For a first novel, this book shows quite astonishing assurance; the author has got a really good grasp of his story and of the characters. However, in the end I didn't like it quite as much as I was expecting to.
The main characters, Jack and Linda, about whom the story revolves, each come with a fair baggage of history. Jack, whose transition has never been fully accepted by Linda (who's his mother), is constantly aggrieved by Linda's misgendering. Linda, for her part, has spent all her life, and all her money (plus a lot of her daughter Alice's money) try to keep afloat in the pyramid scheme of the excellently named Supreme Self products. An added complication is that Linda's husband (and the children's father), Peter, is now suffering dementia, and can no longer manage the financial and organizational side of their business. Linda breaking her hip requires the children to make an extended visit to look after her, which seems to bring all of the family dynamics to breaking point. Jack's memories of his father's anger and fury; his contempt at his mother for attempting to be "the best" in a failing business scheme, and her never having accepting his transition (in Linda's mind, Jack is still her daughter). I can't work out if Linda deserves any sympathy here. Linda fights to maintain her social media presence showing the power of the Supreme Self products - especially in respect of her "healing" so fast, which in fact she isn't healing at all well. Peter's ever increasing confusion; Alice's attempts to take charge of an impossible situation and to try to bully everybody else. It's a brilliant nightmare.
All that being said, I found the story moved too slowly, and with too much repetition. Every so often, there's a long section about Linda and Supreme Self, and after a while I kept thinking "we've been through all of this". The story could have done with a bit more humour; there was occasional lightness, but it was mostly dour and a bit bleak. Alice also seems a bit two-dimensional; I think more could have been done with her. And at the end she seems to refer to Jack as "she", which contradicts her careful non-misgendering so far. This is confusing.
There is a lot to like about this book; it explores some of the difficulties of transitioning (the scene of Jack at the airport should be required reading), and on the other hand it takes Jack's transition as something not strange or weird, but simply as a part of Jack's life. This is totally admirable. I wonder how much of Jack's character is based on the author's own experiences as a trans-man.
But as a novel, the book drags, and by the end I thought it was getting too long for its content, and seemed to have been unnecessarily padded.
However, I'll be clamouring for a copy of the author's next book, which I hope he writes!