“We say, ‘I want to do this great, fantastic thing,’ then we get the ball rolling, and we just expect it to keep rolling, simply because we want it to. As if hope and good intentions are worth anything.”
I had hopes that this book would be better. My intentions were to rate it five stars. My hopes and intentions did not do this book any favors.
If you want to know more about Arnold Schwarzenegger and his life, this book is for you. He talks about himself and the life experiences that got him to where he is today. No shame, brag on.
If you are looking for a book that will help you on your self-help journey, maybe not this one. It does deliver on the seven tools it promises, unfortunately those tools bring nothing new to the self-help book game. For example: The mental vision board piece of it is the only one that stuck with me, and it did not stick in a good way. I was like, “Are you kidding me? This is junior high level bullshit. Basic AF. Try again.”
A THING TO NOTE:
Arnold does mention Elon Musk. No thank you. Same thing I said with the last Neil Gaiman book I read (Summer 2024) when Gaiman mentioned Harvey Weinstein. The company that you keep and all that. I hated to hear it when I was a teenager, but hot damn, it proves itself.
Two stars to a book that was not useful.
QUOTES:
“If you can’t find what you’re looking for, at least give it a chance to find you.”
“You need to be all there, all in, every time.”
“And yet so many people are content to depend entirely on plans and systems, or to do the bare minimum asked of them, and then think to themselves, This is all set, I took care of it. No. Don’t be a lazy fuck. Do the work. The only time you are allowed to use the phrase ‘I took care of it’ is when it is done. Completely.”
“This is the kind of headspace people are referring to when they talk about slipping into ‘flow state.’ Time expands and collapses simultaneously. You get into something, you start making progress, then boom, the next thing you know, you look up and it’s the morning.”
“This is something you should think about. What is the value of trying to be someone you’re not? Of hiding from your true story and letting someone else tell it? Where do you think that gets you in the end? I promise you, it’s nowhere good. Embrace who you are! Own your story! Even if you don’t like it. Even if it’s bad, and you’re ashamed. If you run away and hide from your past, if you deny your story and try to sell a different one, even if you mean well, it just makes you seem like a con artist.”