Remaking the Space Between Us: How Citizens Can Work Together to Build a Better Future for All

by Diana McLain Smith

Almost 250 years ago, our Founders thought We the People were the solution. Today, it looks like we have become the problem. What happened, and what can We the People do about it?

Every day, the news delivers the same as a nation, we are so divided, we spend more time picking fights than solving our most urgent problems. It's exhausting and exasperating.

In Remaking the Space Between Us, Smith invites us to see what lies behind this a growing trend in which more and more of us are seeking refuge in like-minded groups while distancing from groups different from our own. Although it's a natural response to the uncertainty and adversity of the past fifty years, this trend is fraying our social fabric, poisoning our politics, and weakening the moral foundation upon which our future together rests.

Despite all we are up against, Smith shows why we need not—and why we must not—give up on each other or give into forces so overwhelming they make us feel powerless. Through emotionally affecting stories, Smith recounts how tens of thousands of citizens across the U.S. are working together under the radar to bridge divides, heal our nation, and rebuild our democracy. Each story unearths the power we have to open the space within groups and close the distance across them.

These short, readable essays will inspire and empower you to remake the space between us so we stop fighting against each other to get our own way and start fighting alongside each other to create a future that is better for all.

209 pages, Kindle Edition

Published April 9, 2024

Reviews

[Leah Hortin · Rating 4 out of 5]

Diana McLain Smith's "Remaking the Space Between Us" is a compelling exploration of the deepening divides within American society and a hopeful guide to bridging them. The book is a blend of well-researched historical examples, current events, and emotionally resonant anecdotes that collectively highlight the urgent need for unity and collaboration.Through her essays, Smith illustrates the power of citizens working together to heal these divides and rebuild democracy.

One of the book's strengths lies in its thorough and well-written essays that seamlessly weave together historical and contemporary examples. Smith's research is meticulous, combining studies and personal stories to paint a vivid picture of the issues at hand and the potential solutions. Her writing is accessible and engaging, making complex topics relatable and understandable.

Particularly noteworthy is Smith's introduction to various groups and resources dedicated to bridging the divide, such as Braver Angels and their free e-courses. This practical approach provides readers with actionable steps to get involved in the movement toward unity. The stories of ordinary citizens making extraordinary efforts to connect across differences are both inspiring and empowering.

However, despite the book's many strengths, there is an underlying sense of something missing. Smith offers numerous strategies for individuals to bridge divides, yet there is an implicit expectation that the moderate, rational, and often quiet middle must bear the burden of this effort. This can be deeply unsatisfying for those who struggle to bridge divides on fundamental issues of inclusivity and human rights.

Furthermore, while Smith acknowledges the need for larger institutional and governmental changes, the book's focus remains primarily on grassroots efforts. The modernization of Congress, as highlighted by Kilmer's committee, holds promise, but while the role of media and news in perpetuating divisions is mentioned in one of the essays, I don't find myself optimistic about the efforts mentioned on that front. Without addressing these larger systemic issues, the path to true, lasting change remains incomplete.

"Remaking the Space Between Us" is a thought-provoking and inspiring read that shines a light on the power of citizen-led efforts to heal our nation. Smith's well-crafted essays offer a roadmap for individuals looking to make a difference, but the book also serves as a reminder of the significant work that still needs to be done at institutional and governmental levels. For anyone passionate about building a better future for all, this book is a valuable resource and a call to action.

[Anusha · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a must-read. As the world is becoming increasingly polarized with social media algorithms and a political landscape that is volatile and no longer civil, this book was a ray of hope in how we can become more aligned with one another to solve problems that affect us all. This book outlines issues and examples of people coming together as a community. This book is a great read, especially in a time where news and media make us feel on edge and distrusting of our neighbors as a way to keep people apart and unable to come together to solve problems.

[Drema · Rating 5 out of 5]

I was so lucky to read an ARC of Diana Smith's "Remaking the Space Between Us," which dives into the heart of our divided nation, offering hope through stories of everyday heroes bridging divides. It's a must-read reminder that together, we can reshape our future for the better.

[Lisa Grønsund]

I received an advanced digital copy of this book, courtesy of the author and publisher, via Netgalley, for review consideration.

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[Annie · Rating 5 out of 5]

What a great book for these times we live in. I appreciate that she mentioned organizations we are already doing this work.

[Tricia Friedman · Rating 5 out of 5]

A must read for folks looking for hope