Sometimes a book comes along at just the right time for a particular reader; this was the case for me and "Mini Habits." I'd had a longstanding desire to improve my health and fitness, for a variety of reasons, but for the last six months, I've been stuck in a rut and haven't made any progress. It's as if my brain, or some part of my mind, is rejecting the behaviors I'm trying to implement, like exercising more and choosing better foods for my meals. I've been kicking and screaming like a child (internally, of course!) before getting on the bike, or getting to the gym, or eating salad instead of a bagel. My "healthy behavior avoidance system" has been on full alert, and just trying to do something good for my body for a change has seemed utterly exhausting, before even taking the first step.
Then comes "Mini Habits." I swear, I haven't been paid for this, but as I said before, right place right time. I've read about variations in this topic in other books, but here Guise breaks the concept of mini habits down and explains why it actually works. In a nutshell, you're fooling the resistant part of your brain, the part that doesn't want to change the habits it already has...a bit like a child faced with a change in routine. By making the changes so small they're ridiculous - his example is doing one pushup - your brain doesn't fight it. So you do the one pushup, you've accomplished your goal. However, if while you're down on the floor, you want to crank out a few more, or add a couple of crunches to the mix, why that's just gravy. That's the bonus for your already achieved mini goal: not necessary, but definitely a happy consequence of just doing the one pushup. I've tried it this week, setting as a goal doing five minutes of any exercise at all: dancing, biking, getting up and walking around the house. I've managed to get on the bike, ride my five minutes, and wouldn't you know? It felt so good, I kept going. But always with the thought in mind that I could stop any time after my five minutes, which left my resistant brain an out...which for some reason, it seems to need.
I feel successful, and I know even on a bad day, I can do five minutes of exercise and still consider it a success, because I'm creating a habit that will eventually, if all goes according to plan, blossom into a full blown exercise habit. I'm sold. I withheld one star because the writing style was basic at best, and it really seems like the whole concept could be explained in one page; there's a lot of repetition and padding to get it to short book-length. But still, for the ideas alone, a highly recommended read for those of us who have child minds.