Not the Default: Essays on Sexuality

by Trevor Church

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304 pages, Paperback

Published February 10, 2024

Reviews

[Michel Foucault · Rating 5 out of 5]

“Not the Default” is a sassy, insightful dive into the life of a gay millennial navigating the quirks of small-town existence and the highs and lows of pop culture obsession. While the author’s experiences resonated with my own, I couldn’t shake the feeling that the book was more of a window for the heteronormative crowd into the colorful world of queer life.

From Spice Girls tapes to awkward changing room encounters, the book captures the essence of growing up gay with wit and charm. But it’s not all nostalgia and giggles. “Not the Default” tackles topics like queer icons and the AIDS crisis with refreshing honesty.

In short, it’s a must-read for anyone curious about queer culture and looking for a witty, insightful take on the subject. So grab a copy, buckle up, and get ready for a ride that’s equal parts laugh-out-loud funny and heartbreakingly real.

[GrnMtnOpal · Rating 5 out of 5]

"Not the Default" by Trevor Church is a powerful and poignant exploration of growing up queer in America. Through personal anecdotes, historical references, and pop culture touchstones, Church paints a vivid picture of the challenges and triumphs of navigating identity in a world that often tries to impose conformity.
Church's writing is honest, witty, and insightful, and he weaves together personal experiences with broader societal issues in a way that is both relatable and thought-provoking. "Not the Default" is a must-read for anyone who has ever felt like they didn't fit in, and it is a powerful testament to the resilience and joy of the human spirit.

[Elizabeth · Rating 5 out of 5]

Beautifully written, informative. I have no other words other than everyone should read this.