Memoirs are not autobiographies but rather a shorter, snapshot look at a particular part of the author's life. The best memoirs are those who capture that segment of life in a beginning, middle, and end. Val Wang, in her memoir, "Beijing Bastard: Into the Wilds of a Changing China", brilliantly writes about her post-collegiate life in Beijing and how she experienced her life changing along with those larger changes within Chinese society at the same time.
Val Wang is the American-born daughter of parents who had emigrated from China to the United States when they were young. The parents - whose own parents bought into the dream of the US - raised Val and her older brother in a traditional home, stressing the values of both education and modest living. But Val didn't want to merely conform to her parents' dreams; she wanted to forge her own. In the late 1990's, after graduating from college, Val moved to Beijing (after a short stint in another Chinese city) to make her way. She wasn't the first post-graduate ex-pat to try living in a foreign country and she surely won't be the last. What Val Wang learned in her five or so year stay in Beijing is the subject of the memoir.
Wang had extended family in Beijing and began her stay in the city living with them. She soon learned that the housing of her relatives definitely wasn't what she was used to in the United States. Quite a bit of the book is about Chinese housing, which is an interesting subject in Val Wang's talented hands. The reader might not know the intricacies of the housing stock and housing market, the first of which took physical blows and the second took financial blows in the pre-2008 rush to make the city ready for the Olympic games. She begins her stay in one home that will be wrecked and ends it in an apartment that may not be waiting long for the wrecking ball.
How does a young woman, who wants to be a film-maker after watching an independent documentary called "Beijing Bastards", make her dream come true. She's somewhat hampered by not having production experience or contacts within the Beijing film crowd, but takes a series of temporary, then permanent jobs with alternative newspapers. She begins shooting a documentary, using borrowed equipment, about a family of actors at the Peking Opera but never completes it; the dynamics between her and the family of performers is not good. Val does "this" and "that", she meets and befriends interesting people, including one woman who lends her a camera and editing equipment. But she realises she's ready to go home to the US after 9/11.
Val Wang had changed in her five years in Beijing and she had watched as the city changed with her. Not much stays the same for either young woman or the city she's adopted. But she's matured and her relationships with her family in the US - once so fraught with misunderstanding - go through a material change. Her memoir is a wonderful look at an extended family and a changing society, as told by a young and talented writer.
By the way, if you're looking for another funny, perceptive, well-written memoir, take a look at Nancy Bachrach's "The Center of the Universe".