This was so great on every level!!!!!! I had forgotten how much I enjoy this series, and like, as much as I loved the last book in this series, this one was easily my favorite yet. I was in love with Tamar basically from the very start. The beginning part where she was talking about how she moved back home after graduating college and taught SAT classes and didn't feel like she was living up to her potential or whatever was super relatable for me and instantly endeared her to me. And I remember being interested in Abe's character from the previous books, so it was great to see so much more of him here. Like when he was telling Tamar how his aunt wanted him to help send his cousin to private school and instead he set up a college fund for him, but then realized he couldn't only do it for one cousin so he set up college funds for all 12 of his cousins. Just, Abe!!!!!!!!
And I loved everything about the development of Tamar and Abe's relationship, how he clearly realized he was an idiot for turning her down before, and how she was trying not to fall for him all over again to protect herself, but she also wasn't angry or cold to him or anything. I enjoyed how they picked their friendship right up again. And just how clearly Abe was into her throughout everything! I loved the part where he asked her to the wedding and she was like "You're supposed to ask a girlfriend. A date," and he pauses and is like, "I don't have a girlfriend. And I want to take you." It just made me feel a lot, idk!!! And I just love best friends to lovers stories, and this was basically that, even though it doesn't exactly fit what I usually love about those stories. But it was cute to see how they grew closer and closer, and the part when Abe was like "Tamar? You realize we're dating," because I love dating without even realizing it as a trope (or whatever you want to call it, but like, just when two characters are so close and spend so much time together that they're basically dating even though they're not officially dating).
I also REALLY loved how the fact that Tamar was a virgin was handled. It wasn't something she worried about or thought about basically at all, and she didn't even confirm that she was a virgin until she was about to sleep with Abe, and Abe made sure she still wanted to have sex but didn't freak out or anything, and it was just really nice!!! I feel like I barely ever see that approach to virgin heroines in contemporary romances, so it made me really happy. And I also really loved how the issue with the helmets was resolved. I knew it was going to be a source of conflict as soon as Tamar first brought it up, but I was really afraid she would end up secretly writing the article and then Abe would find out after the fact and get pissed. It was so great that even though it did cause some conflict between them, they talked about things openly and honestly and he stood by her and supported her writing the article. And everything between their families and how they were caught making out at Thanksgiving was the actual greatest. When they were talking about having the Leopard colors as their wedding theme!!!!!!!!! ugh, now I just want to read this again. Basically, everything was perfect, there is literally nothing I would change about this book, and it is now on my list of fave romances ever.