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Too Young for Cancer: One Woman's Battle for a Diagnosis and a Fighting Chance
A Stage IV cancer survivor reflects on treatment and recovery in this inspiring memoir that reveals the biases of the healthcare system—and the power of community.
New Year's Eve 2020 was supposed to be a turning point to better days for twenty-nine-year-old Katie Coleman. Instead, she found herself in the ER processing the earth-shattering news of a stage IV cancer diagnosis, one that had come after years of being assured she was "too young for cancer” and a repeated misdiagnosis of anxiety.
Too Young for Cancer tells the story of Katie’s journey from diagnosis with an ultrarare cancer through treatment, recovery, and a life-altering shift in perspective. Katie starts her journey shy, timid, and frightened of an intimidating medical world, but as she learns how to advocate for herself, she faces her own mortality with bravery and finds herself at top cancer institutions arguing her case for a radical and high-risk surgery that could change her life forever.
With support from her husband, innovative doctors, and a diverse community of cancer survivors, Katie finds her life’s purpose to advocate not only for herself but also for others who are fighting just as hard for their lives.
Too Young for Cancer highlights the absolute best and worst in healthcare and uncovers the silver linings and beauty of humanity filling the space in between.
New Year's Eve 2020 was supposed to be a turning point to better days for twenty-nine-year-old Katie Coleman. Instead, she found herself in the ER processing the earth-shattering news of a stage IV cancer diagnosis, one that had come after years of being assured she was "too young for cancer” and a repeated misdiagnosis of anxiety.
Too Young for Cancer tells the story of Katie’s journey from diagnosis with an ultrarare cancer through treatment, recovery, and a life-altering shift in perspective. Katie starts her journey shy, timid, and frightened of an intimidating medical world, but as she learns how to advocate for herself, she faces her own mortality with bravery and finds herself at top cancer institutions arguing her case for a radical and high-risk surgery that could change her life forever.
With support from her husband, innovative doctors, and a diverse community of cancer survivors, Katie finds her life’s purpose to advocate not only for herself but also for others who are fighting just as hard for their lives.
Too Young for Cancer highlights the absolute best and worst in healthcare and uncovers the silver linings and beauty of humanity filling the space in between.
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Published November 12, 2024
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October 2, 2024
I received a free copy of, Too Young for Cancer, by Katie Coleman, from the publisher and Netgalley in exchange for an honest review. I have known a lot of people younger then Mrs, Coleman, who have been diagnosed with cancer at 29. Cancer does not discriminate, anybody any age can get it, its such a horrible disease, I have lost way to many families members due to cancer. This is an interesting view on on ladies cancer journey.
January 5, 2025
In Too Young for Cancer, Katie Coleman writes about her diagnosis at age 29 with metastatic (stage IV) renal oncocytoma, an extremely rare subtype of kidney cancer, at the middle of the COVID pandemic, and her subsequent diagnostic and treatment journey. Oncocytomas are generally slow-growing, and it took over a year for Coleman to be diagnosed as many healthcare providers dismissed her nonspecific cluster of symptoms given her young age, and unfortunately by the time of her diagnosis, the disease had spread from her kidney to her liver, which is extremely rare behavior for oncocytomas. Coleman's treatment journey thus far has involved care at three different prominent cancer hospitals, including surgical removal of her primary tumor and surgical excision or radioablation of liver metastases, and she remains on active monitoring.
This is a very heartfelt and emotional memoir - Coleman definitely wears her heart on her sleeve as she talks about coming to terms with her diagnosis, struggling to get answers about her long-term prognosis and juggling multiple treatment opinions, and, along with her husband, navigating the challenges of being newly married and reconciling their visions for the future as their lives are uprooted by Coleman's diagnosis. As her journey progresses, Coleman also develops close friendships with others in the rare cancer community, which does much to change her perspective from internally-focused and doom-scrolling to optimistic and seeking ways to give back (which I was really happy to read).
As an MD whose work centers around cancer patients (but in a largely non-patient facing way), reading this book was a good reminder for me of how challenging and scary it can be for those outside the healthcare system who've received a life-altering diagnosis to come to terms with it psychologically and make decisions based on the best information they have. A few years ago one of my immediate family members received a similarly scary cancer diagnosis, and I'm very grateful I was able to help explain and navigate the process with them as an "insider" of sorts (though the experience was still challenging and scary for us), knowing that most cancer patients don't have access to a healthcare insider in their family or close friend circle. Every cancer patient deserves a strong and knowledgeable advocate, and I'm glad that Coleman learned how to advocate for herself and found allies from inside and outside the healthcare system along the way.
Further reading: cancer memoirs (from people both inside and outside the healthcare system)
Between Two Kingdoms: A Memoir of a Life Interrupted by Suleika Jaouad
When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi, MD
The Bright Hour: A Memoir of Living and Dying by Nina Riggs
The Unwinding of the Miracle: A Memoir of Life, Death, and Everything That Comes After by Julie Yip-Williams
The Undying by Anne Boyer
Chasing Daylight: How My Forthcoming Death Transformed My Life by Eugene O'Kelly
Twisting Fate: My Journey with BRCA―from Breast Cancer Doctor to Patient and Back by Pamela Munster, MD
Red Sunshine: A Story of Strength and Inspiration from a Doctor Who Survived Stage 3 Breast Cancer by Kimberly Allison, MD
A Fatal Inheritance: How a Family Misfortune Revealed a Deadly Medical Mystery by Lawrence Ingrassia
The Death of Cancer: After Fifty Years on the Front Lines of Medicine, a Pioneering Oncologist Reveals Why the War on Cancer Is Winnable--and How We Can Get There by Vincent DeVita, MD
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This is a very heartfelt and emotional memoir - Coleman definitely wears her heart on her sleeve as she talks about coming to terms with her diagnosis, struggling to get answers about her long-term prognosis and juggling multiple treatment opinions, and, along with her husband, navigating the challenges of being newly married and reconciling their visions for the future as their lives are uprooted by Coleman's diagnosis. As her journey progresses, Coleman also develops close friendships with others in the rare cancer community, which does much to change her perspective from internally-focused and doom-scrolling to optimistic and seeking ways to give back (which I was really happy to read).
As an MD whose work centers around cancer patients (but in a largely non-patient facing way), reading this book was a good reminder for me of how challenging and scary it can be for those outside the healthcare system who've received a life-altering diagnosis to come to terms with it psychologically and make decisions based on the best information they have. A few years ago one of my immediate family members received a similarly scary cancer diagnosis, and I'm very grateful I was able to help explain and navigate the process with them as an "insider" of sorts (though the experience was still challenging and scary for us), knowing that most cancer patients don't have access to a healthcare insider in their family or close friend circle. Every cancer patient deserves a strong and knowledgeable advocate, and I'm glad that Coleman learned how to advocate for herself and found allies from inside and outside the healthcare system along the way.
Further reading: cancer memoirs (from people both inside and outside the healthcare system)
Between Two Kingdoms: A Memoir of a Life Interrupted by Suleika Jaouad
When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi, MD
The Bright Hour: A Memoir of Living and Dying by Nina Riggs
The Unwinding of the Miracle: A Memoir of Life, Death, and Everything That Comes After by Julie Yip-Williams
The Undying by Anne Boyer
Chasing Daylight: How My Forthcoming Death Transformed My Life by Eugene O'Kelly
Twisting Fate: My Journey with BRCA―from Breast Cancer Doctor to Patient and Back by Pamela Munster, MD
Red Sunshine: A Story of Strength and Inspiration from a Doctor Who Survived Stage 3 Breast Cancer by Kimberly Allison, MD
A Fatal Inheritance: How a Family Misfortune Revealed a Deadly Medical Mystery by Lawrence Ingrassia
The Death of Cancer: After Fifty Years on the Front Lines of Medicine, a Pioneering Oncologist Reveals Why the War on Cancer Is Winnable--and How We Can Get There by Vincent DeVita, MD
My statistics:
Book 5 for 2025
Book 1931 cumulatively
November 12, 2024
What an emotional roller coaster! I am a spousal caregiver to a husband who had a rare cancer that was diagnosed in stage 4, who was also diagnosed very young. That is what intrigued me about reading this author's story and memoir! I really loved how she put her authentic self into it and shared her experiences and frustrations with the medical field, trust me...I understand! I know her husband has to be an angel, as I can relate to him as the caregiver! The biggest takeaway from this book is to start living life NOW, not when you get a scary diagnosis!
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for this ARC in exchange for my honest opinion.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for this ARC in exchange for my honest opinion.
June 28, 2024
I was lucky enough to receive an advance readers copy of this exceptional book from Katie. While Katie and myself have a different diagnosis, we were both diagnosed at a similar age with kidney cancer with larger tumors.
Too Young For Cancer is a perfect representation of what the process is like getting a life altering diagnosis being a young adult. There are too many factors to list, but Katie does an excellent job navigating those tough and honest conversations with not only her doctors but friends and family as well.
Everyone thinks they know what they would do, but the truth is they don’t. Katie is able to bring a first hand account of the extremely hard reality presented to not only her, but her husband and family and close friends as well.
Cancer spares no one, and this is highlighted in the book. I have looked since my diagnosis for books that capture what this “feeling” is like, and Katie’s is nothing short of a perfect representation of this life changing experience.
I would highly recommend this book to anyone that has been touched by cancer, whether you are a patient, caregiver, or know someone who is battling cancer. This is an up close view of what a diagnosis looks like.
Too Young For Cancer is a perfect representation of what the process is like getting a life altering diagnosis being a young adult. There are too many factors to list, but Katie does an excellent job navigating those tough and honest conversations with not only her doctors but friends and family as well.
Everyone thinks they know what they would do, but the truth is they don’t. Katie is able to bring a first hand account of the extremely hard reality presented to not only her, but her husband and family and close friends as well.
Cancer spares no one, and this is highlighted in the book. I have looked since my diagnosis for books that capture what this “feeling” is like, and Katie’s is nothing short of a perfect representation of this life changing experience.
I would highly recommend this book to anyone that has been touched by cancer, whether you are a patient, caregiver, or know someone who is battling cancer. This is an up close view of what a diagnosis looks like.
September 16, 2024
Katie talks about her cancer journey. From the diagnosis to the treatment and everything in between an emotional read.
January 15, 2025
As a nurse who works in oncology I loved this book. It gives her prescriptive on her rare cancer and all she went through, and you feel all the emotions she does
November 23, 2024
I received a digital ARC in exchange for an honest review.
Coleman's memoir of being diagnosed with an extremely rare form of kidney cancer in her late twenties is conversational and warm. She details her journey from being diagnosed to choosing a cancer treatment center, her experiences with treatment, and her relationships with found support systems through online forums for those with kidney cancers. Given her young age, the memoir also touches on Coleman's life as a newlywed and her early career. While I enjoyed the memoir overall, there were many places where the book could have been better edited for clarity - I often found myself rereading sentences and passages due to poor grammar and other issues.
Coleman's memoir of being diagnosed with an extremely rare form of kidney cancer in her late twenties is conversational and warm. She details her journey from being diagnosed to choosing a cancer treatment center, her experiences with treatment, and her relationships with found support systems through online forums for those with kidney cancers. Given her young age, the memoir also touches on Coleman's life as a newlywed and her early career. While I enjoyed the memoir overall, there were many places where the book could have been better edited for clarity - I often found myself rereading sentences and passages due to poor grammar and other issues.
July 24, 2024
I have just finished reading an advance copy of my good friend's book "Too Young for Cancer: One Woman's Battle for a Diagnosis and a Fighting Chance." Why are Katie Coleman and I good friends despite being hundreds of miles away from each other, having only met twice, a great age variance, and at first, very little in common? It's because we both have a Stage 4 Renal Cell Carcinoma and are Warriors fighting not only to live with this disease but thrive.
Katie gives us all hope that having Stage 4 RCC is not a death sentence but an opportunity to live and feel like every day is a blessing. Katie bravely overcomes
her fears and fights to live and also explains that it is truly a journey and takes a lot of effort and a great support network like Katie's husband Brian, her family and friends, and her FB Communities. Katie's book provides a very open and honest view of her journey with this disease from diagnosis until a plan of action that is going to keep Katie alive for many more years.
While there are many books from older cancer patients about their personal journey with cancer (including yours truly), there are very few books from young people that describe the angst, stress, fears, sadness, depression and despair of hearing the news that you have a terminal disease. While the first part of her journey is filled with all these emotions, by the time the reader gets to the end of the book, there are other emotions expressed including hope, zeal, passion to fight and live, new found courage, and strength to not only fight but tame the cancer beast. It is rare to get someone like Katie to open up about their journey and share some of the obstacles she had as a result of challenges she had throughout her life even before diagnosis.
While this book focuses on her rare form of Stage 4 RCC, it is extremely relevant and helpful to anyone suffering from cancer or a similar debilitating disease and fearing they can't overcome the huge challenges in front of them. I can't recommend enough reading Katie's book. You will cry, you will be sad, you will be scared for Katie, but in the end, you will feel confident that Katie is well-positioned to be around for many years fighting her cancer and leaving a legacy behind filled with helping others who are suffering similar fates. You will also feel that if something like this ever happens to you, you too can fight and live. I am very proud of Katie for opening up and sharing her life with us. I know it wasn't easy. I'm certain it is not only cathartic to her, but is going to be helpful to many others. If you are a patient or caregiver of someone dealing with cancer, please read this book.
Katie gives us all hope that having Stage 4 RCC is not a death sentence but an opportunity to live and feel like every day is a blessing. Katie bravely overcomes
her fears and fights to live and also explains that it is truly a journey and takes a lot of effort and a great support network like Katie's husband Brian, her family and friends, and her FB Communities. Katie's book provides a very open and honest view of her journey with this disease from diagnosis until a plan of action that is going to keep Katie alive for many more years.
While there are many books from older cancer patients about their personal journey with cancer (including yours truly), there are very few books from young people that describe the angst, stress, fears, sadness, depression and despair of hearing the news that you have a terminal disease. While the first part of her journey is filled with all these emotions, by the time the reader gets to the end of the book, there are other emotions expressed including hope, zeal, passion to fight and live, new found courage, and strength to not only fight but tame the cancer beast. It is rare to get someone like Katie to open up about their journey and share some of the obstacles she had as a result of challenges she had throughout her life even before diagnosis.
While this book focuses on her rare form of Stage 4 RCC, it is extremely relevant and helpful to anyone suffering from cancer or a similar debilitating disease and fearing they can't overcome the huge challenges in front of them. I can't recommend enough reading Katie's book. You will cry, you will be sad, you will be scared for Katie, but in the end, you will feel confident that Katie is well-positioned to be around for many years fighting her cancer and leaving a legacy behind filled with helping others who are suffering similar fates. You will also feel that if something like this ever happens to you, you too can fight and live. I am very proud of Katie for opening up and sharing her life with us. I know it wasn't easy. I'm certain it is not only cathartic to her, but is going to be helpful to many others. If you are a patient or caregiver of someone dealing with cancer, please read this book.
December 4, 2024
i saw this title at the local bookstore and stopped in my tracks. i didn’t want the health anxiety, but i stumbled upon it on its release day so i thought hmm ok sure. i remember looking for a young adult cancer book when i was diagnosed and finding nothing + i thought i could just donate it to the center when i was done.
i found many aspects relatable. But for the majority, I am lucky enough to not relate. my illness was not terminal or nearly as complicated.
i suppose i read this book less for me and more for the people that i’ve met along my journey. more and more young people are being diagnosed & we are all going to come into contact with someone that needs a hand. listening and learning from these stories is important to become more empathetic helpful etc. hearing patients/survivor’s stories and getting to know them at cancer camps has been such a privilege of mine. Katie’s story is akin to many I’ve heard over the past year. young women’s health struggles are often downplayed and diagnoses are delayed. she talks about the importance of advocating for yourself and getting multiple opinions. never giving up and leaning on those around her. you know stuff like that
i found many aspects relatable. But for the majority, I am lucky enough to not relate. my illness was not terminal or nearly as complicated.
i suppose i read this book less for me and more for the people that i’ve met along my journey. more and more young people are being diagnosed & we are all going to come into contact with someone that needs a hand. listening and learning from these stories is important to become more empathetic helpful etc. hearing patients/survivor’s stories and getting to know them at cancer camps has been such a privilege of mine. Katie’s story is akin to many I’ve heard over the past year. young women’s health struggles are often downplayed and diagnoses are delayed. she talks about the importance of advocating for yourself and getting multiple opinions. never giving up and leaning on those around her. you know stuff like that
November 25, 2024
An essential read for anyone involved in the care of cancer patients.
I was touched by Katie’s story and the depth of emotion she shared with readers. Her experiences renewed my “why” for what I do.
It’s so easy to forget that on the other side of the cancer space from providers are patients who have zero idea what we’re talking about when we throw big words and prognoses with them. Reading about how Katie became an advocate for her own care reminded me how important it is for providers to be willing educators for their patients.
Thank you to NetGalley and Alcove Press for the eARC in exchange for my honest review!
I was touched by Katie’s story and the depth of emotion she shared with readers. Her experiences renewed my “why” for what I do.
It’s so easy to forget that on the other side of the cancer space from providers are patients who have zero idea what we’re talking about when we throw big words and prognoses with them. Reading about how Katie became an advocate for her own care reminded me how important it is for providers to be willing educators for their patients.
Thank you to NetGalley and Alcove Press for the eARC in exchange for my honest review!
December 5, 2024
I would like to start off by thanking netgalley for the arc of this book. This book made me laugh and cry in the best ways possible. Coleman deliciously describes what it is like to be a young person battling a disease that no one wants to hear.
Coleman starts off as shy, insecure about speaking up when all the doctors start speaking at her instead of to her, although thankfully to her supportive family she starts to speak up and advocate for herself. With her husband by her side they can tackle this awful disease.
This book takes you behind the curtain (literally) into healthcare, the ups, and the downs. The humanity and the machinery.
Fans of this is going to hurt is going to love this book as well seeing from a different perspective
Coleman starts off as shy, insecure about speaking up when all the doctors start speaking at her instead of to her, although thankfully to her supportive family she starts to speak up and advocate for herself. With her husband by her side they can tackle this awful disease.
This book takes you behind the curtain (literally) into healthcare, the ups, and the downs. The humanity and the machinery.
Fans of this is going to hurt is going to love this book as well seeing from a different perspective
July 16, 2025
Katie’s story is very different from mine, but a lot of the emotions are the same.
“The only way out is through. The phrase doesn't depict path with no escape routes, which feels like a fitting description. I wasn't choosing to be strong, and my actions certainly didn't feel like strength. Every decision I made was through a pile of tissues and a puddle of tears. I complained, I asked “Why me," and I was terrified every step of the way. The truth is, I wasn't acting out of strength; I was simply trying to survive. When your back is against the wall and the only way out is forward, it doesn't matter how scared you are; you start walking.”
“The only way out is through. The phrase doesn't depict path with no escape routes, which feels like a fitting description. I wasn't choosing to be strong, and my actions certainly didn't feel like strength. Every decision I made was through a pile of tissues and a puddle of tears. I complained, I asked “Why me," and I was terrified every step of the way. The truth is, I wasn't acting out of strength; I was simply trying to survive. When your back is against the wall and the only way out is forward, it doesn't matter how scared you are; you start walking.”
October 7, 2024
Thanks to NetGalley and Alcove Press for the advanced copy of this title in return for an honest review.
I'm not sure I can review this book without making it personal, and I'm not sure I can review it as a book in itself. It's so deeply personal, that to critique it's writing style for instance seems insensitive. So I will instead comment on what I felt when reading it.
I wasn't aware of Katie prior to reading this so had a quick little Google, and her story is impressive - if not always for the good.
In a way, whilst not quite the same, there are some comparisons with my own family cancer story. When my dad was diagnosed with oesophageal cancer in 2017, a nurse told me not to worry, he was young (56), had never drunk or ever smoked. Which seems ironic considering oesophageal cancer is more prevalent in older men who smoke or drink. But cancer doesn't care about that. It doesn't care about your age or fitness level or medical history. And that's what makes it even harder to deal with at times, because you can do all the "right" things, and it'll still come.
As sad as it is, Katie talks about how, whilst doctors want to help you, an increase in patients and a decrease in money means there is a decrease in the time they can spend with you, and quite often serious diagnoses are not given until it is too late. My health condition is not the same as cancer and I am in now way comparing it, however I started to get sick in 2017 and I saw every neurologist, rheumatologist, ophthalmologist, and gastroenterologist I could, but after an initial diagnosis in 2021, it wasn't until 2022 I was finally diagnosed. Initially it was: "could it be stress or anxiety" (always the way), was it about "your weight" (again, every medical problem is down to my weight); "oh yes I get numb legs when I sit on them" (not the same as being temporarily paralysed, but okay), "there's a spot on the cross-section of your spine that looks interesting but we're not going to investigate it further". It's those kind of things, and it makes you feel crazy, like it's all in your head, looking for symptoms that aren't actually there, and so I really felt for Katie.
She has been so open and honest about everything, which can't have been easy to revisit. And no matter how accomplished you are as a writer or wordsmith, it can feel almost impossible to put down your feelings into words. You can describe the symptoms and the diagnosis and the procedures, but to explain the fear and worry and sadness and the whole plethora of other emotions that something like this can cause is almost impossible.
I'm not sure who I would recommend it to. I think on one hand it would really help those living with cancer, to see what can be achieved, but it may also frighten those who are early on in their cancer journey. I would recommend it to loved ones and friends of people with cancer, and definitely those interested in the cancer/medical/caring fields.
You would probably assume it's going to be quite a negative and miserable book given the topic. And yes, it's not always a happy positive read. It is hard and honest and raw and sad. But it also manages to be quite hopeful, amongst all of that, which is a difficult thing to achieve. She's kept all the horrible truthful parts, but shown that it is possible to live well with cancer.
I'm not sure I can review this book without making it personal, and I'm not sure I can review it as a book in itself. It's so deeply personal, that to critique it's writing style for instance seems insensitive. So I will instead comment on what I felt when reading it.
I wasn't aware of Katie prior to reading this so had a quick little Google, and her story is impressive - if not always for the good.
In a way, whilst not quite the same, there are some comparisons with my own family cancer story. When my dad was diagnosed with oesophageal cancer in 2017, a nurse told me not to worry, he was young (56), had never drunk or ever smoked. Which seems ironic considering oesophageal cancer is more prevalent in older men who smoke or drink. But cancer doesn't care about that. It doesn't care about your age or fitness level or medical history. And that's what makes it even harder to deal with at times, because you can do all the "right" things, and it'll still come.
As sad as it is, Katie talks about how, whilst doctors want to help you, an increase in patients and a decrease in money means there is a decrease in the time they can spend with you, and quite often serious diagnoses are not given until it is too late. My health condition is not the same as cancer and I am in now way comparing it, however I started to get sick in 2017 and I saw every neurologist, rheumatologist, ophthalmologist, and gastroenterologist I could, but after an initial diagnosis in 2021, it wasn't until 2022 I was finally diagnosed. Initially it was: "could it be stress or anxiety" (always the way), was it about "your weight" (again, every medical problem is down to my weight); "oh yes I get numb legs when I sit on them" (not the same as being temporarily paralysed, but okay), "there's a spot on the cross-section of your spine that looks interesting but we're not going to investigate it further". It's those kind of things, and it makes you feel crazy, like it's all in your head, looking for symptoms that aren't actually there, and so I really felt for Katie.
She has been so open and honest about everything, which can't have been easy to revisit. And no matter how accomplished you are as a writer or wordsmith, it can feel almost impossible to put down your feelings into words. You can describe the symptoms and the diagnosis and the procedures, but to explain the fear and worry and sadness and the whole plethora of other emotions that something like this can cause is almost impossible.
I'm not sure who I would recommend it to. I think on one hand it would really help those living with cancer, to see what can be achieved, but it may also frighten those who are early on in their cancer journey. I would recommend it to loved ones and friends of people with cancer, and definitely those interested in the cancer/medical/caring fields.
You would probably assume it's going to be quite a negative and miserable book given the topic. And yes, it's not always a happy positive read. It is hard and honest and raw and sad. But it also manages to be quite hopeful, amongst all of that, which is a difficult thing to achieve. She's kept all the horrible truthful parts, but shown that it is possible to live well with cancer.
October 21, 2024
I felt honored and privileged to read about Kaite’s battle with cancer. I felt so much pain at the beginning when she was continually misdiagnosed as having anxiety. I know I have been in very similar situations where I knew something was wrong with me and I kept getting dismissed. Fortunately for me, I needed ended up in Katie’s situation with a very serious/life-threatening disease. I also was so upset during her battle with cancer when healthcare workers did not listen to her when she told them something was wrong.
Katie had to continually advocate for herself throughout her diagnosis and treatment and ask endless questions to ensure she was receiving the best care. Although there were so many aspects of the book that spoke to me but these two are standouts – “It made me wonder how different interactions with physicians, in general, might be if we were granted more time with them.” and “It was the first time a doctor had acknowledged the struggle and delay I’d faced leading up to my diagnosis.” The first talks about the trust that you need to have faith in your physicians especially when dealing with something so serious and unique as Katie’s cancer. You can see the impact of this as Katie develops relationships with her physicians and how it changes from Katie just being a number or a case and more of a person. The other statement is about treating Kaite with respect. Yes, mistakes were made and she wasn’t listened to, but now we are hearing you and we will take care of you.
Another aspect of the book that also touched me was Katie’s relationship with her husband. They had only been married for two months and yet, Katie’s husband stood by her side. It wasn’t perfect and they each had their moments, but their love for each other was undeniable. They are both extra special people.
Lastly, Katie is just amazing. She was afraid and many times didn’t know if she was making the right decisions, but she preserved. She has raised money for cancer research, raised awareness about rare types of cancer, provided guidance and support for others going through similar situations and of course, her book is a major resource for patients and advocates. The book is not only practical but also inspirational.
I loved this book and would encourage everyone to read it. I especially think it would be a great read for healthcare professionals so they can gain some insight into how patients feel and what they experience.
I received a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts and opinions expressed in this review are my own.
#NetGalley, #TwoYoungForCancer, #KatieColeman
Katie had to continually advocate for herself throughout her diagnosis and treatment and ask endless questions to ensure she was receiving the best care. Although there were so many aspects of the book that spoke to me but these two are standouts – “It made me wonder how different interactions with physicians, in general, might be if we were granted more time with them.” and “It was the first time a doctor had acknowledged the struggle and delay I’d faced leading up to my diagnosis.” The first talks about the trust that you need to have faith in your physicians especially when dealing with something so serious and unique as Katie’s cancer. You can see the impact of this as Katie develops relationships with her physicians and how it changes from Katie just being a number or a case and more of a person. The other statement is about treating Kaite with respect. Yes, mistakes were made and she wasn’t listened to, but now we are hearing you and we will take care of you.
Another aspect of the book that also touched me was Katie’s relationship with her husband. They had only been married for two months and yet, Katie’s husband stood by her side. It wasn’t perfect and they each had their moments, but their love for each other was undeniable. They are both extra special people.
Lastly, Katie is just amazing. She was afraid and many times didn’t know if she was making the right decisions, but she preserved. She has raised money for cancer research, raised awareness about rare types of cancer, provided guidance and support for others going through similar situations and of course, her book is a major resource for patients and advocates. The book is not only practical but also inspirational.
I loved this book and would encourage everyone to read it. I especially think it would be a great read for healthcare professionals so they can gain some insight into how patients feel and what they experience.
I received a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts and opinions expressed in this review are my own.
#NetGalley, #TwoYoungForCancer, #KatieColeman
July 15, 2025
Be Your Own Best Advocate
The author, Katie Coleman wasn't feeling well. Yet to me, and unfortunately to a couple of doctors she saw, her complaints seemed rather vague except for abdominal pain. She was still able to work and live her life and abdominal pain can be many things -- many of which aren't serious. It could have been menstrual cramps, food poisoning, irritable bowel syndrome, acid reflux, a stomach virus or parasite. Or, given that she admitted to anxiety, it COULD have been that. Also, her doctor told her it most likely wasn't cancer, she was "too young." Except, she wasn't! Even children get cancer, infants on up unfortunately. Katie was ultimately diagnosed with a very rare form of kidney cancer -- and it had metastasized to the liver, making it stage IV.
We know ourselves better than anyone, but when we are younger, sometimes things happen that make us question whether that is true. Women especially have been taught through history, they shouldn't "rock the boat" or be opinionated or outspoken. We have been taught many times that authority figures know best and even some doctors have tended to see us as "nervous," "worry warts" or see our medical concerns as being psychosomatic in nature. Thankfully that has improved a lot over the years but we should all learn to be our own best advocate and if we feel something just doesn't feel right, get a second or third opinion and be assertive in asking for what you need because you just may help save your own life in doing so. If you're wrong and they order tests and find nothing, that's great. But if they DO find a serious issue, early treatment is best!
This book pretty much focuses solely on cancer (as the title indicates) and Katie and her husband Brian's pursuit of testing, where to go for treatment, which doctor to go with, treatment protocol , Katie's fears and emotions which are pretty typical I'd say; and where they were going to settle to build their lives together. And although her cancer is rare, the book itself is quite matter of fact.
I wish there had been a little more about their families. Katie mentions at one point that she and her mom had some relationship difficulties in "the past year" but they sort of feel like imaginary friends or mere acquaintances. The reader doesn't know whether mother and daughter are back on track. Katie also mentions having PTSD, but the reader has no idea what happened. Perhaps it is just too painful and personal! Brian's parents are mentioned even less. No siblings are talked about.
It was a pretty average read. Nothing too emotional, exciting despite the serious diagnosis.
The author, Katie Coleman wasn't feeling well. Yet to me, and unfortunately to a couple of doctors she saw, her complaints seemed rather vague except for abdominal pain. She was still able to work and live her life and abdominal pain can be many things -- many of which aren't serious. It could have been menstrual cramps, food poisoning, irritable bowel syndrome, acid reflux, a stomach virus or parasite. Or, given that she admitted to anxiety, it COULD have been that. Also, her doctor told her it most likely wasn't cancer, she was "too young." Except, she wasn't! Even children get cancer, infants on up unfortunately. Katie was ultimately diagnosed with a very rare form of kidney cancer -- and it had metastasized to the liver, making it stage IV.
We know ourselves better than anyone, but when we are younger, sometimes things happen that make us question whether that is true. Women especially have been taught through history, they shouldn't "rock the boat" or be opinionated or outspoken. We have been taught many times that authority figures know best and even some doctors have tended to see us as "nervous," "worry warts" or see our medical concerns as being psychosomatic in nature. Thankfully that has improved a lot over the years but we should all learn to be our own best advocate and if we feel something just doesn't feel right, get a second or third opinion and be assertive in asking for what you need because you just may help save your own life in doing so. If you're wrong and they order tests and find nothing, that's great. But if they DO find a serious issue, early treatment is best!
This book pretty much focuses solely on cancer (as the title indicates) and Katie and her husband Brian's pursuit of testing, where to go for treatment, which doctor to go with, treatment protocol , Katie's fears and emotions which are pretty typical I'd say; and where they were going to settle to build their lives together. And although her cancer is rare, the book itself is quite matter of fact.
I wish there had been a little more about their families. Katie mentions at one point that she and her mom had some relationship difficulties in "the past year" but they sort of feel like imaginary friends or mere acquaintances. The reader doesn't know whether mother and daughter are back on track. Katie also mentions having PTSD, but the reader has no idea what happened. Perhaps it is just too painful and personal! Brian's parents are mentioned even less. No siblings are talked about.
It was a pretty average read. Nothing too emotional, exciting despite the serious diagnosis.
September 9, 2024
I received an e-book copy, thanks to Netgalley and the publisher.
I am very thankful to God that no one in my immediate family has had cancer. But I worked for nearly 28 years in a clinical oncology medical office as a paper pusher, and I heard many cancer stories over the years. Most importantly, especially in the context of having read this book, my doctor boss had a simple yet profound philosophy of practicing medicine. "Always believe your patient." Alas, Katie was not believed for far too long, her symptoms dismissed as "anxiety," and one can only speculate how things might have gone differently if the cancer was caught earlier. Thankfully, her current status is "no evidence of disease." I don't know what the prognosis for future recurrence might be, and since her cancer type is extremely rare, apparently the doctors, as good as they are, don't know either. But along the way Katie has learned to advocate for herself and has acquired many supportive friends in support groups.
Katie's experience with the healthcare system is, sadly, becoming the norm in the US. It's even worse for veterans who get their care in the VA system (I have friends in that category and it's frankly a miracle that they're still alive) and worst of all (among the ones I know something about) is the British national health "service." I have a cousin in Wales who is not getting adequate care at all for his multiple medical challenges. I am convinced that if Katie had had to get her care from the VA or the British system she would not have survived. Fortunately for her, the US system with all its flaws is still the best in the world. I can only imagine that those folks who advocate for us to switch over to something like the British system have no idea what that would mean for folks like Katie with difficult-to-diagnose-and-treat conditions.
I am very thankful to God that no one in my immediate family has had cancer. But I worked for nearly 28 years in a clinical oncology medical office as a paper pusher, and I heard many cancer stories over the years. Most importantly, especially in the context of having read this book, my doctor boss had a simple yet profound philosophy of practicing medicine. "Always believe your patient." Alas, Katie was not believed for far too long, her symptoms dismissed as "anxiety," and one can only speculate how things might have gone differently if the cancer was caught earlier. Thankfully, her current status is "no evidence of disease." I don't know what the prognosis for future recurrence might be, and since her cancer type is extremely rare, apparently the doctors, as good as they are, don't know either. But along the way Katie has learned to advocate for herself and has acquired many supportive friends in support groups.
Katie's experience with the healthcare system is, sadly, becoming the norm in the US. It's even worse for veterans who get their care in the VA system (I have friends in that category and it's frankly a miracle that they're still alive) and worst of all (among the ones I know something about) is the British national health "service." I have a cousin in Wales who is not getting adequate care at all for his multiple medical challenges. I am convinced that if Katie had had to get her care from the VA or the British system she would not have survived. Fortunately for her, the US system with all its flaws is still the best in the world. I can only imagine that those folks who advocate for us to switch over to something like the British system have no idea what that would mean for folks like Katie with difficult-to-diagnose-and-treat conditions.
November 21, 2024
Massive appreciation to the author/publisher/NetGalley for the advanced copy. Below are my honest opinions.
Being diagnosed with stage 4 cancer is the last thing most young adults expect to hear, but that is exactly what Katie Coleman heard on New Year's Eve 2020. To add insult to injury, there was a possibility of the cancer being caught earlier, except Katie was repeatedly told it was just anxiety. A new wife, during a pandemic, and now fighting against the clock to save her life, Katie details her harrowing journey of her treatment and (thankfully) her recovery from an ultrarare cancer. And throughout this journey, Katie finds that the greatest threat against succumbing to the perils of her disease is a strong, loving community.
Incredible. Simply incredible. Katie expertly wove her story in a way that the reader felt as if they were the ones fighting this disease. And when it just seemed like answers and hope were out of reach, a reader was invited to share in Katie's sorrow and grief.
I personally related to the story as someone that has actually been told the opposite - not too young for cancer, but more suspectable to it. My grandmother was a 10-year breast cancer survivor and most of the women in my family now carry the cancer gene. In 2019, I found a lump in my breast and was immediately sent for an ultrasound, mammogram, and biopsy (also at Huntsman, funny enough). Thankfully, it was benign, but it was a reality check I needed.
How Katie managed to not just rage against the healthcare system that so easily dismissed her symptoms and concerns will always be an enigma. But I am so relieved that not only has her cancer not experienced new growth, but that Katie found her voice and learned how to advocate for herself. Katie's bravery and strength is inspiring to everyone. And I wish her nothing but the best.
Oh, and for someone that claimed not to be a writer, she could have fooled me. I loved her style, tone, and voice. I felt like I was catching up with a friend. I would love to read more from her in the future.
Being diagnosed with stage 4 cancer is the last thing most young adults expect to hear, but that is exactly what Katie Coleman heard on New Year's Eve 2020. To add insult to injury, there was a possibility of the cancer being caught earlier, except Katie was repeatedly told it was just anxiety. A new wife, during a pandemic, and now fighting against the clock to save her life, Katie details her harrowing journey of her treatment and (thankfully) her recovery from an ultrarare cancer. And throughout this journey, Katie finds that the greatest threat against succumbing to the perils of her disease is a strong, loving community.
Incredible. Simply incredible. Katie expertly wove her story in a way that the reader felt as if they were the ones fighting this disease. And when it just seemed like answers and hope were out of reach, a reader was invited to share in Katie's sorrow and grief.
I personally related to the story as someone that has actually been told the opposite - not too young for cancer, but more suspectable to it. My grandmother was a 10-year breast cancer survivor and most of the women in my family now carry the cancer gene. In 2019, I found a lump in my breast and was immediately sent for an ultrasound, mammogram, and biopsy (also at Huntsman, funny enough). Thankfully, it was benign, but it was a reality check I needed.
How Katie managed to not just rage against the healthcare system that so easily dismissed her symptoms and concerns will always be an enigma. But I am so relieved that not only has her cancer not experienced new growth, but that Katie found her voice and learned how to advocate for herself. Katie's bravery and strength is inspiring to everyone. And I wish her nothing but the best.
Oh, and for someone that claimed not to be a writer, she could have fooled me. I loved her style, tone, and voice. I felt like I was catching up with a friend. I would love to read more from her in the future.
November 2, 2024
⭐⭐⭐½
Reading Too Young for Cancer by Katie Coleman felt like being invited into a deeply personal journey. As I turned the pages, I was struck by her raw honesty and the way she conveyed the complexities of facing cancer as a young adult. Coleman’s writing is relatable and engaging, mixing humor with poignant moments that really resonated with me.
One of the things I appreciated most was how she highlighted the emotional turmoil that comes with a cancer diagnosis at a young age. Her anecdotes about navigating treatment while trying to maintain some semblance of normalcy in her life were both heartbreaking and inspiring. I found myself laughing and crying at various points, which speaks to her ability to balance the heaviness of the subject matter with lighter moments.
That said, I did feel that some sections of the book dragged on a bit too long. There were times when I wished for a tighter narrative, as certain stories felt repetitive. While Coleman’s voice is strong and authentic, I sometimes found the humor a bit forced, especially when juxtaposed with the seriousness of her experiences.
Overall, Too Young for Cancer is a heartfelt memoir that sheds light on a topic often overlooked in literature. Despite its pacing issues, Coleman’s bravery and willingness to share her story made it a worthwhile read. It’s a book that not only offers hope but also fosters understanding for those who may not fully grasp what young adults with cancer experience. I’m glad I picked it up, and I believe it can resonate with many readers, both survivors and those who want to support them.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from Alcove Press and Netgalley. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
Reading Too Young for Cancer by Katie Coleman felt like being invited into a deeply personal journey. As I turned the pages, I was struck by her raw honesty and the way she conveyed the complexities of facing cancer as a young adult. Coleman’s writing is relatable and engaging, mixing humor with poignant moments that really resonated with me.
One of the things I appreciated most was how she highlighted the emotional turmoil that comes with a cancer diagnosis at a young age. Her anecdotes about navigating treatment while trying to maintain some semblance of normalcy in her life were both heartbreaking and inspiring. I found myself laughing and crying at various points, which speaks to her ability to balance the heaviness of the subject matter with lighter moments.
That said, I did feel that some sections of the book dragged on a bit too long. There were times when I wished for a tighter narrative, as certain stories felt repetitive. While Coleman’s voice is strong and authentic, I sometimes found the humor a bit forced, especially when juxtaposed with the seriousness of her experiences.
Overall, Too Young for Cancer is a heartfelt memoir that sheds light on a topic often overlooked in literature. Despite its pacing issues, Coleman’s bravery and willingness to share her story made it a worthwhile read. It’s a book that not only offers hope but also fosters understanding for those who may not fully grasp what young adults with cancer experience. I’m glad I picked it up, and I believe it can resonate with many readers, both survivors and those who want to support them.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from Alcove Press and Netgalley. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
September 22, 2024
This book hit home for me. While I don’t have cancer, I have chronic illnesses that have had me battling the medical industry since I was a teenager. When I was diagnosed with my diseases at 15 and 17 years old, it was abnormal for someone my age to have it and the chances of my long term survival were slim. I admire Katie sharing her experience and raw thoughts of what she went through. Even though at times, her ruminating thoughts grated on my nerves and I had to take a break from reading.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I know the heavy burden medical workers bear daily and know they don’t always give their patients their best. We must recognize they are human as we. But I also know the other side of that experience and how frustrating and frightening it can be when you feel unheard and judged.
One of the most important takeaways from this book is that you must advocate for yourself! Also, you know your body best! Lastly, tomorrow is not promised! Take care of yourself, make sure the people around you know how you feel about them and live life to the fullest!
One thing I think could have been an additional support for Katie and her family would have been a therapist that specializes in treatment for patients with cancer. It’s a niche speciality and not always found in a lot of programs but can be beneficial and something I think should be advocated for.
Overall, a good read with important information about rare kidney cancers. This book helps bring awareness about treatment of women by the medical industry. Also highlights the importance of self advocacy.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I know the heavy burden medical workers bear daily and know they don’t always give their patients their best. We must recognize they are human as we. But I also know the other side of that experience and how frustrating and frightening it can be when you feel unheard and judged.
One of the most important takeaways from this book is that you must advocate for yourself! Also, you know your body best! Lastly, tomorrow is not promised! Take care of yourself, make sure the people around you know how you feel about them and live life to the fullest!
One thing I think could have been an additional support for Katie and her family would have been a therapist that specializes in treatment for patients with cancer. It’s a niche speciality and not always found in a lot of programs but can be beneficial and something I think should be advocated for.
Overall, a good read with important information about rare kidney cancers. This book helps bring awareness about treatment of women by the medical industry. Also highlights the importance of self advocacy.
October 11, 2024
Thanks to Netgalley for the ARC: I've read a lot of cancer literature, and this memoir fills an important niche in exploring the experience of young woman diagnosed with an extremely rare cancer who must learn to navigate the medical system to get the very specialized care that she needs to survive. Unfortunately, for me, it just did not feel well edited. I never got much of sense of the author. At 29, Coleman was diagnosed with a very rare form of kidney cancer--a typically benign form that had metastasized, so rare that less than 10 cases were known and there is no consensus about treatment. . She wrote this book about 4 years later. Diagnosed at the height of the Covid 19 pandemic she had to learn to navigate medical care and oncology care without a medical background. She moved from Utah to Texas to receive care at MD Anderson and then ultimately via an internet connection, to the NIH where her cancer was more definitively treated. The author did not provide much background about herself and as her cancer is rare and the prognosis is unclear, she is still very much an active oncology patient. There are other memoirs about young people with cancer that are very well written. It is very hard to criticize a young cancer patient's memoir. I found myself wishing for more insight, depth and clarity. Coleman posts about her experiences on Instagram and the book had the depth of that short form.
January 9, 2025
I can’t say that I enjoyed this brutally honest and emotionally raw memoir from a young woman diagnosed with a rare Stage 4 kidney cancer. I do appreciate the vulnerability with which Katie Coleman shares her story so openly, but it was a hard read for me. Katie’s fear and anxiety, while completely understandable, were often hard for me to sit with. I think her spouse is a saint for being so supportive, and she was also very lucky to have so much support from friends, family, coworkers, some healthcare providers, and even random strangers. That aspect of the story was wonderful and filled me with hope.
It was frustrating to read yet another story in which a woman experiences doctors acting as though her anxiety is more of an issue than her symptoms and has difficulty getting properly diagnosed. The title is actually based on what some of Katie’s healthcare providers told her before she got her diagnosis. (I would have been furious if a doctor said something like that to me!) As long as this keeps happening, I think we need more women to share these stories to raise awareness and encourage each other to better advocate for ourselves.
I would potentially recommend this book to someone interested in memoirs related to health problems or curious about a young woman’s cancer journey. Just be aware that parts of the story could be triggering.
I received a free review copy of the ebook through NetGalley. I volunteered to provide an honest review.
It was frustrating to read yet another story in which a woman experiences doctors acting as though her anxiety is more of an issue than her symptoms and has difficulty getting properly diagnosed. The title is actually based on what some of Katie’s healthcare providers told her before she got her diagnosis. (I would have been furious if a doctor said something like that to me!) As long as this keeps happening, I think we need more women to share these stories to raise awareness and encourage each other to better advocate for ourselves.
I would potentially recommend this book to someone interested in memoirs related to health problems or curious about a young woman’s cancer journey. Just be aware that parts of the story could be triggering.
I received a free review copy of the ebook through NetGalley. I volunteered to provide an honest review.
November 7, 2024
I don’t know how to review this deeply moving and personal book in terms of the author’s writing as that feels insensitive, so I will focus on the subject matter and how the author made me feel.
I recently lost my mother and a friend to cancer, so the topic is of great interest to me. We can all agree that no matter one’s age, cancer doesn’t play fair. With the seemingly increasing occurrence of cancer, cost of care increases, and doctors, especially specialists spread thin, a diagnosis would feel daunting and hopeless. Ms. Coleman's story brought back all the emotions of my past experiences with friends and family--from their diagnosis, treatment, and ultimate battle loss.
The author's raw honesty, and the way she conveyed her complex thoughts and feelings regarding facing cancer, made her relatable and engaging. She effectively mixed humor with poignant moments. Ms. Coleman’s bravery and willingness to share her story with others made this heartfelt memory a worthy read.
Readers who are interested in more of Katie Coleman should check out her podcasts and/or consider donating to Conquer Cancer, a cancer research foundation.
I received an advance copy of this book in exchange for my honest review. For more reading recommendations, visit Book Junkie Reviews at
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I recently lost my mother and a friend to cancer, so the topic is of great interest to me. We can all agree that no matter one’s age, cancer doesn’t play fair. With the seemingly increasing occurrence of cancer, cost of care increases, and doctors, especially specialists spread thin, a diagnosis would feel daunting and hopeless. Ms. Coleman's story brought back all the emotions of my past experiences with friends and family--from their diagnosis, treatment, and ultimate battle loss.
The author's raw honesty, and the way she conveyed her complex thoughts and feelings regarding facing cancer, made her relatable and engaging. She effectively mixed humor with poignant moments. Ms. Coleman’s bravery and willingness to share her story with others made this heartfelt memory a worthy read.
Readers who are interested in more of Katie Coleman should check out her podcasts and/or consider donating to Conquer Cancer, a cancer research foundation.
I received an advance copy of this book in exchange for my honest review. For more reading recommendations, visit Book Junkie Reviews at
www.abookjunkiereviews.wordpress.com
November 12, 2024
Katie Coleman has been fighting weird symptoms for several years. An ache here, sharp pains there cause her to seek medical care. But she’s in her late twenties, otherwise in good health except for high blood pressure and a rapid heartbeat which doctors attribute to anxiety. Of course, she is anxious. She senses something wrong and when she feels a lump on her chest she goes to urgent care where a sensitive provider suggests she go to the ER. (Casey, wherever you are, you are a hero!) Covid has caused extra precautions so her new husband Brian waits in the car for her. The doctor who examines her is at first dismissive but sees her for more tests when she insists. This is the first time Kate asks for testing based on symptoms and intuition. This attitude will persist in Too Young for Cancer because Kate is diagnosed with a rare type of kidney cancer, stage 4.
This is the beginning of a long journey through multiple surgeries, a blood disorder, moves to different states for treatment at different hospitals and more. Kate learns to negotiate through complicated hospital and insurance procedures. Fortunately, she is now NED (no evidence of disease) and is continung her fight to raise funds for research into rare kidney cancers. Too Young for Cancer provides a fascinating look into a woman’s struggle to survive and understand the complex medical system. 5 stars.
This is the beginning of a long journey through multiple surgeries, a blood disorder, moves to different states for treatment at different hospitals and more. Kate learns to negotiate through complicated hospital and insurance procedures. Fortunately, she is now NED (no evidence of disease) and is continung her fight to raise funds for research into rare kidney cancers. Too Young for Cancer provides a fascinating look into a woman’s struggle to survive and understand the complex medical system. 5 stars.
September 30, 2024
Thank you to Katie Coleman, Netgalley and the publisher for an eARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.
This book peaked my interest when i first saw it after many family members being diagnosed with various cancers (including kidney cancer) in recent years.
From page 1 the author pulls you in to her story. Throughout the book she weaves in the medical journey along with her personal life and the relationships she strengthen and makes along the way. The author's voice through out the book grew with her story and by the end of book her voice grew from one of fear, timidness and people pleasing, to one of strength, courage and being an advocate not only for herself but for others within the cancer community.
The authors knowledge of not only her own incredibly rare cancer but also other subtypes within the cancer community was commendable. She has done her research and that was easily seen within her writing.
Would highly recommend this book to anyone who is on their own cancer journey as well as their friends and family. It highlights the importance of doing your own research and sometimes going against the professionals in order to do whats right in our own fight for your life.
This book peaked my interest when i first saw it after many family members being diagnosed with various cancers (including kidney cancer) in recent years.
From page 1 the author pulls you in to her story. Throughout the book she weaves in the medical journey along with her personal life and the relationships she strengthen and makes along the way. The author's voice through out the book grew with her story and by the end of book her voice grew from one of fear, timidness and people pleasing, to one of strength, courage and being an advocate not only for herself but for others within the cancer community.
The authors knowledge of not only her own incredibly rare cancer but also other subtypes within the cancer community was commendable. She has done her research and that was easily seen within her writing.
Would highly recommend this book to anyone who is on their own cancer journey as well as their friends and family. It highlights the importance of doing your own research and sometimes going against the professionals in order to do whats right in our own fight for your life.
September 30, 2024
Katie’s memoir is very powerful, a look into the life a young 29 year old who was diagnosed with a rare stage four kidney cancer. It was interesting learning how she navigated selecting her medical team, and how social media helped her a lot in her journey. I love that she stresses the importance of advocating for yourself and asking all the questions. I’m also glad she spoke about all the times that doctors prior to diagnosis labeled her symptoms as anxiety, ignoring all her other symptoms, as it shows that many times people are looked over and ignored. You and only you can push for more answers, go to other doctors for other opinions. I loved that she acknowledges that most people put things off in life for a time in the future, when we are never guaranteed even a tomorrow. Also, with any life changing diagnosis you will always see the world differently and be thankful to be able to do sometimes even the littlest things. Thank you Katie for sharing your story and prayers for many more years ahead for you.
Thank you NetGalley and Alcove Press for this eARC for my honest review. This was a great read and very inspirational.
Thank you NetGalley and Alcove Press for this eARC for my honest review. This was a great read and very inspirational.
November 14, 2024
I hadn't read a true story in a while, so I decided to dive into the pages of "Too Young for Cancer", fully aware that it would be an emotionally challenging read.
From the very first page, this novel has been a continuous rollercoaster of emotions: hope, fear, anxiety, despair, and anger gradually took turns throughout the reading, creating an incredibly intense atmosphere. Throughout the entire reading, it was easy to empathize with the author, follow her actions, and understand what she was going through, thanks to a well-crafted narrative and a glaring sincerity.
Reaching the end of the book means confronting both the awareness of needing to live in the present, to fight for what you want as long as you can because (and it may sound cliché) life is too short, and the hope that slowly gains courage and devours the pages of an extremely real story.
I am truly grateful to the publisher and NetGalley for providing me with an advance copy to read because I believe this is a well-constructed novel and a true story that should not be overlooked.
From the very first page, this novel has been a continuous rollercoaster of emotions: hope, fear, anxiety, despair, and anger gradually took turns throughout the reading, creating an incredibly intense atmosphere. Throughout the entire reading, it was easy to empathize with the author, follow her actions, and understand what she was going through, thanks to a well-crafted narrative and a glaring sincerity.
Reaching the end of the book means confronting both the awareness of needing to live in the present, to fight for what you want as long as you can because (and it may sound cliché) life is too short, and the hope that slowly gains courage and devours the pages of an extremely real story.
I am truly grateful to the publisher and NetGalley for providing me with an advance copy to read because I believe this is a well-constructed novel and a true story that should not be overlooked.
February 12, 2025
I initially came across this author on Threads. I found quite a few things about her story relatable even though our health journeys are different. I admire her persistence and resilience and think it's pretty amazing she ventured from Utah to MD Anderson in Texas and then ultimately to the NIH to get surgery for her stage 4 cancer. I wish her all the best in the world and continued good scans!
She discussed her history of being pushed off or gaslit by doctors when she tried to explain he worries about a major health issue being a culprit for her symptoms. No doctor should ever tell a patient they are "too young" to possibly have cancer. Our stories are pretty different (I had non-Hodgkin's lymphoma but it also presented in a pretty rare form). Not cancer-related, but years ago I had a liver biopsy and experienced just a few moments of the shoulder pain that Katie had when she had a post-op complication. So, I really could put myself in the author's shoes a couple of times and therefore found her story pretty compelling.
She discussed her history of being pushed off or gaslit by doctors when she tried to explain he worries about a major health issue being a culprit for her symptoms. No doctor should ever tell a patient they are "too young" to possibly have cancer. Our stories are pretty different (I had non-Hodgkin's lymphoma but it also presented in a pretty rare form). Not cancer-related, but years ago I had a liver biopsy and experienced just a few moments of the shoulder pain that Katie had when she had a post-op complication. So, I really could put myself in the author's shoes a couple of times and therefore found her story pretty compelling.
November 13, 2024
“I asked what the odds were for stage four. In a soft, defeated tone, Brian replied, ‘Eight percent.’ My eyes welled up with tears…’That’s not zero…’” 🙏🏻🥺
“I didn’t need a shiny bell to ring for permission to live life…there is just as much celebration in the journey as there is in the milestones.”
Well damn, that was a tough one. And Katie is one hell of a woman. Reading medical experiences as a healthcare provider can be pretty dicey at times. I know the ins and outs of this world, but I also know how desperate people can be when a time limit has been placed on their life. I’ve seen it. With that being said, I really immersed myself in Katie’s experiences and applaud her grit and determination. The path was not straight, as it so rarely is, but she did what needed doing and advocated for herself. An absolutely incredible woman. I applaud you. 👏🏻
Thank you so much to @alcovepress #partner and #KatieColeman for the ARC.
“I didn’t need a shiny bell to ring for permission to live life…there is just as much celebration in the journey as there is in the milestones.”
Well damn, that was a tough one. And Katie is one hell of a woman. Reading medical experiences as a healthcare provider can be pretty dicey at times. I know the ins and outs of this world, but I also know how desperate people can be when a time limit has been placed on their life. I’ve seen it. With that being said, I really immersed myself in Katie’s experiences and applaud her grit and determination. The path was not straight, as it so rarely is, but she did what needed doing and advocated for herself. An absolutely incredible woman. I applaud you. 👏🏻
Thank you so much to @alcovepress #partner and #KatieColeman for the ARC.
November 14, 2024
☆ARC REVIEW☆
Publication date: Available today!!
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
This memoir by Katie Coleman was so incredibly real, raw, and powerful. Katie said so many profound and true things throughout this memoir. Although I have not personally experienced cancer, I have gone through an insane medical journey with many diseases and chronic illnesses and continue that journey, so a lot of this I related with. Katie said that advocating for your health was a skill born out of necessity, not nature. This rings so incredibly true because if you do not advocate, you will most likely be dismissed or misdiagnosed.
A lot of things Katie said throughout this book will stick with me forever, but here are a few of my favorites:
"...it was the cards I was dealt and now we're going to learn to play them."
"It wasn't a physician problem, this was a system problem."
Thank you, NetGalley, Katie Coleman, and Alcove Press, for a copy in exchange for an honest review.
Publication date: Available today!!
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
This memoir by Katie Coleman was so incredibly real, raw, and powerful. Katie said so many profound and true things throughout this memoir. Although I have not personally experienced cancer, I have gone through an insane medical journey with many diseases and chronic illnesses and continue that journey, so a lot of this I related with. Katie said that advocating for your health was a skill born out of necessity, not nature. This rings so incredibly true because if you do not advocate, you will most likely be dismissed or misdiagnosed.
A lot of things Katie said throughout this book will stick with me forever, but here are a few of my favorites:
"...it was the cards I was dealt and now we're going to learn to play them."
"It wasn't a physician problem, this was a system problem."
Thank you, NetGalley, Katie Coleman, and Alcove Press, for a copy in exchange for an honest review.
July 25, 2024
Thank you #Netgalley for the advanced copy from this new writer!
Wow! Katie has been through the ringer! I can't imagine living in the unknown for years of symptoms of no diagnosis to finally get answers. That mixed feeling of having answers and then being frustrated about the previous time that could have been spent treating the issue. This book really emphasizes that you need to be your own advocate, if something doesn't feel right continue to advocate for yourself no matter how uncomfortable that may be. A prime example within this read is the feelings of hurting her current doctors feelings by going for other opinions, this should be encouraged! I am so happy Katie eventually got the care she needed and continues to try to be an advocate for others especially in navigating the complex healthcare world.
Wow! Katie has been through the ringer! I can't imagine living in the unknown for years of symptoms of no diagnosis to finally get answers. That mixed feeling of having answers and then being frustrated about the previous time that could have been spent treating the issue. This book really emphasizes that you need to be your own advocate, if something doesn't feel right continue to advocate for yourself no matter how uncomfortable that may be. A prime example within this read is the feelings of hurting her current doctors feelings by going for other opinions, this should be encouraged! I am so happy Katie eventually got the care she needed and continues to try to be an advocate for others especially in navigating the complex healthcare world.
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