As an obstetrician and mother of two, including a special needs child, Rachelle has earned the right to write this book. She doesn’t hesitate to talk about the challenges of bearing children. But, throughout, she offers hope and practical encouragement as she calls her reader back to trust and rest in the One who is both carrying her and weaving the child in her womb.
I have never carried a child. But as an obstetrician, a spiritual director, and a woman, I love this book. While Rachelle writes it primarily to mothers as they traverse the ups and downs of pregnancy, delivery, and postpartum, there is much wisdom here that is relevant for every one of us. For example:
"Our expectations affect the strength of our resilience when detours happen. . . . Our ability to get back up after bad news reveals our true expectations" (p. 12).
"A vessel’s responsibility is not to be perfect but to be pliable" (p. 106).
“The goal is not to win. The goal is to know our tender and all-knowing Coach” (p. 111).
The frequent glimpses Rachelle gives into the marvel of the anatomical and physiological changes in pregnancy often brought me back to worship our Creator. For example, “mommy brain” is real! The hormones of pregnancy physically alter certain portions of the mother’s brain, preparing her to better bond with, comfort and protect her infant.
Women who are pregnant will find this book an insightful and encouraging companion. But I suspect many women who are not pregnant will also be encouraged by this book.