily record of your dreams.
2. Talk to family members about early experiences and about personalities.
3. Talk to friends about your personal issues.
4. Read some good psychology books.
5. Spend time quietly in nature.
6. Walk meditatively.
7. Resolve some troublesome relationships.
8. Study your fears and longings.
9. Write out your personal myth, the deep story you are living.
10. Paint or draw the scenes and characters of your "inner" life.
September 15, 2016
I didn't like this book. What is it about Thomas Moore that bores and frustrates me?
His topics are so important. This book tries to answer the question, How can a person integrate a personal form of religion that is courageous, deep-seated, fate-driven, informed, and intelligent? This seems so urgent in a time when organized religion has failed so many.
It's a great theme for a book, and Moore takes his stab at it thoroughly. What I don't like about his writing though is that he presents his ideas straightforwardly, without any nuanced voice, and without any poetry. It's just words, talking about ideas. They are pretty and well-intentioned, but they do not raise the blood in any way. I for one need my blood raised when I'm being guided through such a precious and important process. I found Care of the Soul similarly off-putting.
If you don't want to read the book, following some of its advice will do just as much good. I'll just give it to you right here. Moore recommends "self-therapy" as an aspect of the Personal Religion. Here are some elements of it. In my opinion, this list could just replace the book altogether
* Write the personal myth you're living.
* Tell your stories.
* Read in psychology.
* Spend time quietly in nature.
* Meditate.
* Study your fears and longings.
* Paint or draw the scenes or characters of your inner life.
If you do read this, I hope you will connect with Moore's style of writing. The subject matter couldn't be more important.
His topics are so important. This book tries to answer the question, How can a person integrate a personal form of religion that is courageous, deep-seated, fate-driven, informed, and intelligent? This seems so urgent in a time when organized religion has failed so many.
It's a great theme for a book, and Moore takes his stab at it thoroughly. What I don't like about his writing though is that he presents his ideas straightforwardly, without any nuanced voice, and without any poetry. It's just words, talking about ideas. They are pretty and well-intentioned, but they do not raise the blood in any way. I for one need my blood raised when I'm being guided through such a precious and important process. I found Care of the Soul similarly off-putting.
If you don't want to read the book, following some of its advice will do just as much good. I'll just give it to you right here. Moore recommends "self-therapy" as an aspect of the Personal Religion. Here are some elements of it. In my opinion, this list could just replace the book altogether
* Write the personal myth you're living.
* Tell your stories.
* Read in psychology.
* Spend time quietly in nature.
* Meditate.
* Study your fears and longings.
* Paint or draw the scenes or characters of your inner life.
If you do read this, I hope you will connect with Moore's style of writing. The subject matter couldn't be more important.
April 24, 2018
En lo que va del año es el libro más difícil que he leído, no porque este complicado de hecho es como estar tomando un café con un tío buena onda pero me ha enfrentado a miedos, dudas, ruptura de paradigmas.
Si estás dispuesto hacer un viaje al análisis de tu propia espiritualidad te lo recomiendo en caso contrario busca otra opción de lectura.
Si estás dispuesto hacer un viaje al análisis de tu propia espiritualidad te lo recomiendo en caso contrario busca otra opción de lectura.
March 24, 2015
A fantastic reminder to slow down and be grateful for things seen and unseen. I can see myself coming back to this book over the years. It was had some encouraging and challenging ideas. Basically, be conscious of the world around you and be open to new experiences and ideas.
"To create a religious life of your own, you have to think things through and be critical of the information you find. You may have to do some digging to find good resources and then experiment until you are satisfied. You have to ask probing questions and when you realize the teacher or community you have landed on isn't worthy, move on. You may have to travel, read, study, go on a retreat, take a workshop, or search the Internet to find answers to your questions, answers that don't insult your intelligence. In the spiritual realm especially, you need a nose for flimflam and unsubstantial ideas." (Pg 266)
"To create a religious life of your own, you have to think things through and be critical of the information you find. You may have to do some digging to find good resources and then experiment until you are satisfied. You have to ask probing questions and when you realize the teacher or community you have landed on isn't worthy, move on. You may have to travel, read, study, go on a retreat, take a workshop, or search the Internet to find answers to your questions, answers that don't insult your intelligence. In the spiritual realm especially, you need a nose for flimflam and unsubstantial ideas." (Pg 266)
February 29, 2020
DNF. I find Thomas Moore to be condescending. In offering everything for one's personal religion, he really offers nothing of value here. Maybe I would've appreciated this book years ago. I walked away from the book halfway through with a list of random to do items - look at some art, walk in nature, etc. - with little substance. Needless to say, I'm disappointed.
October 7, 2019
I have friends who enjoy visiting churches and synagogues.
Always a delightful excursion. From everyone we learn something, receiving the traditions of others into our lives. Dr Moore is always speaking about a thriving soul. I enjoy his thoughts, his open mind.
Always a delightful excursion. From everyone we learn something, receiving the traditions of others into our lives. Dr Moore is always speaking about a thriving soul. I enjoy his thoughts, his open mind.
October 19, 2017
I had an interesting reaction to this book. Moore argues that neither being entirely secular nor following a traditional religious path will fully enliven the soul and lead to the richest life.
On the one hand, yes. I would agree with much of Moore's list at the end.
1) Redefine traditional terms and ideas.
2) Don't be too literal about community.
3) Feel that you have a right to learn from and practice anything from the world's spiritual and religious traditions.
4) Understand that many things, if not everything, that are usually considered secular are sacred, if you have the eyes to see it.
5) Be a mystic in your own ways.
6) Don't think of ethics and morality as a list of things you shouldn't do.
7) Wisdom, compassion, and method.
8) Use the arts for your spiritual education and welfare.
9) Be intelligent about everything involved in your spirituality.
10) Embrace eros; don't be afraid of it.
Lots that's helpful here. As is true with Moore's discussion of the spirituality of sexuality, where "spiritual sex" includes ethics, generosity, ritual, partners, vision, contemplation, beauty, community, prayer, and ecstasy.
And this: "secularity is the full embrace of this world with all its allurements, pleasures, and fascinations, as well as its troubles and tragedies and imperfections." (141-2). That's different from "secularism", which is an enemy of the religious and spiritual.
And one more positive - this juicy quotation from Nicholas of Cusa, the 15th century theologian, "A theology of unknowing is necessary for a theology of knowing because without it God would not be worshipped as infinite but rather as a creature, and that would be idolatry." (33)
My chief problem with this book is its dogmatism. Moore insists that life inside a religious institution will leave you stuck, but very few people have the time to construct one's own spiritual practices, traditions, myths, images, etc. It's a luxury of the well-educated privileged. And isn't it the height of arrogance to think that one person can construct a personal religion that is full of more beauty, truth, life, and wisdom that a centuries-old tradition and set of practices?
Rather, why not be utterly dedicated to the personalization that Moore advocates, but within a tradition? For me, that is my path, and it is within the tradition of Jesus, who I have experienced as the way, the truth, and the life of God, and one who leaves me not just with a personalized religion, but with a person who communes in it with me.
On the one hand, yes. I would agree with much of Moore's list at the end.
1) Redefine traditional terms and ideas.
2) Don't be too literal about community.
3) Feel that you have a right to learn from and practice anything from the world's spiritual and religious traditions.
4) Understand that many things, if not everything, that are usually considered secular are sacred, if you have the eyes to see it.
5) Be a mystic in your own ways.
6) Don't think of ethics and morality as a list of things you shouldn't do.
7) Wisdom, compassion, and method.
8) Use the arts for your spiritual education and welfare.
9) Be intelligent about everything involved in your spirituality.
10) Embrace eros; don't be afraid of it.
Lots that's helpful here. As is true with Moore's discussion of the spirituality of sexuality, where "spiritual sex" includes ethics, generosity, ritual, partners, vision, contemplation, beauty, community, prayer, and ecstasy.
And this: "secularity is the full embrace of this world with all its allurements, pleasures, and fascinations, as well as its troubles and tragedies and imperfections." (141-2). That's different from "secularism", which is an enemy of the religious and spiritual.
And one more positive - this juicy quotation from Nicholas of Cusa, the 15th century theologian, "A theology of unknowing is necessary for a theology of knowing because without it God would not be worshipped as infinite but rather as a creature, and that would be idolatry." (33)
My chief problem with this book is its dogmatism. Moore insists that life inside a religious institution will leave you stuck, but very few people have the time to construct one's own spiritual practices, traditions, myths, images, etc. It's a luxury of the well-educated privileged. And isn't it the height of arrogance to think that one person can construct a personal religion that is full of more beauty, truth, life, and wisdom that a centuries-old tradition and set of practices?
Rather, why not be utterly dedicated to the personalization that Moore advocates, but within a tradition? For me, that is my path, and it is within the tradition of Jesus, who I have experienced as the way, the truth, and the life of God, and one who leaves me not just with a personalized religion, but with a person who communes in it with me.
August 4, 2014
A book by one of my favorite authors, Moore presents a possibility for those who find spirituality important yet are somewhat disenchanted with organized religion. Not opposed to organized religion (he was studying for the priesthood in the Catholic Church) the suggestions he presents would benefit those with or without a religion. Following the same path that many have come to expect, Moore believes it is possible and essential for all to have a "religion" even if it is one that is created by the person. The emphasis is on a personal religion, this is not a book on how to start your own church. If you enjoy positive views, flexibility in how you see life and religion then you may find his book helpful. If you are adamantly aligned with a religion and happy with it, you may not find this book helpful. It isn't a book that pushes structure but freedom to see things how you need them. For a strongly religious person, they can find an opportunity to personalize their experience and for those who are just starting down this path, they can add as much as is comfortable. If you are a fan of Moore then you will find this addition to fit well in the collection.
October 26, 2013
This was my first book that I received from entering the Goodreads giveaways in which you are able to read books before they are actually released. "A Religion of One's Own" is a fantastic book that enables the reader to do just want the book says, "guides to creating a personal spirituality in a secular world." I always struggled with how organized religion requires you only believe that organized religion is right and everything that deviates even slightly is wrong. The book explains how to get in touch with your soul and spirit and instead of being a follower of religion you become a creator of your own religion. In doing so, you learn how to keep from separating the holy and profane, therefore, you are able to see the spirituality in the secular rather than only what is considered traditionally religious. This book is an eye opener and is highly recommended for anyone seeking spirituality but is disillusioned by the inflexible rules of organized religion. I am giving this book as a gift to family and friends as it is a life changing read that I want everyone to experience.
September 14, 2015
Thomas Moore is rocking my world in 2015. This is the 3rd book I've read by him this year, and each one has captured my imagination and thrown me into a whirlwind of reflection. This particular book is one of only a few that when I finished, I immediately turned back to the beginning to start again, wishing to find my way as deeply as possible into the meat of his message. During my second read, I'm taking detailed notes. This is a book I want to study and from which I have already gleaned immediate application. I love how Moore describes how I am and how I wish to conduct my religious/spiritual life. He writes of notions I've long felt but have never been able to articulate, and he suggests many concrete practices that feel right to me. I'm thrilled to let Moore lead me places I want to go.
July 26, 2015
"Creating a Personal Spirituality" is a better name for this book than something indicating building a religion of one's own. When it comes to creating a personal religion, I feel as if Moore's missed the point and gone off of the deep end in a few places (such as when he offers up the idea of periodically dressing like a monk).
However, he does make a distinction between the spirit and the soul. The spirit of a person, according to Moore, is our infinite, transcendent aspect. The soul is our everyday, ordinary, emotional ego type aspect. The book talks only about nourishing the latter - which is why I'd recommend a new title. I'm not sure I would call that building a new religion. Instead, it is a series of how-to ideas on how to nourish ourselves in this life.
However, he does make a distinction between the spirit and the soul. The spirit of a person, according to Moore, is our infinite, transcendent aspect. The soul is our everyday, ordinary, emotional ego type aspect. The book talks only about nourishing the latter - which is why I'd recommend a new title. I'm not sure I would call that building a new religion. Instead, it is a series of how-to ideas on how to nourish ourselves in this life.
April 19, 2021
I couldn't find the icon for this having been an Audible. Oh well, I found this book mentally stimulating, thoughtful, as Moore always is, and also slightly easier to follow than some of his more philosophical works.
Moore first defines what, in his opinion, is missing about traditional "religions" as a group and then explains how people can create their own religious rituals and traditions that they may find more soul satisfying.
Don't get me wrong, the book is chock full of stories and examples from religions and myths around the world. I will actually be buying a paper copy of it because there are places in it I want to go back o and highlight. But I am glad I had the opportunity to listen to it first, it was great to ponder on as I walked.
Moore first defines what, in his opinion, is missing about traditional "religions" as a group and then explains how people can create their own religious rituals and traditions that they may find more soul satisfying.
Don't get me wrong, the book is chock full of stories and examples from religions and myths around the world. I will actually be buying a paper copy of it because there are places in it I want to go back o and highlight. But I am glad I had the opportunity to listen to it first, it was great to ponder on as I walked.
October 4, 2016
Enjoyed this book and recommend it simply because it is inspirational and provides gentle guidance on how to consider that having a religious connection (outside of a standard, secular religion) is essential for a healthy soul. Embracing a "religion of your own" simply helps you find a way to deal with your life in order to provide a means of healing whatever life has thrown your way. For me, it has served as a means to see things from different perspectives, and this book gives different examples of how to do so.
April 19, 2014
What I appreciate most about A Religion of One's Own is that it shows how one can meld traditional religion, spiritual intuition, and personal discipline into a deep and meaningful practice without it being kooky. Unlike so many new age forms of spiritualism, Moore's approach also requires something deep of the participant - in mind and in action. I'm still figuring out where to take it from here, but that's really the point.
June 24, 2018
There were many great pieces of wisdom in this book, but at times I struggled to relate with the author’s wide view of religion. I’m not finding fault with this, but attribute my struggle to my own religious upbringing being, well, less than broad. I thoroughly enjoyed and was enthralled with the chapters on mysticism, sensuality and intuition, which put into words some of my own “religious” beliefs that I’ve been developing on these topics but had not found language for.
April 21, 2018
Worth a re-read.
November 12, 2025
The title rubbed me the wrong way at first. But as I continued, while the idea of creating a “religion“ of ones own still doesn’t sit with me very well, discovering a spirituality of one’s own now seems essential. This thought-provoking book feels like an invitation to open ones spiritual journey to more things than sitting in a church or engaging in scripture reading.
September 2, 2024
A read that helped me reshape a lot of my spirituality and little practices. A nice recommendation if you are trying to find your own path in a messy world and too many opinions.
June 2, 2023
This is one of the rare books that will truly impact my philosophy on life. Moore gives practical suggestions on how to craft a beautiful, meaningful life, whether you subscribe to a formal religion, are an atheist, or anything in between. His approach to the concept of religion is gentle & openminded in a way that I haven’t encountered anywhere else. Most importantly, his goal is to encourage everyone to find their own way—not to get anyone else to do things exactly as he does them.
“…a religion of one’s own is not a reasonable, placid, or convenient way to be spiritual. It’s an opening to the full thrust of what it means to be part of a vast, mysterious, and powerful existence. Like all real religion, it is basically a willingness to stand at the edge of our existence.”
“…a religion of one’s own is not a reasonable, placid, or convenient way to be spiritual. It’s an opening to the full thrust of what it means to be part of a vast, mysterious, and powerful existence. Like all real religion, it is basically a willingness to stand at the edge of our existence.”
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March 2, 2020ik ben groot fan van Thomas Moore, vooral van zijn eerste boek Care of the Soul
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November 15, 2014
A RELIGION OF ONE'S OWN: A GUIDE TO CREATING PERSONAL SPIRITULAITY IN A SECULAR WORLD
BY THOMAS MOORE
Thomas Moore presents a guide for individuals to create their own spirituality outside the bounds of the traditional organized religious organizations. It is book that in our age speaks loudly to a the major portion of society that has difficulty with organized religions and their set beliefs.
From my own experience it speaks to me in that it is the way in which through the years, not knowing it, I came to be who I am, and am becoming. Recently a 25 year old friend, whom I have known since he was 14 came to visit, I believe one of the reasons for seeing me was to explain why 7 years ago, his senior year in high school, he basically withdrew from communication. It was a great conversation. He commented: "I began to pull into the mainstream and you remained on the edge, and you were always so generous with me no matter what I did, and you were generous with everyone, and caring and I did not understand."
I grew up and practiced a traditional ministry, but when I came out, my world was not out from under me. Everything I believed was in question,. and through that journey of questioning I developed a "religion of one's own." A spirituality that speaks to me, that guides me and sustains me. On the surface I am a very orthodox Christian, and I am very Christ-centered, but through the fire of the journey I have come to see people as very fragile creatures, and that God in Christ loves each one of them for who they are. I can not bring my own judgment on others when I am the "biggest bastard of all," and I know that, and I know that Jesus redeemed me. One young man commented "you must have done some really awful things to do what you do now, to hang out with us," and the truth is I hang out with everyone regardless because I am redeemed, and forgiven, not to get ":karma". I have come to see that wealth stops the development of one's life. I encourage people to live simply and give the rest to those who do not have it. I have come to see all of us as spiritual beings in whatever we believe or do not believe in, and therefore there is no right or wrong way to believe. And I do live on the edge, I push the envelope. I call it the way I see it, regardless of my own persona consequences, without apology. Like my friend Dr. Will Tuttle I stir the fire within people, and I do that without apology. People often ask me, "Why don't you have a partner? Why don't you have a significant other?" And again that comes from my journey, I remember a time a long time ago I thought about settling down with someone, and my boss at the time said, "You can have the one, or you can serve the thousands." And I chose the thousands, and that has been the greatest gift of all, to serve, to love, to care for the thousands. I have found being removed from my former denomination was God's gift of leading me to develop a religion of my own, in other words to let God create from the fires within me the place to where he leads me. It is a painful experience, but Moore is correct in that it is the fulfilling way to live one's life. Deo Gratias! Thanks be to God!
VegInspiration
The contemporary vegan movement is founded on loving-kindness and mindfulness of our effects on others. It is revolutionary because it transcends and renounces the violent core of the herding culture in which we live. It is founded on living the truth of interconnectedness and thereby consciously minimizing the suffering we impose on animals, humans, and biosystems; it frees us all from the slavery of becoming mere commodities. It signifies the birth of a new consciousness, the resurrection of intelligence and compassion, and the basic rejection of cruelty and domination. It is our only real hope for the future of our species because it addresses the cause rather than being concerned merely with effects. Dr. Will Tuttle
BY THOMAS MOORE
Thomas Moore presents a guide for individuals to create their own spirituality outside the bounds of the traditional organized religious organizations. It is book that in our age speaks loudly to a the major portion of society that has difficulty with organized religions and their set beliefs.
From my own experience it speaks to me in that it is the way in which through the years, not knowing it, I came to be who I am, and am becoming. Recently a 25 year old friend, whom I have known since he was 14 came to visit, I believe one of the reasons for seeing me was to explain why 7 years ago, his senior year in high school, he basically withdrew from communication. It was a great conversation. He commented: "I began to pull into the mainstream and you remained on the edge, and you were always so generous with me no matter what I did, and you were generous with everyone, and caring and I did not understand."
I grew up and practiced a traditional ministry, but when I came out, my world was not out from under me. Everything I believed was in question,. and through that journey of questioning I developed a "religion of one's own." A spirituality that speaks to me, that guides me and sustains me. On the surface I am a very orthodox Christian, and I am very Christ-centered, but through the fire of the journey I have come to see people as very fragile creatures, and that God in Christ loves each one of them for who they are. I can not bring my own judgment on others when I am the "biggest bastard of all," and I know that, and I know that Jesus redeemed me. One young man commented "you must have done some really awful things to do what you do now, to hang out with us," and the truth is I hang out with everyone regardless because I am redeemed, and forgiven, not to get ":karma". I have come to see that wealth stops the development of one's life. I encourage people to live simply and give the rest to those who do not have it. I have come to see all of us as spiritual beings in whatever we believe or do not believe in, and therefore there is no right or wrong way to believe. And I do live on the edge, I push the envelope. I call it the way I see it, regardless of my own persona consequences, without apology. Like my friend Dr. Will Tuttle I stir the fire within people, and I do that without apology. People often ask me, "Why don't you have a partner? Why don't you have a significant other?" And again that comes from my journey, I remember a time a long time ago I thought about settling down with someone, and my boss at the time said, "You can have the one, or you can serve the thousands." And I chose the thousands, and that has been the greatest gift of all, to serve, to love, to care for the thousands. I have found being removed from my former denomination was God's gift of leading me to develop a religion of my own, in other words to let God create from the fires within me the place to where he leads me. It is a painful experience, but Moore is correct in that it is the fulfilling way to live one's life. Deo Gratias! Thanks be to God!
VegInspiration
The contemporary vegan movement is founded on loving-kindness and mindfulness of our effects on others. It is revolutionary because it transcends and renounces the violent core of the herding culture in which we live. It is founded on living the truth of interconnectedness and thereby consciously minimizing the suffering we impose on animals, humans, and biosystems; it frees us all from the slavery of becoming mere commodities. It signifies the birth of a new consciousness, the resurrection of intelligence and compassion, and the basic rejection of cruelty and domination. It is our only real hope for the future of our species because it addresses the cause rather than being concerned merely with effects. Dr. Will Tuttle
July 1, 2017
At first I thought if I or anyone else would consider reading a book with a title like this one, it would be a sure sign of impending or actual heresy. While I suppose that always remains a possibility, it has occurred to me that if "religion" means to "re-connect," then how else could my connection with God and the transcendent be anything but my own connection? While there certainly is or might be an element of community in this experience, I cannot make a spiritual connection through the one that you have, can I? Evangelicals are fond of inviting others into a "personal relationship" with Christ. So, my religion must be my own, one that resonates with me ... personally.
Having said that, Moore does a good job of mining the ordinary to resacralize it, endeavoring to find God if possible in all things, places, events, and experiences and teaching the reader how to do so. Expansive and inclusive. Being attentive to the quiet whisperings and faint voices that call us into the divine.
Having said that, Moore does a good job of mining the ordinary to resacralize it, endeavoring to find God if possible in all things, places, events, and experiences and teaching the reader how to do so. Expansive and inclusive. Being attentive to the quiet whisperings and faint voices that call us into the divine.
October 5, 2017
I wonder if seeing everything through the eyes of myth to the exclusion of other perspectives isn't a distortion... This book is just Thomas Moore doing what he does - implying not only that every practice is good for some people, with which I would agree, but also implying that every practice is good for him AND a part of his practice, which realistically wouldn't give him time to eat, sleep, or shit. For me, once Moore gets beyond article length, he starts to become a giant written sleeping pill.
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January 12, 2021Honestly, I started skimming about halfway through, because it became quite repetitive. I think this could have been simply a lengthy article rather than a book. The basic summary - you can find the spiritual in everything around you and use that to create a “religious” life, including taking bits and pieces from multiple religions. Art, music, nature, etc... Strangest part was the chapter that suddenly started discussing self therapy? Never really related it to spiritual life? It almost seemed as though a chapter from another book got inserted randomly? Love the concept - just not the book.
September 25, 2019
A Different Take on Religon
He has reached many of the same conclusions that I've reached. It seems to me each person has a particular and unique understanding. I really like his suggestions on consciously and purposely creating the best religion for each of us. I see so many centering their lives on unworkable patterns - from hand-me-down and worn out religions, from hideously distorted religions to worshipping at the altar of sports or consumerism. My blog deals with this and all things spiritual.
He has reached many of the same conclusions that I've reached. It seems to me each person has a particular and unique understanding. I really like his suggestions on consciously and purposely creating the best religion for each of us. I see so many centering their lives on unworkable patterns - from hand-me-down and worn out religions, from hideously distorted religions to worshipping at the altar of sports or consumerism. My blog deals with this and all things spiritual.
May 18, 2018
I was curious to read this book because I'm not a fan of structured/organized religion. If you don't already have a lot of background knowledge about the Bible and/or Christianity then you're going to miss a lot of references. This book didn't teach me anything new or provide additional insight. Rather, it was just a rambling list of reminders to adapt life habits that help keep an open mind and slow down from the busyness of life.
August 3, 2018
Upon reading this book, I realized that I've already done a great deal to fashion a religion of my own. I did appreciate a few new ideas, but this book would be ideal for someone just beginning to step outside the bounds that have traditionally constrained their own personal religion. I appreciate that Moore doesn't negate anyone's religion or promote turning away--he simply encourages us to expand our repertoire.
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