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True to its claim, Surviving Alzheimer's is packed with tips and wisdoms to apply to the everyday struggle of contending with the compromised thinking and behavior that afflicts those suffering with Alzheimer's disease. Communication has skirted off its highway here; words are lost, intentions muddled, frustrations mount. Negotiation depends upon a mutual understanding that is increasingly difficult to achieve. Paula Spencer Scott, a journalist and creator of the website Caring.com, has canvassed a multitude of experts (both professional and non-) and compiled their knowledge in short, tremendously accessible passages that nail down the whys and what-to-dos inside such exhausting interactions.
While a solid overview of the disease is provided, the bulk of the book is devoted to common dilemmas in areas that include paranoia, forgetfulness, shadowing, hoarding, sundowning, and the more basic difficulties sometimes found in activities like bathing, dressing, eating, and off-kilter sleep cycles. Scott, who has had four close family members who've suffered from dementia, brings great understanding to her text and practical solutions where they exist, along with suggestions to try where they don't. Additionally, she addresses a host of questions that are often uncomfortable to ask. It's hard to imagine there could possibly be a more thorough effort to assist the brave and blessed soul who has taken up this challenge in caring.
This is an impressive book, and one that is sure to be well-worn by usage over time.
This is an excellent resource for anyone dealing with Alzheimer’s. You don’t need to read it cover to cover but you can simply look at the table of contents for a particular issue or situation and read the 2-4 page chapter about it. Lots of clear insight and helpful advice. Highly recommended.
As a carer for my Dad I know how difficult both physically and emotionally dementia can be for both the person who has it and close family particularly those who are carers day to day.
During a particularly difficult time I was trying to do a bit of reading to see how others coped with different situations. It was then that I bought this book Surviving Alzheimers and I have to say it was excellent, the best book I have come across in this area. To this day it still sits on my desk and I dip in to it from time to time just as a reminder of things it is easy to forget when things get a bit stressful or when new symptoms/behaviours appear.
First class layout that lets you either read through it in order or dip into certain sections particularly relevant to the reader.
Early in this journey, my friend Barb Jackson recommended The 36-Hour Day. It was comprehensive and helped a lot at that point.
Just by accident, I found this book on the shelves of the public library, and it's wonderful.
"...uncredentialled but often equally knowing hands-on caregivers" -- I'm so thankful to Choice Care Your Way for Michelle and Triss and Linda and to Shirley's Angels for Amber and Andy. And so it goes....
A good thing to say to someone when you don't understand: "Tell me more about that."
So much to learn -- both for me and for the medical community!
The content of this book could have been summarized in a lengthy article. Repetitive ideas and a blog format with anecdotal stories that becomes tiring rather than helpful. Some scientific references would also have been important. Add to that the extensive use of bold fonts and the fact that several pages came off during their first reading and you get the overall feeling.
This book helped my family better understand how to support my mother-in-law. It includes sage advice and helpful tips for caregivers impacted by dementia and Alzheimer's disease. It's super easy to read and well written.
This book is a great compilation of all the other books I have read about Alzheimer’s. It not only let me know here we were in the process, but where we are going.
Read it as a resource book for the story I'm working on. Wish I'd read it when my grandmother was alive. I would have understood so much more about dementia.
I bought this book for a support group I was running and then started dealing with it with my own mom. It is a great book for any form of dementia and gives lots of practical advice.
I read this twice: once for the nurse perspective, and once as the daughter and primary caregiver of a mother with dementia. It’s very helpful for both perspectives.
One of the best books you can read as a caregiver no matter where how far along your person is in the disease. There are so many helpful tips. It's still the one book you hope you never have read.
This well designed, researched and personally tested series of tips has provided me with much hope and solace. Watching my beloved husband trudge this path often feels harder than trudging my own MS life which complicates care partnering.