Confidence Is an Inside Job: Conquer Self-Doubt and Embrace God's View of You

by Ashley Henriott

Discover a deep, one-of-a-kind confidence that’s rooted in your relationship with Jesus through inspirational stories, insights, and strategies from podcaster and confidence coach Ashley Henriott.

Has a voice in your head ever told you that you’re not enough? Maybe it’s said the that you’re too much. Or perhaps you’ve heard both messages at different times in your life. Either way, in those moments you probably felt like something was wrong with you.
 
And why wouldn’t you? Media and cultural messages constantly tell women that we must be different than we are to be considered valuable or even more of this and less of that. But here’s great All of that is a lie, and you are not alone in your struggles.
 
Confidence coach Ashley Henriott knows what it’s like to be identified by the opinions of others and to live a life dictated by what they thought of her. However, her determination to break free from those shackles led her to a profound True confidence is an inside job that begins with a woman embracing her own uniqueness and worthiness.
 
Through inspirational stories and her trademark humor, Ashley Henriott teaches about three confidence killers—fear, inaction, and comparison—that keep women from stepping into their true potential. Better still, she presents simple and practical strategies you can use to defeat these negative forces, embrace the beauty of who you are today, and live the fulfilling and confident life you desire.

Genres: Self Help

214 pages, Kindle Edition

Published October 15, 2024

About the author

As a sought-after confidence coach, Ashley Henriott is passionate about helping other women weather storms of self-doubt and reminding them they are never too far from God’s grace to be redeemed. Whether she’s creating captivating content on TikTok, recording an episode of her podcast Confidence and Coffee, or guiding clients to set healthy boundaries, say no, and cut off toxic obligations and relationships, Ashley brings her practical approach to empower others to reclaim their lives. She lives with her husband and four children in northern Virginia. Follow Ashley on TikTok @ashleyhenriott and on Instagram @ashley.henriott, and check out Confidence and Coffee wherever you listen to podcasts.

Reviews

[Katie Betts · Rating 4 out of 5]

Thank you @convergent_books @netgalley @prhaudio for the gifted books #PRHAudioPartner #netgalley

Releases October 15, 2024

In a world craving approval, confidence coach Ashley Henriott reveals that true confidence comes from living as the person God created you to be. Through her personal story and biblical wisdom, she helps you overcome fear, comparison, and inaction, empowering you to step boldly into the life God designed for you—full of strength and purpose.

Immediately, Ashley has a distinct grit to her words, and you soon understand why—she’s been through e v e r y t h i n g. Seriously, everything. So, who better to absorb your resilience and tenacity from? She’s done the deep work of knowing and living in her true identity amidst a broken upbringing, and whether you think you’re a confident person or not, her story will move you to be more.

I loved this story for the memoir and liked it for the tips. She’s got substance, and an important one: identity (it’s literally why all fall I’m speaking on identity in my young adults ministry- we need to know who we are and why). Though I don’t think it paints a comprehensive view of where we should gain our confidence, I picked up just enough fortitude to shift how I think about contentment, and I’m sure you will too.

I listened to two chapters, and her tone was filled with an encouraging spirit. I primarily read the ebook but recommend both formats—whichever you prefer for a mix of memoir-based self-help books.

Perfect for you if you like:
Faith-driven confidence
Authentic storytelling
Honest reflections
Stories of overcoming adversity

Similar to:
Born Royal by Oneka McClellan
Girl, Wash Your Face by Rachel Hollis
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⚠️some language, triggering past experiences; single mom, abuse, addiction

[Debbie Chatley · Rating 5 out of 5]

Confidence is an inside job

Where was this book when I was in my 20s? Even now that I’m a few decades older, this book still has relevance and real life application. But wonder where I’d be now if I read this book in my 20s. I love how the author breaks down the components and source of self confidence with personal stories and very applicable tidbits along the way, with the Bible as the foundation. That is the key. The author tackled many topics that were so applicable, including people pleasing, setting boundaries, showing up for yourself, walking in purpose, healthy relationships, affirmations, self awareness,

I also love how there are reflection questions that helped me to see areas where I needed to grow in my confidence. I have do much of this book highlighted. This is one of these books that I need and want to read again and again.

I had so many favorite quotes
“Confidence is living as the capable, wholehearted person God made you to be.”
“Most of the time, confidence doesn’t shout. It whispers.”

[Jim B · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is an awesome resource! It's a book written for women by a woman. Even as a male there are many aspects that are beneficial for men. We can be better advocates and cheerleaders to remind women they are built for great things. The raw and honest vulnerability is inspiring and we should all live more that way. Life can get messy and hard from decisions we make, as well as actions that were taken on us. This book allows women to stand up for themselves and acknowledge that they are not made to be people pleasers. The book enforces that confidence and walking in the truth are who you are made to be. It will give you powerful questions and tools along the way to empower you in your journey to being confident. I will be recommending this book to my female clients who struggle with self-confidence.

Thank you to ashley.henriott and WaterBrook & Multnomah for allowing me an advanced copy of Confidence is an Inside Job, for an honest review. All thoughts and opinions are my own. Be sure to put this on your list!

[Heidi caffeinated_daily reader · Rating 4 out of 5]

Ashley Henriott brings a refreshing, authentic voice to Confidence Is an Inside Job, sharing her own journey while encouraging readers to step into who God created them to be.

As a confidence coach, she doesn’t just talk the talk—she’s been through the struggles herself, and her methods come from real-life experience. The book feels like a genuine pep talk from a friend who’s cheering you on and sharing tools for building inner confidence.

Ashley’s realness, both in her social media presence and throughout this book, makes her message that much more powerful. A great read for anyone looking for a faith-based approach to self-confidence!

A big thanks to NetGalley, the author & publisher for allowing me to read this ARC for my honest review!

[Britton Owens · Rating 5 out of 5]

Confidence is An Inside Job has absolutely changed my life! Besides reading the Bible, this is probably the most transformative journey through a book that I’ve ever had. God has used this writing to help transform my life and my walk with Him.

[Natalie · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book resonated with me on so many levels. As someone who has struggled with confidence for a while, I'm so glad I read it. Confidence is really about placing all of our trust and hope in God. It is about acknowledging our worth as His beloved children and remembering that He will never leave us or forsake us. Some of the subjects covered are people-pleasing, confidence killers and resilience. Each chapter includes a s summary at the end and practical tools to strengthen one's confidence. I would definitely recommend this book to anyone who wants to become more confident by seeing themselves the way God does.

Some of my favorite quotes:

"Confidence means we trust God and we trust ourselves."

"Being confident is hard when you refuse to be content with what you already have."

[Emily Gomez · Rating 3 out of 5]

I give it three because I didn't feel like I took anything away that gave me a "wow" moment. She is relatable in how similar minds process in situations but I, personally, don't feel like I learned anything new. I do appreciate the author opening herself up and the vulnerability she shared!

[Kelly · Rating 4 out of 5]

3.5 rounded up. I enjoyed reading it but I feel like I didn’t really take much away from it for my personal life. I’d like to thank NetGalley and WaterBrook & Multnomah for the eARC of this book.