I feel so compelled to have your attention right now. Have your attention, but not have it for me, or my words or my ego. . . but for you and your soul and for this book of Ms. Strout's.
Wow. Damn it. It's been a long time since a book has caused me to feel this agitated, this moved, this conflicted.
I had to force myself to walk outside, at a brisk pace, circling my yard several times, before I could commit to sitting down and writing this. Even so, I still feel edgy, irritated, worried that I will lack the skills to communicate what I want to about this collection.
This started out as a perfectly pleasant read for me; I love interconnected short stories, have preferred them as a literary device since my early days of being a Salinger stalker, a lover of all members of the family named Glass, and I felt overjoyed at this discovery and perfectly at home with this writing.
But, three stories in, I felt thwarted, felt my passion wane. Stories number 3 & 4 (out of 9) are. . . well, they're icky. You've got your early sex abuse (sodomy, no less) mentioned in story #2, but it's mentioned in passing, giving us background as to why a man's life was ruined, but in stories #3 and 4. . . Strout takes us to some very dark places with a rapist and then a Vietnam vet struggling with PTSD.
To be honest, I became turned off enough with these stories, I had to take a break from them, to clear my head and debate whether I wanted to continue. I am so very grateful I did.
Short Story #5, Mississippi Mary, is one of the most understated, most brilliant short works of fiction I have ever read in my life, and I am one well-read lady, y'all.
This story made me throw the book away from me, onto a coffee table as I shouted “Fuck!” It also made me run for the post-it notes and start scribbling, then caused me to crack open my journal, writing very hard and very quickly on its pages. Last, it provoked me to take a turn (as Ms. Austen would say) around the garden. Several times.
It's a simple story (in the same way you could say Steinbeck's stories are simple—ha!) in that the entire story takes place in one apartment with two women who are basically. . . talking and thinking. One woman is a 78-year-old mother named Mary, who, after 51 years of marriage, has left her husband for a man named Paolo and his country of Italy. The other is the wounded, forty-something daughter named Angela who is on a hiatus from her marriage, and is still angry at her mother for leaving their father.
Strout is so adept, so brilliant as a writer, she helps you sympathize temporarily with the upset daughter, then flips you over to see Mom's side just as clearly.
Daughter sees mom as simple and a bit ditzy, as a woman who made an impulsive decision to leave a marriage after five decades, and Mother sees daughter as lovely but uninformed and not quite seasoned enough yet to truly comprehend the affairs of the heart or regret or suffering.
I feel stunned by this collection, enough to order my own copy immediately and re-read it all again. I feel compelled to recommend it to you with every cell of my being, and I leave you with one particularly pensive paragraph from Mississippi Mary:
Lying on her bed—where she spent much of her days—Mary looked at the high ceiling and thought that what her daughter could not understand was what it had been like to be so famished. Almost fifty years of being parched. At her husband's forty-first birthday surprise party—and Mary had been so proud to make it for his forty-first so he'd be really surprised, and boy he was really surprised—she had noticed how he did not dance with her, not once. Later she realized he was just not in love with her. And at the fiftieth wedding anniversary party the girls threw them, he did not ask her to dance either.
You never knew anything, and anyone who thought they knew anything—well, they were in for a great big surprise.