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Aloneness to Oneness: 22 Life Lessons to Change the Way You See the World

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“I am god, but so are you, and so is everyone else.” — Aloneness to Oneness

Based on the award-winning film that impacted the lives of over 3 million people, this book is a road map toward rediscovering the truth of our infinite nature and infinite potential.

Are you happy? Are you wake-up-and-jump-for-joy happy? On a Monday morning?


It's easy to think we're happy when we have our phones out, eating or drinking our favorite things, listening to a podcast or watching TV. But how long can you sit with yourself? 5 minutes? 20? Can you be happy and content after an hour? This is how we find the true measure of our inner happiness.

We think happiness is a house, spouse, kids, cars and vacations. But how many people have those things and are still unhappy? It’s not the goals that matter, it’s the process. This book shares the 22 most important life lessons Todd Perelmuter discovered on his 9-year journey around the world living with monks, gurus, shamans and tribes. It contains the secrets for maintaining true happiness and deep inner peace in an ever-increasing chaotic world.

Albert Einstein once remarked, “Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better.” If we want to truly get to the root cause of our unhappiness, we need to look deeper than any microscope and farther than any telescope has ever done. This book is that explorative journey to the deepest depths of who we truly are. The closer we look, the more the veil of separateness disappears, the illusion of duality falls away, and we can bask in the oneness of this loving universe.

In this book, Todd to experience everyday ordinary life as if you are seeing the Aurora BorealisHow to disidentify with your thoughts, not give power to your thoughts, and tap into your higher wisdom as the watcher of your thoughtsWhy death is not the endHow to discover the God/universe withinHow to free yourself from the mind-made prison of thoughtsHow to go from the false perception of separateness, division and loneliness, into onenessHow to embrace the great unknownThe meaning and purpose of lifeHow not to let bad times break us and how to find peace in the inevitable messiness of lifeThe free way to a stress-free, peaceful and happy life
Einstein also observed, “We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.” If we wish to lift ourselves up from the mental activity that drags us down, we will not be able to do so by thinking our way out of it. We will need to fundamentally change how we see the world, how we see ourselves, and how we see our relationship to the universe around us.

This book is a blueprint for stepping out of our separate, small, lonely existence; and into the infinite, eternal oneness of the universe. Only when we live in duality does greed, jealousy, hatred, competition and comparison arise. When we become one, only love remains.

272 pages, Kindle Edition

Published February 19, 2024

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Todd Perelmuter

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NYC Chief Creative Officer | City Monk
• Author of Aloneness to Oneness & 10 other books
• Host of Path to Peace with Todd Perelmuter Podcast www.eastwesticism.org

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April 12, 2024
If you're in the mood to switch things up in your head and in your daily routine, this is a nice read. Not every "lesson" resonates right now but lots of the messaging is quite meaningful and inspirational and future me might appreciate some of the lessons that don't hit home at the moment.

I find the author's videos give plenty of food for thought as well.

https://www.youtube.com/@ToddPerelmuter

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August 20, 2024
an incredibly helpful book

Todd writes with an amazing clarity and directness. Through chapter after chapter he emphasises the main point that stillness is the key to happiness; that our world, so full of noise and chaos, is not the true reality, despite what most of us believe, and that the only way to knowing lasting happiness is to become aware of that inner peace and spaciousness. I thoroughly recommend this book to all seekers after truth and real happiness.
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April 28, 2025
Beautiful, thoughtful, inspiring!

I love that Todd teaches & shares his experience & insight from such a beautiful, spiritual path that he’s chosen to walk. This book is definitely one of the best that has touched me deeply. Thanks for sharing your words of love with the world Todd. Your words provide a real sense of comfort & peace for me.
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March 3, 2024
This book is life changing and so needed in our modern chaotic world. The deep peace felt emanating from every word transcends the beautiful message of this book. Can’t recommend it enough.
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