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I Lived to Tell the Story: A Memoir of Love, Legacy, and Resilience
A powerful and heartfelt memoir of perseverance and triumph over tragedy from Tamika D. Mallory, trailblazing social justice leader and cofounder of the Women’s March.
In this candid and defiant memoir, a follow-up to her “masterful” (Marc Lamont Hill, New York Times bestselling author) response to the murders of Breonna Taylor and George Floyd, State of Emergency, Tamika D. Mallory holds nothing back as she shares hers, the activist’s life.
From early days as daughter to Black civil rights activists in Harlem, New York, to a young Black woman’s first battles against the physical and political violence she’d fight all her life, to the never-before-shared personal and professional crises launched by those forces intent on keeping her silent, this is a work of activism in motion and an unflinching story of America at the turn of the 21st century.
Ultimately, I Lived to Tell the Story is a celebration of the profound truth that our hearts grow closest when we discover that the values we share are grounded in personal truths as well as high-minded aspiration.
In this candid and defiant memoir, a follow-up to her “masterful” (Marc Lamont Hill, New York Times bestselling author) response to the murders of Breonna Taylor and George Floyd, State of Emergency, Tamika D. Mallory holds nothing back as she shares hers, the activist’s life.
From early days as daughter to Black civil rights activists in Harlem, New York, to a young Black woman’s first battles against the physical and political violence she’d fight all her life, to the never-before-shared personal and professional crises launched by those forces intent on keeping her silent, this is a work of activism in motion and an unflinching story of America at the turn of the 21st century.
Ultimately, I Lived to Tell the Story is a celebration of the profound truth that our hearts grow closest when we discover that the values we share are grounded in personal truths as well as high-minded aspiration.
304 pages, Hardcover
First published February 11, 2025
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April 18, 2025
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I read quite a lot about social issues, rights, justice. One of my favorite subgenres of this is the political memoir. I really appreciate the stories of the people who stand up for the weakest of us and shepherd in an unexpected future. As a deep-down cynic who's always looking for the light, these kinds of stories shine for me.
I tried I Lived to Tell the Story a couple months ago when I was experiencing a depression, and it didn't hit right. I always meant to read it again. This one is available now, so if you're curious about the woman who helped start the Women's March, go check this out.
Final Review:
I was committed to move forward and on to a whole season of my worst inclinations. Hood shit and ratchetry with my best friend. It was summertime. p72
Review summary and recommendations
My first read of this book was challenging and so I DNFed very early on. I always suspected I was just not connecting, and wanted to circle back to this one. I'm glad I read it a second time, I wouldn't want to have missed it.
This book is the memoir of Tamika Mallory, the activist that first organized the Women's March. Her career in combating systemic and interpersonal racism, both on a personal and professional level, makes for riveting, eye-opening reading.
I recommend this book to readers of narrative nonfiction or memoir, stories about rights, discrimination, and equity, and stories about activism.
For more like this, good memoirs about social justice, check out What Truth Sounds Like by Michael Eric Dyson (my review!), and for another professional memoir on another subject, this time the restaurant industry, try Cellar Rat by Hannah Selinger (my review!)
And while it is certain that, as individuals, we wake up from the deep sleep of oppression at different times and in different places, not one of us can afford to remain asleep when injustice comes to our front doors. p97
Reading Notes
Three (or more) things I loved:
1. My parents personified the revolution they lived. As a collective, our pride and Blackness superseded every environment we lived in. And everywhere they went, they planted seeds of Black pride. I was their harvest. p35 I love stories of good, loving families!
2. I acted and thought as a child, even though I was fully engaged in adult behaviors. Whether I was wrong or right in anyone’s eyes is not the most important factor here. I acknowledge that my decision making was poor. To be clear, what was most important back then and still today is what I did with my body was my choice. I had the option to make a decision about what happened to me. A choice that no woman should have to fight for. I deserved the power to make decisions about my health and my future, just as women and girls should be able to do today. p72 Again and again, Mallory makes herself vulnerable to make a larger connection. It makes for compelling reading.
3. In the movement, opportunities were abundant, but people with the head and heart for it were few. Activists were always looking for fresh talent to expand their reach, enhance their organizations, and strengthen their businesses. From contractors to therapists to tailors, there is never a lack of business or opportunity when we combine our time, talents, and treasures for the greater good of all. Group economics is the name of the game. p94 This is *smart*.
4. In my line of work, there is much controversy. It’s everywhere and happens all the time. Truth be told, we live in a controversial society. Over the years, I have gained more understanding of the cycle of life. As they say, history repeats itself. Most of the things we see today have happened in one way or another in the past. Equipped with this heightened sense of awareness, I am empowered to take pause and sit back and process events unfolding with more patience and discernment than I had when I was younger. p177 Political work is extremely hard. This book reminded me of that. There's no such thing as work-life balance when your profession is fighting for human rights.
Three (or less) things I didn't love:
This section isn't only for criticisms. It's merely for items that I felt something for other than "love" or some interpretation thereof.
1. I have a fundamental disagreement with how Mallory defines family, particularly between couples, but I find her actual family completely compelling. Besides, she isn't prescribing in this book, but describing.
2. I was not aware that Mallory faced public outcry that she was antisemitic because her organization created an outreach for Palestinian families affected by the Israeli occupation in Gaza. It's a difficult time to be an activist in the US, between lack of understanding of international issues and cancel culture. Taking a stand on the wrong issue today can ruin your life...or threaten it.
Rating: 🪧🪧🪧🪧 /5 brave activists
Recommend? absolutely
Finished: Apr 15 '25
Format: accessible digital arc, NetGalley
Read this book if you like:
🗞 nonfiction
🟰 social justice
✊️ human rights
🗣 memoir
Thank you to the author Tamika D. Mallory, publishers Atria Books, and NetGalley for an advance digital copy of I LIVED TO TELL THE STORY. All views are mine.
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Pre-Read notes
I read quite a lot about social issues, rights, justice. One of my favorite subgenres of this is the political memoir. I really appreciate the stories of the people who stand up for the weakest of us and shepherd in an unexpected future. As a deep-down cynic who's always looking for the light, these kinds of stories shine for me.
I tried I Lived to Tell the Story a couple months ago when I was experiencing a depression, and it didn't hit right. I always meant to read it again. This one is available now, so if you're curious about the woman who helped start the Women's March, go check this out.
Final Review:
I was committed to move forward and on to a whole season of my worst inclinations. Hood shit and ratchetry with my best friend. It was summertime. p72
Review summary and recommendations
My first read of this book was challenging and so I DNFed very early on. I always suspected I was just not connecting, and wanted to circle back to this one. I'm glad I read it a second time, I wouldn't want to have missed it.
This book is the memoir of Tamika Mallory, the activist that first organized the Women's March. Her career in combating systemic and interpersonal racism, both on a personal and professional level, makes for riveting, eye-opening reading.
I recommend this book to readers of narrative nonfiction or memoir, stories about rights, discrimination, and equity, and stories about activism.
For more like this, good memoirs about social justice, check out What Truth Sounds Like by Michael Eric Dyson (my review!), and for another professional memoir on another subject, this time the restaurant industry, try Cellar Rat by Hannah Selinger (my review!)
And while it is certain that, as individuals, we wake up from the deep sleep of oppression at different times and in different places, not one of us can afford to remain asleep when injustice comes to our front doors. p97
Reading Notes
Three (or more) things I loved:
1. My parents personified the revolution they lived. As a collective, our pride and Blackness superseded every environment we lived in. And everywhere they went, they planted seeds of Black pride. I was their harvest. p35 I love stories of good, loving families!
2. I acted and thought as a child, even though I was fully engaged in adult behaviors. Whether I was wrong or right in anyone’s eyes is not the most important factor here. I acknowledge that my decision making was poor. To be clear, what was most important back then and still today is what I did with my body was my choice. I had the option to make a decision about what happened to me. A choice that no woman should have to fight for. I deserved the power to make decisions about my health and my future, just as women and girls should be able to do today. p72 Again and again, Mallory makes herself vulnerable to make a larger connection. It makes for compelling reading.
3. In the movement, opportunities were abundant, but people with the head and heart for it were few. Activists were always looking for fresh talent to expand their reach, enhance their organizations, and strengthen their businesses. From contractors to therapists to tailors, there is never a lack of business or opportunity when we combine our time, talents, and treasures for the greater good of all. Group economics is the name of the game. p94 This is *smart*.
4. In my line of work, there is much controversy. It’s everywhere and happens all the time. Truth be told, we live in a controversial society. Over the years, I have gained more understanding of the cycle of life. As they say, history repeats itself. Most of the things we see today have happened in one way or another in the past. Equipped with this heightened sense of awareness, I am empowered to take pause and sit back and process events unfolding with more patience and discernment than I had when I was younger. p177 Political work is extremely hard. This book reminded me of that. There's no such thing as work-life balance when your profession is fighting for human rights.
Three (or less) things I didn't love:
This section isn't only for criticisms. It's merely for items that I felt something for other than "love" or some interpretation thereof.
1. I have a fundamental disagreement with how Mallory defines family, particularly between couples, but I find her actual family completely compelling. Besides, she isn't prescribing in this book, but describing.
2. I was not aware that Mallory faced public outcry that she was antisemitic because her organization created an outreach for Palestinian families affected by the Israeli occupation in Gaza. It's a difficult time to be an activist in the US, between lack of understanding of international issues and cancel culture. Taking a stand on the wrong issue today can ruin your life...or threaten it.
Rating: 🪧🪧🪧🪧 /5 brave activists
Recommend? absolutely
Finished: Apr 15 '25
Format: accessible digital arc, NetGalley
Read this book if you like:
🗞 nonfiction
🟰 social justice
✊️ human rights
🗣 memoir
Thank you to the author Tamika D. Mallory, publishers Atria Books, and NetGalley for an advance digital copy of I LIVED TO TELL THE STORY. All views are mine.
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December 5, 2024
Unreal. Ms. Mallory has indeed lived to tell the story, and what a sensational story it is. Firstly, the candor is wowee. She went all the way, I mean, like damn. Resilience is definitely the word that will come to mind whenever I see Ms. Tamika Mallory on the screen from now on. She has come through a lot, much of it her own making, and the beauty and value of her story is she owns all of it. She totally embraces every aspect of her past with unflinching honesty.
At times her story reads like a gritty street novel, she was a bad girl. And although she had two solid loving parents, the streets were a greater influence than her home. Some times you can do everything right, and the streets still win. But the exciting part of her journey is she always found her way back to solid ground, resilience.
As the first reviewer here, I don’t want to say what poor decisions were made, because that would ruin the reading experience, but trust me, there are some head shaking moments, kudos to Ms. Mallory for staying in the fight and giving this brave gift of her life story to the world. She has much to teach us all, men, women, and children young and old. This is a story that resonates deeply and has the ability to inspire change in all of us. A great big thanks to Atria/Black privilege publishing and Netgalley for an advanced DRC. I am truly grateful. You will see this book on shelves February 11, 2025
At times her story reads like a gritty street novel, she was a bad girl. And although she had two solid loving parents, the streets were a greater influence than her home. Some times you can do everything right, and the streets still win. But the exciting part of her journey is she always found her way back to solid ground, resilience.
As the first reviewer here, I don’t want to say what poor decisions were made, because that would ruin the reading experience, but trust me, there are some head shaking moments, kudos to Ms. Mallory for staying in the fight and giving this brave gift of her life story to the world. She has much to teach us all, men, women, and children young and old. This is a story that resonates deeply and has the ability to inspire change in all of us. A great big thanks to Atria/Black privilege publishing and Netgalley for an advanced DRC. I am truly grateful. You will see this book on shelves February 11, 2025
December 31, 2024
”I was born fighting for freedom and I will die fighting . . . until freedom.”
Tamika D. Mallory has a powerful story, and it is a gift that she is sharing it with the world now. From humble beginnings in a Harlem housing project, to a string of bad decisions as a teenager, to raising a son alone as a single mother, to eventually becoming a social justice warrior and civil rights icon… Mallory takes the reader on an incredible journey through her own lived experiences, and it is an impactful read.
”Pain, loss, trials and tribulations, and ultimately triumph were the undercurrent of who and what I became.”
Mallory writes with authority on topics as personal as her own failures, addictions, tragedies, and losses; as far-reaching as the daily injustices committed against marginalized communities; and as universal as the desire for freedom & agency. Her words are poignant and transparent—she’s not trying to make anyone look good (including herself); she’s out to inspire us to do good, and she sets an example of activism that is fueled by both humility and passion.
”Goodness is who we are.“
This book won’t be for everyone. Politically left-leaning readers may feel like Mallory is insensitive, with her participation in anti-mask protests in NYC during the early days of COVID, and her name-dropping anecdotes of problematic celebs like Jay-Z and Diddy, in a book that (ironically) discusses her own experience as a victim of sexual assault. Readers on the right of the political spectrum may judge harshly Mallory’s multiple abortions and bold opposition to law enforcement.
Wherever your own lived experiences have taken you, the book will force you out of your comfort zone, as it did for me. I found myself in a place where I had to confront my own biases and examine the level of privilege I was born with. I am grateful that people like Tamika D. Mallory are willing to tell their stories, to raise awareness and fuel change, one reader at a time.
”In spite of everything that has happened in my life, and every decision I have made, good, bad, indifferent, I am worthy. I am worthy of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. I am worthy of seeking and experiencing deep, unapologetic joy. Most profoundly, my voice deserves to be heard.”
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A huge thank you to Tamika D. Mallory, Atria, and NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for an honest review!
Tamika D. Mallory has a powerful story, and it is a gift that she is sharing it with the world now. From humble beginnings in a Harlem housing project, to a string of bad decisions as a teenager, to raising a son alone as a single mother, to eventually becoming a social justice warrior and civil rights icon… Mallory takes the reader on an incredible journey through her own lived experiences, and it is an impactful read.
”Pain, loss, trials and tribulations, and ultimately triumph were the undercurrent of who and what I became.”
Mallory writes with authority on topics as personal as her own failures, addictions, tragedies, and losses; as far-reaching as the daily injustices committed against marginalized communities; and as universal as the desire for freedom & agency. Her words are poignant and transparent—she’s not trying to make anyone look good (including herself); she’s out to inspire us to do good, and she sets an example of activism that is fueled by both humility and passion.
”Goodness is who we are.“
This book won’t be for everyone. Politically left-leaning readers may feel like Mallory is insensitive, with her participation in anti-mask protests in NYC during the early days of COVID, and her name-dropping anecdotes of problematic celebs like Jay-Z and Diddy, in a book that (ironically) discusses her own experience as a victim of sexual assault. Readers on the right of the political spectrum may judge harshly Mallory’s multiple abortions and bold opposition to law enforcement.
Wherever your own lived experiences have taken you, the book will force you out of your comfort zone, as it did for me. I found myself in a place where I had to confront my own biases and examine the level of privilege I was born with. I am grateful that people like Tamika D. Mallory are willing to tell their stories, to raise awareness and fuel change, one reader at a time.
”In spite of everything that has happened in my life, and every decision I have made, good, bad, indifferent, I am worthy. I am worthy of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. I am worthy of seeking and experiencing deep, unapologetic joy. Most profoundly, my voice deserves to be heard.”
——
A huge thank you to Tamika D. Mallory, Atria, and NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for an honest review!
February 23, 2025
I received an early review copy from S&S (via Edelweiss) in exchange for an honest review.
Despite not being a huge fan of nonfiction (except for memoirs), I read this author’s debut (STATE OF EMERGENCY, 2021) and it ended up being added to my bookcase holding my all time favorite books. So I went into this one completely blind and expecting to enjoy it just as much especially knowing it was a memoir. Yet nothing could prepare me for how raw this book is.
It is an easy read that flows like some of my favorite novels. It’s a page turner that I started on Saturday evening and finished Sunday afternoon. The author was incredibly transparent about her past and some poor decisions where many of her stature would keep those things buried. It is a story of resilience and a reminder that we are not defined by our past. It is a gentle hug to teenagers that no matter what happens now (good, bad or ugly) they can still become an influential and integral part of history.
I loved how this author held nothing back and was so raw. STATE OF EMERGENCY told the world who Tamika D. Mallory is as an activist. However I LIVED TO TELL THE STORY introduced to the beautifully scarred yet healed woman who is simply, Tamika. I highly recommend reading both books asap.
Despite not being a huge fan of nonfiction (except for memoirs), I read this author’s debut (STATE OF EMERGENCY, 2021) and it ended up being added to my bookcase holding my all time favorite books. So I went into this one completely blind and expecting to enjoy it just as much especially knowing it was a memoir. Yet nothing could prepare me for how raw this book is.
It is an easy read that flows like some of my favorite novels. It’s a page turner that I started on Saturday evening and finished Sunday afternoon. The author was incredibly transparent about her past and some poor decisions where many of her stature would keep those things buried. It is a story of resilience and a reminder that we are not defined by our past. It is a gentle hug to teenagers that no matter what happens now (good, bad or ugly) they can still become an influential and integral part of history.
I loved how this author held nothing back and was so raw. STATE OF EMERGENCY told the world who Tamika D. Mallory is as an activist. However I LIVED TO TELL THE STORY introduced to the beautifully scarred yet healed woman who is simply, Tamika. I highly recommend reading both books asap.
March 4, 2025
I didn't know who Tamika D. Mallory was prior to reading her memoir. I now want to consume anything she'll write. I really enjoyed her writing style. She was very raw in her writing, which you don't always get from memoirs. She owns everything that's happened flaws and all. I do wish that some of her younger life sections in the beginning were shorter. While it highlighted her upbringing not all of it necessarily helped to move her story forward with what she's accomplished in her career.
Thank you to Netgalley and Atria (via Black Privilege Publishing) for a copy in exchange for review consideration.
Thank you to Netgalley and Atria (via Black Privilege Publishing) for a copy in exchange for review consideration.
May 30, 2025
Powerful story, Powerful story teller-her voice is clear, honest and true.
May 17, 2025
Wow! What a vulnerable and powerful testimony. This book is powerful and motivational. She let her hair down and kept it real. I love that! What an inspiration. 🙌🏾❤️
March 4, 2025
" I Lived to Tell the Story" follows Tamika Mallory from childhood to present day. She focuses on hardships and devotion to activism. Her story was relatable and transparent.
I received ARC copy from the publisher through NetGalley.
I received ARC copy from the publisher through NetGalley.
February 27, 2025
Thank you to Atria Books for the ARC!
In I Lived to Tell the Story, Tamika D. Mallory delivers a powerful, deeply personal memoir that is as much a call to action as it is a reflection on her life’s journey. Known for her activism, leadership, and unapologetic voice in the fight for justice, Mallory takes readers beyond the headlines and into the heart of her experiences—triumphs, struggles, and the unbreakable bonds of family that shaped her.
A Story of Strength, Love, and Legacy
From her early years growing up in a family deeply entrenched in activism to her rise as one of the most influential voices in modern civil rights movements, Mallory’s memoir is a testament to resilience. She lays bare her personal challenges—grief, loss, and the weight of expectations—while also illuminating the moments of love, mentorship, and purpose that fueled her path forward.
The memoir is not just about activism; it’s about why she fights. At its core, this is a love letter to those who came before her and a blueprint for those who will continue the fight for justice. With a narrative that moves seamlessly between personal memories and broader social issues, Mallory offers a gripping, emotional, and ultimately inspiring read.
What Makes This Book a Must-Read?
✅ Raw and Honest Storytelling – Mallory doesn’t hold back, sharing both the victories and the pain with unflinching honesty.
✅ A Powerful Exploration of Legacy – The memoir highlights the impact of family, community, and the responsibility of carrying forward a movement.
✅ An Intimate Look at Activism – Beyond speeches and protests, Mallory reveals the emotional and personal toll of fighting for justice.
✅ Uplifting and Inspirational – Despite the hardships, this book leaves readers with a sense of hope and a call to action.
TROPES & THEMES:
Resilience in the Face of Adversity 💪 – Overcoming grief, systemic oppression, and personal setbacks.
Legacy and Generational Impact 🕊️ – Honoring those who paved the way while inspiring the next generation.
The Intersection of Personal and Political 🎤 – A deeply personal story intertwined with broader social movements.
Love as a Driving Force ❤️ – From family bonds to community connections, love fuels the fight for justice.
A Few Quibbles
⚠️ Emotionally Heavy – Some parts are deeply raw and may be difficult for readers to process.
⚠️ Not a Traditional Memoir – This blends personal storytelling with activism, so it may feel more like a call to action than a linear life story.
Final Verdict ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
I Lived to Tell the Story is a gripping, heartfelt memoir that not only chronicles Tamika D. Mallory’s journey but also challenges readers to reflect on their own roles in shaping a more just world. With powerful storytelling, deeply personal insights, and an unshakable commitment to love and justice, this is a book that will stay with you long after you turn the last page.
If you’re looking for a memoir that is both deeply moving and socially relevant, this one is a must-read. ✊📖
In I Lived to Tell the Story, Tamika D. Mallory delivers a powerful, deeply personal memoir that is as much a call to action as it is a reflection on her life’s journey. Known for her activism, leadership, and unapologetic voice in the fight for justice, Mallory takes readers beyond the headlines and into the heart of her experiences—triumphs, struggles, and the unbreakable bonds of family that shaped her.
A Story of Strength, Love, and Legacy
From her early years growing up in a family deeply entrenched in activism to her rise as one of the most influential voices in modern civil rights movements, Mallory’s memoir is a testament to resilience. She lays bare her personal challenges—grief, loss, and the weight of expectations—while also illuminating the moments of love, mentorship, and purpose that fueled her path forward.
The memoir is not just about activism; it’s about why she fights. At its core, this is a love letter to those who came before her and a blueprint for those who will continue the fight for justice. With a narrative that moves seamlessly between personal memories and broader social issues, Mallory offers a gripping, emotional, and ultimately inspiring read.
What Makes This Book a Must-Read?
✅ Raw and Honest Storytelling – Mallory doesn’t hold back, sharing both the victories and the pain with unflinching honesty.
✅ A Powerful Exploration of Legacy – The memoir highlights the impact of family, community, and the responsibility of carrying forward a movement.
✅ An Intimate Look at Activism – Beyond speeches and protests, Mallory reveals the emotional and personal toll of fighting for justice.
✅ Uplifting and Inspirational – Despite the hardships, this book leaves readers with a sense of hope and a call to action.
TROPES & THEMES:
Resilience in the Face of Adversity 💪 – Overcoming grief, systemic oppression, and personal setbacks.
Legacy and Generational Impact 🕊️ – Honoring those who paved the way while inspiring the next generation.
The Intersection of Personal and Political 🎤 – A deeply personal story intertwined with broader social movements.
Love as a Driving Force ❤️ – From family bonds to community connections, love fuels the fight for justice.
A Few Quibbles
⚠️ Emotionally Heavy – Some parts are deeply raw and may be difficult for readers to process.
⚠️ Not a Traditional Memoir – This blends personal storytelling with activism, so it may feel more like a call to action than a linear life story.
Final Verdict ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
I Lived to Tell the Story is a gripping, heartfelt memoir that not only chronicles Tamika D. Mallory’s journey but also challenges readers to reflect on their own roles in shaping a more just world. With powerful storytelling, deeply personal insights, and an unshakable commitment to love and justice, this is a book that will stay with you long after you turn the last page.
If you’re looking for a memoir that is both deeply moving and socially relevant, this one is a must-read. ✊📖
April 12, 2025
Thanks to the publisher and Goodreads for allowing me to win a hard copy of this book via Goodreads Giveaways.
Tamika D. Mallory's "I Lived to Tell the Story: A Memoir of Love, Legacy, and Resilience" is a profound and deeply personal journey that transcends the boundaries of a traditional memoir. Known for her activism and leadership, Mallory invites readers into the intimate corners of her life, offering a raw and unfiltered narrative as inspiring as it is heart-wrenching.
The memoir is a tapestry woven with threads of love, loss, and resilience. Mallory's upbringing as the daughter of civil rights organizers in Harlem sets the stage for her lifelong commitment to justice. Yet, this book is not merely a chronicle of her public achievements; it is a deeply introspective exploration of her private battles. From the trauma of sexual assault to the challenges of single motherhood and the relentless scrutiny involved with being in the public eye, Mallory lays bare the struggles which shaped her into the formidable woman she is today.
What sets this memoir apart is its dual focus on activism and personal healing. Mallory does not shy away from the complexities of her journey, acknowledging the toll that fighting for justice can take on one's mental and emotional well-being. Her candid reflections on reclaiming peace and finding strength in vulnerability make this book a beacon of hope for anyone navigating their own challenges.
The writing is eloquent yet accessible, drawing readers into Mallory's world with vivid storytelling and heartfelt honesty. Her ability to connect the personal with the political is particularly striking, as she seamlessly intertwines her experiences with broader social issues. This approach not only humanizes her activism but also underscores the interconnectedness of individual and collective struggles.
Ultimately, "I Lived to Tell the Story" is a celebration of resilience and the transformative power of truth. It is a reminder that even in the face of adversity, there is strength to be found in vulnerability and healing to be discovered in the act of storytelling.
Mallory's memoir is not just a testament to her own journey but also an invitation for readers to reflect on their own paths and the legacies they wish to leave behind.
For those seeking a memoir that is as thought-provoking as it is moving, Tamika D. Mallory's "I Lived to Tell the Story" is an essential read. It is a book that lingers in the mind long after the final page, leaving readers with a renewed sense of purpose and a deeper appreciation for the resilience of the human spirit.
Tamika D. Mallory's "I Lived to Tell the Story: A Memoir of Love, Legacy, and Resilience" is a profound and deeply personal journey that transcends the boundaries of a traditional memoir. Known for her activism and leadership, Mallory invites readers into the intimate corners of her life, offering a raw and unfiltered narrative as inspiring as it is heart-wrenching.
The memoir is a tapestry woven with threads of love, loss, and resilience. Mallory's upbringing as the daughter of civil rights organizers in Harlem sets the stage for her lifelong commitment to justice. Yet, this book is not merely a chronicle of her public achievements; it is a deeply introspective exploration of her private battles. From the trauma of sexual assault to the challenges of single motherhood and the relentless scrutiny involved with being in the public eye, Mallory lays bare the struggles which shaped her into the formidable woman she is today.
What sets this memoir apart is its dual focus on activism and personal healing. Mallory does not shy away from the complexities of her journey, acknowledging the toll that fighting for justice can take on one's mental and emotional well-being. Her candid reflections on reclaiming peace and finding strength in vulnerability make this book a beacon of hope for anyone navigating their own challenges.
The writing is eloquent yet accessible, drawing readers into Mallory's world with vivid storytelling and heartfelt honesty. Her ability to connect the personal with the political is particularly striking, as she seamlessly intertwines her experiences with broader social issues. This approach not only humanizes her activism but also underscores the interconnectedness of individual and collective struggles.
Ultimately, "I Lived to Tell the Story" is a celebration of resilience and the transformative power of truth. It is a reminder that even in the face of adversity, there is strength to be found in vulnerability and healing to be discovered in the act of storytelling.
Mallory's memoir is not just a testament to her own journey but also an invitation for readers to reflect on their own paths and the legacies they wish to leave behind.
For those seeking a memoir that is as thought-provoking as it is moving, Tamika D. Mallory's "I Lived to Tell the Story" is an essential read. It is a book that lingers in the mind long after the final page, leaving readers with a renewed sense of purpose and a deeper appreciation for the resilience of the human spirit.
February 12, 2025
I received an ARC of this book from NetGalley. All opinions below are my own.
"A thought-provoking, honest, and truly powerful story of a black woman in America."
Tamika D. Mallory's memoir is one that should be on the shelves of all high school libraries. In this honest, heartfelt memoir, Mallory does not hold back. She shares her story and does not spare us any details. She shares the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Mallory grew up in the movement. As a child, she was taught to fight against racial injustice and for equality. Her favorite quote was "Power to the People!"
Mallory excelled in her classes and participated in the civil rights movement, putting her all into everything she did. Even though she expressed a hunger for information and did well in her classes, she was faced with racial prejudice and sexism.
Later on, as a teenager, Mallory began facing many battles. Her thirst for unlimited freedom and exploration lured her into street life, which she ultimately paid the price for. She made many mistakes that had terrible consequences, yet she describes this period of her life in precise detail, not shying away from judgment. This part of the book should be read with an open mind and a heart of understanding, as it delves into some very traumatic events.
Throughout the memoir, Mallory continues to share her experiences as a black woman in America, telling readers about the political violence and extreme discrimination she faced and continues to face throughout as a black woman who is an activist.
Mallory's memoir is a story of everything she's been through and how her experiences have brought her to where she is today. As she shares her experiences, she reflects on what's she's learned and how these lessons have influenced her.
This story is one that everyone should read, regardless of religion, race, ethnicity, age, or gender. It's a lesson to all of us. I have a form opposition to politics and I'm distrustful of world governments in general (for historical and personal reasons), but I still found this memoir very thought-provoking, powerful, and empowering. I hope Mallory continues to lead a successful life and I wish her the best.
"A thought-provoking, honest, and truly powerful story of a black woman in America."
Tamika D. Mallory's memoir is one that should be on the shelves of all high school libraries. In this honest, heartfelt memoir, Mallory does not hold back. She shares her story and does not spare us any details. She shares the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Mallory grew up in the movement. As a child, she was taught to fight against racial injustice and for equality. Her favorite quote was "Power to the People!"
Mallory excelled in her classes and participated in the civil rights movement, putting her all into everything she did. Even though she expressed a hunger for information and did well in her classes, she was faced with racial prejudice and sexism.
Later on, as a teenager, Mallory began facing many battles. Her thirst for unlimited freedom and exploration lured her into street life, which she ultimately paid the price for. She made many mistakes that had terrible consequences, yet she describes this period of her life in precise detail, not shying away from judgment. This part of the book should be read with an open mind and a heart of understanding, as it delves into some very traumatic events.
Throughout the memoir, Mallory continues to share her experiences as a black woman in America, telling readers about the political violence and extreme discrimination she faced and continues to face throughout as a black woman who is an activist.
Mallory's memoir is a story of everything she's been through and how her experiences have brought her to where she is today. As she shares her experiences, she reflects on what's she's learned and how these lessons have influenced her.
This story is one that everyone should read, regardless of religion, race, ethnicity, age, or gender. It's a lesson to all of us. I have a form opposition to politics and I'm distrustful of world governments in general (for historical and personal reasons), but I still found this memoir very thought-provoking, powerful, and empowering. I hope Mallory continues to lead a successful life and I wish her the best.
February 9, 2025
Triumph over tragedy is the theme of a new powerful memoir from Tamika D. Mallory, social justice leader and co-founder of the Women's March. She is a trailblazing force from the early days of protesting with Black civil rights activist parents in Harlem to present-day work in America.
The beginning of Tamika's story reads like an urban novel reminiscent of The Coldest Winter Ever. She grew up in a solid two-parent household with doting overprotective parents that did their absolute best to raise her and not let the streets have an influence. As we know, sometimes it is the sheltered children that lash out. Her teen years were a product of that and led to rebellion. Tamika was the girl from a good home making bad decisions.
In a writing style that commands readers' attention, Tamika takes us through the details of her upbringing, consequences to decisions, young motherhood, addiction, romantic and professional relationships, faith in God, and journey to becoming the admirable woman we know today. One thing is abundantly clear: she was always fighting for the people, making her voice heard, organizing movements and an activist at heart.
Wow! Just wow! Tamika D. Mallory is unflinching in telling her life story. She bares it all with no apology, head rightfully held high, acknowledging missteps and celebrating achievements. She shares pain and blessings in great detail. It truly is a memoir of love, legacy and resilience. I Lived to Tell the Story is my best recommendation for nonfiction to read this Black History Month and beyond. Readers will feel inspired, motivated, heard, understood and called to action. Power to the people!
Happy Early Pub Day, Tamika D. Mallory! I Lived to Tell the Story is available on February 11. MasterClass is in session.
Disclaimer: An advance copy was received directly from the publisher in exchange for an honest review. Opinions are my own and would be the same if I spent my hard-earned coins. ~LiteraryMarie
The beginning of Tamika's story reads like an urban novel reminiscent of The Coldest Winter Ever. She grew up in a solid two-parent household with doting overprotective parents that did their absolute best to raise her and not let the streets have an influence. As we know, sometimes it is the sheltered children that lash out. Her teen years were a product of that and led to rebellion. Tamika was the girl from a good home making bad decisions.
In a writing style that commands readers' attention, Tamika takes us through the details of her upbringing, consequences to decisions, young motherhood, addiction, romantic and professional relationships, faith in God, and journey to becoming the admirable woman we know today. One thing is abundantly clear: she was always fighting for the people, making her voice heard, organizing movements and an activist at heart.
Wow! Just wow! Tamika D. Mallory is unflinching in telling her life story. She bares it all with no apology, head rightfully held high, acknowledging missteps and celebrating achievements. She shares pain and blessings in great detail. It truly is a memoir of love, legacy and resilience. I Lived to Tell the Story is my best recommendation for nonfiction to read this Black History Month and beyond. Readers will feel inspired, motivated, heard, understood and called to action. Power to the people!
Happy Early Pub Day, Tamika D. Mallory! I Lived to Tell the Story is available on February 11. MasterClass is in session.
Disclaimer: An advance copy was received directly from the publisher in exchange for an honest review. Opinions are my own and would be the same if I spent my hard-earned coins. ~LiteraryMarie
March 7, 2025
I Lived to Tell the Story is half memoir, half historical recount of author Tamika D Mallory's part in The Movement (an overarching term for Black empowerment with regard to civil rights and heard voices) from her days as a child being brought to gatherings by her activist parents to her more wild "hood rat" teen years in New York City, and her return on her own as an adult and a teen mom into finding her voice and bringing power into the community with her ceaseless, relentless work. It's a story of personal pain, but also a story of how the community that you make and build can be there to lift you up and fight for you even when too much (including yourself) is bringing you down.
I ended up checking this out of the library as an audiobook despite having been sent the widget for the digital eARC on NetGalley because I do love a self-read memoir! For a 224 page book, the audio is over 13 hours, which is wild, but informative and gripping from top to bottom. It's read in her very strong, sure voice, and the sections entitled "as told through (someone other than Mallory's) eyes" are read by the people that gave their thoughts to the book.
You don't need to be familiar with Mallory to pick up this book, but you will be familiar with the causes she's been on the ground fighting for - not only the Women's March (of which she was co-founder and leader) but the community work and protests she's done for Ahmaud Arbery, George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Trayvon Martin, and many others whose names will not be forgotten.
Thank you to Atria Books | Atria/Black Privilege Publishing for reaching out and sending over the invite to read, and NetGalley for hosting.
I ended up checking this out of the library as an audiobook despite having been sent the widget for the digital eARC on NetGalley because I do love a self-read memoir! For a 224 page book, the audio is over 13 hours, which is wild, but informative and gripping from top to bottom. It's read in her very strong, sure voice, and the sections entitled "as told through (someone other than Mallory's) eyes" are read by the people that gave their thoughts to the book.
You don't need to be familiar with Mallory to pick up this book, but you will be familiar with the causes she's been on the ground fighting for - not only the Women's March (of which she was co-founder and leader) but the community work and protests she's done for Ahmaud Arbery, George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Trayvon Martin, and many others whose names will not be forgotten.
Thank you to Atria Books | Atria/Black Privilege Publishing for reaching out and sending over the invite to read, and NetGalley for hosting.
March 21, 2025
Tamika's story was inspiring, vulnerable, gripping and very raw. The way she told her her story made you feel her pain, suffering, and losses. So many to count. The murder of her child's father, the growing pains and missteps of being a hard headed teenager, and her drug addiction showed us that no matter where your story started its absolutely never too to rewrite it. Tamika's story is one that I feel like everyone teenagers and adults can gain insights from to use on their journey's. This was truly one of the best, realistic memoirs I've ever read. I was so inspired by her journey and proud of her strength to fight for those who can't fight for themselves through her activism. She has been the voice for so many, Sean Bell, our very own Breona Taylor in KY. That case broke my heart since it happened in my town and knowing all that she and so many others did on her behalf and her family, made us so proud. Even though the battles still continues our voices matter and Tamika helped to make us been seen. I am truly in awe our her courage and efforts to make this world a better place.
Thank you Netgalley and Atria Black Privilege Publishing for the eArc of this book for my honest review.
Thank you Netgalley and Atria Black Privilege Publishing for the eArc of this book for my honest review.
March 31, 2025
I give the book 4.25 stars. I have been involved with the Women's March. I remember some of the controversy. However, I don't remember the author's name. I was very interested in reading the book.
It took me longer to read this book than usual. I don't know if it was me or the book. The book was very interesting but I didn't want to know what happened next. Maybe it is because the book is what is currently going on in the world. I can't say.
The writing of the book is very good. The author is honest and raw. I love when I feel like I get to know the character, author, or who the book is about. You can truly feel Tamika's pain ( and joy).
The chapters are a little long for me. The writing is real. The book talks about so MUCH recent history. It takes you a little back. Again, we are facing the same pain.
I am so glad that I was given the opportunity to read this book. I am very thankful to the author and Netgalley. I look forward to reading more from the author.
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It took me longer to read this book than usual. I don't know if it was me or the book. The book was very interesting but I didn't want to know what happened next. Maybe it is because the book is what is currently going on in the world. I can't say.
The writing of the book is very good. The author is honest and raw. I love when I feel like I get to know the character, author, or who the book is about. You can truly feel Tamika's pain ( and joy).
The chapters are a little long for me. The writing is real. The book talks about so MUCH recent history. It takes you a little back. Again, we are facing the same pain.
I am so glad that I was given the opportunity to read this book. I am very thankful to the author and Netgalley. I look forward to reading more from the author.
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March 26, 2025
I received a copy of this book from S&S in exchange for an honest review.
As an elderly white woman, I had no knowledge of Tamika Mallory prior to reading the book. I must admit that I found it difficult to read due to my unfamiliarity with the people mentioned and some of the terminology used.
Raised in Harlem by loving, supportive parents in a stable household, she fell victim to those streets, suffering abuse and making many poor choices. Despite those poor choices she has endured and come out as a better person. She has used her experiences to organize and call POC and women to action for civil rights, continuing the tradition her parents began.
I admire Ms. Mallory’s tenacity, guts and determination and realize how truly privileged my life has been. Ms. Mallory is a blessing to her race and to this country.
As an elderly white woman, I had no knowledge of Tamika Mallory prior to reading the book. I must admit that I found it difficult to read due to my unfamiliarity with the people mentioned and some of the terminology used.
Raised in Harlem by loving, supportive parents in a stable household, she fell victim to those streets, suffering abuse and making many poor choices. Despite those poor choices she has endured and come out as a better person. She has used her experiences to organize and call POC and women to action for civil rights, continuing the tradition her parents began.
I admire Ms. Mallory’s tenacity, guts and determination and realize how truly privileged my life has been. Ms. Mallory is a blessing to her race and to this country.
April 23, 2025
“My admiration for her was immediate” Yandy Smith-Harris says about her first meeting with Tamika Mallory and I have to agree. Upon being in a room with her and Linda Sarsour, I was instantly impressed and fired up about the work they were undertaking. I trusted them, believed in the work and that it would have its’ intended outcome. Spending a night in jail with the two of them (and Yandy) after protesting at Daniel Cameron’s home, I found myself further inspired by the dedication and commitment of these women. Reading Tamika’s memoir I learned so much about her life and the trials and tribulations that led her to where she is today. Knowing her personal story in more depth only serves to reinforce my beliefs about her. She is the voice of the movement and she is among those I count as a role model in my life.
February 9, 2025
I was not familiar with Tamika D. Mallory’s story prior to picking up this book, but I had heard of the Women’s March. Given what the rhetoric around it eventually became, I was intrigued to read not only about the intersectional activism for Mallory intended the March, but also how her own struggles as a teenager, as a single mother, and grappling with addiction, ended up shaping her. She’s also not without controversy, as while she’s politically progressive and predictably has drawn controversy from the right, she also has some perspectives that don’t necessarily align with the left either. But while I don’t agree with everything she espouses, I respect what she has to say, and would recommend this to readers interested in activism.
March 16, 2025
This book captured my heart because it speaks with a personal, intimate voice that immediately makes you feel seen and understood. It weaves together heartfelt narratives of love and care, highlighting those quiet acts of community support that often go unnoticed. The author shares genuine examples of neighbors helping neighbors, small acts of kindness that transform ordinary lives into something profoundly meaningful. It’s a relatable read, one that not only reflects on personal experiences but also situates them within a larger tapestry of communal resilience and compassion. I find it especially inspiring for young women, as it encourages them to find their place and power within the unfolding story of our country.
February 6, 2025
Young Tamika had me stressed and I’m sure her guardian angel worked overtime. Because, gurl what?
The title is appropriate, she has lived. What I will say is I was not expecting this level of truth, yes it’s a memoir but she doesn’t omit the things that doesn’t show her in favorable light and that’s commendable. She came from a good home and had a penchant for the streets. It didn’t need to be that way, but she fully owns it. And she names, names! I don’t want to give any spoilers, but I do need to talk about this book! This would make a great Bookclub pick. When this publishes on February 11th, run to get it so we can talk!
Thank you Simon & Schuster for the Advance reader proof.
The title is appropriate, she has lived. What I will say is I was not expecting this level of truth, yes it’s a memoir but she doesn’t omit the things that doesn’t show her in favorable light and that’s commendable. She came from a good home and had a penchant for the streets. It didn’t need to be that way, but she fully owns it. And she names, names! I don’t want to give any spoilers, but I do need to talk about this book! This would make a great Bookclub pick. When this publishes on February 11th, run to get it so we can talk!
Thank you Simon & Schuster for the Advance reader proof.
April 17, 2025
This is an amazing, very deep story. It's also very very long.
I feel like I learned a lot from Tamika's story especially about organizing and her perspective as a black women. I was horrified at how she was judged for being anti-semitic. Despite all her struggles, it's obvious that she gives her work her all and that she has an amazing support system in her life.
This wasn't an easy story to share but she said she feels like by sharing it, we could see that if she could survive, then we can too, whatever we are dealing with.
I also LOVE her NY accent, being a New Yorker myself!
Definitely a worthy read if you hope to understand the modern day struggle of black individuals.
I feel like I learned a lot from Tamika's story especially about organizing and her perspective as a black women. I was horrified at how she was judged for being anti-semitic. Despite all her struggles, it's obvious that she gives her work her all and that she has an amazing support system in her life.
This wasn't an easy story to share but she said she feels like by sharing it, we could see that if she could survive, then we can too, whatever we are dealing with.
I also LOVE her NY accent, being a New Yorker myself!
Definitely a worthy read if you hope to understand the modern day struggle of black individuals.
April 22, 2025
Beautifully written life story. Life isn't always as we think it is. One mistake made within the human race is that we all grow up in the same way, I'm guilty of that thought. That couldn't be further from the truth. Tamika Mallory, you are a gorgeous, intelligent, and very strong force to be reckoned with. Thank you for sharing your life, even your most intimate moments as a young girl navigating this world, with us. I'm a firm believer in educating oneself in order to better relate to others. We can't stand up for what we don't understand. Thank you and Goodreads for my copy of this fabulous book.
March 23, 2025
"I Lived to Tell the Story" is an amazing memoir in so many ways, It is historical, personal, all-telling, enormous details of the author's fight with racism.
I almost put this book down after reading about the events of her upbringing very different from my own, being a white Scandinavian. I am glad I continued reading. I learned a lot about the black culture and the injustices and views from the Political left.
All in all, a powerful read.
I won a copy of this book in a Goodreads Giveaway.
I almost put this book down after reading about the events of her upbringing very different from my own, being a white Scandinavian. I am glad I continued reading. I learned a lot about the black culture and the injustices and views from the Political left.
All in all, a powerful read.
I won a copy of this book in a Goodreads Giveaway.
October 19, 2025
A book about resilience and survival
Loved this book immensely! Although I was familiar with the author’s name, I had little knowledge of what her true body of work entailed outside of a few clips from the news!! I’m really glad that I read this book!! It felt like a personal invite to a private conversation!! This is one of those reads that is seared in your memory for the sheer honesty of its telling! I highly recommend reading this book so that you are informed on who Tamika D. Mallory is and was vs the biased media’s coloration that was fed to us over time!!
Loved this book immensely! Although I was familiar with the author’s name, I had little knowledge of what her true body of work entailed outside of a few clips from the news!! I’m really glad that I read this book!! It felt like a personal invite to a private conversation!! This is one of those reads that is seared in your memory for the sheer honesty of its telling! I highly recommend reading this book so that you are informed on who Tamika D. Mallory is and was vs the biased media’s coloration that was fed to us over time!!
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April 30, 2025Listen, RESILIENT is the word!
I’m not a huge fan of memoirs, so I don’t read a lot of them. I do occasionally have an interest in the story before the success.
It was a rough climb for Tamika. What I love most about this book is the writing style. Raw, heartfelt, transparent, and unapologetic. There isn’t much more you can ask for when those boxes are checked off. Makes for a powerful and inspiring story that leaves you in awe of her perseverance.
I’m not a huge fan of memoirs, so I don’t read a lot of them. I do occasionally have an interest in the story before the success.
It was a rough climb for Tamika. What I love most about this book is the writing style. Raw, heartfelt, transparent, and unapologetic. There isn’t much more you can ask for when those boxes are checked off. Makes for a powerful and inspiring story that leaves you in awe of her perseverance.
February 21, 2025
Highly recommend - book club gold. Tamika recounts some of the most raw and real moments in her life. She provides a first account of how her relationships, career and passionate commitment to philanthropic work, provided fulfillment and loss in our lifetime. Balancing heavily controversial topics with her personal testament, she sends a rich and powerful request for justice and peace.
May 8, 2025
Although young, with many more years in her story; this is the best memoir I’ve read. Ms Mallory’s life is testimony to what the naked courage and raw grit, of one singular woman can do to make a difference in the community at large. Her story is real. Her story is compelling. Her story makes me want to do better. This book and her work are “well done”. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
February 26, 2025
This is a wonderful and deeply personal memoir. The work Tamika D. Mallory does is so important and this book provides a look into the experiences that shaped her commitment to her activism.
Thank you to the author and goodreads for the arc!
Thank you to the author and goodreads for the arc!
March 1, 2025
Thank you to NetGalley and Atria Books for an advance copy of this book.
What a powerful story Mallory has to tell. I appreciated having the chance to learn about her upbringing and what led her to taking a role in activism and social justice. I would highly recommend this book!
What a powerful story Mallory has to tell. I appreciated having the chance to learn about her upbringing and what led her to taking a role in activism and social justice. I would highly recommend this book!
March 22, 2025
An honest, powerful look inside of an inspirational activist. I appreciated Ms. Mallory for sharing her personal struggles and vulnerabilities as well as her fight to support the liberation of Black people and women.
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