ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A MENTOR? DO YOU WANT TO BECOME A MENTOR? ARE YOU CONFUSED ABOUT EXACTLY WHAT MENTORING IS? Walter Wright is a firm believer in relational leadership. In this book, he shares his experiences both as a mentor and a mentoree. He provides useful analogies and stories about the mentor-mentoree relationship and points out some potential pitfalls. Reflecting on the character, heart and hope of relational leadership, this book is useful for anyone considering becoming a mentor, whether in a church environment or in a business environment. It identifies some key questions that a mentor should ask of their mentoree and guides you through developing the mentor-mentoree relationship.
This is the best book on mentoring that I've read. The author looks at mentoring in more of a business setting, but speaks of mentoring in many areas of like. He discerns the inherent difficulties in supervisors as mentors, but points out how they can be useful. Excellent work that treats this subject deeply!
The author reflects on the "jobs" of the mentor and mentee. Though the book could easily be shortened without losing the points, I thought I'd give it four stars for a few reasons: 1) the author stresses the connection between desire for change and growth on the part of the mentee 2) in my experience, a match between the mentee's values and the mentor's values is essential. Of the books I have read on this, some overlook this particularly necessary point. 3) He exemplifies the kind of mentee every mentor wishes for: a meek one, willing to learn--and his stories communicate his desire, and also create in the reader an appetite for a mentor.
A seasoned mentor himself, the author got a lot of wonderful insights on the topic, but the contents are quite repetitive - it could be a much shorter book.