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Becoming Goan: A Contemporary Coming-Home Story
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Published July 15, 2024
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June 20, 2024
Michelle writes a very honest story of coming back to her homeland and becoming "Goan" in the true sense. I found it interesting. She delves into the food (obviously), culture, history, art, religion, environment and other aspects of Goa- sharing both facts and her opinions and feelings. It helps readers to know the real Goa and the dangers of losing it to over consumption, gentrification and commercialisation.
January 3, 2024
Goa immediately conjures images “of a good times place” in the mind. Recently released “Becoming Goan”, a contemporary coming home story by Michelle Mendonca Bambawale, makes you appreciate Goa, and all things Goan, in a new light, quite literally - beyond the “usual tropes” !
The book, through its 15 Chapters and 276 pages, takes you on an immensely readable journey of the “Goa you did not know about”. Titles of the initial few Chapters ask seemingly mundane questions as “What’s so special about Goa, Anyway? The answers reveal both hidden gems and interesting trivia. Thereafter, much of the book talks of Siolim and her experience of making a home of their 150 years plus old house, but the context goes beyond to map issues relevant to Goa as a whole. Certain Chapters such as the “Portuguese Property Law and How “Assagaon became Gurgaon” reveal certain harsh and possibly bitter truths too. Towards the end, the “insider intel” in “..My ..Go-to Places” gives updated and authentic inputs.
Michelle’s narrative, with Saudade (Portuguese for a feeling of longing, melancholy, or nostalgia), being an overarching emotion across the pages, makes relevant history of Goa accessible to the reader. Anyone looking for deeper insights beyond the usual touristy experience will find much to appreciate in the book. It’s a migrant story with a delectable difference wherein the eternal conflict between ”longing and belonging” finds the “World Traveller” family finally growing roots again- where they belong. This in itself is an encouraging and heartwarming thread throughout the book. The chorus of the perceptible angst towards the “outsider” in general and “Dilliwallah” in particular, is repeated often, even after the reader registers it quite early in the text. The book is apparently based on blogs written by the author, and this is perceptible in the standalone nature of certain Chapters.
The author writes with courage of conviction from the heart on issues that many silently prefer to sweep under the carpet. Thought provoking in content, many issues will force the reader to be a slightly more responsible tourist in Goa, next time around. The use of Portuguese and Konkani words/phrases along with the helpful footnotes alongside, enable comprehension of the local flavor immensely. The book also enables amazing understanding, albeit to the discerning eye, the difference of the colonial experience of undivided India under the British and Goa under Portuguese rule, The underlying themes of identity, migration, cross cultural connects and stereotypes resonated on multiple accounts – of having lived in Goa for a few years, a lived experience of a migrant family with no place to call my home and living in small towns with a colonial history. The narrative is breezy and cheerful throughout with lots of optimism and positivity coming across to the reader too.
Becoming Goan by debut author Michelle Mendonca Bambawale is a must read – the numerous takeaways and insights, interspersed with the delightful sketches will definitely enhance experiential joy of the next holiday/visit to Goa.
The book, through its 15 Chapters and 276 pages, takes you on an immensely readable journey of the “Goa you did not know about”. Titles of the initial few Chapters ask seemingly mundane questions as “What’s so special about Goa, Anyway? The answers reveal both hidden gems and interesting trivia. Thereafter, much of the book talks of Siolim and her experience of making a home of their 150 years plus old house, but the context goes beyond to map issues relevant to Goa as a whole. Certain Chapters such as the “Portuguese Property Law and How “Assagaon became Gurgaon” reveal certain harsh and possibly bitter truths too. Towards the end, the “insider intel” in “..My ..Go-to Places” gives updated and authentic inputs.
Michelle’s narrative, with Saudade (Portuguese for a feeling of longing, melancholy, or nostalgia), being an overarching emotion across the pages, makes relevant history of Goa accessible to the reader. Anyone looking for deeper insights beyond the usual touristy experience will find much to appreciate in the book. It’s a migrant story with a delectable difference wherein the eternal conflict between ”longing and belonging” finds the “World Traveller” family finally growing roots again- where they belong. This in itself is an encouraging and heartwarming thread throughout the book. The chorus of the perceptible angst towards the “outsider” in general and “Dilliwallah” in particular, is repeated often, even after the reader registers it quite early in the text. The book is apparently based on blogs written by the author, and this is perceptible in the standalone nature of certain Chapters.
The author writes with courage of conviction from the heart on issues that many silently prefer to sweep under the carpet. Thought provoking in content, many issues will force the reader to be a slightly more responsible tourist in Goa, next time around. The use of Portuguese and Konkani words/phrases along with the helpful footnotes alongside, enable comprehension of the local flavor immensely. The book also enables amazing understanding, albeit to the discerning eye, the difference of the colonial experience of undivided India under the British and Goa under Portuguese rule, The underlying themes of identity, migration, cross cultural connects and stereotypes resonated on multiple accounts – of having lived in Goa for a few years, a lived experience of a migrant family with no place to call my home and living in small towns with a colonial history. The narrative is breezy and cheerful throughout with lots of optimism and positivity coming across to the reader too.
Becoming Goan by debut author Michelle Mendonca Bambawale is a must read – the numerous takeaways and insights, interspersed with the delightful sketches will definitely enhance experiential joy of the next holiday/visit to Goa.
March 14, 2025
Becoming Goan is a lovely take on the actual life in Goa as compared to the glorified often misconceptualised view of Goan life. Bambawale beautifully brings out life in Goa coupled with its challenges and its uniqueness. Becoming Goan can easily be called a guide book to living in Goa with its description of Goan delicacies, art, architecture and culture. It goes beyond to explain in essence Goan culture.
March 28, 2024
I bought this book while I was spending my time in Goa for the first time and completely fell in love with this place. However, after starting to read it, I have never felt so much negative energy from a book.
The author is full of hate towards tourists. Here is a quote: "Another unforgivable crime is broken bottles. You often see tourists roll down the window and chuck a bottle out of a moving car - hazardous and callous. Even more nauseating is when they crawl out of cars, engine running, and pee on the side of the road. They spit too. As I look at the road in April, it is dark blue from the juicy, fallen jambul fruit and checkered with red putrid paan stains."
We have seen with our own eyes how upsetting it is that local Goans throw rubbish anywhere they can. I have traveled a lot and never seen another country disrespecting their own land. The spitting, peeing on the side of the road is just disgusting. The fact that the author says it’s all tourists makes me think that she’s absolutely delusional. She described locals, not tourists.
And book is full of similar stories like this.
So much negativity, so sad. Such an angry, sad book about someone who lives in such a beautiful part of the world.
The author is full of hate towards tourists. Here is a quote: "Another unforgivable crime is broken bottles. You often see tourists roll down the window and chuck a bottle out of a moving car - hazardous and callous. Even more nauseating is when they crawl out of cars, engine running, and pee on the side of the road. They spit too. As I look at the road in April, it is dark blue from the juicy, fallen jambul fruit and checkered with red putrid paan stains."
We have seen with our own eyes how upsetting it is that local Goans throw rubbish anywhere they can. I have traveled a lot and never seen another country disrespecting their own land. The spitting, peeing on the side of the road is just disgusting. The fact that the author says it’s all tourists makes me think that she’s absolutely delusional. She described locals, not tourists.
And book is full of similar stories like this.
So much negativity, so sad. Such an angry, sad book about someone who lives in such a beautiful part of the world.
March 1, 2024
Every friend group has made a Goa plan for sure once in there life, isn't it. It never gets successful, that's a different story but we all have. Goa has become synonymous with crazy parties, beautiful beach scenes, great food and alcohol, and serene life lately. It has become a hub for staycations, vacations, workations and what not. The parties, the Dear Zindagi featured road bordered by trees, and so many cafes and party spots pushed our way by Instagram and it's influencers.
But have we ever thought of Goa as a place much more than this. There are hardly people out there who think of Goa as place where actually people live, as there "homes"!
This book is a perfect amalgamation of Goa as it is and how people see of it. The author, being an expat and having lived at many places abroad, searches for her roots and bond with her home, Goa. The book is beautifully written with many interesting anecdotes from author's life and tidbits about Goa as people's home, rather than just the tourist destination. She talks about Siolim, Assagao and places that are not Panjim or Baga beach! And that makes you fall more in love with the place and the writing.
It takes you through the serene beaches but also through the cultural heritage of Goa. It paints a picture of little details about Goan houses, their cuisines, it's history through a personalized lens of the author. Although for me it started a bit slow but the beauty the book encases is impeccable. There's a search for meaning of life, there's emotions of local Goans in the book, there's touristy places in the book, there's everything one needs to know about Goa.
Pick it up on a lazy weekend and you will have the perfect partner to pass your Sunday with! Loved reading it!
But have we ever thought of Goa as a place much more than this. There are hardly people out there who think of Goa as place where actually people live, as there "homes"!
This book is a perfect amalgamation of Goa as it is and how people see of it. The author, being an expat and having lived at many places abroad, searches for her roots and bond with her home, Goa. The book is beautifully written with many interesting anecdotes from author's life and tidbits about Goa as people's home, rather than just the tourist destination. She talks about Siolim, Assagao and places that are not Panjim or Baga beach! And that makes you fall more in love with the place and the writing.
It takes you through the serene beaches but also through the cultural heritage of Goa. It paints a picture of little details about Goan houses, their cuisines, it's history through a personalized lens of the author. Although for me it started a bit slow but the beauty the book encases is impeccable. There's a search for meaning of life, there's emotions of local Goans in the book, there's touristy places in the book, there's everything one needs to know about Goa.
Pick it up on a lazy weekend and you will have the perfect partner to pass your Sunday with! Loved reading it!
June 23, 2024
The book’s title is extremely misleading and does not match its content. One would assume from the title that this book is about the author’s homecoming and embracing her Goan identity. However, the book comes across more as a rant against outsiders and is not so much about "becoming Goan" as the title suggests. Ironically, there is so much nostalgia for a life that even the author, who was not born in Goa, feels that one almost questions the purpose of this book. Was it to familiarize readers with the Goa of yesteryear, or was it to deter people not born in Goa from coming and creating a home?
As someone who moved to Goa 11 years ago, I feel that reading this book was like reading the many issues reported in local newspapers, and it didn’t really qualify as a memoir. I am extremely surprised at the positive reviews given for this book. Are we to consume anything and everything just because it carries the tag of Goa?
The only good part of this book was the last chapter, where some activities and to-dos are collated. But really, there are far better resources to access that information.
I would give this book a miss.
As someone who moved to Goa 11 years ago, I feel that reading this book was like reading the many issues reported in local newspapers, and it didn’t really qualify as a memoir. I am extremely surprised at the positive reviews given for this book. Are we to consume anything and everything just because it carries the tag of Goa?
The only good part of this book was the last chapter, where some activities and to-dos are collated. But really, there are far better resources to access that information.
I would give this book a miss.
July 4, 2025
I really enjoyed this book. Being a Goan myself, there were many stories that the author narrated that filled me with nostalgia and warmth for our home. A beautiful place that deserves conscious decisions and care along with a commitment to take care of it. I enjoyed the author's stories about her home and her adventures as well as all the anecdotes she shared with us. I guess my only peeve would be that I was looking forward to more of an insight into how she tapped into her inner self and rediscovered and rebuilt her relationship with Goa which was a bit rushed through. Was looking forward to it being more precise
January 8, 2024
I enjoyed reading "Becoming Goan".
It's a book that instantly transports you back to the by- lanes of Goa laced with Palm trees.
The author's narration is breezy and loving. It is earmarked with Childhood anecdotes and memories.
"Becoming Goan" is a book you can pick up after a long day of hustle bustle and It will surely won't disappoint..
I personally saved this for a Sunday read and devoured it.
It's a book that instantly transports you back to the by- lanes of Goa laced with Palm trees.
The author's narration is breezy and loving. It is earmarked with Childhood anecdotes and memories.
"Becoming Goan" is a book you can pick up after a long day of hustle bustle and It will surely won't disappoint..
I personally saved this for a Sunday read and devoured it.
February 2, 2024
Becoming Goan is a book about the famous tourist place that begins as a well researched piece of historical records. It feels a little text bookish initially but gradually various anecdotes of history as well as from the personal life of the author has made the book quite enjoyable.
The author had never lived in her ancestral home at Siolim, Goa before the pandemic hit in 2020. But, when she started living there, she kept questioning her domicile and its existence from its time of inception. She delves deep and comes out with this fantastic memoir. She confronts her identity with the theme and culture of Goa, both stereotypical and the real Goa which is quite complex and diverse.
I love the parts where she talks in detail about the legends, history and people of her abode, Siolim. I am stunned to see her extreme love and concern for the land of her ancestors. She cares for the biodiversity and the dark impact of extreme tourism of Goa, which is quite concerning for the ecology and culture of the place.
I only wanted a little more of her personal anecdotes as the little ones she shared made me very happy.
If you are thinking about spending your next holiday in Goa, you must not miss this wonderful book. Not only for the sake of knowledge but the practicality of the book is unparalleled. You will especially thank me for recommending this book when you find the chapter: Living Local- Finding My Go-To Places. The amazing checklists of beaches and food shacks/places are a must if it comes from a true Goan.
Thank you @penguinindia for providing this amazing memoir.
The author had never lived in her ancestral home at Siolim, Goa before the pandemic hit in 2020. But, when she started living there, she kept questioning her domicile and its existence from its time of inception. She delves deep and comes out with this fantastic memoir. She confronts her identity with the theme and culture of Goa, both stereotypical and the real Goa which is quite complex and diverse.
I love the parts where she talks in detail about the legends, history and people of her abode, Siolim. I am stunned to see her extreme love and concern for the land of her ancestors. She cares for the biodiversity and the dark impact of extreme tourism of Goa, which is quite concerning for the ecology and culture of the place.
I only wanted a little more of her personal anecdotes as the little ones she shared made me very happy.
If you are thinking about spending your next holiday in Goa, you must not miss this wonderful book. Not only for the sake of knowledge but the practicality of the book is unparalleled. You will especially thank me for recommending this book when you find the chapter: Living Local- Finding My Go-To Places. The amazing checklists of beaches and food shacks/places are a must if it comes from a true Goan.
Thank you @penguinindia for providing this amazing memoir.
February 3, 2024
Becoming Goan is a memoir that blends personal and historical narratives to explore the author’s connection to Goa, her ancestral land. Michelle Mendonca Bambawale shares her experiences of moving to a 160-year-old house in Siolim, a village in North Goa, during the Covid-19 pandemic, and how she navigates the challenges and joys of living in a place that is both familiar and foreign to her. She also delves into the rich and diverse culture, history, and ecology of Goa, revealing its beauty and complexity beyond the stereotypes and clichés. She writes with candor, humor, and insight, inviting the reader to reflect on their own sense of identity, belonging, and responsibility. Becoming Goan is a captivating and enlightening read that celebrates Goa’s unique heritage and spirit.
February 2, 2024
Becoming Goan by Michelle Mendonca Bambawale
Genre - Nonfiction/Memoir
Rating - 4/5
Becoming Goan by Michelle Mendonca Bambawale is a heartwarming rendering that is waiting for you to unfold warmth and a delightful side of Goa that is very different from the way the world looks at it. It touches the right cord when the author pours down her heart in front of readers in a witty, lucid narrative that is inviting to learn and understand Goa through the pages of the book.
Michelle Mendonca Bambawale believes she is an amalgamation of two cultures, Goan ancestry and international by heart and Indian nationality, she spent twenty years in international education and marketing communication, she is also an environmentalist, now she takes us on a journey to explore Goa.
Given a sense of belonging that is captured through candid ramifications softly painful to see how Goan people are still asked for their Portuguese lineage and torn between two identities Goan and the outsiders. It was deeply human and intriguing reading in those chapters. After that, it becomes filled with interesting in-depth research and relevant information about Goa and its lives that makes readers compelled to read this book.
How we love to see Goa and what Goa really is emerged from her writing.
Portuguese and Konkani cultures blended together living in harmonic way in beautiful nature. The unseen Village Life of Goa is depicted as full of its raw essence.
The celebrations, traditions, law, and order, living local findings- my go-to places, exclusive elixir, are some chapters that added more colors to the book the revealing vibrancy of life and cultural pictures of true life in Goa make this book an informative experience, This is a great read for those who love reading about places in nonfiction genre.
A very close-to-heart book, opening sweet pain of remembering old days, innocent and so close to anyone. You will feel the softness of the heart as always.
Through her charming recollection, Michelle churned out topics from her daily life that represent ordinary people's life in Goa trying to contrast with the theme projected from the 70',s Bollywood movies, which is skilfully developed and the author's pain of establishing the true picture of Goa thoroughly preserved here in simple words, and spontaneous narrative didn't let me leave the book.
The book is decorated with peppy illustrations that add beauty to the book.
As Michelle described it in her words - The realistic deep fake that marketing brochures were perpetuating is not the true picture and what is the true life in Goa that is skilfully explored and waved here in vivid narrative so insightful. I felt a pang of irritation when Michelle demonstrated how the tourists behave with the inhabitants which make sense as to why Michelle chose a title like "Becoming Goan"
This book has two layers intertwined with the tapestries of heartwarming memories of the author and evocative non-fiction exploration of the place.
The dual tone reference reflects a true Goa that we never saw in the media, and another one media projected Goa as a colorful tourist place, that realization exists and the transition of the new Goa enveloped with a lot of research work may make readers feel a bit lagged but it could be enjoyable for those who loves collecting comprehensive knowledge about places, they can cherish the information section of the book thoroughly.
Overall it's a good book, read this book while you travel to Goa.
Genre - Nonfiction/Memoir
Rating - 4/5
Becoming Goan by Michelle Mendonca Bambawale is a heartwarming rendering that is waiting for you to unfold warmth and a delightful side of Goa that is very different from the way the world looks at it. It touches the right cord when the author pours down her heart in front of readers in a witty, lucid narrative that is inviting to learn and understand Goa through the pages of the book.
Michelle Mendonca Bambawale believes she is an amalgamation of two cultures, Goan ancestry and international by heart and Indian nationality, she spent twenty years in international education and marketing communication, she is also an environmentalist, now she takes us on a journey to explore Goa.
Given a sense of belonging that is captured through candid ramifications softly painful to see how Goan people are still asked for their Portuguese lineage and torn between two identities Goan and the outsiders. It was deeply human and intriguing reading in those chapters. After that, it becomes filled with interesting in-depth research and relevant information about Goa and its lives that makes readers compelled to read this book.
How we love to see Goa and what Goa really is emerged from her writing.
Portuguese and Konkani cultures blended together living in harmonic way in beautiful nature. The unseen Village Life of Goa is depicted as full of its raw essence.
The celebrations, traditions, law, and order, living local findings- my go-to places, exclusive elixir, are some chapters that added more colors to the book the revealing vibrancy of life and cultural pictures of true life in Goa make this book an informative experience, This is a great read for those who love reading about places in nonfiction genre.
A very close-to-heart book, opening sweet pain of remembering old days, innocent and so close to anyone. You will feel the softness of the heart as always.
Through her charming recollection, Michelle churned out topics from her daily life that represent ordinary people's life in Goa trying to contrast with the theme projected from the 70',s Bollywood movies, which is skilfully developed and the author's pain of establishing the true picture of Goa thoroughly preserved here in simple words, and spontaneous narrative didn't let me leave the book.
The book is decorated with peppy illustrations that add beauty to the book.
As Michelle described it in her words - The realistic deep fake that marketing brochures were perpetuating is not the true picture and what is the true life in Goa that is skilfully explored and waved here in vivid narrative so insightful. I felt a pang of irritation when Michelle demonstrated how the tourists behave with the inhabitants which make sense as to why Michelle chose a title like "Becoming Goan"
This book has two layers intertwined with the tapestries of heartwarming memories of the author and evocative non-fiction exploration of the place.
The dual tone reference reflects a true Goa that we never saw in the media, and another one media projected Goa as a colorful tourist place, that realization exists and the transition of the new Goa enveloped with a lot of research work may make readers feel a bit lagged but it could be enjoyable for those who loves collecting comprehensive knowledge about places, they can cherish the information section of the book thoroughly.
Overall it's a good book, read this book while you travel to Goa.
January 27, 2024
"**Becoming Goan**" by Michelle Mendonca Bambawale is a captivating journey into the heart and soul of Goa, skillfully weaving together elements of history, tradition, and cultural identity while infusing humor and wit throughout the narrative.
1. **Exploration of Goa's Identity**: Bambawale beautifully encapsulates the essence of Goa, offering readers a comprehensive understanding of what it means to be Goan. From its rich history to its vibrant traditions and customs, the book delves deep into the multifaceted aspects of Goan identity, exploring how both locals and outsiders perceive the region.
2. **Wit and Humor**: One of the standout features of "Becoming Goan" is its witty and humorous tone. Bambawale's writing style is engaging and light-hearted, making even the most complex topics accessible and entertaining for readers.
3. **New Lexicon**: Through the book, readers are introduced to a range of new vocabulary that enriches their understanding of Goan culture. Terms like "poi," "susegad," "saudade," and "falea" become integral parts of the reader's lexicon, adding depth to their appreciation of Goan life.
4. **Fun Facts**: Bambawale peppers the narrative with intriguing fun facts, such as the eligibility for Portuguese citizenship based on ancestral ties to Goa before 1961. These tidbits not only educate readers but also spark curiosity and further exploration.
5. **Khazan Technology**: The book provides valuable insights into lesser-known aspects of Goan life, such as khazan technology and khazan lands, highlighting the region's rich agricultural heritage and innovative practices.
6. **Music and Culture**: Bambawale delves into the music of mandos and the significance of songs like "adeus korchea vellar," offering readers a deeper appreciation for Goan cultural expressions and traditions.
7. **Cover Art**: The cover of "Becoming Goan" is a visual feast, intricately depicting various elements of Goan life, from mangoes and cashews to rivers and coconut trees. It serves as a captivating introduction to the rich tapestry of Goan culture.
8. **Humorous Anecdotes**: From the hilarious mention of "piggy loos" to other amusing anecdotes scattered throughout the book, Bambawale keeps readers entertained with her light-hearted observations and witty commentary.
9. **Culinary Temptations**: The book tantalizes readers' taste buds with mentions of Goan drinks like "Niro," "feni," and "urak," leaving them longing to experience the flavors of the region firsthand.
10. **Memorable Phrases**: Bambawale's use of colloquial expressions like "Aiz maka, falea tuka" adds an authentic touch to the narrative, eliciting laughter and creating a memorable reading experience.
In conclusion, "Becoming Goan" is a must-read for anyone interested in exploring the vibrant culture and identity of Goa. Bambawale's masterful storytelling, combined with her humor and insight, makes this book a delightful and enriching read from start to finish.
1. **Exploration of Goa's Identity**: Bambawale beautifully encapsulates the essence of Goa, offering readers a comprehensive understanding of what it means to be Goan. From its rich history to its vibrant traditions and customs, the book delves deep into the multifaceted aspects of Goan identity, exploring how both locals and outsiders perceive the region.
2. **Wit and Humor**: One of the standout features of "Becoming Goan" is its witty and humorous tone. Bambawale's writing style is engaging and light-hearted, making even the most complex topics accessible and entertaining for readers.
3. **New Lexicon**: Through the book, readers are introduced to a range of new vocabulary that enriches their understanding of Goan culture. Terms like "poi," "susegad," "saudade," and "falea" become integral parts of the reader's lexicon, adding depth to their appreciation of Goan life.
4. **Fun Facts**: Bambawale peppers the narrative with intriguing fun facts, such as the eligibility for Portuguese citizenship based on ancestral ties to Goa before 1961. These tidbits not only educate readers but also spark curiosity and further exploration.
5. **Khazan Technology**: The book provides valuable insights into lesser-known aspects of Goan life, such as khazan technology and khazan lands, highlighting the region's rich agricultural heritage and innovative practices.
6. **Music and Culture**: Bambawale delves into the music of mandos and the significance of songs like "adeus korchea vellar," offering readers a deeper appreciation for Goan cultural expressions and traditions.
7. **Cover Art**: The cover of "Becoming Goan" is a visual feast, intricately depicting various elements of Goan life, from mangoes and cashews to rivers and coconut trees. It serves as a captivating introduction to the rich tapestry of Goan culture.
8. **Humorous Anecdotes**: From the hilarious mention of "piggy loos" to other amusing anecdotes scattered throughout the book, Bambawale keeps readers entertained with her light-hearted observations and witty commentary.
9. **Culinary Temptations**: The book tantalizes readers' taste buds with mentions of Goan drinks like "Niro," "feni," and "urak," leaving them longing to experience the flavors of the region firsthand.
10. **Memorable Phrases**: Bambawale's use of colloquial expressions like "Aiz maka, falea tuka" adds an authentic touch to the narrative, eliciting laughter and creating a memorable reading experience.
In conclusion, "Becoming Goan" is a must-read for anyone interested in exploring the vibrant culture and identity of Goa. Bambawale's masterful storytelling, combined with her humor and insight, makes this book a delightful and enriching read from start to finish.
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January 6, 2024
In the rhythmic cadence of Siolim's whispering palms and the symphony of its ancient tales, Michelle Mendonça Bambawale's memoir, 'Becoming Goan,' unfurls like an exotic tapestry woven with threads of destiny and the chaotic dance of a world in the grip of the Covid-19 tempest. In the enigmatic embrace of a 160-year-old house, gifted to her in the year 2020, Michelle embarks on an odyssey through the labyrinth of her Goan roots, tracing the footprints left by her ancestors on the sands of time. An outsider in a land steeped in both tradition and transience, Michelle finds herself caught in a lyrical tug-of-war between her lineage and the incessant waves of change crashing upon the Goan shores. The memoir becomes a poignant reflection on identity, a kaleidoscopic journey where each turn reveals new facets of her Goan Catholic heritage, entwined with the rich tapestry of culture, migration, and the profound weight of stereotypes and labels.
Amidst the rustle of Siolim's ancient banyans, the narrative gracefully dances through tales that linger in the air like incense, from the mysterious encounters with St. Anthony and the Snake to the exuberant celebrations of Sao Joao, and the stoic presence of the statue of Beethoven. As she recounts the days of Siolim in the bygone eras of the 1970s and 1980s, Michelle paints a vivid contrast between the simplicity of a rustic past, where water was drawn from a well, and the challenging present, navigating reeking septic tankers and the grotesque presence of plastic refuse.
'Becoming Goan' is a lyrical testimony to Michelle's love affair with the ancestral soil, a heartfelt narrative that transcends time and space. In the shadows of her grandparents' bequest, the memoir becomes a delicate dance with Mother Earth, a passionate plea for the preservation of Goa's biodiversity amid the looming specter of environmental degradation fueled by tourism, construction, and mining.
It is, at its essence, an enchanting symphony that echoes the heartbeat of a changing Goa, where Michelle's words become both the melody and the compass guiding us through the evolving landscapes of her cherished homeland.
Amidst the rustle of Siolim's ancient banyans, the narrative gracefully dances through tales that linger in the air like incense, from the mysterious encounters with St. Anthony and the Snake to the exuberant celebrations of Sao Joao, and the stoic presence of the statue of Beethoven. As she recounts the days of Siolim in the bygone eras of the 1970s and 1980s, Michelle paints a vivid contrast between the simplicity of a rustic past, where water was drawn from a well, and the challenging present, navigating reeking septic tankers and the grotesque presence of plastic refuse.
'Becoming Goan' is a lyrical testimony to Michelle's love affair with the ancestral soil, a heartfelt narrative that transcends time and space. In the shadows of her grandparents' bequest, the memoir becomes a delicate dance with Mother Earth, a passionate plea for the preservation of Goa's biodiversity amid the looming specter of environmental degradation fueled by tourism, construction, and mining.
It is, at its essence, an enchanting symphony that echoes the heartbeat of a changing Goa, where Michelle's words become both the melody and the compass guiding us through the evolving landscapes of her cherished homeland.
February 16, 2024
In India, people always want to know, 'But where is your native place?' 'Where are you from?'.
Becoming Goan by Michelle Mendonca Bambawale.
Non-fiction / Memoir / 276pages
@penguinindia
In this book, the author shares about coming back to her roots-Goa, after having lived 18 years as an expat. She reminisce and reflect on herself, her village, her community and goan rural life over the past few years.
Michelle Mendonca Bambawale born in a goan catholic home describes her relationship with goan lineage as complicated - having never lived full time in goa nor knowing to speak konkani.
The book starts with narrating how the author relocated to goa and found herself torn between 2 worlds - the goan and the outsider. She narrates as to how the relocation changed her priorities, transforming her from an international person to child of soil.
She also shares about the provocations and the eye rolls she received regarding her Goan identity which put her into self doubt.
She shares about the history, the geography, food, culture, celebrations, traditions, way of life in Goan. She also talks of her summer holidays spent in goa dating back to 1970s-80s.
She also talks about the downside of living in goan - how hard it is to maintain the house and putting up with shortages of water and electricity in Siolim.
Lastly she talks about how the Goan essence is fast fading.
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#bookreview
This book is like part Travelogue and part Memoir. The author's writing style is very gripping and the short chapters makes it a fast paced read. I love how she takes us through the goan life and reveals the lesser known aspects of the same. I like how she beautifully describes the goan history and society and all that is Goa. This book made me miss my ancestral home.
The book also has few black and white photos of authors family and village house.
Altogether a good pick for those who enjoy Travelogues and Memoirs.
Becoming Goan by Michelle Mendonca Bambawale.
Non-fiction / Memoir / 276pages
@penguinindia
In this book, the author shares about coming back to her roots-Goa, after having lived 18 years as an expat. She reminisce and reflect on herself, her village, her community and goan rural life over the past few years.
Michelle Mendonca Bambawale born in a goan catholic home describes her relationship with goan lineage as complicated - having never lived full time in goa nor knowing to speak konkani.
The book starts with narrating how the author relocated to goa and found herself torn between 2 worlds - the goan and the outsider. She narrates as to how the relocation changed her priorities, transforming her from an international person to child of soil.
She also shares about the provocations and the eye rolls she received regarding her Goan identity which put her into self doubt.
She shares about the history, the geography, food, culture, celebrations, traditions, way of life in Goan. She also talks of her summer holidays spent in goa dating back to 1970s-80s.
She also talks about the downside of living in goan - how hard it is to maintain the house and putting up with shortages of water and electricity in Siolim.
Lastly she talks about how the Goan essence is fast fading.
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#bookreview
This book is like part Travelogue and part Memoir. The author's writing style is very gripping and the short chapters makes it a fast paced read. I love how she takes us through the goan life and reveals the lesser known aspects of the same. I like how she beautifully describes the goan history and society and all that is Goa. This book made me miss my ancestral home.
The book also has few black and white photos of authors family and village house.
Altogether a good pick for those who enjoy Travelogues and Memoirs.
March 1, 2024
I was inspired to read this book, because I saw it on the gram. And of course it had a very interesting blurb, besides the very beautiful cover illustration.
The author has based her experiences around her home in Siolim ( North Goa), and although I have visited Goa a few times, I have been to this place only once in passing. It is definitely on my list next time, Just to visit my Patron Saint Anthony's Church, which is quite famous there.
Once famous for its beaches and relaxing atmosphere, these days its not so, this is from own experience on my last visit, where my Goan friend told us its getting worse.
In her memoir, the author takes us to the past, the Portuguese Rule, the many customs and legends of Goa. I even came to know how some mangoes were named :), which I was not quite aware of.
I was very interested in the chapter, 'And then the North was sold' - not going deep into it, but that is the truth, you might be a stranger in your own town with all that is happening.
Very aptly the author has referred to the lyrics 'paving paradise to put up a parking lot'.
Managing a house in Goa is not an easy task, as the author says and what I have heard to be true.
The house she inherited, the mango and coconut trees, the variety of flora all needs to be taken care of. Things happen at their own speed here, there is no point of rushing.
Her list of Go-To places in Goa, are something to make note of.
And the image (unable to share)which is captured so aptly in the epilogue, Will the Siolim landscape look like this soon? something to think about.
Lastly she has ended this book with a very notable quote by by Mumbai High Court Justice G.S. Patel (2017) about Goa. (You got to read the book to know it all)
There is always something new to know about Goa, and I already have some things which I look forward to on my next trip.
Do pick up the book, if you love virtual travel or know more about the history, the culture of the Goan Community.
The author has based her experiences around her home in Siolim ( North Goa), and although I have visited Goa a few times, I have been to this place only once in passing. It is definitely on my list next time, Just to visit my Patron Saint Anthony's Church, which is quite famous there.
Once famous for its beaches and relaxing atmosphere, these days its not so, this is from own experience on my last visit, where my Goan friend told us its getting worse.
In her memoir, the author takes us to the past, the Portuguese Rule, the many customs and legends of Goa. I even came to know how some mangoes were named :), which I was not quite aware of.
I was very interested in the chapter, 'And then the North was sold' - not going deep into it, but that is the truth, you might be a stranger in your own town with all that is happening.
Very aptly the author has referred to the lyrics 'paving paradise to put up a parking lot'.
Managing a house in Goa is not an easy task, as the author says and what I have heard to be true.
The house she inherited, the mango and coconut trees, the variety of flora all needs to be taken care of. Things happen at their own speed here, there is no point of rushing.
Her list of Go-To places in Goa, are something to make note of.
And the image (unable to share)which is captured so aptly in the epilogue, Will the Siolim landscape look like this soon? something to think about.
Lastly she has ended this book with a very notable quote by by Mumbai High Court Justice G.S. Patel (2017) about Goa. (You got to read the book to know it all)
There is always something new to know about Goa, and I already have some things which I look forward to on my next trip.
Do pick up the book, if you love virtual travel or know more about the history, the culture of the Goan Community.
January 25, 2024
"Becoming Goan" by Michelle Mendonça Bambawale delves into Michelle's intricate relationship with her Goan Catholic heritage, exploring themes of identity, culture, migration, and the challenge of fitting into a community where she grapples with the insider-outsider dichotomy.
Through captivating storytelling, the author transports readers to a Goa of the 1970s and 1980s, vividly contrasting the past with the contemporary challenges of the present.
Michelle's writing style is both heartfelt and charming. She skillfully combines historical and geographical insights with personal experiences, making the exploration of Goa's history, politics, traditions, and struggles engaging and accessible. The blend of facts and anecdotes creates a narrative that is not only informative but also emotionally resonant.
Readers will appreciate the author's dedication to environmental concerns, lamenting the impact of tourism, construction, and mining on Goa's biodiversity. This memoir goes beyond being a personal journey; it becomes a call for environmental awareness rooted in the author's newfound understanding of her traditions.
I am one of the people that the author points the finger at for being just a tourist — “All we want to do in Goa is go to the shacks, lie on those beach loungers, drink chilled Kingfisher, get massages and relax.” This book is recommended for those seeking more than a tourist's perspective.
Michelle's friendly and conversational tone invites readers into her world, sharing not only facts about Goa but also trivia, funny stories, and thoughtful recommendations. The book is a delightful blend of personal reflection and cultural exploration, making it a compelling read for anyone intrigued by the multifaceted beauty of Goa.
Through captivating storytelling, the author transports readers to a Goa of the 1970s and 1980s, vividly contrasting the past with the contemporary challenges of the present.
Michelle's writing style is both heartfelt and charming. She skillfully combines historical and geographical insights with personal experiences, making the exploration of Goa's history, politics, traditions, and struggles engaging and accessible. The blend of facts and anecdotes creates a narrative that is not only informative but also emotionally resonant.
Readers will appreciate the author's dedication to environmental concerns, lamenting the impact of tourism, construction, and mining on Goa's biodiversity. This memoir goes beyond being a personal journey; it becomes a call for environmental awareness rooted in the author's newfound understanding of her traditions.
I am one of the people that the author points the finger at for being just a tourist — “All we want to do in Goa is go to the shacks, lie on those beach loungers, drink chilled Kingfisher, get massages and relax.” This book is recommended for those seeking more than a tourist's perspective.
Michelle's friendly and conversational tone invites readers into her world, sharing not only facts about Goa but also trivia, funny stories, and thoughtful recommendations. The book is a delightful blend of personal reflection and cultural exploration, making it a compelling read for anyone intrigued by the multifaceted beauty of Goa.
March 15, 2025
-In Search of a Home-
Review of 'Becoming Goan'
'𝐈𝐧 𝐈𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐚, 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰,'𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞?''𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦?'𝐈𝐧 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬,𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐮𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐚 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐫, 𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬, 𝐜𝐨𝐜𝐤𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐥 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐲 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐈 𝐬𝐭𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐫: '𝐈 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐏𝐮𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐰𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐲, 𝐬𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐦𝐞 𝐌𝐚𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐬𝐡𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐧, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐈𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐚𝐧𝐬 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐲 𝐚𝐬 𝐌𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐚𝐥𝐢, 𝐁𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐚𝐥𝐢, 𝐏𝐮𝐧𝐣𝐚𝐛𝐢 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐆𝐮𝐣𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬. 𝐈 𝐠𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭'𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐬. 𝐒𝐨 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐲, 𝐈'𝐦 𝐆𝐨𝐚𝐧.'
Becoming Goan is a coming-home story. After globe-trotting from Mumbai to Dubai to Bangkok to London, Bambawale finally decided to settle down right next to her roots: Goa. Going back to live in her 160 year old home in Siolim, she adopted her identity and settled down to live a Goan life.
But was it easy? Or hard? And if so, how hard? What were the obstacles? Was she considered a typical Goan by the Goa-born crowd? Or was she labelled a post-pandemic, cash-flush touristy type peep shifting to Goa for some sand, sun and lot of fun?
The author has balanced hunour with exasperation, facts with storytelling style of narration, emotions with simplicity of expression. She etches a picture of a true life in a Goan household, not of a tourist who might hop off to Bali next.
Bambawale is candid and calls a spade a spade. She calls out the ephemeral travelers who are looking out for Portuguese houses to purchase or rent in Goa. She tells them it's all Indian now. She is exasperated by the visitors who feel her time is for theirs to do as they wish. Apart from this, she also underlines some legal issues and a ton of things about this beautiful place.
Go check it.
Review of 'Becoming Goan'
'𝐈𝐧 𝐈𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐚, 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰,'𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞?''𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦?'𝐈𝐧 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬,𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐮𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐚 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐫, 𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬, 𝐜𝐨𝐜𝐤𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐥 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐲 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐈 𝐬𝐭𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐫: '𝐈 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐏𝐮𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐰𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐲, 𝐬𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐦𝐞 𝐌𝐚𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐬𝐡𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐧, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐈𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐚𝐧𝐬 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐲 𝐚𝐬 𝐌𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐚𝐥𝐢, 𝐁𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐚𝐥𝐢, 𝐏𝐮𝐧𝐣𝐚𝐛𝐢 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐆𝐮𝐣𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬. 𝐈 𝐠𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭'𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐬. 𝐒𝐨 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐲, 𝐈'𝐦 𝐆𝐨𝐚𝐧.'
Becoming Goan is a coming-home story. After globe-trotting from Mumbai to Dubai to Bangkok to London, Bambawale finally decided to settle down right next to her roots: Goa. Going back to live in her 160 year old home in Siolim, she adopted her identity and settled down to live a Goan life.
But was it easy? Or hard? And if so, how hard? What were the obstacles? Was she considered a typical Goan by the Goa-born crowd? Or was she labelled a post-pandemic, cash-flush touristy type peep shifting to Goa for some sand, sun and lot of fun?
The author has balanced hunour with exasperation, facts with storytelling style of narration, emotions with simplicity of expression. She etches a picture of a true life in a Goan household, not of a tourist who might hop off to Bali next.
Bambawale is candid and calls a spade a spade. She calls out the ephemeral travelers who are looking out for Portuguese houses to purchase or rent in Goa. She tells them it's all Indian now. She is exasperated by the visitors who feel her time is for theirs to do as they wish. Apart from this, she also underlines some legal issues and a ton of things about this beautiful place.
Go check it.
January 22, 2024
Honestly, I read some fascinating facts about Goa and the people of Goa (Goans) of which I was totally unknown before this, having said that, I can’t deny some myths that are been broken as well. Who are Goans actually? Who lives there? Who has their roots there? Who immigrates there and lives? Well, no actual description, or maybe read the book to know the difference between all.
I haven’t read a good number of travelogues to date, only a handful. But either it's my liking or maybe I have a hold onto what travelogues or travel books should be and that is, a writer who visits places, talks to people, observes their culture, tastes their dishes, etc etc, and then writes about it, write about the parts that are mostly unseen, unheard, and unlived to an extent. This book instantly in the very beginning made me envious of how affordable, accessible, and apparent it was for the author. It was not exactly a travel book, coz it was about people more than the place.
There’s no question on how apt the information or writing was, there’s absolutely no doubt how thriving it would be to visit Goa, and even more surreal to live there. But I can’t hug this book as tightly as I would’ve hugged other books, not because I disliked it or anything, but maybe because I have this image of Goans in my mind that they wouldn’t welcome a hug of a non-Goan that nicely. I have come to a conclusion for several reasons- I am from the North, I am missing the connection. I haven’t been to Goa or met a Goan ever. Goan’s lifestyle doesn’t appeal to me in a way that my current lifestyle seem dull.
I haven’t read a good number of travelogues to date, only a handful. But either it's my liking or maybe I have a hold onto what travelogues or travel books should be and that is, a writer who visits places, talks to people, observes their culture, tastes their dishes, etc etc, and then writes about it, write about the parts that are mostly unseen, unheard, and unlived to an extent. This book instantly in the very beginning made me envious of how affordable, accessible, and apparent it was for the author. It was not exactly a travel book, coz it was about people more than the place.
There’s no question on how apt the information or writing was, there’s absolutely no doubt how thriving it would be to visit Goa, and even more surreal to live there. But I can’t hug this book as tightly as I would’ve hugged other books, not because I disliked it or anything, but maybe because I have this image of Goans in my mind that they wouldn’t welcome a hug of a non-Goan that nicely. I have come to a conclusion for several reasons- I am from the North, I am missing the connection. I haven’t been to Goa or met a Goan ever. Goan’s lifestyle doesn’t appeal to me in a way that my current lifestyle seem dull.
January 16, 2024
My first book of 2024 is a non-fiction and I couldn't be happier. But becoming Goan is many things rolled into one. It is a local guide, it is a memoir, it is about true identity and it is also about Goa. What happens to someone who has spent a great deal of life outside but keeps returning to their roots and finally parking them at one place and growing them deep? This is Becoming Goan in a line. From the dusty lanes of Siolim to the go to places to eat, Michelle takes us everywhere, leading us lane after lane, coconut tree after coconut tree, to all the beaches and churches and into her drawing room. This is a book about finding your home, making a home, and looking inwards. Sprinkled with personal anecdotes, Michelle walks us to the very heart of Goa with obituary reading habits and largely food. As a person who has travelled across the county and many other countries but never having set foot in Goa, this book unfolded a new world and threw a light that is beyond beaches and feni. This is a book if you want to know what is about finding a home. Read it for a lazy afternoon.
March 9, 2024
Becoming Goa by Michelle Mendonca Bambawale is a delightful memoir that takes you on a journey through the author's Goan roots, rich culture, and the stereotypes associated with Goa. As the pandemic hit in 2020, Michelle and her family returned to Goa to settle in her 160-year-old ancestral house in Siolim, a village in Goa. She vividly describes the challenges she faced in settling into a place that was both foreign and familiar, and how she embraced the rich culture and heritage of Goa.
The book is a treasure trove of information on Goan art, food, festivals, legends, history, and biodiversity. Bambawale's writing is charming, lucid, and filled with a mix of emotions, facts, and humor. Her words provide a unique insight into a side of Goa that is often overlooked.
Although it was an interesting read, I found the pace of the book a bit slow for my liking.
If you're planning a trip to Goa or simply want to immerse yourself in the culture and history of this beautiful region, Becoming Goa is a must-read.
Rating: 3.5/5 🏖️🌊🍹🌴
The book is a treasure trove of information on Goan art, food, festivals, legends, history, and biodiversity. Bambawale's writing is charming, lucid, and filled with a mix of emotions, facts, and humor. Her words provide a unique insight into a side of Goa that is often overlooked.
Although it was an interesting read, I found the pace of the book a bit slow for my liking.
If you're planning a trip to Goa or simply want to immerse yourself in the culture and history of this beautiful region, Becoming Goa is a must-read.
Rating: 3.5/5 🏖️🌊🍹🌴
June 4, 2024
First of all, the cover of this book is really pretty!
Secondly, as a memoir of rediscovering one's heritage, this is a good book.
Thirdly, it grossly misappropriates anthropological theories to map onto Goa, leading to eye roll inducing hypocrisies where a very privileged Goan laments on the state of gentrification in the state. This is despite she herself being a part of the problem, so to speak. Again, it is all natural: but where do you extricate an outsider from a Goan?
Fourthly, I left this book feeling confused. I suppose there isn't really a message, but the theme too is vague. For a book that is so vehemently against tourism, it softens a lot by the end, definitely sells a very romanticised version of Goa and does not seem to represent it any more authentically than the influencers it so hates.
Fifthly, SO MANY generalisations.
Secondly, as a memoir of rediscovering one's heritage, this is a good book.
Thirdly, it grossly misappropriates anthropological theories to map onto Goa, leading to eye roll inducing hypocrisies where a very privileged Goan laments on the state of gentrification in the state. This is despite she herself being a part of the problem, so to speak. Again, it is all natural: but where do you extricate an outsider from a Goan?
Fourthly, I left this book feeling confused. I suppose there isn't really a message, but the theme too is vague. For a book that is so vehemently against tourism, it softens a lot by the end, definitely sells a very romanticised version of Goa and does not seem to represent it any more authentically than the influencers it so hates.
Fifthly, SO MANY generalisations.
January 2, 2024
In "Becoming Goan" by Michelle Bambawale, the author embarks on a poignant journey of self-discovery in the heart of Goa. As she grapples with her Goan Catholic heritage, the memoir unveils a tapestry of identity, culture, and the complex nuances of belonging. Bambawale's narrative beautifully intertwines personal anecdotes with the rich tapestry of Siolim's legends and history, offering readers a heartfelt exploration of her roots and a deeper understanding of the intricate layers that define her connection to this land. I do have to say, that I know the author personally and have been waiting for the release for some time, now that I've read it, I can say without bias, it was well worth the wait!
January 9, 2024
Michelle Mendonça Bambawale's memoir poignantly traces the trials and triumphs of returning to her ancestral homeland of Goa. 'Becoming Goan' is an insider-outsider story that highlights the many identities of the average Goan. She traces each wave of migration and its influence on local Goan culture, environment and society. Of special delight are the local tips she ends the book with — curated around her village of Siolim. This is an easy, accessible read of particular interest to anyone planning a trip to Goa.
January 31, 2025
I bought this book with the hope that the author would be writing about her memoirs, thoughts and feelings of coming back to goa and re-visiting her roots. More of a story. It unfortunately isn’t that, but more of a list and info of what it is to be a goan - culture, land, ecology etc.
At the same time, reading it as a goan, there was a lot which resonated and hit home and was still enjoyable to read.
At the same time, reading it as a goan, there was a lot which resonated and hit home and was still enjoyable to read.
July 24, 2024
3/5
A long rant by a Goan who moved back to an ancestral house in Siolim, Goa during covid & is stunned by the rapid urbanisation wreaking havoc to a susegad Goan life.
It’s filled with Goan food, feni, festivities of all sorts, and also a reminder about Delhiites & north Indians colonising many places of Goa post-covid & destroying the village fabric.
A long rant by a Goan who moved back to an ancestral house in Siolim, Goa during covid & is stunned by the rapid urbanisation wreaking havoc to a susegad Goan life.
It’s filled with Goan food, feni, festivities of all sorts, and also a reminder about Delhiites & north Indians colonising many places of Goa post-covid & destroying the village fabric.
September 5, 2024
The author's homecoming to her place in Siolim. She tackles the social changes happening with the outburst of tourism in Goa and elaborates on the food, feni, religious, music, various other cultural nuances of being Goan. She primarily writes more about her hometown Siolim and autobiographical. The freshness of the book as it's a 2023 one engaged me.
December 24, 2025
Written in a very simple style, this book goes beyond the stereotype of Sun, Sand and Sea and shares the lives of people who live year around in Goa because it is their home. I suggest that those who visit Goa for a holiday dip into this book to understand the land and its people. Definitely recommend it for this who want to move here.
September 8, 2025
i've lived in goa for 5 years. i'm a 'settler', the pandemic mover, the delhi escapist, and the goa sentimentalist. this book is nice and indulgent if you're the same archetype as me. quick breezy read, can be skimmed.
March 17, 2024
A beautiful, thoughtful, illustrated, dive into the most beautiful corner of India, Goa. Look out for me in the chapter on drinking!
October 21, 2024
It was a tough read
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