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Dear Daphne #2
Dating, Dining, and Desperation
Daphne Ballinger has learned to accept her deceased, eccentric aunt’s strange request that she marry in order to inherit her estate, along with taking over her aunt’s hometown paper’s advice column.
But knowing and accepting that God’s will be done becomes harder when a new neighbor, a divorced socialite, learns of Daphne’s predicament and takes on the task of finding her the perfect man, even if it includes speed dating. When God does open Daphne’s heart, it is instead to take in a young girl left parentless and in the care of her dying grandmother. It may be a temporary arrangement until the girl’s uncle returns from the Marines, but God uses Daphne to speak His heavenly love and protection into the life of the child -- whom Daphne soon discovers has a very handsome and single uncle.
But knowing and accepting that God’s will be done becomes harder when a new neighbor, a divorced socialite, learns of Daphne’s predicament and takes on the task of finding her the perfect man, even if it includes speed dating. When God does open Daphne’s heart, it is instead to take in a young girl left parentless and in the care of her dying grandmother. It may be a temporary arrangement until the girl’s uncle returns from the Marines, but God uses Daphne to speak His heavenly love and protection into the life of the child -- whom Daphne soon discovers has a very handsome and single uncle.
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First published February 4, 2014
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Melody Carlson
418 books3,244 followersMelody Carlson is the award-winning author of over two hundred books, several of them Christmas novellas from Revell, including her much-loved and bestselling book, The Christmas Bus.
She also writes many teen books, including the Diary of a Teenage Girl series, the TrueColors series, and the Carter House Girls series.
Melody was nominated for a Romantic Times Career Achievement Award in the inspirational market for her books, including the Notes from a Spinning Planet series and Finding Alice, which is in production as a Lifetime Television movie. She and her husband serve on the Young Life adult committee in central Oregon.
She also writes many teen books, including the Diary of a Teenage Girl series, the TrueColors series, and the Carter House Girls series.
Melody was nominated for a Romantic Times Career Achievement Award in the inspirational market for her books, including the Notes from a Spinning Planet series and Finding Alice, which is in production as a Lifetime Television movie. She and her husband serve on the Young Life adult committee in central Oregon.
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January 18, 2020
RATING: 3 STARS
2014; B&H Publishing Group
Daphne is still looking for a husband in order to fulfill her Aunt Dee's conditions for keeping her inheritance. With less than a year left Daphne has to start dating ASAP. She has help in her new Southern neighbour, Sabrina who has moved to town to get away from her ex-husband. While Sabrina pushes Daphne at any and every man, her father and friend, Olivia still want her to date Ricardo, the owner of a local diner. Daphne has been brooding over her aunt's lawyer, Jake who is on vacation with his ex-wife.
While her love life seems to be taking over everything she comes across a young girl who is being raised by her elder sickly grandmother. Daphne inserts herself in Mabel and Vera's life and wonders if adopting a child would trump getting married.
Dating, Dining and Desperation is what I would classify as a middle book in that it carries on from the last book and sets up the next novel. Not a bad light contemporary romance but nothing special. I also do not like the heroine's love interest as it seems forced and I am just not feeling the chemistry.
***I received a complimentary copy of this ebook from the publisher through NetGalley. Opinions expressed in this review are entirely my own.***
***UPDATE: I could not get a hold of the other two books in the series, and they did not seem to be on NetGalley. I now found that the library has it but I cannot really remember the story from either novel. I am not going to pursue the series any further.***
2014; B&H Publishing Group
Daphne is still looking for a husband in order to fulfill her Aunt Dee's conditions for keeping her inheritance. With less than a year left Daphne has to start dating ASAP. She has help in her new Southern neighbour, Sabrina who has moved to town to get away from her ex-husband. While Sabrina pushes Daphne at any and every man, her father and friend, Olivia still want her to date Ricardo, the owner of a local diner. Daphne has been brooding over her aunt's lawyer, Jake who is on vacation with his ex-wife.
While her love life seems to be taking over everything she comes across a young girl who is being raised by her elder sickly grandmother. Daphne inserts herself in Mabel and Vera's life and wonders if adopting a child would trump getting married.
Dating, Dining and Desperation is what I would classify as a middle book in that it carries on from the last book and sets up the next novel. Not a bad light contemporary romance but nothing special. I also do not like the heroine's love interest as it seems forced and I am just not feeling the chemistry.
***I received a complimentary copy of this ebook from the publisher through NetGalley. Opinions expressed in this review are entirely my own.***
***UPDATE: I could not get a hold of the other two books in the series, and they did not seem to be on NetGalley. I now found that the library has it but I cannot really remember the story from either novel. I am not going to pursue the series any further.***
February 13, 2016
The book was fine. I would give it a solid 3 1/2 stars. I didn't realize this was #2 in a series, so I was already behind the curve when I started, but I didn't think it would matter too much.
Oh, it mattered.
This "series" is just a giant, 1,000 page book that has been broken into smaller sections. It jumps in where the first book left off, never stopping to explain (or summarize! or flashback!) what a reader may have missed. It was a little disorienting to start a book from page 1 and realize that you are already in the middle of the story.
I enjoyed Book #2 enough to go back and read #1, but then I got to the end of this one and realized that there are still two more books, and they will only be released as e-books. Really? I find this highly annoying, and not worth the effort of finishing the series. Had it been released as one giant novel, I think it could have been a 4 star book, at least.
On a side note, did anyone envision Sabrina as the literary equivalent of Kristen Chenoweth? Every time Sabrina spoke, I heard Kristen's voice in my head. :D
Oh, it mattered.
This "series" is just a giant, 1,000 page book that has been broken into smaller sections. It jumps in where the first book left off, never stopping to explain (or summarize! or flashback!) what a reader may have missed. It was a little disorienting to start a book from page 1 and realize that you are already in the middle of the story.
I enjoyed Book #2 enough to go back and read #1, but then I got to the end of this one and realized that there are still two more books, and they will only be released as e-books. Really? I find this highly annoying, and not worth the effort of finishing the series. Had it been released as one giant novel, I think it could have been a 4 star book, at least.
On a side note, did anyone envision Sabrina as the literary equivalent of Kristen Chenoweth? Every time Sabrina spoke, I heard Kristen's voice in my head. :D
June 21, 2017
Exactly what I was looking for—a fast, breezy, carefree read. An entertaining escape on a sunny afternoon, this story is perfect to pack in your tote bag for a day at the beach and read while sipping colorful, fruity cocktails and working on your tan. But this isn’t a stand-alone novel; reader will definitely want to read the first Dear Daphne book before indulging in this one.
May 4, 2024
Now that I got to read the whole book I have to redo my review it was a very goodbook! I have to go back and read number1 in the series,
May 7, 2021
3.5 stars. Furthered the story, I was a little upset to see that the last two books in the series will be self-published, this is an intriguing series and I definitely want to find out what happens!
In the second novel of the Dear Daphne series, Carlson moves the story forward, yet things are still unclear for Daphne. The author provides an excellent mix of humor and plot that keeps readers entertained and at attention.
Daphne has not made much headway in meeting the conditions of her grandmother’s will: She has to get married before the year is out or lose her inheritance. There are some potential suitors, yet every time Daphne gets close, there is either no chemistry, the values aren’t right or something else stands in the way. Can Daphne, with the help of her new neighbor Sabrina and a sweet little girl named Mabel, find true love before time runs out?
In the second novel of the Dear Daphne series, Carlson moves the story forward, yet things are still unclear for Daphne. The author provides an excellent mix of humor and plot that keeps readers entertained and at attention.
Daphne has not made much headway in meeting the conditions of her grandmother’s will: She has to get married before the year is out or lose her inheritance. There are some potential suitors, yet every time Daphne gets close, there is either no chemistry, the values aren’t right or something else stands in the way. Can Daphne, with the help of her new neighbor Sabrina and a sweet little girl named Mabel, find true love before time runs out?
March 3, 2014
This is book 2 of the Dear Daphne series. I haven't read book one but it didn't detract from this story. It is definitely Christian fiction but is not overly so. As Daphne settles into her neighborhood she encounters Mable, a young girl living with her grandmother after the death of her mother. The grandmother has cancer and can't care for young Mable very well. A wonderful story of neighbors helping neighbors.
July 22, 2022
This is the second book in the Dear Daphne series. Daphne gets a new neighbor and she introduces her to the world of speed dating and begins to monopolize much of her time. Daphne isn’t all that concerned about her Aunt Dee’s will stipulation, but Sabrina tries to force her into dating at every turn. Daphne also takes on the care of a young girl in the neighborhood whose grandmother is very ill. A lot of things are left unfinished so the next book can get rolling along.
May 2, 2016
No second book syndrome here
I love how fast this series is to read. Daphne is still looking for a husband, but she also gets up to so much more in this book. I loved the storyline with mabel and how it is starting to work out. I can't wait to see what happens in the next one.
I love how fast this series is to read. Daphne is still looking for a husband, but she also gets up to so much more in this book. I loved the storyline with mabel and how it is starting to work out. I can't wait to see what happens in the next one.
April 9, 2014
I loved this book! I can't wait for the next one in the series. So many fun characters. This is the second book in this series so make sure you read the first one.
April 27, 2016
I am loving this series. Book 2 has some new characters added--some very interesting ones. I give this installment 5 stars as well.
November 3, 2023
Since I was terrible and forgot to submit this when it originally appeared on my blog - I am republishing it on Nov 21 at this link https://amomentwithmystee.blogspot.co...
In her novel "Dating, Dining, and Desperation," Melody Carlson takes us on a delightful and heartwarming journey filled with love, laughter, and self-discovery. This charming story is perfect for anyone looking for a cozy romance with a touch of humor.
The protagonist, Daisy, finds herself thrust into the unpredictable world of dating after her husband's passing. Determined to start a new chapter in her life, she sets off on a string of blind dates, often met with cringe-worthy encounters and laugh-out-loud mishaps. Melody Carlson expertly captures the emotional rollercoaster that Daisy goes through, making her relatable and endearing.
One of the highlights of the book is the way dining is interwoven into the narrative. Carlson's vivid descriptions of delicious meals and cozy restaurants create a warm and inviting atmosphere for the readers. As Daisy embarks on her dating adventures, the various dining experiences play a significant role in setting the mood and adding an extra layer of charm to the story.
What makes "Dating, Dining, and Desperation" truly enjoyable is the balance it strikes between humor and genuine emotion. The book beautifully explores the complexities of starting over and finding love again. While Daisy stumbles through some comically disastrous encounters, she also discovers the importance of staying true to herself and finding someone who appreciates her for who she is.
Melody Carlson's writing style is engaging, light-hearted, and sprinkled with wit. Her characters are well-developed and easy to connect with, making the reader instantly invested in their journeys. "Dating, Dining, and Desperation" is a delightful page-turner that keeps you rooting for Daisy and eagerly following her romantic misadventures.
If I were to point out any downside, it would be that at times the plot feels predictable, following the typical structure of a romantic novel. However, the entertaining dialogue, relatable characters, and the author's knack for storytelling more than makeup for it.
This is a delightful read for anyone looking to escape into a heartwarming romance. Melody Carlson's captivating storytelling, coupled with memorable characters and delectable dining experiences, promise an enjoyable and light-hearted experience. I would highly recommend this book to fans of romantic comedies or anyone seeking a lighthearted read to uplift their spirits.
In her novel "Dating, Dining, and Desperation," Melody Carlson takes us on a delightful and heartwarming journey filled with love, laughter, and self-discovery. This charming story is perfect for anyone looking for a cozy romance with a touch of humor.
The protagonist, Daisy, finds herself thrust into the unpredictable world of dating after her husband's passing. Determined to start a new chapter in her life, she sets off on a string of blind dates, often met with cringe-worthy encounters and laugh-out-loud mishaps. Melody Carlson expertly captures the emotional rollercoaster that Daisy goes through, making her relatable and endearing.
One of the highlights of the book is the way dining is interwoven into the narrative. Carlson's vivid descriptions of delicious meals and cozy restaurants create a warm and inviting atmosphere for the readers. As Daisy embarks on her dating adventures, the various dining experiences play a significant role in setting the mood and adding an extra layer of charm to the story.
What makes "Dating, Dining, and Desperation" truly enjoyable is the balance it strikes between humor and genuine emotion. The book beautifully explores the complexities of starting over and finding love again. While Daisy stumbles through some comically disastrous encounters, she also discovers the importance of staying true to herself and finding someone who appreciates her for who she is.
Melody Carlson's writing style is engaging, light-hearted, and sprinkled with wit. Her characters are well-developed and easy to connect with, making the reader instantly invested in their journeys. "Dating, Dining, and Desperation" is a delightful page-turner that keeps you rooting for Daisy and eagerly following her romantic misadventures.
If I were to point out any downside, it would be that at times the plot feels predictable, following the typical structure of a romantic novel. However, the entertaining dialogue, relatable characters, and the author's knack for storytelling more than makeup for it.
This is a delightful read for anyone looking to escape into a heartwarming romance. Melody Carlson's captivating storytelling, coupled with memorable characters and delectable dining experiences, promise an enjoyable and light-hearted experience. I would highly recommend this book to fans of romantic comedies or anyone seeking a lighthearted read to uplift their spirits.
December 20, 2024
I don't remember much of this book, so apparently it didn't leave a lasting impression on it.
It is a religeous based romance, to maybe I'll read it again as a book discussion group and get other's opinion on it.
It is a religeous based romance, to maybe I'll read it again as a book discussion group and get other's opinion on it.
July 17, 2025
I wanted a light, fun, stress free read and this hit the mark. I didn't realize it was a series, as I picked it up at a resale book store. I really wanted to know the ending, so that probably means I'll get the next one. There are a total of 4 books in this series.
September 17, 2023
Really good read
May 1, 2024
fun quick read but disappointed to read in back that books 3 & 4 only as e-book guess won't be able to finish the series
January 23, 2025
I love it! The title is so captivating, and I really wanna get the next book!
January 12, 2017
Title: Dating, Dining, and Desperation - Dear Daphne Book 2
Author: Melody Carlson
Published: 3-1-2014
Publisher: B&H Books, B&H Fiction, B&H Kids
Pages: 323
Genre: Children's Fiction
Sub Genre: Inspirational Fiction; Christian Fiction
ISBN: 13:
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Reviewer: DelAnne
Reviewed For: NetGalley
Rating:
I received a copy of "Dating, Dining, and Desperation" from NetGalley and the publisher in exchange for my honest review.
Description From the Publisher:
Daphne Ballinger has learned to accept her deceased, eccentric aunt’s strange request that she marry in order to inherit her estate, along with taking over her aunt’s hometown paper’s advice column.
But knowing and accepting that God’s will be done becomes harder when a new neighbor, a divorced socialite, learns of Daphne’s predicament and takes on the task of finding her the perfect man, even if it includes speed dating. When God does open Daphne’s heart, it is instead to take in a young girl left parentless and in the care of her dying grandmother. It may be a temporary arrangement until the girl’s uncle returns from the Marines, but God uses Daphne to speak His heavenly love and protection into the life of the child -- whom Daphne soon discovers has a very handsome and single uncle.
My Review of "Dating, Dining, and Desperation":
Onceagain we are left without resolution at the end of the story. Although the characters are created with diminsions and the plot was well done I was left feeling a bit let down. I will read book 3 "Home, Hearth, and the Holidays" Perhaps the ending will be more satisfying. My rating of "Dating, Dining, and Desperation" is 4 out of 5 stars.
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The Reading Room link: Title: Dating, Dining, and Desperation - Dear Daphne Book 2
Author: Melody Carlson
Published: 3-1-2014
Publisher: B&H Books, B&H Fiction, B&H Kids
Pages: 323
Genre: Children's Fiction
Sub Genre: Inspirational Fiction; Christian Fiction
ISBN: 13:
ASIN:
Reviewer: DelAnne
Reviewed For: NetGalley
Rating:
I received a copy of "Dating, Dining, and Desperation" from NetGalley and the publisher in exchange for my honest review.
Description From the Publisher:
Daphne Ballinger has learned to accept her deceased, eccentric aunt’s strange request that she marry in order to inherit her estate, along with taking over her aunt’s hometown paper’s advice column.
But knowing and accepting that God’s will be done becomes harder when a new neighbor, a divorced socialite, learns of Daphne’s predicament and takes on the task of finding her the perfect man, even if it includes speed dating. When God does open Daphne’s heart, it is instead to take in a young girl left parentless and in the care of her dying grandmother. It may be a temporary arrangement until the girl’s uncle returns from the Marines, but God uses Daphne to speak His heavenly love and protection into the life of the child -- whom Daphne soon discovers has a very handsome and single uncle.
My Review of "Dating, Dining, and Desperation":
Once again we are left without resolution at the end of the story. Although the characters are created with dimensions and the plot was well done I was left feeling a bit let down. I will read book 3 "Home, Hearth, and the Holidays" Perhaps the ending will be more satisfying. My rating of "Dating, Dining, and Desperation" is 4 out of 5 stars.
Amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1433679310/...
Barnes and Noble link: http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/datin...
GoodReads link: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1...
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Author: Melody Carlson
Published: 3-1-2014
Publisher: B&H Books, B&H Fiction, B&H Kids
Pages: 323
Genre: Children's Fiction
Sub Genre: Inspirational Fiction; Christian Fiction
ISBN: 13:
ASIN:
Reviewer: DelAnne
Reviewed For: NetGalley
Rating:
I received a copy of "Dating, Dining, and Desperation" from NetGalley and the publisher in exchange for my honest review.
Description From the Publisher:
Daphne Ballinger has learned to accept her deceased, eccentric aunt’s strange request that she marry in order to inherit her estate, along with taking over her aunt’s hometown paper’s advice column.
But knowing and accepting that God’s will be done becomes harder when a new neighbor, a divorced socialite, learns of Daphne’s predicament and takes on the task of finding her the perfect man, even if it includes speed dating. When God does open Daphne’s heart, it is instead to take in a young girl left parentless and in the care of her dying grandmother. It may be a temporary arrangement until the girl’s uncle returns from the Marines, but God uses Daphne to speak His heavenly love and protection into the life of the child -- whom Daphne soon discovers has a very handsome and single uncle.
My Review of "Dating, Dining, and Desperation":
Onceagain we are left without resolution at the end of the story. Although the characters are created with diminsions and the plot was well done I was left feeling a bit let down. I will read book 3 "Home, Hearth, and the Holidays" Perhaps the ending will be more satisfying. My rating of "Dating, Dining, and Desperation" is 4 out of 5 stars.
Amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1433679310/...
Barnes and Noble link: http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/datin...
GoodReads link: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1...
The Reading Room link: Title: Dating, Dining, and Desperation - Dear Daphne Book 2
Author: Melody Carlson
Published: 3-1-2014
Publisher: B&H Books, B&H Fiction, B&H Kids
Pages: 323
Genre: Children's Fiction
Sub Genre: Inspirational Fiction; Christian Fiction
ISBN: 13:
ASIN:
Reviewer: DelAnne
Reviewed For: NetGalley
Rating:
I received a copy of "Dating, Dining, and Desperation" from NetGalley and the publisher in exchange for my honest review.
Description From the Publisher:
Daphne Ballinger has learned to accept her deceased, eccentric aunt’s strange request that she marry in order to inherit her estate, along with taking over her aunt’s hometown paper’s advice column.
But knowing and accepting that God’s will be done becomes harder when a new neighbor, a divorced socialite, learns of Daphne’s predicament and takes on the task of finding her the perfect man, even if it includes speed dating. When God does open Daphne’s heart, it is instead to take in a young girl left parentless and in the care of her dying grandmother. It may be a temporary arrangement until the girl’s uncle returns from the Marines, but God uses Daphne to speak His heavenly love and protection into the life of the child -- whom Daphne soon discovers has a very handsome and single uncle.
My Review of "Dating, Dining, and Desperation":
Once again we are left without resolution at the end of the story. Although the characters are created with dimensions and the plot was well done I was left feeling a bit let down. I will read book 3 "Home, Hearth, and the Holidays" Perhaps the ending will be more satisfying. My rating of "Dating, Dining, and Desperation" is 4 out of 5 stars.
Amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1433679310/...
Barnes and Noble link: http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/datin...
GoodReads link: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1...
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February 22, 2014
Daphne Ballinger doesn't have to worry about her biological clock ticking away to find the right man to marry, she has the contingency of her late Aunt Dee's will doing that for her. Daphne has just ten months left to find a man and marry him before the contents of her Aunt Dee's Victorian home, the remaining money in the bank, car and home will be sold. With all her hopeful prospects running out, Daphne isn't quite sure what the point to all of this rush to find a husband was if she loses everything her Aunt Dee ever owned. While maintaining and writing Dear Daphne, her late Aunt's advice column in the paper, she spends her day looking for love in quite literally all the wrong places.
Even the men she has a slight interest in, suddenly seem to be giving off mixed signals from her Aussie landscaper Mick, to the shy and quiet Ricardo, owner and chef of Midge's Dinner. Even her Aunt Dee's attorney Jake seems to have found interest in someone else and thus Daphne doesn't know quite where to begin looking for love any longer. That is, until her new neighbor moves in, outgoing and gorgeous Southern Belle, Sabrina Fontaine, who takes it upon herself to find Daphne the perfect husband. Now if she can only get Daphne to take a hard look at herself in the mirror and see that she hasn't been exactly laying out the welcome mat to eligible suitors in the way she's been maintaining her own personal appearance. But soon Daphne finds more than just the motivation she needs in her friendship with Sabrina, she finds someone that needs her as much as she needs to be needed. Along with her obnoxious wiener dog she has faithfully named Tootsie Roll, soon Daphne is introducing her new neighbor to everyone in the neighborhood. What she doesn't understand is why she is suddenly jealous when all heads turn when Sabrina smiles, especially at her landscaper Mick!
In her latest novel in the Dear Daphne series, Dating, Dining and Desperation, from best selling author Melody Carlson seem to wrap up just what the reader will find in the second novel in this charming and humorous series. I couldn't help but find myself picturing Kristin Chenowith as the delightful Sabrina Fontaine. Now on the mend from her own divorce, Sabrina uncovers just why Daphne needs to find a husband and she takes it upon herself to boldly go where Daphne won't finding her dates with all the local single men in town. Even manages a surprise speed dating session where it seems like Daphne has met her match. You truly gain a sense for how wonderful it would be to be a part of the town of Appleton, to stop for a bite to eat at Midge's where Ricardo's culinary creations are literally out of this world.
I received Dating, Dining and Desperation by Melody Carlson compliments of Christian Fiction Blog Alliance and B and H Publishers for my honest review. I did not receive any monetary compensation and the opinions expressed in this review are strictly my own. I can't wait to read the next novel in this series, because Melody breathes such life into her characters that you truly believe your there with them in the town of Appleton. Crossing my fingers with whom she might end up with but most of all, it's seeing how much Daphne has grown since coming to the town of Appleton and how she truly has a genuine love for every single person she meets, not just the eligible men! I easily give this one a 5 out of 5 stars!
Even the men she has a slight interest in, suddenly seem to be giving off mixed signals from her Aussie landscaper Mick, to the shy and quiet Ricardo, owner and chef of Midge's Dinner. Even her Aunt Dee's attorney Jake seems to have found interest in someone else and thus Daphne doesn't know quite where to begin looking for love any longer. That is, until her new neighbor moves in, outgoing and gorgeous Southern Belle, Sabrina Fontaine, who takes it upon herself to find Daphne the perfect husband. Now if she can only get Daphne to take a hard look at herself in the mirror and see that she hasn't been exactly laying out the welcome mat to eligible suitors in the way she's been maintaining her own personal appearance. But soon Daphne finds more than just the motivation she needs in her friendship with Sabrina, she finds someone that needs her as much as she needs to be needed. Along with her obnoxious wiener dog she has faithfully named Tootsie Roll, soon Daphne is introducing her new neighbor to everyone in the neighborhood. What she doesn't understand is why she is suddenly jealous when all heads turn when Sabrina smiles, especially at her landscaper Mick!
In her latest novel in the Dear Daphne series, Dating, Dining and Desperation, from best selling author Melody Carlson seem to wrap up just what the reader will find in the second novel in this charming and humorous series. I couldn't help but find myself picturing Kristin Chenowith as the delightful Sabrina Fontaine. Now on the mend from her own divorce, Sabrina uncovers just why Daphne needs to find a husband and she takes it upon herself to boldly go where Daphne won't finding her dates with all the local single men in town. Even manages a surprise speed dating session where it seems like Daphne has met her match. You truly gain a sense for how wonderful it would be to be a part of the town of Appleton, to stop for a bite to eat at Midge's where Ricardo's culinary creations are literally out of this world.
I received Dating, Dining and Desperation by Melody Carlson compliments of Christian Fiction Blog Alliance and B and H Publishers for my honest review. I did not receive any monetary compensation and the opinions expressed in this review are strictly my own. I can't wait to read the next novel in this series, because Melody breathes such life into her characters that you truly believe your there with them in the town of Appleton. Crossing my fingers with whom she might end up with but most of all, it's seeing how much Daphne has grown since coming to the town of Appleton and how she truly has a genuine love for every single person she meets, not just the eligible men! I easily give this one a 5 out of 5 stars!
January 29, 2016
This series is addicting. So beware: Once you start reading, you just have to know what's going to happen to Daphne. Well, you know, at least I did.
In true Carlson style, the Dear Daphne series is narrated in a way that feels as if a friend was telling you the story. I like that. What I usually dislike about her books is the way Christianity is portrayed, superficially, and as an afterthought, basically saying that the character did this, said that, felt this way and, oh, by the way, she also prayed. So, when reading a Carlson book, I have to somewhat put my expectations of Christian fiction aside and read them as just contemporary fiction with a sort of Christian vibe, which is sad to me but still manageable.
Daphne Ballinger is a 34 year old woman who moves from New York to Appleton, her hometown, when she inherits her favorite aunt's house, along with everything else in her estate. However, that inheritance comes with strings attached in the form of a few conditions Daphne has one year to comply with or she looses the inheritance to an animal shelter. One condition is that she has to continue writing her aunt's advice column, Dear Daphne. Another condition, and the most implausible and baffling one, is that she has to get married. I know it sounds silly and it is. But, somehow, it works.
Daphne comes off as immature and boy crazy, mainly because she knows she is in a race against time, but it is still irritating. Every time she meets a guy she thinks maybe that's the one, and it doesn't help that every guy seems to fall for her or at least really, really like her. From the beginning, it's pretty obvious who is the guy she will choose (well, it better be Jake!), but she second guesses herself, and the guy, all the time. She also second guesses her own intentions, her talents, and her abilities, which is very frustrating. However, as annoying as Daphne can be, one can also identify with her, and her struggles and insecurities.
The secondary characters —her love interests, her family, and friends— are mostly well written, even though a few of them feel a bit cartoonish, especially the guys interested in Daphne.
Finally, the theology here is good in some parts, terrible in others. For instance, the experience Daphne has in a singles group at church in the first book is very good and enlightening. But what she writes as Dear Daphne in book 2 saying "But you cannot control other people. Not even God can do that!" was terrible and far from true (see Proverbs 19:21; Proverbs 21:1; Daniel 4:35). And the mention of karma really bummed me out. When you have such good, biblically sound teachings such as "You reap what you sow" (Galatians 6:7), using the word 'karma' is unnecessary, at least in a Christian fiction book.
Dating, Dining and Desperation —3 stars
All in all, I give the series (although I have not read the last book, which is set to come out in April 2016) 3.5 stars out of 5.
*I received a copy of this book in exchange of an honest review.
In true Carlson style, the Dear Daphne series is narrated in a way that feels as if a friend was telling you the story. I like that. What I usually dislike about her books is the way Christianity is portrayed, superficially, and as an afterthought, basically saying that the character did this, said that, felt this way and, oh, by the way, she also prayed. So, when reading a Carlson book, I have to somewhat put my expectations of Christian fiction aside and read them as just contemporary fiction with a sort of Christian vibe, which is sad to me but still manageable.
Daphne Ballinger is a 34 year old woman who moves from New York to Appleton, her hometown, when she inherits her favorite aunt's house, along with everything else in her estate. However, that inheritance comes with strings attached in the form of a few conditions Daphne has one year to comply with or she looses the inheritance to an animal shelter. One condition is that she has to continue writing her aunt's advice column, Dear Daphne. Another condition, and the most implausible and baffling one, is that she has to get married. I know it sounds silly and it is. But, somehow, it works.
Daphne comes off as immature and boy crazy, mainly because she knows she is in a race against time, but it is still irritating. Every time she meets a guy she thinks maybe that's the one, and it doesn't help that every guy seems to fall for her or at least really, really like her. From the beginning, it's pretty obvious who is the guy she will choose (well, it better be Jake!), but she second guesses herself, and the guy, all the time. She also second guesses her own intentions, her talents, and her abilities, which is very frustrating. However, as annoying as Daphne can be, one can also identify with her, and her struggles and insecurities.
The secondary characters —her love interests, her family, and friends— are mostly well written, even though a few of them feel a bit cartoonish, especially the guys interested in Daphne.
Finally, the theology here is good in some parts, terrible in others. For instance, the experience Daphne has in a singles group at church in the first book is very good and enlightening. But what she writes as Dear Daphne in book 2 saying "But you cannot control other people. Not even God can do that!" was terrible and far from true (see Proverbs 19:21; Proverbs 21:1; Daniel 4:35). And the mention of karma really bummed me out. When you have such good, biblically sound teachings such as "You reap what you sow" (Galatians 6:7), using the word 'karma' is unnecessary, at least in a Christian fiction book.
Dating, Dining and Desperation —3 stars
All in all, I give the series (although I have not read the last book, which is set to come out in April 2016) 3.5 stars out of 5.
*I received a copy of this book in exchange of an honest review.
August 12, 2023
An enjoyable continuing saga of a young woman who inherits her aunt's/grandmother's house, sort of. The provisions of the will are interesting, to say the least. Life goes on, but what will happen at the end of the year? So many possibilities!
November 25, 2020
Daphne knows that her year to find a man to marry is counting down very quickly. It's been a few months now and she seems no closer to finding Mr Right then she was before her Aunt Dee passed away. Lucy and Ethel make great companions for her, and her novel is shaping up nicely but every time she thinks she might have someone, she finds a reason to back off. Her new neighbour guesses the condition of Aunt Dee's will, and she is not helping any. The more she pushes Daphne to get out there, the more Daphne feels like digging in her heels. After all, she made a living before she inherited this all, surely she could figure something out when she loses it all. Helping her dad with his own wedding is also taking up her time, although having a plus one for the wedding might be nice. There's Ricardo, her former high school crush and current owner of her favourite diner; Harrison the architect from speed dating; Mick the garden guy and his friend Collin; Truman the helpful store owner; and of course Jake the lawyer. It's not like she doesn't have her choice in men, she just has a hard time believing that in the next year she could marry them. When she meets Mable, the little girl from down the street, it makes her wonder if there is a commitment she could make that doesn't require her getting married.
While they haven't specifically said this yet, I suspect all the men suddenly in her life are there at Aunt Dee's manipulating. I know her death was a surprise to everyone, but she had made up her will with very specific instructions and then hired or invited into her life a bunch of single men Daphne's age. Obviously I could just be putting in all the mystery books into this book when it doesn't need to be, but until the final page of the final book I am choosing to live in denial. Once again really well written and I'm excited to read the next book
While they haven't specifically said this yet, I suspect all the men suddenly in her life are there at Aunt Dee's manipulating. I know her death was a surprise to everyone, but she had made up her will with very specific instructions and then hired or invited into her life a bunch of single men Daphne's age. Obviously I could just be putting in all the mystery books into this book when it doesn't need to be, but until the final page of the final book I am choosing to live in denial. Once again really well written and I'm excited to read the next book
September 8, 2016
Newly released book two in a series, Carlson's Dear Daphne novel is just as fun as book one. Dating, Dining and Desperation is exceptionally written with heartwarming characters, flawless dialogue, and a thread of faith in God.
In this installment, Daphne tries her hand at dating a few men one after the other. Her dating capers felt real -- and I sympathized with Daphne having to endure some of those guys! When she finally re-focuses, an old friend takes notice and opens up about his feelings for her. Before he does, Daphne rounds out her life by spending time with her neighbors, befriending a neglected little girl, and trying to finish her novel.
I am charmed and completely won over by Daphne. She is good-hearted, keeps mostly to herself, is willing to step out of her comfort zone (with a nudge), and can be a little bit goofy. Her faith in letting The Lord sort out her life is exemplary, and she sticks to her values no matter what is going on around her. But Daphne is no goody two shoes. Carlson shows us what's in Daphne's head: insecurities, jealousy, complaining, hopelessness, uncertainty. And while we the readers hear Daphne's inner sighs and see her eye-rolls, she makes sure she puts her best and most Godly step forward whenever possible.
Carlson says book 3 will be out soon. I've already googled (in futility) looking for a release date. I'm going to have to practice some patience while I await Home, Heart and Holidays, as well as the fourth and final book.
In this installment, Daphne tries her hand at dating a few men one after the other. Her dating capers felt real -- and I sympathized with Daphne having to endure some of those guys! When she finally re-focuses, an old friend takes notice and opens up about his feelings for her. Before he does, Daphne rounds out her life by spending time with her neighbors, befriending a neglected little girl, and trying to finish her novel.
I am charmed and completely won over by Daphne. She is good-hearted, keeps mostly to herself, is willing to step out of her comfort zone (with a nudge), and can be a little bit goofy. Her faith in letting The Lord sort out her life is exemplary, and she sticks to her values no matter what is going on around her. But Daphne is no goody two shoes. Carlson shows us what's in Daphne's head: insecurities, jealousy, complaining, hopelessness, uncertainty. And while we the readers hear Daphne's inner sighs and see her eye-rolls, she makes sure she puts her best and most Godly step forward whenever possible.
Carlson says book 3 will be out soon. I've already googled (in futility) looking for a release date. I'm going to have to practice some patience while I await Home, Heart and Holidays, as well as the fourth and final book.
August 27, 2014
Dating, Dining and Desperation by Melody Carson is the second book that I have read in the Dear Daphne series and I enjoyed it.
In book two, Daphne is still looking for a husband to meet her aunt’s stipulation in the will. Although there is still some time left before her deadline, Daphne is realizing even more that she has her work cut out for her. Good thing she has her new neighbor to help her, even if she not sure how much she really likes her neighbor’s ideas.
Besides meeting her new neighbor, Daphne also meets a little girl who needs help with family life. The little girl is waiting for her uncle to return home and take care of her. By the time the uncle appears, Daphne is already in love with the little girl. Will the three some how become a family or does God have other plans?
The writing style flows smoothly and this book is an easy read. The characters are again well rounded and well developed. The ones that are met in book one continue to grow, and I like when that happens. The new characters introduced in this book add a lot to the story line. Some are crazy and quirky and some are heartwarming.
I would recommend this book to anyone who enjoys a Christian read that is not over-the-top in preaching. I would recommend reading these books in order because book two is a continuation of the first book.
I received a free copy of this book from NetGalley in exchange for a honest review. I would like to thank NetGalley and B&H Publishing Group for the opportunity to read this book.
In book two, Daphne is still looking for a husband to meet her aunt’s stipulation in the will. Although there is still some time left before her deadline, Daphne is realizing even more that she has her work cut out for her. Good thing she has her new neighbor to help her, even if she not sure how much she really likes her neighbor’s ideas.
Besides meeting her new neighbor, Daphne also meets a little girl who needs help with family life. The little girl is waiting for her uncle to return home and take care of her. By the time the uncle appears, Daphne is already in love with the little girl. Will the three some how become a family or does God have other plans?
The writing style flows smoothly and this book is an easy read. The characters are again well rounded and well developed. The ones that are met in book one continue to grow, and I like when that happens. The new characters introduced in this book add a lot to the story line. Some are crazy and quirky and some are heartwarming.
I would recommend this book to anyone who enjoys a Christian read that is not over-the-top in preaching. I would recommend reading these books in order because book two is a continuation of the first book.
I received a free copy of this book from NetGalley in exchange for a honest review. I would like to thank NetGalley and B&H Publishing Group for the opportunity to read this book.
September 24, 2015
Daphne Ballinger has less than a year to marry to be able to fulfill her Aunt/Grandmother will´s conditions. But how can a girl get married when there is no serious love interest on horizon? Or if there is several of them? And the fact your Dad is getting married before you doesn´t help!
Fortunately, Daphne has some helpers - namely seemingly shallow Southern belle Sabrina, who can really grow on you (I promise!) and several of her neighbours in a need of company or help, like sweet little girl Mabel who had experienced more loneliness than any child should. And Jake, her steadfast lawyer who seems being interested in being more than that. Or is he?
Daphne is navigating the uneasy sea of dating once again and it is a quite smooth ride. The authoress is once again addressing some quite serious issues under the seemingly fluffy cover, like loneliness, true fulfillment in life when helping others, that the cover doesn´t always represent the content of the book and uncertainty. And she offers some quite sound advice in "Dear Daphne" column.
The only small thing I would wish to improve is Daphne´s blindness or naivity towards as others might see her, as she is questioning every man´s intentions and believing her assumptions too quickly. Some honest discussion could help here! But I am quite sure this is the authoress´ intention to point out this characteristics.
I am quite curious who will win Daphne´s heart in 3rd and 4th installment of this funny and thoughtful series!
Fortunately, Daphne has some helpers - namely seemingly shallow Southern belle Sabrina, who can really grow on you (I promise!) and several of her neighbours in a need of company or help, like sweet little girl Mabel who had experienced more loneliness than any child should. And Jake, her steadfast lawyer who seems being interested in being more than that. Or is he?
Daphne is navigating the uneasy sea of dating once again and it is a quite smooth ride. The authoress is once again addressing some quite serious issues under the seemingly fluffy cover, like loneliness, true fulfillment in life when helping others, that the cover doesn´t always represent the content of the book and uncertainty. And she offers some quite sound advice in "Dear Daphne" column.
The only small thing I would wish to improve is Daphne´s blindness or naivity towards as others might see her, as she is questioning every man´s intentions and believing her assumptions too quickly. Some honest discussion could help here! But I am quite sure this is the authoress´ intention to point out this characteristics.
I am quite curious who will win Daphne´s heart in 3rd and 4th installment of this funny and thoughtful series!
July 30, 2023
Simple and Sweet
I enjoyed this novel about a middle-aged woman trying to figure out her love life, with the "help" of a few friends. Set in a charming small town. I can't wait to read what happens next.
I enjoyed this novel about a middle-aged woman trying to figure out her love life, with the "help" of a few friends. Set in a charming small town. I can't wait to read what happens next.
March 8, 2014
This is the second book in a series. I reviewed the first book and really liked it so I was eager to read this second one. I am happy to say I enjoyed this one just as much.
Daphne’s a great character. She’s like so many of us when it comes to romance….confused.
We get to visit the same men that were in her life in the first book and see what’s happening now. Not a whole lot has changed. At the end of the first book you are under the impression that Daphne might set her sights set on Jake, her grandmother’s attorney. At the beginning of this book, almost for the first half, Jake isn’t around, but definitely thought off.
Apparently he went on a vacation with his ex-wife and obviously Daphne isn’t happy and thinks things are not going to go anywhere with him. So she tries to move on.
I can’t imagine being in Daphne’s shoes. We are told to wait on God, which is a theme in this book, yet, how does she wait on Him when she has to be married in less then a year? This definitely keeps the book interesting and will have you reading to see what will happen next in her life and what man she should marry. Melody does a great job of even keeping the reader confused about the right man.
This is a light, fast read, with fun characters I think you will enjoy.
A copy of this book was given to me by the publisher through the Christian Fiction Blog Alliance in exchange for an honest review.
Daphne’s a great character. She’s like so many of us when it comes to romance….confused.
We get to visit the same men that were in her life in the first book and see what’s happening now. Not a whole lot has changed. At the end of the first book you are under the impression that Daphne might set her sights set on Jake, her grandmother’s attorney. At the beginning of this book, almost for the first half, Jake isn’t around, but definitely thought off.
Apparently he went on a vacation with his ex-wife and obviously Daphne isn’t happy and thinks things are not going to go anywhere with him. So she tries to move on.
I can’t imagine being in Daphne’s shoes. We are told to wait on God, which is a theme in this book, yet, how does she wait on Him when she has to be married in less then a year? This definitely keeps the book interesting and will have you reading to see what will happen next in her life and what man she should marry. Melody does a great job of even keeping the reader confused about the right man.
This is a light, fast read, with fun characters I think you will enjoy.
A copy of this book was given to me by the publisher through the Christian Fiction Blog Alliance in exchange for an honest review.
August 28, 2014
Dating, Dining and Desperation is the second book in Melody Carlson’s Dear Daphne series. It is just a few month after Daphne’s Aunt Dee has died and named her as her heir, with a catch. Daphne has one year to meet and marry or she will forfeit all claim to the estate. While Daphne feels the pressure from the will, her family and her friends to find Mr. Right, she is sure that the desperation she feels is just not what God wants.
New friends and old characters arrive in Daphne’s life. The perky, Southern divorcee, Sabrina Fontaine, offers comedic touches to the story, while young neighbor, Mabel, touches Daphne and the reader’s heart. I like that Daphne decides to step away from her own life, problems and the parade of somewhat eligible men and gives her time, money and love to this child in need.
Dating, Dining and Desperation has a small town setting that provides a relief to busy and stress-filled lives. The charming town and its lovable residents will make you want more. I am looking forward to more adventures with Daphne as she discovers what is important and what God wants for her life.
Note: The first two books were published by B&H Publishers. Due to changes at B&H, Carlson will be publishing books 3 and 4 in an ebook form. I am hoping they will be available soon!
Recommended.
Audience: YA to Adults.
(Thanks to B&H for a review copy. All opinions expressed are mine alone.)
March 6, 2014
3.5 Stars!
After reading and enjoying the first book in this series last year, I was looking forward to this second installment. And while I did enjoy Dating, Dining, and Desperation, I didn't like it as much as the first book in the series. Once again I really liked Daphne and it was really fun to get reacquainted with her! At first I didn't care much for her new neighbor Sabrina, but she grew on me and I ended up liking her quite a lot! And I loved it when seven year old Mabel came into the story, she was just so adorable! I also loved that Daphne was writing a suspense novel! One of my favorite things about this series is the mystery as to who Daphne will end up marrying, a mystery that is made even more complex by the entry of several new possible love interests for Daphne in this book, I look forward to seeing what happens next in this series!
Most of the time I really enjoyed this book, but there were just times when I found myself slightly bored with the story.
I recommend Dating, Dining and Desperation, it probably could be read as a standalone but I think you might want to read Lock, Stock and Over a Barrel first!
I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher via CFBA in exchange for an honest review. The above is my honest opinion. All thoughts and opinions are one hundred percent my own.
After reading and enjoying the first book in this series last year, I was looking forward to this second installment. And while I did enjoy Dating, Dining, and Desperation, I didn't like it as much as the first book in the series. Once again I really liked Daphne and it was really fun to get reacquainted with her! At first I didn't care much for her new neighbor Sabrina, but she grew on me and I ended up liking her quite a lot! And I loved it when seven year old Mabel came into the story, she was just so adorable! I also loved that Daphne was writing a suspense novel! One of my favorite things about this series is the mystery as to who Daphne will end up marrying, a mystery that is made even more complex by the entry of several new possible love interests for Daphne in this book, I look forward to seeing what happens next in this series!
Most of the time I really enjoyed this book, but there were just times when I found myself slightly bored with the story.
I recommend Dating, Dining and Desperation, it probably could be read as a standalone but I think you might want to read Lock, Stock and Over a Barrel first!
I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher via CFBA in exchange for an honest review. The above is my honest opinion. All thoughts and opinions are one hundred percent my own.
March 17, 2015
Another Great Story from Melody Carlson
Melody Carlson is a master in the art of storytelling. Her gift is enjoyed by school age children all the way to older adults. I've been reading her books for many years and I enjoyed her latest just as much as I enjoyed her first. She is a Christian writer who doesn't bludgeon you with her faith. Her stories are character driven and each character exhibits a full range of emotions.
This is the second book in the Dear Daphne series and you will enjoy it more if you read the first, Lock, Stock and Over a Barrel. Aunt Dee has died and left all of her possessions to her niece Daphne. There is one stipulation: Daphne must marry within a year to keep it all including the wonderful, old Victorian house she is now living in. There are a few marriage prospects but Daphne's love life is stalled. Right now she is more focused on her young neighbor, Mabel whose grandmother just died. Daphne would like to adopt the 8 year old Mabel but there is an uncle on his way to meet his niece.
Melody tells us the third and fourth books will be available soon as e-books but she hopes to have some paperbacks on the shelves as well. Whatever the form the next two books are published in, I will buy them as soon as they become available. That should tell you how much I like her writing
Melody Carlson is a master in the art of storytelling. Her gift is enjoyed by school age children all the way to older adults. I've been reading her books for many years and I enjoyed her latest just as much as I enjoyed her first. She is a Christian writer who doesn't bludgeon you with her faith. Her stories are character driven and each character exhibits a full range of emotions.
This is the second book in the Dear Daphne series and you will enjoy it more if you read the first, Lock, Stock and Over a Barrel. Aunt Dee has died and left all of her possessions to her niece Daphne. There is one stipulation: Daphne must marry within a year to keep it all including the wonderful, old Victorian house she is now living in. There are a few marriage prospects but Daphne's love life is stalled. Right now she is more focused on her young neighbor, Mabel whose grandmother just died. Daphne would like to adopt the 8 year old Mabel but there is an uncle on his way to meet his niece.
Melody tells us the third and fourth books will be available soon as e-books but she hopes to have some paperbacks on the shelves as well. Whatever the form the next two books are published in, I will buy them as soon as they become available. That should tell you how much I like her writing
April 29, 2014
I have always enjoyed Melody Carlson's books as they are enjoyable,easy reads with a good message and the 2nd book about Daphne Ballinger was no exception.
When we left Daphne in the first book it was looking like she was well on her way to fulfilling the stipulations of her Aunt/ Grandma's request to be married within a year as things were beginning to develop with her and her lawyer Jake, but just when she thought things were getting serious Jake abruptly leaves on vacation without telling her and she finds out his ex-wife went along too,is it possible she was reading into something that never existed?
As Daphne tries to navigate her love life, the grand entrance of a new neighbor and a motherless little girl threatens to overturn her already crazy life.
I enjoyed this book and look forward to the next book in the series,as always it kept me guessing about who Daphne will end up with, which is in no way resolved in this book!
The only down side to the book is the fact that there are a ton of guys coming out of the woodwork in this book,I cannot believe someone who only had one serious relationship suddenly has 5+ guys interested in her,still the book is a charming read and it does not turn me off from the story at all.
When we left Daphne in the first book it was looking like she was well on her way to fulfilling the stipulations of her Aunt/ Grandma's request to be married within a year as things were beginning to develop with her and her lawyer Jake, but just when she thought things were getting serious Jake abruptly leaves on vacation without telling her and she finds out his ex-wife went along too,is it possible she was reading into something that never existed?
As Daphne tries to navigate her love life, the grand entrance of a new neighbor and a motherless little girl threatens to overturn her already crazy life.
I enjoyed this book and look forward to the next book in the series,as always it kept me guessing about who Daphne will end up with, which is in no way resolved in this book!
The only down side to the book is the fact that there are a ton of guys coming out of the woodwork in this book,I cannot believe someone who only had one serious relationship suddenly has 5+ guys interested in her,still the book is a charming read and it does not turn me off from the story at all.
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