This book was introduced by my lecturer.
Was skeptical at first, but the writer just has an awesome way of writing these different short stories.
These stories illustrated the lives of the people living in China between 1993 to 1998.
Wrote this book review as a submission to my lecturer:
Was it nature or nurture? This is what has been going through my mind while reading the book <. The book has an interesting way of captivating the readers mind. Interestingly, most of the short stories were told in such a way the start of the story is also the end of the story.
The most common theme I have seen throughout the book was the theme ‘upbringing.’ Most of the main leads in the stories became whom they are because of the socialization that were provided for them ever since they were young. It also reflected a common culture in China. 2 spectrums of attitudes can be in China’s culture though this book. Either the person has an attitude of a follower or the person a leader. This reflected the concept of ‘survival of the fittest’. The attitude that these main leads carry depends on the brought up of the family. The type of socialization the family went through.
Each stories draws a similarity – there is an infallible hero in all the hearts of the main leads. Some of their heroes were actually people that have been bullying them for years and year, for example, in the story of ‘timid as a mouse’; Yang Guo’s hero has always been Lu Qian Jin, although he has been bullying Yang Guo by beating him up and mocking at him. Another example will be the story of ‘appendix’; where how the two sons nearly killed their father because of hero-worship.
These similarities reflected how each main lead responded to their hero and each respond was cultivated by their upbringing and socialization from their family. Yang Guo was taught by his father in a way to treasure life and be careful with every action of his as each action has a consequence, which is usually negative to answer. Hence, Yang Guo has been succumbing to defeat because he always judges a situation with a negative consequence. Similarly to another example, the appendix story, the two sons were brought up in such a way elderly is dependable and their words hold power and authority. Hence, the two sons trusted their father’s words so much that they took it literally.
One of the stories that caught me deeply was ‘Why there was no music’. I was rather surprised by the storyline but yet was not caught in surprise by the response of Horsie. All these stories were wrote in the time period of 1993 to 1998. During this time period, China is still rather a conservative country. Hence, recording of sex video and sleeping with other people wives is not commonly heard. Due to the conservative nature and upbringing, it could also be the reason why Horsie remained silence when he found out his friend Guo Bin has been sleeping with his wife. Through out the story, male figures are being brought up echoing a higher authority and power. This was particular reflected in the story ‘timid as a mouse’ where Yang Guo mentioned “even girls – girls like Lin Lili and Sun Hongmei – give me a hard time”. Therefore, it is uncommon for male to wear a cuckold hat or to admit they are wearing a cuckold hat.
In the story ‘Why do I have to get married’ also emulated the conservative nature between relationships when Lin Meng tried all sorts of ways to divorce his wife, Pingping by pushing blames to anyone that came by to their house, as it is uncommon for divorces to happen. Without a reliable community (which cannot be seen through out the book), it is easy to attract rumors and tough to preserve one’s dignity.
This book challenges values and morals where each main and sub leads struggled with personal freedom and loyalty. In the book, although people were being strictly brought up and only socializes within their community, trust is still seems like a scarce commodity. Trust was being taken advantage of in the face of people.
In the story ‘On the Bridge’, his wife trusted him by giving him the consistent benefit of doubt that his husband is looking forward to doing something new, but her trust was being made use when what her husband wants was to get a divorce. In another example was the story of ‘No name of my own’. Laifa trusted people who call him by his real name. As he believes people who call him by his real name will be like Mr. Chen. However, in the end, he was made use by Xu Asan. By luring his dog out of his friend’s bed.
In conclusion, this book reflected the culture status of China where human sometimes too can be inspired by blind aspiration. Many of the story roles followed and responded blindly to their culture and upbringing. Hence, several tragedies can be seen in the stories. As such, as much as we want and need to adhere to the teachings of the respected infallible heroes, but do true loyalty comes with blind inclination and does it only comes with the price of personal freedom?