Relationship 101This book will take you through the minefield of finding love in the first place and, to maintaining the affection in the long-term. Once you have found that special someone, by studying what men look for in a woman, (without even knowing they are doing it,) it will go on to show you how to know if you are ‘in love,’ and not merely ‘in lust.’How to stop boredom creeping into a long-term relationship is a question which many people ask, and this guide will give some useful hints and tips on alleviating that boredom.It will also show you how to appreciate and value your partner, and let you know just how beneficial being in love is to your physical and mental health.A preview of the What Men Look ForExactly What Is Love?How To Keep The Excitement GoingWhat Can I Do, (Apart From Sex,) To Show That I Appreciate And Value Him?How To Keep The Sexual Excitement GoingCommunication, Communication, CommunicationThe Unthinkable Seems About To HappenBenefits Of A Strong And Romantic Relationship
I would recommend this book for anyone who is either looking for a loving, lasting relationship yet, or who is at the start of a relationship that they hope can go the distance if it is a healthy relationship that SHOULD go the distance. Everything in this book describes what my boyfriend of two years and I have done to make sure we keep our relationship growing and healthy. We recently went through one of those "in sickness" or "in bad times" that you hear mentioned in marital vows when he had a very serious injury that required a lengthy hospital stay, surgery, and me staying with him through it all. Once he came home being the one that picked things up, changed his bandages and helped him take care of personal hygiene needs. We found the funny moments to keep ourselves from focusing too much on the hardships, we held each other during the emotional times, and our relationship grew instead of coming apart. This book, talks a lot about how to know when you have a relationship that is the one you dream of, one that can be what I just described and I can attest, it's spot on! At the end of the day if you're just talking about sexual attraction and you can't imagine yourself doing these things for each other too, can't talk to each other, make each other laugh and just enjoy time together without having to have sex, you're relationship isn't necessarily doomed, but you need to inspect it with a critical eye. If all you have is sex, as this book points out, the hard times are going to kill it.