The story of Ruth is a journey of transformation. By allowing God to transform her circumstances, Ruth went from a widow who would be excluded from society to a wife with a secure and protected future, a future that ultimately paved the way for the birth of King David! Her story is full of collision--loss, heartache, poverty, even shame--but she never let her past define her. Instead, the most painful time of her life became her most pivotal, propelling her to a destiny she never imagined.
Perhaps you have a past you're struggling to overcome. If disappointments, whether a result of your own choices or the actions of others, have kept you from being your true self, this book is for you. Follow Ruth's life and discover the hope available to each of us. Your yesterday does not have to dictate your tomorrow.
Despite your past pain, you, too, can find redemption and restoration.
Well, it took me a while to finish it. Not because it wasn't a good book, because it was actually. I am still going through that not wanting to read phase. I started 3 books in November and didn't finish any...This is one of the books started but not finished in November but this is the only book I actually finished since the end of October...
But this is about the book, not my reading habits over the last month or so! :-)
The book in and of itself was really good. If I had the understanding, self esteem & wisdom she has at her age (mid to late 20's)...I would be so much further along in my walk in this life than I am now. Now, don't get me wrong, I was far from stupid. I was a very smart 20 something and knew my issues, etc...But, because of such low self worth, etc...I just wasn't at the point I could have been in my life at that age...
One thing this book has reminded me of and taught me was that I was where I was supposed to be at that point in time of my life...Things I did during that time may have "Slowed me down a bit" but I was still where I should be. Could I have been so much further in my life if I had listened to those who tried to warn me? Sure! But, I was always a hard headed and stubborn one..Heck, I still am...That stubborn streak has been a blessing and a "curse" for me because I was sometimes stubborn when I shouldn't have been and should have listened...But also, that stubborn side of me helped me put my foot down with a lot of people and situations..Things that people wanted me to do that I knew I didnt want to do or wasn't for me at that time...If at all...People wanted me to do what they wish they could have if they "still had youth on their side" or "didn't have a record"...Sigh...
This book has reminded me that it's okay to let go and move forward in life. It's okay to be a bit scared but have faith that God has more for me (all of us) than we can ever imagine if we just step out a bit...And for me, and people like me, that is hard as trying to break stone with a toothbrush!
I try not to prejudge too many young people, but I am not totally stupid either...Just like I know not to trust many my own age either. I am 40 years old and learned you can learn from any age...If they are saying something worth hearing...And Sarah Jakes had a lot to say in this short little book. And I am grateful for her writing it at this point in my life when I am a bit more willing to listen...And at least try to makesmall steps to get to where I need to be.
But, again, this isn't really about me is it? It's about the book! lol
The book for me personally is very much worth the read. Especially if you feel like you're just stuck and don't know how to get out. It will at least encourage you a little bit to make those small steps towards your destiny. Even if everything in this book you have heard, seen or been through in your life...It's good to have those reminders along the way right?!?!
This will be a book that I buy and put on my shelf for future reference (borrowed from the library)...
Sarah Jakes does an awesome job with this book, jumping right in with “Life Doesn’t Always Go As Planned”. She dives deeper into the story of Ruth and this tiny little Biblical chapter and shows us all the richness and glory that is in God for not only the women of the Bible but ALL women of Christ.
She applies the teachings of the book of Ruth to her own life and engages us by making it into a sort of self-study as she asks the reader questions at the end of the chapter and before closing that chapter with prayer.
It took me quite awhile to read through this book. I wanted to take notes and really reflect on the story. It is an easy read but I think if you want to really get the most out of it you should participate in the questions Sarah asks you to reflect on and pray the prayers.
Overall, I think this book is a five star. It is not only great writing but the dust cover is embossed and has a beautiful metallic finish. The book without the dust cover is white with a gold binding and the title of the book on the spine. This is important for me because many books lose their dust cover over the years and they don’t have anything on the spine except a publishers mark, making it harder to find the book you are looking for. I know this book will be in my arsenal and read many times over my life!
I love the book of Ruth, so I was immediately drawn to Sarah Jakes’ Colliding with Destiny. In this book, Jakes walks through Ruth’s story, verse by verse, and discusses the important lessons revealed along her journey. While I didn’t find any point particularly new or revelatory, each short chapter offers an encouraging reminder of biblical truth. Jakes also includes journaling questions and a quick prayer at the end of each chapter, which would be helpful for readers interested in reflection and application. Overall, Colliding with Destiny is a beneficial, relatable read and anyone looking for a bit of encouragement in the midst of life’s difficulties should pick it up.
Thanks to Bethany House, I received a copy of Colliding with Destiny and the opportunity to provide an honest review. I was not required to write a positive review, and all the opinions I have expressed are my own.
I love the lessons taught here through the life of Ruth. I enjoyed this book mostly BC of the author's transparency. Her raw truth and perspective made Ruth's story come alive. Now I want to read her book about lessons learned from Mary!
WOW! If you are ready to let the pain go, be healed and become the empty vessel God created you to be, this is the guidebook to begin. Crying, but more than ready for my healing.
I rate Colliding with Destiny by Sarah Jake a 4.5/5. This book is a meaningful read for anyone who has experienced profound loss. By juxtaposing her own grief with the biblical story of Ruth, the author shows that loss does not have to end in lifelong disappointment or sorrow. Joy can emerge from tragedy, and hope can rise from despair.
The format is especially engaging, with journal entries after each chapter that offer readers a glimpse into the author’s pain while inviting them to reflect on their own journeys. Although written primarily for a female audience, I believe male readers will also find it insightful—particularly in understanding and supporting the women in their lives.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who has experienced deep loss and struggles to believe that restoration is possible; it powerfully affirms that redemption and healing do exist.
DNF @ 10% , but I'm trying to rate it fairly. I think it's suitable for teens & 20-somethings. The format is good - each chapter has the scripture passage, an application devotional, personal questions, and a prayer. But I've been in exegesis of Ruth for the better part of almost 2 years so this is VERY shallow in comparison and I don't think the personal applications I did read were necessarily wrong per se, but I did feel they missed the intended message of each passage. But if you're new to Ruth or wondering what you can glean from just 4 chapters beyond the very surface, then you could find this valuable.
This is certainly an interesting and encouraging book for those who needs healing & restoration of past failure, or have suffered deep painful past or experiencing any indescribable hurts. The author relates her teaching based on the Biblical book of Ruth to impart God’s amazing and unfailing love and plan for His children. Definitely a must read for those who need ministering for healing and to find their individual destiny that God have in place, if only he/she can keep taking the next step towards the collision with destiny, that’s awaiting them.
I'm not sure how to explain this book but I can definitely say that it has helped me. I originally expected a super churchy book, which made me take so long to start it, but that's not what I got. Instead I got a lot of life lessons that I had forgotten about and a few more. I had the audible version but had to buy the book too. Sarah Jakes voice is like talking to your calm sister. Try the audible!
This book allowed me to see that there were a lot of emotional scars I was still holding on to that, as a result, allowed me to make some decisions and involvement in relationships that I should have never been in. The story of Ruth was eye-opening to me as a young woman who is in the process of colliding with her destiny.
"I need the courage to find myself again, but this time I want to find the person You created me to be. I tried it my way. I created an image of what happiness looked like and I lost it all. You are the only One capable of locating my broken pieces and making me whole again. Here I am, God; I need You like never before."
An insight into the life of Ruth. An encouraging read urging the reader not to let their broken past define them. Allow God to rewrite the script of a beautiful future
I love how she breaks down the story of Ruth in each chapter and at the end of each chapter she asks reflection questions. She also has a prayer for the reader.
In her new book Colliding with Destiny, Sarah Jakes explores the book of Ruth to harvest for us what messages she might have for people today. Ruth has long been one of my favorite books of the Bible. As a feminist, I appreciate the fact it is led by two strong women. As an armchair Biblical scholar, I like to explore the world in which Ruth and Naomi lived in order to better understand them. As a woman who has seen suffering, I love all of the lessons Ms. Jakes takes out of Ruth’s story just for me.
As a Catholic that is admittedly often stuck in a bubble, I did wish I had a non-denominational, evangelical Christian dictionary like this one. I might’ve missed a couple layers of this deep inspirational writing due to nuances lost in translation. However, it didn’t diminish my appreciation for the book. For those who do not know, Ruth is the story of a young woman who after the death of her father-in-law and husband decides to break social convention and risk it all to stick by her bereaved mother-in-law’s side. She accompanies her to an unfamiliar land. As women didn’t have any power in those days, she does what she can to provide for herself and the older woman. As fate would have it, she does find love with a gentleman named Boaz who takes both of the women in. Ruth, a non-Israelite, consequently (or through divine providence) becomes an ancestor to David and ultimately to Jesus.
This isn’t a Cinderella tale, however. As Sarah Jakes unwraps this tale in Colliding with Destiny, it is seen that Ruth isn’t a helpless damsel in distress. She works hard and takes risks. She opens herself up to potential destitution and rejection. Ultimately, she does not only fall in love with Boaz, but with the Israelite God as she sacrifices it all to follow His will. Her story is an inspiration for all of us who hope that things will turn out all right in the end. Her behavior is a role-model for us in trying to be people of faith in the modern world. Her openness should help us to be open to God’s will and the love that surrounds us.
I walk away from this book with an interest in reading Ms. Jake’s autobiography. The first three chapters made me bawl like a little baby. They hit home for me. I’m sure some other chapters in this book will hit home for you. I recommend it especially for study in small, close groups of women. As she mentions many times in her book, we need to build each other up rather than tear each other down. I hope that you find it as helpful as I did.
I recently received a complimentary copy of Colliding with Destiny: Finding Hope in the Legacy of Ruth from Bethany House. I really enjoyed this book. The book of Ruth is one of my favorite stories. No, not just because it's one of the only books of the Bible with a female name, or because it's a love story (though, I do love a good love story). This book helped me. Some of the things she brought up in the book pricked things in my heart. The book is setup in a very devotional-like style. She has questions at the end of each chapter and a sample prayer to help lead you in your own prayers on how that chapter can help you. The chapters are all short, sweet, and to the point, yet they find a way to reach deep into the heart of the matter.
I love books, where I feel like the author is being completely open and honest, and I feel like Sarah did this well. She is open about things that are normally taboo in the Christian circle, such as teenage pregnancy, divorce after an unfaithful spouse, etc. It's always so encouraging to see someone go through these things, and still press on for Christ and be used of Him. The story of Ruth in itself is about leaving your past behind and reaching forward. It's a story of grace. Ruth was considered an infidel because she was from Moab. She married Naomi's son, but he passed away shortly after they were married. After the death of Naomi's husband and two sons, she decided to go back to her native land. Ruth was given the choice to leave her mother-in-law and return to Moab, but she refused to return to that life. To make a long story short, because of her refusal to return to her past, the Lord blessed her with a new husband and family and even a spot in the lineage of David.
Sarah has a fresh approach with her examples/illustrations she sets forth in the book. She took real life situations and turned them into ways for the Lord to show Himself. I loved reading stories about her life and then see where she reflected and saw God's hand. How amazing is it to know that we have a God that works in our every day life, even when we don't see it at the time?! I'm not a big fan of the word "destiny" as a Christian, because I feel like most people use it in a mystical way. Merriam-Webster defines the word "destiny" as "a power that is believed to control what happens in the future". I truly believe that God has a specific will and destiny for our lives and that we are to choose Him and His ways for our lives to be truly blessed.
This book is a must read for women who are in the middle of challenging times. I have read the book of Ruth quite a few times, but I had never approached it from the perspective of a young woman emerging from great loss, isolation, and the unknown.
Sarah Jakes offers practical insight about the possible thoughts of Ruth, the unseen challenges she may have encountered, her faithfulness to Naomi, integrity, and God.
Although this book has not been referred to as a devotional, it is the perfect 30-day devotional for someone who is working through difficult times. With each of the 30 short chapters, Jakes focuses on several verses in Ruth, illustrates the verses with everyday examples, provides thought-provoking questions for the reader to journal about, and ends with a prayer.
Jakes shares her personal collisions with destiny and the guilt she felt over a failed marriage and past mistakes. The book of Ruth provided hope as Jakes walked with this young widow from the land she knew to the land of the Israelites. From following the women in the fields and picking up leftover bits of grain to finding favor in the eyes of the field’s owner, Boaz, Ruth did not give up. Jakes urges the reader to persevere and wait upon the Lord to work.
"When you collide with destiny as Ruth did, you will discover a beautiful point of intersection between the longings of your heart, your experience, and gifting, and the opportunities God opens before you."
A beautiful story about the redemption of the church unfolded before my eyes as a picture of the Christian walk through the challenges of life, through the loss of a loved one, loss of job, loss of health, loss of spouse, or loss of possessions.
"So often we remember Ruth with Boaz and her ultimate blessing, not with her struggle. This outcome gives me comfort. It means when all is said and done, my legacy will not be what broke me but how God blessed me. Only those who care to see my scars will understand that the blessing did not come without wounds and that I did all I could to survive."
There is hope, and your story is a legacy.
What is your legacy?
I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher, Bethany House Publishers, a division of Baker Publishing Group, in exchange for my honest review.
I had not heard of Sarah Jakes when I received her book Colliding with Destiny, and had no idea what to expect. If her surname sounds familiar, it is because she is the daughter of Pastor T. D. Jakes. Colliding with Destiny follows the story of Ruth and Naomi in the Bible and their struggles from bitterness and loss to redemption and restoration. Each chapter starts out with a short passage of scripture. Ms. Jakes then provides a two to three page in-depth look at the passage. She uses modern day examples and is very open and honest about the struggles and failures in her own life. After a reflection, there is a journal entry and several journal questions. These are great for guidance in writing in a journal. Each chapter ends with a prayer. I greatly enjoyed the book and appreciated Ms. Jakes openness and honesty about the pain and suffering she has dealt with in her own life. She does not have a woe is me attitude, but one that you can overcome and survive, the same way Ruth did. I’ve always loved the story of Ruth, but never could relate to her story. I always focused on the end of the story instead of the journey to get there. I’ve read a number of books on Ruth, but Ms. Jakes put her story and heartache into a new perspective for me. I was able to relate to the pain she felt at the beginning and the joy she experienced by the end of the book. For the first time I was able to relate and see Ruth in a new way. Each chapter is short at just four to five pages. I really enjoyed the journal questions and prayer at the end. This is a great book to include with a daily Bible Study for a month {30 chapters}. The chapters are short and even with writing in a journal can be done within five to ten minutes. If you want to delve deeper into Ruth’s story or if you or someone you know are struggling with life and are beaten down with the past and decisions made, I strongly recommend this book. Disclosure: I received this book for free in order to give an honest evaluation of the book. The opinions about the book are my own.
Baker Publishing Group|September 2, 2014|Trade Paperback|ISBN: 978-0-7642-1289-5 Story Description: Find a fuller, richer life by letting God direct your destiny. The story of Ruth is a journey of transformation. By allowing God to transform her circumstances, Ruth went from a widow who would be excluded from society to a wife with a secure and protected future, a future that ultimately paved the way for the birth of King David! Her story is full of collision--loss, heartache, poverty, even shame--but she she never let her past define her. Instead, the most painful time of her life became her most pivotal, propelling her to a destiny she never imagined. Perhaps you have a past you're struggling to overcome. If disappointments, whether a result of your own choices or the actions of others, have kept you from being your true self, this book is for you. Follow Ruth's life and discover the hope available to each of us. Your yesterday does not have to dictate your tomorrow. Despite your past pain, you, too, can find redemption and restoration. My Review: Unfortunately, I was sorely disappointed in Colliding With Destiny, it's not at all what I expected. Perhaps had the format been different I would have enjoyed it more but I found it difficult to get through the way it was written. I expected to read the entire story of Ruth and then find comparisons, questions, comments and the like after the story had been told, not snippets from Bible chapters with commentary written inbetween. It just wasn't what I was hoping for in this particular book. I'm sure, however, that there are a lot of you out there who love this format and will undoubtedly love the book and I wish you much luck and enjoyment with it. I would like to thank Graf-Martin for the sending me a copy in exchange for a fair and honest review.
I was excited about the idea of examining the biblical story of Ruth more closely in Colliding with Destiny: Finding Hope in the Legacy of Ruth by Sarah Jakes. Colliding with Destiny did deliver in part what I hoped.
I liked how each chapter sequentially introduced a part of the story of Ruth. I felt that telling the story of Ruth through multiple biblical translation was effective in creating, a full, powerful story of Ruth. I thought the chapter titles introductory quotes were carefully chosen and matched well the different facets of Ruth’s story. I feel I understand much better the story of Ruth and how her trails apply to my challenges and disappointments.
But, overall I was not impressed or motivated by Colliding with Destiny for several reasons. I was initially confused the with journal and prayer sections that conclude each chapter. A brief reference to those sections in the introduction would have clarified questions of how best to use those sections which are unfamiliar to some readers.
While I enjoyed some of Jakes’ discussion of Ruth, I felt Jakes sometimes stretched the story of Ruth too much to fit her purpose, and added suppositions as part of Ruth’s story. Jakes’ obviously has experiences that have taught her a lot about life and relationships, but all of the chapters seem focused mainly on Jakes’ life experiences. As the book progressed I felt like I was reading the memoirs of Sarah Jakes rather than a discussion of how the story of Ruth applies to everyone.
I so wanted to like this book from the moment I saw the beautiful cover and read the introductory chapter, but it’s not what it could have been. Bethany House gave me a complimentary copy of Colliding with Destiny: Finding Hope in the Legacy of Ruth by Sarah Jakes for my candid review.
(This book was received free by Bethany House in exchange for a fair review.)
In Colliding with Destiny, Sarah Jakes takes you on a journey that has the potential to inspire you to see what it looks like when God’s hand is in the collisions that are in your life. We are familiar with the story of Ruth in the Bible. We more times than not hear about the ending of the story, the happy parts where she marries Boaz and later from her line comes King David, and eventually Jesus. But how often do we take the time to understand all the opposition that this incredible woman had to go through before she reached that place?
Sarah jumps right to the point in her first chapter: life does not always go as planned. Can I get an “Amen”?
Bad things can happen. We can find ourselves in places and in situations that we never dreamed we would end up.
This, is where Sarah shows us the hope that is found in the legacy of Ruth. When your circumstances collide with God’s grace, the reaction can act as a catalyst, launching you into your divine destiny.
Sarah states: “… grace survives our most broken moments.”
Colliding with Destiny is beautifully written in a 30 day devotional format with questions at the end of each chapter for you to contemplate and journal through. Also, each chapter starts with a short passage from the book of Ruth that Sarah uses as she shares parts of her own story and how she walked through the collisions in her life, by God’s grace, and by the example of a woman who went ahead of us all proving the beauty God can make with our brokenness.
Whether you lived a hard and broken past, or you are struggling with the present, you will find yourself encouraged and uplifted by Sarah’s words, and inspired by Ruth’s story.
Age Appropriate For: 16 and up for some subject matter Best for Ages: 16 and up
This is my first book by Jakes, and I really am impressed. She has found a great balance in sharing about her broken past, without going into so much detail that the message of her book was lost in the gritty details of her past. I applaud her honesty and her message.
Ruth has always been a favorite character of mine in the bible, second only to Joseph of the Old Testament. I was very excited to see Jakes’ take on this story of love, forgiveness and second chances. Though not exactly what I expected, I felt she did a good job.
Each chapter begins with some verses from the book of Ruth. Jakes than draws from her life and crafts a lesson from each chapter. The format, although not what I expected, was nice and made for easy reading. Some of the lessons that she drew from the verses were a bit of a stretch – such as, Jakes says that when Boaz first noticed her, it was because she conducted herself confidently. However, most of the book is very biblically sound.
This book, while good, was not a real challenge for me. It seemed to contain the same information I had read elsewhere and did not add to my understanding of life or the Bible. I also felt the writing was a bit weak. It wasn’t terrible, it just wasn’t as strong as I like in my non-fiction.
I recommend this book for those who love Ruth, honest non-fiction, and non-fiction that is easy to read.
I received this book from Bethany House in exchange for my honest review. I was under no obligation to write a positive review. The opinions in this review are entirely my own.
Thanks to Bethany House, I have been able to review some really great books by awesome authors.
My latest read from Bethany House comes from Sarah D. Jakes. This awesome and anointed woman of God has written a devotion-esque book breaking down the Book of Ruth, peeling apart and dissecting each verse beyond the story of her finding Boaz as many are so accustomed to hearing.
Each chapter begins with a verse (or two) in one of many translations, followed by a quick bible study. Ms. Jakes adds touches to each chapter via personal stories increasing the ability for all women to relate and tie their lives into Ruth.
Colliding with Destiny was a great read. I'm very familiar with the story of Ruth. Like many women, I am mostly accustomed to studying Ruth as a single women waiting for her Boaz. Reading this book has opened my eyes to understanding Ruth and Noami's story in ways I never have before. From studies on fearlessly walking alone (Unmasking the Lone Ranger) to looking beyond what my natural eyes can see and pushing forward (Surpass The All), there is encouragement in each one of these chapters. I enjoyed the simplicity in which the book was broken down. This book can easily be read as a daily devotional during personal or group bible study.
I recommend Colliding with Destiny to any and every women looking to understand her own destiny. Sarah's book is an encouraging piece providing encouragement, hope, love and positivity while navigating through the challenges of life. No matter of you are going through a storm or not, this book carries the foundation to build and impact a kingdom of strong women chasing after God's heart on destiny's path.
Colliding with Destiny: Finding Hope in the Legacy of Ruth was written by Sarah Jakes, the daughter of Bishop T. D. Jakes. The book consists of an introduction and 30 chapters, which makes it a great one-month devotional, or it could be offered as a small-group Bible study with several chapters read before each meeting.
Each chapter begins with a few verses from the book of Ruth, and then the author shares a personal application of the scripture. Each chapter ends with a "Journal" section followed by a "Prayer" section, which allow the reader to reflect on the scripture and apply it to their own life and then close by giving thanks or asking God for help.
Colliding with Destiny examines the life of Ruth and the struggles she endured as she remained faithful to her family and her Lord. She could have given up at any time, said it was too hard, and returned to her mother's house, but she endured and overcame her disappointments. God redeemed her pain and restored her with blessings. Ruth went on to become the great-grandmother of King David and an ancestor of Jesus Christ.
Sarah Jakes writes with wisdom as she shares her own painful experiences and disappointments, which taught her about God's love, redemption, and restoration. This book offers Biblical hope and encouragement for anyone struggling to overcome their past.
I received this book for free from the publisher in exchange for an honest review. These thoughts and opinions are my own.
The story of Ruth has always been special to me. I admire her loyalty, strength and convictions. She is a woman we can all follow by example. Only God knew that because of her choice Jesus would come from her family line. Ms. Jakes challenges us like Ruth to live a life that is destined for God. Her questions at the end of the chapters were convicting because it allowed you to see where you are with God. There is no room for lies when you want to be what God has called to be. As a single woman it was a reminder that Ruth did not go looking for a husband but God provided her with one. She was just doing what God wants her to be doing and he answered her need. Ms. Jakes pointed out something in this story that I missed. It was that Boaz protected Ruth’s reputations. I am reminded of I Cor. 13. Love truly protects. There are two sentences that inspired me in this book. It calls us to see ourselves through God’s eyes. He is the one that is molding us. We are fearfully and wonderfully made by you and he has given us his stamp of approval. Often the things we spend a lifetime trying to hide are the very tools we need to become who God called us to be. Page 189 Restoration. It is the moment when God shows you that you lost nothing in the process. Page 200 I received this book for free from The Book Club Network in exchange for my honest review. I also posted this review on Amazon, Barnes and Nobles, Goodreads, Deepershopper, etc.)”