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404 pages, Paperback
First published March 29, 2022
One of the questions I found myself asking scientists most often as I reported on this book was: why has it taken until now for science to investigate [insert obvious thing]? For example: What makes a healthy vaginal ecosystem? How does the menstrual cycle actually work? What is the G-spot, really? . . . and the list goes on. In response, I always heard some version of the phrase: You can’t see what you aren’t looking for. Or: you see what you expect to see. In many ways, this book is about different ways of looking.
There are parts of your own body less known than the bottom of the ocean, or the surface of Mars. Most researchers I talked to blamed this dearth of knowledge on the black-box problem: the female body is more complex, more obscure, with much of its plumbing tucked up inside. To get inside it, we’ve needed high-tech imaging tools, tools that have only come around in the past decade or so. When I heard these answers, I couldn’t help thinking of what science has done in the twenty-first century: put a rover on Mars, made a three-parent baby, built an artificial uterus. And we couldn’t figure out the composition of vaginal mucus?
Our bodies can blind us. But they can also free us to see differently. They can help us bear witness to how a multitude of people, bodies, and perspectives have fallen through the cracks. Only by seeing connections instead of siloes, sameness instead of difference, and the universal inside the particular can we move the science of the female body forward and point the way to a truer, fuller understanding of all bodies.