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The Way It Is

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Girls in the hood aint always hard, but the saying holds true for girls growing up in the Ward. Raquel and Tae were both born into the hood. Their mothers were both babies having babies, so from the beginning the odds were stacked against them.
At an early age Raquel knew that she wanted more for herself, but somehow her circumstances always stood in the way. Tae grew up in an unconventional home, with little to no guidance. With these set of circumstances the two friends attempt to find their way in life.
Raquel thinks that she has found solace in Kevin. He’s the one for her, but after a dreadful night their lives are forever changed. Without her backbone, can she really handle this cold cruel world?
Tae loses so many close to her, and is afraid to let anyone in, until she meets Eric. Eric is the exact opposite of anything Tae’s ever experienced. So, now that she’s found a real man, can she become woman enough for him?
Raquel and Tae may appear to be average hood chicks, but they have an extraordinary story to tell. The good, bad, and ugly is a part of life and just simply The Way It Is.

344 pages, Kindle Edition

First published February 19, 2014

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796 reviews53 followers
November 14, 2019
Forever Love!

This is my first time reading Raquel's story and I didn't expect that at all. I knew she was tough but reading this story really added depth. Love is a powerful thing and when its real, it never dies
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1,390 reviews97 followers
January 27, 2025
I just re-read this book for the fifth time. It was still as good as the first time. I love this author’s characters. I never get tired of them. I love how most of them are connected. If it one this author can do is write a good damn book!

Total Book Experience 10/10

Plot/Storyline (structure)10/10
Writing (Errors) 10/10
Characters 10/10
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Emotion 10/10
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If you’re wondering whether or not you should read… THE ANSWER IS YES‼️‼️


Nicole Jackson Books In Order by Publication
- [ ] She Got It - January 1, 2014
- [ ] Hold It Down Like Brother and Sister- February 18 2014
- [ ] The Way It Is February 19,2014
- [ ] Connected April 26,2014
- [ ] Can’t Trust These Bitches 05/28/2014
- [ ] Circumstances June 7 2014
- [ ] The Game Never Changes- July 2 2014
- [ ] She Got It 2 - October 15, 2014
- [ ] Can’t Leave It Alone 03/18/2015
- [ ] Shooting Blindly In The Dark 05/13/2015
- [ ] They Don’t Know Me 08/22/2015
- [ ] Can’t Trust These Bitches 2 October 29, 2015
- [ ] Can’t Trust These Bitches Amir and Zyrie 10/29/2015
- [ ] Promiscuous Girl 1 and 2 April 25, 2016
- [ ] Freeze June 23, 2016
- [ ] Promiscuous Girl Keyasia and Wale 10/15/2016
- [ ] Even When It’s Wrong June 27, 2017
- [ ] 21 Questions December 27, 2017
- [ ] Promiscuous Girl Craven and Jazel March 29, 2018
- [ ] He’s For Everybody July 30, 2018
- [ ] You Ain’t My Type October 24, 2018
- [ ] The Wild Child January 31, 2019
- [ ] So Many Tears June 29, 2019
- [ ] So Many Tears 2 September 16, 2019
- [ ] No Matter What December 24, 2019
- [ ] Can’t Trust These Bitches 3 April 30, 2020
- [ ] Promiscuous Girl 3 August 26, 2020
- [ ] Fat Ma October 6, 2020
- [ ] Resentment January 30, 2021
- [ ] Borrowed Love April 5, 2021
- [ ] Borrowed Love 2 June 29, 2021
- [ ] We Outside October 23, 2021
- [ ] We Outside 2 December 30, 2021
- [ ] Take It Down March 15, 2022
- [ ] Take It Down 2 March 15, 2022
- [ ] Foolish May 25, 2022
- [ ] Foolish 2 July 25, 2022
- [ ] His Boy Can Get It August 29, 2022
- [ ] His Boy Can Get It 2 September 30, 2022
- [ ] Deeper Than Love October 27, 2022
- [ ] Deeper Than Love 2 December 3, 2022
- [ ] Freaky Tales December 22, 2022
- [ ] Checkmate- Snowed In With You January 9, 2023
- [ ] Three’s The Clique January 27, 2023
- [ ] The Interlude February 14, 2023
- [ ] The Interlude 2 May 30, 2023
- [ ]     The Interlude 3 June 28, 2023
- [ ]   Trouble July 28, 2023
- [ ]    Trouble 2 August 31, 2023
- [ ]    Trouble 3 October 28, 2023
- [ ] More Than a Crush November 21, 2023
- [ ]    More Than a Crush 2 December 23, 2023
- [ ] Never Saw Her Coming January 22, 2024
- [ ] A Time Was Had March 17, 2024
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427 reviews3 followers
September 21, 2014
I need to give this book more stars, Quel and Tae was something else. Key crack me up,that lil girl was a mess. I loved this book. I cried and cried. I wish the truth came out about the death of Mae- Mae. Way to go Nicole
201 reviews3 followers
January 22, 2022
Not your typical love story

Buy, Read it. You won’t be disappointed! You have to come from the hood to understand the level of dysfunction that exists in this book. The first time that I read this book was two years ago. Raquel was too damaged for me not to judge her as a parent. I gave the book only 4 stars. Fast forward to today and it’s a solid five stars. Why the difference? I’ve gone through some life changes and it has affected my perspective so I can relate better. Raquel’s childhood trauma of seeing the twin murdered, herself being harmed and not having consistent love from her parents did not allow her to develop healthy coping skills. Kevin was her strength and when she lost him it brought down her world. I didn’t like how she left him in the dust for defending her. Tae was my girl and I’m so glad she got it together before life caved in on her, albeit there was an unfortunate event. Roz really did a 180 and Fred was the man for coming through for Raquel in a clutch. Nykee is a female’s name and he sure was a bitch! This was a good book and Nicole did her thing with the pen. Her writing skills are immaculate! She keeps us coming back for more.
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4 reviews10 followers
April 4, 2018
Horrible

This is my read from this author and my first ever book review. This book started out interesting but after Kevin went to jail the book went completely down hill. Every page was about Quel finessing and sleeping with multiple men. I got so tired of it I just skipped to the last few chapters of the book because it really had no plot. Glad I got this book for free and kind of skeptical to read any more from this author.
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503 reviews9 followers
August 12, 2024
🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

Whew these little fast tail girls be out here living dangerous & popping out babies like it’s a sport. I thought Raven’s story (Hold It Down by Nicole Jackson) was one for the books, but baby listen, Raquel’s story took me through there. I don’t know who my heart goes out to more … Raquel, Tae, Mae Mae, or Alex. Even lil Keyasia was a hot mess! Trust me this book is a must read! Definitely a BOMB 10 outta 10 read!
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338 reviews3 followers
June 1, 2021
Karma

Okay I have read this series all out of order. I was so intrigued by Raquel and Kevin's story and so glad I found it. It did not disappoint in the least. Raquel was a wild girl and so funny. Kevin was the ultimate protector and lover. Things don't always go as planned but when it's meant to be it'll be.
62 reviews
March 8, 2018
Very good emotional read!!!

Very good book had me in tears. Raquel went through so much. I was sad about Tae , I couldn't believe what happened to her. Nicole Jackson is an amazing writer!!!
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1 review1 follower
March 11, 2019
Definitely A Good Read!

I liked the plot of the book it definitely took me back to days in my own childhood. It help me experience times in the 80s and how things were.

I would definitely recommend this book!
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3,384 reviews33 followers
February 25, 2021
Phenomenal

This is probably my 7th time reading this book although I always hesitate because of Tae! I love these characters so much and my favorite thing to do is re-read Nicole Jackson books!
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2 reviews
November 29, 2017
Really good book!!!

This book was excellent. I laughed, I cried, and it was very relatable!!! Definitely 5 stars and I cannot wait to read more from Nicole Jackson.
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3,919 reviews
December 5, 2019
Wow

These stories is getting deeper and deeper. And even more crazier if that’s at all possible. I don’t know if I’m ready for the next book.
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1,611 reviews1 follower
July 26, 2021
The Way Love Goes

This book actually had me sad. Tae was a sweet girl and didn't deserve what happened. Raquel was selfish and I'm still giving her the side eye.
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65 reviews3 followers
October 28, 2024
I think this the best book ive read by this author

I say this each time I read a book by Nicole Jackson 😂. This one did hit a lil different. It was soooooooooooo good.

1 review
August 25, 2025
100% Good read

I loved it ❤️ it gives reality in alot of black neighborhoods. I also the lessons you can learn from to prevent things.. 10/10❤️
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241 reviews4 followers
March 4, 2017
The way it is

This is my first read from this author and this won't be my last. These girls went thru hell and high waters but came out on top. I was so sad about Tae. This was great read!
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301 reviews10 followers
March 2, 2017
The Way It Is

This was a gooood read! Nicole Jackson did it with this one. My emotions were all over the place by the end of the book! Can't wait for my next read by her
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14 reviews
September 20, 2014
This book had so much emotion and heartache that I could not put it down. Raquel and Kevin are the definition of a hood couple. In this book the incident or occurrence (rape) changed the life of so many. Raquel literally lost her mind. Her choices hurt so many people and ruined so many lives because she could not deal. Tae was the ultimate consequence. After she changed her life and found a man to love her the way she needs. Reading this book shows that true guidance from a parent needs to come from the gate. If Roz would have been a better parent she could have been able to guide Raquel back after Kevin got locked up. The love, sadness, and grief in this book can be felt. I could not put it down when I started. Good reading.
755 reviews1 follower
December 20, 2014
Loved this

I truly loved this book I literally cried. The fifth ward girls really stuck together their friendship was stronger than family. Nicole really did a great job with this book.
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180 reviews6 followers
October 6, 2015
Worth 3.5 stars but it was all over the place

Nicole is a gifted writer but for some reason this novel was all over the place . It was indeed fast pace and entertaining but could have been executed s little more efficiently
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429 reviews16 followers
May 24, 2015
Good read but....

This was a good book but wasn't as good as the other ones I read by Nicole. I'm still a fan tho!
40 reviews1 follower
May 28, 2015
Raquel and Kevin

We all remember that first love.. Here goes another one.... This book was so good, my 2nd time reading it,but it feeling like the 1st.... Keep em coming......
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72 reviews1 follower
August 24, 2016
True Page Turner

Wow once again I thought I had left a view for this book... this was the second book I read by Mz. Jackson, love the story....had me in my feelings
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506 reviews31 followers
November 6, 2016
I'm getting emotional reading her books back to back like this but I can't stop! This book was soooooo good
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763 reviews5 followers
May 2, 2017
Great read

This was a good book. I can't believe the way these girls turned. I was so happy for tae, Raquel had me looking at her sideways. This book had me n tears at the end. I don't think i ever cried this much...let's just say a lot of ppl got what they deserved
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